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Open Question: I have so many problems, Is it a mental illness? and more... Open Question: I have so many problems, Is it a mental illness?I have alot of problems. Or atleast i think i do? Maybe they aren't so bad? Anyway, I am 14 years old. I cut my wrists & cut writing into my arms alot, & there is always a reason. I make myself sick atleast 4 times a day after i've eaten, and take alot of slimming tablets. I have sex with anyone that asks, just to feel "hot" and loved. I have so much trouble getting a boyfriend. I attack myself with anything i can find.. I smoke & take drugs. Do i have mental problems or a mental illness?? Open Question: Diabetes or Hypoglycemia, Maybe?I'm 18, Female. My weight changes for 135 to 140, Give or Take. My mothers side has a history of Anemia [My great grandmother was so bad she was hospitalized before.] and Diabetes, Heart Problems [My youngest sister who was 2 months at the time and 22 months younger than I, Died of Heart failure I believe.] My fathers side has a history of Bi Polar, Asthma, Bronchitis. I'm sorry I don't know more or the whole history. I would really like some help. I was recently diagnosed with Allergic Asthma. I believe I'm allergic to my cats, They told me to get rid of them but ..They are my life and hopefully the future I want to pursue. They gave me an inhaler and proscribed Claritin. I have to clean constantly and they no longer are allowed in my room. Which is helping with that, but for sometime since I was about 13. Give or Take.. I've been having some other problems. Symptoms : [Basically all Diabetes Symptoms..] Weight loss and Gain. Constant Nausea [Mostly when I skip a meal.] Frequent Thirst and Hunger [Ill be bloated but still feel hungry.] Frequent Urination. My hands and feet are always Cold [Sometimes Numbness.] I bruise really easy. I'll get Shaky and Dizzy all of the sudden. Fatigue, I feel weak and kind of Delicate... Idk if that makes since. Blurry vision, Specially when going from dark to light or vise versa. Confusion, Forgetfulness or sometimes just brain freezes [Frequent] Anxiety, Sometimes Headaches or Aches. I am always tired, I have to sleep at LEAST 12 hours a night, But I am always cranky and irritable. I passed out the first time when I had just turned 14. I was at Wal-Mart with my Friend, My sister and Her dad. I was fine... Absolutely fine. I was skipping playing.. I mean of course I had felt a little weird , [A little sick feeling, My chest felt odd and I was a little weak and cool but I was sort of used to that feeling by this time.] We was just goofing off and all of the sudden I got extremely confused and just stopped walking.. I couldn't move my feet.. I mean not paralyzed but I couldn't think right... I couldn't respond to their questions or anything I just ... Passed out. I kept coming to and seeing a HUGE crowd around me and the paramedics were shoving things in my mouth thinking I was having a seizure. [My friends dad caught me, So no I didn't bump my head lol] I kept going in and out, In and out and not able to just grasp or understand anything. I thought I was dying. Finally really woke up in the hospital and they never figured it out. I only saw the nurse trying to undress me. They tried feeding me but I vomited it back up.. Second time was about a year ago. I didn't fully pass out, Which I have to say in my Experience is worse, MUCH WORSE then fully passing out. I was at Lowes. With my boyfriend [Not Diabetic], step grandpa and grandma [They are both Diabetic.] I was goofing off, Learning once again to forget about my problems which was the last thing on my mind at the time. I just stopped got confused and couldn't think. My mind was like... I mean I can't explain. I remember feeling really really stupid, Because I couldn't sound smart. The words I tried to say.. I just didn't know. I got really shaky and hot. They said I turned greenish and my lips were pale/white. I was trembling and I couldn't hold myself up so my grandma was hugging me trying to support my weight and comfort me and then I lost my sight! I couldn't see shit and ..It was like dark with a few tiny patches of light [3 maybe] but it was very very dark. I finally got them to understand I wanted to sit on the floor. I was yelling over and over again I cant see! I cant see! HELP ME, OH GOD PLEASE HELP ME! I can't see! I cant see! Somebody, HELP! I wanted to cry I was so confused and sick and felt like I was gonna barf. Then I lost my hearing everything was muffled and it was just like in the movies when theres like an explosion or something bad happens and you hear that ringing.. thats exactly what it was like but muffled. AND i couldn't faintly hear myself screaming I cant hear over and over again. I finally got my sight back after maybe 10 minutes and slowly my hearing, i threw up on the way out. and they took me to wendys and i ate some frys and started feeling better. the whole time at lowes a stupid fricking employee was standing right there beside us not talking just watching... i mean wtf.. couldn't he have gotten help i mean come on... I am very low income and am terrified of them telling something is wrong with me but ....Its getting worse and i know if i dont find out soon it will all go to my head... i wanted 1 week after lowes thingy to see my IDIOT family doctor who i hate btw... he's such a moron. he tested my brother for anemia [very similar stuff happening to him btw] and he tested him in the catagory for women! ne who .... I ate 3 cheesey double beef burritos with no rice, a bite of a chocolate and carmel candy bar and a Large arizonia southern style ice tea and 1 hour 1 hour after eating all of that my blood sugar was 69.... 6 freaking 9.. i mean wtf. and my family doctor said '' well its nothing i'd really worry a bout'' my grandma said it should have been at least 80 to high 120s..... i mean is it just me or is he a complete idiot. Open Question: How do I get this popular guy to like me or does he already like me?Ok, I really like this gut in my class! I can't stop thinking about him! I'm not the kind of girl to tell a guy I like them or ask out. I've never had a boyfriend. He is also VERY popular. We have no "real" mutual friends and he dates the prettiest girl in the 8th grade (my opinion) for about 5 months and this is his only girlfriend he has had that I know of. I'm known as the "weirdo" cuz I wear Tutus on Tuesday to school, I meow/hiss randomly when I feel like it, and I'm really artistic in the sense that my dad is a "famous" Russian artist. I think he MIGHT like me. Idk though! Here are some interactions we've had. Plz tell me your opinion and what are some tips to get him more interested in me. Put details in your answers too please! # 1. He asked me yesterday if I only had one Tutu that I wore and I said no, but I'm going to get a new one soon. He then asked if he could have my tutu after I got a new one. I said yes, but ur gonna wear to school next Tuesday and walked away. Did he want my tutu cuz its weird, he wants one, or he wants something from me to have a part of me to remember me? #2. I sit next to him in math class. One day I came in really excited and ... Me: Tim, I looked at tutus online in technology class today and there was one that had every section a color of the rainbow! And one was sparkly and hot pink. And then one was a 4th of July tutu..." Tim: (started laughing) Matt:Shut up Katherine! Noone cares about tutus! Me: Tim cares about tutus! Tim: (Smiling but in a serious sorta angry tone) Yeah I do! Tutus are amazing! You should shut up! # 3. In math he stares/looks at me. Once I asked if he had a staring problem and he said that he was watching the movie orphan and that he doesn't trust my kind (75% Russian). Was he being funny or just avoiding my question or both? # 4 He was making fun of these two guys in our class that are SUPER nerds they are they only talk to eachother. Tim was calling them fagots and I said... "Stop it! Its sick that your so immature and insecure that you need to make fun of them! Just stop it. Tim: (split second after me) Fine, I'll stop making fun of them. Me: Good Matt: What are u guys talking about? Tim: Nothing He hasn't make fun of them since so, or at least not in front of me for about a week =) # 5 I was walking up the stairs to get to homeroom with my friend Marlena joking around saying I'm losing all my senses, first my hearing, then my sight.... Me: ( drop my books at top of staircase by accident) There goes my stamina Marlena: (Trys to help pick them up) Me: Its ok, I'll get them myself Marlena: fine, bye (leaves) Me: (picking up my books and I just need to pick up my English book but I see Tim's hand pick it up instead and puts it on my "stack") Science Teach: (comes out of nowhere) I saw that Tim. You helped her. Good job! Me: Thanks Tim: No problem (leaves) # 7 this was before I began liking him... Me: (eating my lunch waiting for my friends to come back from the lunch line and i notice him staring at me but I ignore it and look somewhere else) Tim: (still staring) Me: (look back in Tim's direction and laugh kinda nervously cuz at the time it was funny but creepy) Tim: (smirks and looks away) Do you think he may like me? I really like him! PLEASE ANSWER IN FULL DETAIL! I don't act like I like him at all. If anything people would say I hate him. I don't flirt at all! I act the same way I do to him as anybody else unless I do something without realizing it. Like I said, I'm not that kind of girl to flirt and ask guys out or talk about them with my friends. I'm embarrassed to like a popular! That is why I'm asking about this online... Open Question: My friend said he doesn't want to know me if i get a boyfriend? please helps?i have this friend..who's apparently in love with me. I do love him to, but the thing is..he has a girlfriend..so yeah no go area for me, i said we should just be mates...so for the past 8 months we've been close, go to the pub every week or w/e, talk and text etc. So anyway, i told him this guy had asked me out..and he said that if i went out with someone he wouldn't be able to talk to me ..and that i'd have to choose either him, or guys i'd like to date! i can't imagine not talking to him and enjoy his company..but how is this going to work? please dont say stop talkin to him because 8 months is a long time to be near enough joined at the hip with someone..why is he being like this? if he liked me that ,much he'd leave his current girlfriend who tbf, his relationship is on the breakdown with.. but still..i refuse to be with him when he's with someone, what is his problem..why wont he be my mate if i date someone! Open Question: Relationship Problem?My girlfriend wanted to go see her ex boyfriend of 19 months out of nowhere to talk about something i was never told. I got mad at her and she got mad at that. I trust her and know nothing would happen but shes still upset with me. This happened Saturday and its now Wednesday. Ive taken responsibilty for it. Ive apologized. Nothings helping. What can I do to fix this =( and was a right to get a little mad? by the way this was not after two years. the broke up in like march or so. ive been dating her since october Open Question: My son wants to come home, should I take him back?when I was 14 I got pregnant with, my son brenden, I couldnt take care of him bc I was only 14, my brother was my gaurdian to me and my other brothers, my boyfriend got scared and broke up with me, and I was alone. I decided to pick out a family for my son, with the help of my brother of course, we found a very nice family, a mom (ann) and dad (mike) with a good job, house, everything to give him a good life, and they have, recently ann contacted the agency hoping to be able talk to me. She said that they have been having problems with bredens behavior (kno age 5) about me, like "wheres my mommy", "is she coming to get me soon", and stuff like that, i told her that she should just talk to him bout me and stuff like that. Brenden is apparently nothin like me cause he was smart enough to find my phone number that ann had called and figure out it was me, and call me. He said "mommy I miss u, plz i wanna come home, i love u" he started crying and then I herd ann come in and take the phone and hang up. I love my son and REALLY REALLY want him back, I mean I can support him now, Im married I have a job so does my husband, we have a nice house, good cars, I just had a baby, im pregnant now, better than before, He wants to come home and I want him to come home and I can legally take him back right? (im in america and isnt that the only area u person can take ther child back) but I dont wanna hurt ann and mikes feelings looseing a child they had for 5 years. They already have 2 other childeren of there own also. I mean Brenden loves the family hes in, but now that he nows I can take him back I want him back. what should i do? Open Question: HOW DO I GET HIM TO CHANGE BEFORE I LEAVE HIM FOREVER?Please, someone, i really REALLY need some help! i need to break up with my boyfriend. Things are getting really out of control. i feel lost and confused, and i just can't handle it anymore. Every time i joke about leaving him or hanging up on him or anything even remotely mean, he gets so serious and says that he would die without me, and then he makes me promise that i will never leave him. I feel so trapped. And on top of that, whenever we disagree on anything, even something as small as what to do next weekend, he gets upset because he feels bad that he doesn't want to do the same thing i want to do. He also always wants to do things that make me feel dirty, bad, and shameful. I know this is a little personal, but every time he gets horny, its the only thing he can talk about. And if something comes up in conversation, even mildly sexual, he talks about it seriously. He asks then if we could try it out. This has led me to say that one day i will try things i am REALLY uncomfortable trying. But the only reason i agree to do those things is because if i disagree, he feels bad and will cry or stop talking and make me feel awful. But what's worse is that sometimes i just want to scream at him to grow up and be a man and stop getting so touchy. I want to say "look, you said you wanted to do this, i said i didn't, you said you wouldn't force me, and agreed to not ask again, so there is NO problem! We came to an agreement, right? So stop being so depressed over every little thing!" But i don't. If i did, he'd cry and think i want to leave him, which is true now, but wouldn't be if he could just stop being so depressed over every little disagreement between us. But regardless, now i do need to leave him, but i don't have any way to contact anyone who could help, nor do i want to put him through some sort of psychiatric evaluation. We're in high school, he doesn't need that. I feel really bad about dumping him, but i need to get myself out of this relationship, and quickly. I can't spend the rest of my life with him thinking that one day we'll get married, have kids, and live his dream life while i hold his hand and listen to him apologize about every single mistake or difference between us, and be forced to do the same whenever i mess up. Im not perfect Open Question: How to distance yourself from ex?Basically, ex-boyfriend wants to get back together. He's crazy and on parole, but so nice to me and says he loves me. I do not want to hurt his feelings too badly, since he is definitely a suicide risk right now. I really do like him and he is a good person that just went through some bad stuff, but I know this relationship would not be healthy for me, so I'm going to quit talking to him. The problem is how to gently get myself away from being his emotional crutch. How do you distance yourself from someone you like and care about but can't be with anymore? More Recent Articles |
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