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Wednesday, December 9, 2009

Open Question: what should i get my boyfriend for our one month/birthday/christmas(details)? and more...

 
 



Open Question: what should i get my boyfriend for our one month/birthday/christmas(details)? and more...

Open Question: what should i get my boyfriend for our one month/birthday/christmas(details)?

me and my boyfriend... december 21st is our one month, 23rd is his birthday, and 25th is christmas. all 2 days apart and 3 gift giving days in a row -____- i feel like i HAVE to get him something. he's turning 16 and he looks like this: http://photos-e.ak.fbcdn.net/hphotos-ak-snc3/hs011.snc3/11835_102704666414860_100000259820833_76529_2003862_n.jpg http://photos-b.ak.fbcdn.net/hphotos-ak-snc3/hs115.snc3/16264_103435296341797_100000259820833_94150_557178_n.jpg by the way, we've been on and off dating (because of distance problems) for 2 years; its not like we've only been together one month, ya know?

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Open Question: ugh someone please help me,i'm having issues with this?

so i had a boyfriend for 6months. the first months were perfect as usual and then he cheated and i took him back. i had this depression problem and he made it go away so i couldnt be without him,i'd take him back believing he'd change. he'd push me around even if i cried and called me a bitch and ugly but i believed he didnt mean it. i stopped talking to him in aug. and he's been trying to talk to me. my friend just told me that he told this chick that he "wasn't over his ex" and thats me. she liked him. but he's been hooking up with chicks though.. ughh,its so hard getting over him especially when i'm still attached and thinking about him): oh and i moved,so i have no one to talk to. its good i dont see him though

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Open Question: I've done threesome with previous boyfriend. Now new boyfriend wants to do the same, but I think bad idea.?

In my past relationship, my guy and I had threesomes often. It bothered me after the fact, but I continued to do them because I wanted to satisy my guy. I also got turned on by the reaction from my guy while we did those things. Of course it felt physically good while it was happening, but afterwards I didn't like how I felt emotionally. Now, I am in a new relationship. I have shared with my new guy the things I've done in the past. Sometimes we fantasize about it, buy have never actually done it. My new guy tells me that he really wants to experience that with me. I have told him that I want to make him happy, and that I would do anything for him, as he has told me the same. The problem is I don't feel this will be a good thing for us to actually do. I believe that indulging in these types of activities only create problems in committed relationships, and I view sex as something to be shared between two people who care about eachother. He has never had a threesome, we have incredible chemistry, we fantasize about doing this often, and when we do fantasize it does turn both of is on. He has been very commited to our relationship, and I don't fear him stepping out on me since he has always been faithful. There was also a month and a half ago where I was out with him and a couple girlfriends, and I took one in the bathroom and we had oral sex with eachother without him knowing. Then I went home and had sex with my guy and ended up telling him. I told him that was the first time she and I had hooked up but later that night he found out she and I had hooked up once before because she told him. My new guy and I are now at odds about doing a threesome. I see that it will create problems for us but he's never done it so can't see how it can harm a relationship. I'm trying to fix the damage that has already been done by my lying and the hookup in the bathroom.

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Open Question: vagina problems????????? any help????????

ever since i started puberty my other lips stick out now. inner labia. im 18 and i hate it? what does my boyfriend think please help :(

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Open Question: i have a sticky problem?

i am fifteen and this is my first year in school am kinda dating this girl (i mean kinda like she lives an hour away and we only went on one date but we still talk)but i don't really like her i just don't know how to stop it. me and my friend ( we played cards for two weeks then he went the dark side the jocks so we still say hello but)were pared up with a girl in our class by the end of the day i had a crush. when i came to school the next day my friend said he liked her and they started dating i became kinda friends with her. they broke up a 8 weeks ago. she then stated to take a biger interest in me maybe? she says hi when ever we see ether we walk to gether and i some times when i look over shes watching me and shes smiles at me i make it clear i like her and she flirts with me i was thinking about asking my friend to ask her if she has a boyfriend (i hered something about she had one)or would that make me look weak

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Open Question: Does age really matter?

So a few months ago I started talking to one of my cousin's friends. He's really cool and he makes me laugh and I think I'm really starting to like him and nothing has happened between us yet. But there's one problem... he's 20. He said he wants to come visit me soon. Then one of my friends at school said she wants to meet him, and that we can all go on a double date to the movies or something.(her, her boyfriend, me and this guy) Do you guys think I should go? Or is it a bad idea? =/ its a 3 to 4 year age difference...

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Open Question: Questions about rape and the mental abuse that follows..I know i need help.?

i can't really bring this into one question, so i guess i'll start off with why i'm asking. i'm 20 years old right now, and was raped when i was 16. I dont remember the act or who it was because i was almost always on some kind of drug. i have had a long history of addiction to substances and dealing with depression/eating disorders/anxiety nearly my whole life. the first tie i was raped is not the last time i've been violated..it has happened multiple times with a couple different people and i blame myself for bringing it upon me. drugs, parties, and strangers who don't care who you are and who loves you seem to go hand in hand. i've just come out to my boyfriend of a year that i was raped. he was the first person i told. i then told my parents, and later on my therapist. i've been going to therapy for about 6 months now, but we haven't quite gotten to the topic of my past. i'm starting to believe that what has happened to me is causing my relationship with my boyfriend to weaken. i have cheated on him once in a meaningless one night stand at the beginning of our relationship and never told him. this, plus the abuse i have encountered throughout my growing up has been eating me up inside piece by piece. I do strongly believe that the man i'm with is the one i am meant to be with...I love him with all my heart has to give. but when people love eachother they don't cheat..and therefore i know something is seriously wrong. I am falling apart..I need a wake up call, and some advice on where to go. I want to be able to overcome these haunting memories and learn not to let the past define who i am. If someone says, "tell me about yourself" or asks me "who do you think you are as a person?" I am ashamed to say "I don't really know, I feel pretty broken." I don't really know what yahoo answers is going to do for me, and i'm not expecting an answer that will cure me. What I'm asking is do people who are victims of rape deal with problems like these? and where can i go to talk to people who can relate to me? where would i even start to rehabiliate my mind? If anyone would be willing to talk to me through email or a messenger i'm up for that..I feel like I need to talk.

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Open Question: boyfriend help. someone help?

okay. i really love my boyfriend and i wanna do something special for him this christmas, i need ideas.. hes been having family problems like he told me his parents are divorced and his mom is having problems. and i just got my first job and he is worried i wont have time for him but i have 7 people living at my house and my parents aint working. what do i do or how do i tell him i love him but need this job without losing him??

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Open Question: How can I make this long distance relationship work?

i dont know how else to put that question but heres the story.... my boyfriend is always with his friends. although we arent officially boyfriend and girlfriend we both like eachother and have been "together since june of this year. were in a long distance relationship and lives an hour away. he always says he wants to hang out with me but he never makes it happen. my mom thinks hes just lazy but the thing is... he hangs out with his friends all the time and he hangs out with this girl who hes known for a while and who he doesnt like (1. hes told me he doesnt like her. 2. she always tells him the problems shes having with her boyfriend). i just HATE that he has the time to hangout with his friends and the girl on weekends, when i tell him that anytime he wants he can just tell me he wants to hangout and ill be there. what can i do to make him want to hangout with me more? its long distance so i only see him once every 3 months which is at the raves im able to go to. and he usually makes time for me the weekend after the rave, then we dont see eachother for another 3 months until the next rave. (please dont tell me this wont work, ive heard it all before.)

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Open Question: how do i keep my boyfriend?

okay ive been dating my bf and its the longest relationship ive ever had. hes the most amazing guy ive ever met. i have so many family problems and all an he seems like the only one who cares. but every time i see that his myspace said something like should i even try or something i think its about me. i flip. i care so much and don't wanna lose him how can i show him i care A lot about him with out getting on his nerves are losing him.. that's my biggest fear. help me please

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Open Question: Borderline Personality Disorder problems?

I have borderline personality disorder, but nobody understands what is, namely my mom and my boyfriend, I have tried to educate them on this but they are in denial that it is even real. They are always telling me that i just have bad behavior or to "just stop it". They don't understand and it is getting on my last nerve. It really hurts that they do not understand, nor care to understand. They just think i make up excuses for my actions. I feel so empty inside. Does anyone have any advice or input?

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Open Question: does my boyfriend really love me?

its been two weeks he called me once and missed his call he emails me here and there to tell me he misses me and loves me sooooo much but i haven heard from him i know he was having money problem maybe he got a job idk and i know holidsays are here and needs presents for his daughter could that b it hes working so he has presents for his daughter or do u think something up idk i think he loves me but i would think i would hear from him more idk help

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