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Open Question: How can someone stay positive when everything goes wrong? and more... Open Question: How can someone stay positive when everything goes wrong?I've always had a less than easy life. Parents divorced, my family abandoned me, I was surrounded by abusive people, forced to move a lot, religious cult cause they were the only ones who loved me, cheating boyfriends, a serious health problem in my 20s that got me fired because I always had to go to the doctor, an ulcer infection that almost killed me because I didn't have insurance, and now money issues that never end. Through all of this I've done all I can to keep my head up. Most people would be floored to know I have any trouble at all because I've tried so hard to be better and not bitter. I just don't think I can fight the discouragement I feel anymore. It seems like there isn't a compassionate, merciful person on earth. People have never been interested in helping me as much as they are in making things worse. What would you do? Open Question: After more than 4 years I still can't get over abortion :(?Please don't judge me about having the abortion, at the time I just started seeing my (now ex) boyfriend and the condom broke, so I got pregnant. We were in a relationship for a little more than 3 months, we were both still in college and broke, our parents wouldn't help us if we had a baby, so we (mostly him) kinda decided on not keeping it. Now, when I look back on it, I'm on one hand glad we didn't because the guy turned out to be an abusive scum and I left him after 3 years. He never got a job, he was mean and all that, so I'm almost positive he wouldn't help me with the baby, financially or any otherwise. But the problem is that even now, after 4 years, I can't let it go. My baby was supposed to be born somewhere in the mid December and I get really depressed every year around that time ... I even bake like a small birthday cake, talk to it and all that :( But I'm tired of it and just want to move on already because I know this is not doing anybody any good and will certainly not bring my baby back. Has anyone been through anything similar? And how did you (if you did) get over it? I'd really appreciate some help. Thank you Open Question: Being sad and mad is affecting my relationship. help?My boyfriend and I have a very good relationship that has been going on for 8 months. We are very much in love. but lately i don't know if its because ive been stressed out but i just get mad at him over everything. i keep telling him that he is changing and needs to work on some things, but maybe im the one thats the problem. i dont like to be mad all the time. and he says that ive been acting really down and depressed lately. and i have. i dont really know whats going on. ive had a very hard life and have always been kind of down about it. so do you just think that im stressed or have anxiety and its affecting my mood?? thats what i think. i do want to be with him more than anything, i just dont know why im taking everything out on him. please hep. what sshould i do? and breaking up isnt the answer. thanks so much :) Open Question: Ending a Pregnancy at 7 Weeks?I know how the majority of people are giong to react to this question, and to all of those people, you can kiss my ass because I don't care what yout think. I am here for help and advice, and not the kind where I should have kept my legs closed and that I need to learn a lesson. Okay? So if you're going to respond to that, just leave this page right now.---- My boyfriend and I dated for five years. We recently moved in together approximately 5 months ago. We've been having sex for about 4 years, and we've never had any problems or any slip ups. Well, he began to try and control me. I wasn't allowed to see my family or friends, and anything that I liked that he didn't, I wasn't allowed to do. I had been seriously contemplating leaving him. He had also been showing violent tendencies such as telling me how much he wanted to hit me in the face, backhanding me, once he broke my nose, and he made a metal lamp fall on me, bruising my face. I was so scared of him that I never knew what I should do. One night my friend (his friends wife) got mad at him and started some drama because he was controlling me. That night he told me about how bad he wanted to put a pillow over my face and hit me so that it wouldn't leave a mark. He then choked me. Well, I found out I was pregnant, and knew that it was a bad thing. I always wanted children, please don't get that wrong, but I knew that now wasn't the time. He was very excited about it, but then continued to show violent tendencies, never hurting me near my stomach area, mostly near my face or arms. Finally I decided to leave, and I did. Almost a week ago I left after he tried to choke me in our kitchen. He keeps calling and texting me telling me how sorry he is. I've had two threatened miscarriages. I really don't want to bring a child into the situation. How could I ever send my child to see his/her father with the possibility that he could harm him/her? I was wondering if anyone knew any methods for ending a pregnancy this far along. I've read that herbs will more than likely not work. The only abortion clinic in my state is 3 hours away. (You can tell I live in the south). I'm not sure if the doctors at my local hospital would provide an abortion pill unless there was something wrong with me or the baby. Please lend your advice and wisdom, and please no criticizing remarks or talks about how I am a murderer. I know that it is wrong, but I really believe that God understands and knows that what I'm doing is for the best. Adoption is not an option here, because he will fight for the child in court. I have no proof other than my word that he was violent. :( Open Question: what does it mean? broke up with boyfriend and o said sorry but he said that he did not like....?ok here is my problem..when we used to be together i used to get upset and i was not sure if he really loved me cause i had bad experience in the past so i did not believe him so i used to tell him that lets end the relationship and then i will stop talking ..we broke up cause i was upset again but this time i said to him is over and then i was sorry for saying that and then he said to me that he was upset with me cause me saying lets brake up all the time was something he did not like .now that we broke up i miss him a lot and i want him back. please help me .THANKYOU!! Open Question: What am I supposed to do?Well, this is well this a tiresome situation. About I want to say 8 months ago my sister husband died un expectantly of a heart attack and my sister took it hard she went to liquor to solve her problems and a month later she was killed in a car crash. R.I.P. She left her two kids a 15 year old boy and a 16 year old daughter behind and because I was her only sibling and my parents are in not shape two teenagers. So for the last 6 ½ months they been living with me and my fiancée. By the way if I didn't say this my name is Drew and I'm 27. The kids have taken the deaths better than expected but my niece hates me and the world and she's rebelling and my nephew is using drugs. This is family information but I feel its important so you know where these kids are at. Last year my sister informed us/the family that Kelly my niece was not really the biological daughter of who thought was her father. My sister cheated on her husband before they got married and felt that they deserved to know. Of course everyone was in shock and Kelly took it hard. My sister husband tried to keep the family together and work it out but that probably caused the heart attack all of the stress. Also my nephew is adopted and the kids don't know because they were planning to tell him when he was 18 for some reason and now I starting to feel like maybe I should tell him so everything is out on the table now. Kelly was this sweet fun loving person and still is but she has been umm for lack of better words a troublemaker. She's always getting into fights with me or not fights but disagreements were she starts yelling and screaming. She gotten caught shoplifting . And I don't that she could just and we would buy it for her. But she says it gives her a rush. She has a boyfriend or boyfriends that I don't like at all and I know they are doing inappropriate things and I feel like I'm going to punch one of those guys with they are looking at her like a piece of meat. but my fiancée said that the guys she hangs around she is just trying to find herself. My fiancée and her had a good relationship but like last week she tried talking to her and my niece called her a B**** and wont apologize. MY nephew Zack has been "rebelling" lately. Zack's been doing things that he never did I mean he use to be kind of a conservative kid now he has gotten into fights at school. I've caught him doing pot with his girlfriend, he has come home drunk before. I know he is a teenager and I do remember clearly what I was like at his age but I don't want him and his girlfriend doing things I was doing at his age. These are thing we talked about and 8 months ago I know he wouldn't even think of doing something like that. They have been having sexual intercourse which again I know Is normal for 16. But in the basement of house 2 weeks ago. I have had the sex talk with him and his sister and even tough I wasn't encouraging them I got Kelly some birth control and Zack some condoms. My sister would kill me. I have them in counseling and we've been trying hard with them. What do you think of this situation? Any advice/helpful tips? Open Question: I have a problem with this girl I like in school.?We are pretty good friends and she knows that I like her and that I want to move our friendship to a higher level. The only problem is she still has feelings for her ex-boyfriend who cheated on her before with her best friend. How do I win her heart so she doesn't have to deal with him? More Recent Articles |
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