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Open Question: how often do i have to have sex so it does not hurt? and more... Open Question: how often do i have to have sex so it does not hurt?i just started to have sex and i hurt extremly the first time which i understand. My boyfriend and i have had sex and 5 times since then and it still hurts but not as much and once we do it for a while i feel fine. The problem is that after we have sex i am sore the next day. I am not sure how often we need to have sex in order for it to not hurt as much. I know I need to heal but i also know that i need to just get my body used to it. does anyone have any suggestions for how much we should have sex so that it will get better. thanks--also i don't need any advice about being ready or anything i am not a young stupid teenager, just need some advice about this. Open Question: How do you stop from being jealous of attributes that are biological...?Example: Most of my anorexic friend's boyfriends have been ultra thin guys that are usually taller and weigh less than her...like constant thinspiration. Also, they all have her opposite problem, they can't gain weight no matter what they do... Or darker skinned people jealous of fairer skin... Or lighter skinned people jealous of darker skin... Etc....etc...how do you stop from being jealous of attributes that are biological... Open Question: Boyfriend trouble :\..need help?Ok so I have this boyfriend we have broken up and gotten back together quite a bit...we mostly have a love hate relationship, we argue kinda most of the time. And my past birthday my friends threw me a surprise party... anyway he got mad and didn't talk to me for the rest of the night and when they sang,"Happy Birthday," to me he just sat there and texted his friend. That ticked me off big time...all because my friend Joey was messing with me and making me laugh, isnt that friends jobs? To make you laugh and smile on your big day? My friends tell me we shouldn't go out because they say he treats me like s*** and I am never happy. We are the kind of couple that if we do break up..we dont want anyone to get us, one more thing say we have a problem, he always blows thing way out of proportion. So what should I do?? Please and Thank you for your help. Open Question: i like this girl?......?am a guy in 10th grade and i like a girl who is in 10th grade but she goes to a different high school but we went to the same middle school and i really liked her but she was popular and i wasn't, but she was really nice and smart and the problem is she had a boyfriend, but not anymore. we weren't friends in middle school and we never talked because i was shy, sometimes i wish i went to her high school i would just tell her. i don't think i ever will see her again in my life and i really feel sad because of that. the first time i saw her i fell in love with her. i liked her since 8th grade, but i probably have no chance because she is popular and am not, but am not a loser, am a normal guy plays soccer. do you think i really like her after all this time? am always thinking about her? Open Question: My boyfriend lied for 2 years. Is that something I can just let go of ?Sry its so long but.....:My boyfriend and I have been dating for almost two years now. I met him when I was 16 but he thought I was older. He told me that he was 22, and it bothered me a little, but I still agreed to let him call me. I think he was as freaked out by my age as I was of his, but there was a connection. The age difference ended up being less than a problem as far as we were concerned. We ended up dating a few months after and things were great. We have been through a lot during the last two years. I finally got my family to accept him after they saw we were serious. He was my first in a lot of ways, including sexually. I believe in only being with one man, my husband, and even though I jumped the gun a little, I am finding comfort in the fact that we are planning to get married soon. The problem was that I recently found out that he is was not 22 when we met, he was 27. I found out after we celebrated his 29th birthday which I thought was his 24th. He didn't tell me, I was snoopin in his house b/c he had given me a key a while back and I thought he was hiding something. He said that it's the only thing he has ever kept from me and I think I believe him, but the truth is that he has lied to me since day one. My friends and family were already uncomfortable enough to begin with, but I got them to accept and trust him. The age difference isn't that big a deal after all the time we have spent together, but I can't be with a man that I cant trust. And i haven't forgiven him yet, because apparently I wont let him hold me any more in my sleep. He says I constantly move away from him and mumble obscenities. I'm in college and I've always been responsible and mature beyond my years. I love him, but I don't want to be stupid about this and let love blind me. HELP! Open Question: How do I break up a short short relationship because I'm not ready?Only 13, in Middle school. He's been my friend for a long time, and he really likes me (to painful amounts) only today he asked me out. I didn't know what to say so I agreed. I felt so bad after that I went home (I get sick when I'm nervous). After thinking about it I decided that I'm only 13, and I'm really not comfortable being in a relationship. I like him a lot as a friend and a tad as a boyfriend, but I'm 13, we're going to break up no matter what and the longer I wait the worse it'll be. In middle school is it okay to effectively say that you want to break up on facebook, and then talk to them at school too? My other problem is that all my friends know and they all think we are "so cute" whenever I hint that I might not be ok with it they say that we'll be great together. Will they think I'm a *****? I'm really not okay with dating. I don't respect girls who date at 13, so I don't think I should either. Help? Open Question: She can't ever seem to stay true to one boyfriend. Why is this?When there isn't a problem, and everything is going smoothly, she always find something to argue about or something to create a new problem. Mostly it's talking to an old boyfriend or friend knowing that it will cause trouble. This is very immature behavior, so she needs to know why she does this, please. Open Question: I need serious girl advice quick!?Omg, ok so at my school (I am in middle school, 6th grade) there are these three guys. Nick, Tanner, and Jacob. Nick is my EX boyfriend and the reason I broke up with him is because he was just really mean to people at times. Now, Tanner is really smart. I mean he is cute and always makes me laugh. Then Jacob, well Jacob is just adorable, he is always so sweet and confusing at the same time. My problem is that they all like me and I have feelings for all. Nick had changed and I almost want him back. But at the same time I don't know if I should try someone new. I need some girl advice really fast! Please help me! PS: Don't say " your too young" I hate that I am not and please just help me. Open Question: help me ppl PLZ.!!!oral sex with my boyfriend..but 1 problem?since weve only been dating for a couple of months we are wanting to have sex but we kno we both shuldnt go that far yet.he comes behind me and hugs me tight and gently rubs my vagina through my pants and he knows it turns me on big time.so we decided to go to the library in the morning at school so we can actually have oral sex.i know that sounds weird but we just want to experiment sumwhere since we cant go by each other's house yet.so he is suppoze to finger me and i stroke him but the only problem iz...i have a musky odor and i try to get it off with a fragrance lyke soap or sumthing but i still seem to get stinky down there especially when he gets me wet and i dont want the smell on his fingers so wut shuld i do?? Open Question: i like this girl alot?.....?am a guy in 10th grade and i like a girl who is in 10th grade but she goes to a different high school but we went to the same middle school and i really liked her but she was popular and i wasn't, but she was really nice and smart and the problem is she had a boyfriend, but not anymore. we weren't friends in middle school and we never talked because i was shy, sometimes i wish i went to her high school i would just tell her. i don't think i ever will see her again in my life and i really feel sad because of that. the first time i saw her i fell in love with her. i liked her since 8th grade, but i probably have no chance because she is popular and am not, but am not a loser, am a normal guy plays soccer. do you think i really like her after all this time? am always thinking about her? Open Question: What to give him? Please help me?Okay my boyfriends b-day is the 29th of dec, its really close to christmas, my one problem is, i don't know if i should get him 2 separate gifts. one for christmas one for his birthday or just one =/ The other problem is we have been dating for a long time. But I really have NO clue what to get him =/ I want it to be something he remembers, I don't want it to be corny, I want it to be something cool like a friend would get him, but shows that i love him too. He likes music, he plays saxaphone and guitar. He also likes hunting and that sort of thing. Any help =/ Open Question: Does Jesus love me? I think I'm losing faith.....?so here's how it is.I've been a satanist for about 2 year... And then I got conseling,and my consuler (I spelled that wrong) told me to maybe try to see the light of god. Because I come from a home with a abusive alcholic dad,and a mom who's always busy at work and doesn't really have time for kids. So with all the madness at home and school(I've got bullies and ppl hate me) I became satanic and did bad stuff. So then my conselur gave me a bible I started reading it and kinda liked it.lucky me I met a pure Christian friend at school and slowly I'm seeing the light and being happier.I've already accepted Jesus in my heart,and I'm almost done reading the bible. Problem is...I have a boyfriend who I really like,but it says you can't date in the bible........and I cant leave my bf. But I don't wanna be with a god who doesn't like me being happy...I wanna stay Christian. But I love my bf too. I'm afraid god is gonna some how seprate us.because it's a sin to have bf/gf and that "dating" stuff. I wanna go back to satanist,so maybe I'll be happy with my bf.and I'll get a modeling job coming up for me.cause god just wants to ruin me so I follow the bible.but Satan loves me.I'll be happy. Advice? What do you guys think? Help? Anything? Open Question: My boyfriend lied, but should I let it ruin the relationship?Sry its so long but.....:My boyfriend and I have been dating for almost two years now. I met him when I was 16 but he thought I was older. He told me that he was 22, and it bothered me a little, but I still agreed to let him call me. I think he was as freaked out by my age as I was of his, but there was a connection. The age difference ended up being less than a problem as far as we were concerned. We ended up dating a few months after and things were great. We have been through a lot during the last two years. I finally got my family to accept him after they saw we were serious. He was my first in a lot of ways, including sexually. I believe in only being with one man, my husband, and even though I jumped the gun a little, I am finding comfort in the fact that we are planning to get married soon. The problem was that I recently found out that he is was not 22 when we met, he was 27. I found out after we celebrated his 29th birthday which I thought was his 24th. He didn't tell me, I was snoopin in his house b/c he had given me a key a while back and I thought he was hiding something. He said that it's the only thing he has ever kept from me and I think I believe him, but the truth is that he has lied to me since day one. My friends and family were already uncomfortable enough to begin with, but I got them to accept and trust him. The age difference isn't that big a deal after all the time we have spent together, but I can't be with a man that I cant trust. And i haven't forgiven him yet, because apparently I wont let him hold me any more in my sleep. He says I constantly move away from him and mumble obscenities. I'm in college and I've always been responsible and mature beyond my years. I love him, but I don't want to be stupid about this and let love blind me. HELP! Open Question: jealousy problems and im not sure what to do..?so im sure im gonna get some stupid replies for this but i really do need some help. me and my boyfriend having been going out about 2 years now. i really try to trust him since we've been together so long and i wanna be with him for as long as i can. My problem though, is jealousy. on my part. i know its stupid but sometimes ill see his ex on myspace and cant help but see if theyve been talking. ive got nothing to worry about and i dont hack his space or anything i just wonder. other things bother me too though. like he calls me wifey and i thought it was cute and whatnot then i found out that he called her that too and im sure alot of people use it but im just kinda upset cuz i thought it was something special for me. i know its silly but anyone know how i can just relax? Open Question: how do you know when its time to get out?i know me and my boyfriend arent as happy as we used to be, but lately if i want to tlk about something his answer to any problem is idk or we need our own lives outside of each other and i love him and i want things to work out but i just dont know if its going to and i dont know if its worth sticking around to try and figure it out Open Question: [[GUYS]] can someone please help me? i need opinions.?so my boyfriend, joel, and i have been together for 11 months but before that we were really good friends for 2 years. we would talk about everything. at the time he had a girl that he had been with for almost 2 years and i had just gotten out of a relationship with a guy who cheated on me. after i broke up with that guy i asked joel "why do guys cheat?" and i remember he told me he didn't know, that he wasn't like those other guys. about 4 months passed and him and his girl were starting to have problems and they broke up. he started dating another girl almost 2 months later. she moved away for school and they were going to try to make things work. around that time we started working together, we started hanging out more, talking A LOT more, and we both stared realizing that we liked each other so he broke up with her and we started dating. for the first 8 months things were great. he was sweet and romantic. at 7 months he told me he loved me for the first time. then things just stared going wrong. i don't even remember how it started but we started argueing. the arguements turned into an everyday thing. we had our moments that we would get along but we didnt get along for the most part....like 2 months ago a friend or our started working with us. i would txt and call him and he wouldnt reply right away i would take hours before i heard back. last week we were hanging out and thing were going good again. we were getting along perfectly we were together the wolde day. i went home and i realized that he left his phone in my car and i was curious so i looked through his txt messages and i saw that they had been talkin calling eachother babe and boo, so naturally i confronted him about it. he came clean he told me that they had only been talking for about 3 weeks and that the day before that he decided to stop because he was thinking about it and realized it wasnt worth it. he said that thats why the whole day he just tried to avoid problems and arguements, thats why we had such a good day. he told me that he didnt even like her, that he just did it "for the hell of it". that since everytime we would talk we would just argue and that with her they could just talk. he teared up a little, he tried to hide it. we decided to work things out but of course i still feel paranoid, and i admit i may have been complaining about every thing since i found out... but these last few days he seems distant. i asked him if he still wanted to be with me and he said "baby i love you, i want to be with you". but thats not the vibe im getting from him at all. he only tells me he loves me after i say it... after finding out i cant stop thinking about back when he told me that he wasnt the kind of guy that cheats. so i juat want to know what other people think about the situation. it would be A LOT of help. thanks. oh and also thanks for taking the time to read i know its long =) Open Question: So I have this Boyfriend That Like to Think He Is?In control of everything I do. Why do guys always think they are in control of ever girl they r with. I mean I don't have a problem with it but when it comes to your man not letting u do anything is when it comes a problem.. vvvv things he don't let me do vvvv 1.) he don't let me hang out with guy friends 2.) he don't let me hang with my girl friends either 3.) he don't even like me in here asking questions or answering others questions. 4.) he don't let me just be me He don't let me do sh*t but sit in the house all day an be bored. Why do some men do this for?? Boyfriend says : it is because he is afraid of losing me 2 someone else just because, he watched me do it to my ex boyfriend to be with him. && also I cheated on some of my ex's when I was with them.. But I had a reason 2 cheat on them sorry a$$ losers. He acts like I'm gonna do it to him. I love this boy with all my heart & I don't want anything 2 happen with our relationship but if he don't start trusting me to do things on my own time then this relationship is gonna go into the trash real soon. How do I get him to let it go.. I let this man do what ever he wants to do.. Now I don't really want him talking to his ex girl friends just because there was something that went down a while ago. An I don't want it to happen again. If u understand were I'm coming from. But on the real. How do I get this to change? How can I change the trust he has for me? Isn't trust what you need to have to have a relationship. RIGHT?? help please.. thanks for reading this! 10 points best answer as possible More Recent Articles |
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