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Open Question: boy problems, can anyone relate and give me suggestions? and more... Open Question: boy problems, can anyone relate and give me suggestions?so my boyfriend just recently broke up with me, my best friends cousin likes me now and hes liked me for a while i kindaa like him but im not really sure. my ex ex boyfriend broke up with me about 4 months ago and i reaaaally liked him im not truly sure if im over him yett and i just dont know what to do. i went out with my last boyfriend because he reminded me of my exex boyfriend..however he was nothing like him.. any suggestions/advice helps! thaaanks guys :) Open Question: Am i right for being upset at my best friend over this incident? 20 points for best answer?Me and my so called "best friend" have been friends for a few years and i always confided in her about everything and have tried really hard to be a good friend to her. Although we've had a lot of good times together and everything and she's been there to listen to me through my problems she's the type of friend who wont stick up for me and defend me in situations where if the roles were switched i would be there defending her. Ive always looked past it but this past year there have been two situations that really hurt me. firstly, we had our prom this year and i wasnt planning on going because i was supossed to go on a trip with my boyfriend who i hadnt seen in a few months but because my friend really wanted me to go i felt guilty and went because of her. my boyfriend was mad and decided to go away without me and just take his friend so i went to prom without a date for my friend and she knew that. when it came to dealing with limos i was put in a really awkward situation because there was a guy i had a lot of history with who was veryyyy mean to me who ended up in our limo and my friend knows how bad the situation is between us. i was upset that my friend wouldnt do anything to make the situation more comfortable for me. she said she couldnt because she made a commitment to her date (who she isnt friends with... friendly at most) and couldnt leave the limo or do anything to change it. but if it were me and i knew that my friend wasnt comfortable and was going to prom for me specifically i would have done anything to make the experience better for her, especially because a best friend is there for you after prom whereas her date she rarely ever sees. i ended up sucking it up and going in that limo and putting it behind me but it still bothers me. recently we had another issue where she kept something from me for a long time because she knew it would upset me if i found out (has to do with hooking up with a guy) which i eventually did in the worst way possible. everyone else knew about this including people who she cried to me about hurting her and "making her lose faith in humanity." its a stab in the back to me that she expects me to tell her things and be there for her when she confides in everyone besides me. but she doesnt seem to think she has done anything wrong ever and she always makes herself the victim. Am i right to feel this way or am i being too demanding or expecting too much of my friends? Open Question: EX drama that I'm in a dilemma over. Mature help is appreciated?My ex best friend and I have recently parted on good terms. I met her in one my classes. I knew she was my ex boyfriend's ex girlfriend and I befriended her. She was really cool and we got to know each other and clicked. So anyway as time progress she was still in contact and on friendly terms with my ex though they weren't together. I kept my distance. I didn't have any feelings with him or have anything against him but him and I had ended on bad terms. So he was friendly to me when he was around and I was likewise. So eventually she started having some problems with the fact that him and I reconciled our differences and hit if off. It was nothing like that but we did text each other from time to time and I eventually considered him a friend. So eventually we stop being friends. But two days before her and I called our friendship off, him and I slept together. It wasn't planned and I didn't realize there was an physical attraction there. I felt bad, because I knew she still cared about him, I wanted to tell her but I didn't think it would do any good for her to know because she already had issues from the past about this. Well recently I've been getting back to my spiritual roots and want to wipe the slate clean and forgive people and have people forgive me and try to move on with my life in a positive direction and am considering telling her woman to woman but I'm still not sure that's a good idea. what do you guys think? Open Question: How to prevent this situation from getting messy?I got divorced at the beginning of the year. I've been with my new girlfriend (Chelsea) for about three months and our relationship is going wonderful. There are no problems, my kids love her and they also get along with her kids. My ex-wife (Emma) has been with someone else for about six months, so we're both content. Recently I dropped my kids off at Emma's after their weekend visit with me and she mentioned that she feels like Chelsea "hates" her. This puzzled me because the two rarely see each other face-to-face! Chelsea has dropped my kids off there for me a few times and according to Emma she doesn't say much, leaves as quick as she can, and only gives one word answers. I don't think that necessarily means Chelsea dislikes or hates her, and I tried explaining that to Emma but she's not convinced and seems offended. Why does she care so much about it anyways? They don't have to see each other all the time so she shouldn't care what Chelsea thinks (should she?) is that something that's important or relevant? I'm honestly not sure. The other day I mentioned what Emma told me to Chelsea and she basically just rolled her eyes and told me that she has no problem with Emma. And I believe her when she says this! I mean it's clear that she has no interest in having a conversation, but it doesn't mean that she hates or doesn't like Emma. Even if he DID dislike her, she would have good reason to considering everything she knows about my past marriage. To make all this worse, Chels and I ran into Emma and her boyfriend in public, and she gave Chels the dirty look from hell, and now there's tension. What can I do to prevent disaster? How can I fix this while the tension is still minimal? @ Sue C Here's the thing, she doesn't do anything wrong! She IS polite just not very talkative. I've brought it up several times since then just to see if everythings going okay and I think she's honestly getting tired of hearing it. Open Question: How to help my best friend?My best friend is 18 years old, 5'2, long straight brown hair, athletic build, brown eyes, very nice, pretty, funny, mature for her age, and veryyy trustworthy. The problem is that she is somewhat shy at first and she has a really hard time finding a boyfriend. I know that this upsets her and makes her feel bad about herself but she is REALLY good at hiding that insecurity (i can tell because i know her, she is my best friend). I know that being shy doesnt help but what else is it?? and how can i descretely help her? Open Question: Why Doesn't She Wanna Be My Girlfriend?There is this girl who I've had a huge crush on for 2 years. We're both 17 and I think about her all the time, every second of my life and I swear she's reminds of an angel, that's how sweet she is. The problem is that she is pretty antisocial, she doesn't like going on dates, going to the movies, dances or crowds. She's never dated or had a boyfriend even though she's so beautiful and has been asked out at least 30 times. I was scared to ask her out but I couldn't keep everything bottled and I told her everything and how I felt about her and she agreed to date me. We've been spending like 2 hours together and talking to each other over the phone for another hour everyday for the 2 months we've been going out. Basically we're like boyfriend and girlfriend but she says she doesn't want a boyfriend. I don't get it, we hold hands, hug, kiss in public and in front of her friends so its not like shes trying to hide that we're together. She still a virgin so its not like she wants sex. She's never shown interest in other guys (you can look at her rejection list) and she says that I'm the only guy for her. I'm like her boyfriend but she doesn't want to officially call me that, anyone have any idea whats going on? Open Question: I'm getting braces soon are they going to cause kissing problems?so im getting braces in january and i told my boyfriend about them, so at first i was worried that they would look stupid but then i was like omg what happens when i kiss my bf? i heard a bunch of stories about people have gotten cuts in their mouths from their boy/girlfriend's braces are the stories true? Open Question: Can a co-sponsor of a fiance visa have sponsored someone else and then my fiance if they can financially?I am interested in marrying my long term foreign boyfriend, and I would like to have us remain here and not live abroad. My sister has married her German boyfriend, because we both lived in Germany and met our significant others. Since she was still a student, my father was her co sponsor for the fiance visa process, meaning he could support me, my mom, her, and her fiance financially. Since I am also still a student and my dad could TECHNICALLY support my boyfriend as well, would it cause problems with the process if he has already sponsored someone? I know how strict the visa process is, and i was not sure if they would reject me because of that. Does anyone have similar experiences? Any advice would help, as I love my boyfriend with all of my heart and am sick of this distance (it has been 3 years). Thanks in advance. Open Question: What is the best way to tell your mother you're pregnant at 19?I've recently found out that I'm am 7 weeks pregnant. I wasn't expecting this at all considering me and my boyfriend have been safe all but one time. My mom, about a month before i found out, had a talk to my boyfriend about not having babies until we were done with college. I love my boyfriend very much and so does my entire family but i don't think that's enough for them to be happy for us. We've only been together for 5 months but plan to be together for the rest of our lives. My mom always talks to me about her problems and i know she has alot going on right now... Then on top of telling my mom, we have to break the news to his parents as well who are very religious and strongly believe in being married before even touching each other. I really don't want to be upset about being pregnant, but i will if they are. :( I'm not sure how the best way would be to let them know... Open Question: Should I forgive and forget after 2 yrs of lies?Sry its so long but.....:My boyfriend and I have been dating for almost two years now. I met him when I was 16 but he thought I was older. He told me that he was 22, and it bothered me a little, but I still agreed to let him call me. I think he was as freaked out by my age as I was of his, but there was a connection. The age difference ended up being less than a problem as far as we were concerned. We ended up dating a few months after and things were great. We have been through a lot during the last two years. I finally got my family to accept him after they saw we were serious. He was my first in a lot of ways, including sexually. I believe in only being with one man, my husband, and even though I jumped the gun a little, I am finding comfort in the fact that we are planning to get married soon. The problem was that I recently found out that he is was not 22 when we met, he was 27. I found out after we celebrated his 29th birthday which I thought was his 24th. He didn't tell me, I was snoopin in his house b/c he had given me a key a while back and I thought he was hiding something. He said that it's the only thing he has ever kept from me and I think I believe him, but the truth is that he has lied to me since day one. My friends and family were already uncomfortable enough to begin with, but I got them to accept and trust him. The age difference isn't that big a deal after all the time we have spent together, but I can't be with a man that I cant trust. And i haven't forgiven him yet, because apparently I wont let him hold me any more in my sleep. He says I constantly move away from him and mumble obscenities. I'm in college and I've always been responsible and mature beyond my years. I love him, but I don't want to be stupid about this and let love blind me. HELP! Open Question: Best places to meet people?Alright, guys - here's one for you: It's time for me to get back in the game. Problem is, between college, work, and ROTC (can't date within ROTC and all my coworkers have boyfriends... drat!), it's getting tough to meet dateing material. Besides clubs, frat houses, dances, parties, etc., where and how can I meet a girl my age (I'm 20) who actually wants a relationship and not a quick hook-up? Also, for an added bonus, I've been out of the game for two years, so any quick tips would also be appreciated. 10 points! More Recent Articles |
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