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Open Question: Falling in love.. What should I do? and more... Open Question: Falling in love.. What should I do?Ok.. I'm a type of guy that hardly fall in love. I know this girl because she is my bestfriend sister. I know her for sometimes and we start chatting in facebook and texting. And I deeply fall for her. She lives far away from my home ( well me and his brother are in boarding school ). Yesterday, I told her that I love her and she said she loves me too but she couldn't be my girl friend at the moment because she has a boyfriend and also loving his boyfriend. I told her that okay nevermind i will wait for you. Then she replied, "can you ( speechless )". Then it went awkward for a moment. afterward it went back okay again. and we became more intimate, i freely could text her and say that i love her so much . and she told me the same thing. I really love her but the problem is she have a boyfriend and her boyfriend is really closed to my bestfriend ( her brother ). I feel so guilty that I do this. I told her that I'm sorry that I make her in "Love Triangle mode" etc etc. She said it's okay, it's her fault too. We're texting secretly and her brother didn't know about this. Her brother seems to prefer she with her boyfriend right now than me. =( .. What should I do?. I really love her.. --> we never met before but I know her really well, it's all because of his brother ( my bestfriend ) who told me like almost everything about her ---> My best friend is the coolest thing ever and It's kind of impossible for him to break our friendship because of this. I know him. Open Question: My best friend is 14 and pregnant and she doesn't know what to do --PLEASE HELP?She just turned 14 and her 15 year old boyfriend talked her into having Sex. She told me, but no one else knows. She is totally against abortions, but what are her other options? She also doesnt know how to tell her mom, because her mom has always told her that if she ever gets pregnant before shes 18, she will kick her out. She thinks her mom is serious about that, and do you think if its ok with my mom, she could live in my basement? my mom is usually ok with helping people out, but do you think she is capable of keeping a baby? where we live, you can get medicade and food stamps and stuff t the age of 14, but is this the right choice? she just doesn't think that she will be able to carry a baby for 9 months and then just give it away. Also, im totally willing to help her out if she lives in the basement, but should i be this willing? or should i make her think nobody will be there for her? she is 2 almost 3 months along, and will be showing soon so shes got to tell her mom NOW! ok never mind! she just told her mom, because her mom walked in and saw what i was typing and her moms exact words were :"I have always told you what i would do. Get out." and its not illegal here, and i called my mom who said yeah of course she can live here, and ill feed her and all, but the baby is on her. Which me and my friend both think is extra ( mom doesn't have to feed her) and she even offered to clean up our apartment out back ( thee was an old lady living with the people before s so they built a little house in the back) and her, i , and the baby could all live back there ( she said i didnt have to, but i insisted) Should i let my friend in, or make her handle it on her ownn. i love her and really want to help her and i now know that i have the resources, but is this her problem and she needs to handle i5t on her own??!!?!?!? please answer!!!!! Open Question: 2nd post "I fall for her, but here's the problem"?... sorry for the second post. i need more answers.. thanks! Ok.. I'm a type of guy that hardly fall in love. I know this girl because she is my bestfriend sister. I know her for sometimes and we start chatting in facebook and texting. And I deeply fall for her. She lives far away from my home ( well me and his brother are in boarding school ). Yesterday, I told her that I love her and she said she loves me too but she couldn't be my girl friend at the moment because she has a boyfriend and also loving his boyfriend. I told her that okay nevermind i will wait for you. Then she replied, "can you ( speechless )". Then it went awkward for a moment. afterward it went back okay again. and we became more intimate, i freely could text her and say that i love her so much . and she told me the same thing. I really love her but the problem is she have a boyfriend and her boyfriend is really closed to my bestfriend ( her brother ). I feel so guilty that I do this. I told her that I'm sorry that I make her in "Love Triangle mode" etc etc. She said it's okay, it's her fault too. We're texting secretly and her brother didn't know about this. Her brother seems to prefer she with her boyfriend right now than me. =( .. What should I do?. I really love her.. --> we never met before but I know her really well, it's all because of his brother ( my bestfriend ) who told me like almost everything about her ---> My best friend is the coolest thing ever and It's kind of impossible for him to break our friendship because of this. I know him. Open Question: How can i stop my anxiety from ruining my realtionship.?Im 20 years old. I have GAD (general anxiety disorder) and suffer from panic attacks and some rough anxiety. I was in a relationship for 3 years and was cheated on for all of that time so of course that ddidn'thelp my anxiety at all. Im now with a wonderful guy of one year. He has given me no reason to believe hes a liar, cheater, etc. But yet I go through his phone ( which i know is very wrong) i constantly ask him if he still loves me or if hes cheating, and when hes with his friends i almost go insane. Now my anxiety is not only with him just a great portion of it because hes the one closest to me. I am taking Xanax under my fathers supervision because i have OCD and get greatly addicted to things. I ddon'tknow if anyone has this same problem or if anyone knows coping skills because i know my boyfriend HATES that i constantly worry about EVERYTHING. I dont want rude common sense answers as i know what i do is wrong. I just need some help. Thanks! Ive taken ZOLOFT (didnt help), LEXAPRO ( made me suicidal) Open Question: How should I announce the news of my unplanned pregnancy?I began dating a really great guy about 4 months ago, the relationship is still new but I haveknown him for about 4 years. I moved out of state for college and my whole family is far away so I don't see them as much as I'd like and they have never met my boyfriend. About a 2 months after we started dating, I found out I am pregnant. So the problem is breaking the news to grandparents aunts and uncles etc. (I told my parents and siblings as soon as I found out). I want everyone to understand that although this was an accident and the situation is far from the ideal, that I am very excited and happy to be having this baby and my boyfriend and I are dedicated to making a stable family life and home for him or her. We both already love this baby and eachother very much. I will be going home for Christmas and I'm starting to show so I will see everyone and need to tell them then or before then. Just want some fun ideas on how to break the news in a happy positive way. Open Question: to much stress just to much?i cant take it. not talking to dad who i live with mom and dad not talking who live together (grandmother says they are breaking up an wont be together or christmas) mom wanting too kill herself mom saying im fat grandmother unloading all of moms problems on me just me me having too clean house non stop dads daughters (my half sisters) making mom upset failing at college got no friends or social life or ever had a boyfriend too top it all off my grandmother is saying help your mom be there listen too her problems. what if i do then cant do anything ... im so upset. i dont want to here hers . what about me and my problems ive got no one i cant tell my mom because shes got so many of her own i dont know what to do i feel like im about to kill myself... i have so much weight on my shoulders btw i think i suffer from depression Open Question: broken engagement- what to do(be prepared its long) but I really need advice?I am 22 years old, i started dating this guy when I was 15 years old, and everything was new and magical and it was my first real real boyfriend, a couple months into the relationship, I went over to this guy's house from my school and played strip poker( dont ask im not sure why lol) but nothing happened my shirt came off and my bra stayed on and we watched a movie, so weird I know.. nyhow I told my boyfriend and he was so mad and then we got through it. After dating for about 5 months we ended up having sex (both each others firsts) so it was special and then a few weeks later we ended up breaking up a week before my birthday because he was still so hurt over the situation that happened earlier when we had started dating ..and i got all crazy ex girlfriend style (like any normal 15 year old girl) and totally pushed him away... so we broke up and i was distraught for like a year and a half- i dated other boys but nothing ever felt the same. I was crazy I even ended up switching to his closer because I thought if he saw me all the time we would get back together... (but he ended up like hating me and never talked to me ) but then about a year later my friend lived in the same buidling as him and she was like oh come over he doesnt care.. so I went and him and I talked all night and that was 5 years ago, so in that time we fell back in love very quickly,we have lived together for the past 3 and a half years, I have also moved out like 3 times and moved back in during those times and over the past few years we have broken up lotsssssssss and always gotten back together ( the same fight was always over the fact that he didnt think i payed enough attention to him.. like I would never show enough affection or that we would barely ever have sex and that made him feel neglected and that I didnt care about him.. But this past year everything was great we had gone away last summer for the month and travelled the states and it was amazing.. the best time of our whole relationship.. everything was amazing we were having sex everyday and ya it was just amazing.. but then we got back and everything switched for some reason i got mad as soon as were back that we werent engaged or anything and it just got crazy and I stirred up so much drama, but then we solved it, and then this gebruary I just realized this year wasnt as amazing as I thought it was, we were at my best friends valentines party and him and my best friend were both in the same room talking and apparently he tried to kiss her, now there is two sides to this story, he admits to trying to kiss her, but I forgave him.. (because during the times when we broke up, there is things that happened that i never told him) which were way worse than him kissing my friend.. but i never told him, so I forgave because I didnt want to be with anybody else.. so then everything was fine and dandy and then this summer we moved to a place we have always wanted to live and we got engaged and the proposal was AMAZING, I couldnt have asked for anything better, but then two and a half months went by and our relationship fizzled like crazy, we stopped having sex , stopped talking about our problems and everything just went crappy and we broke up.... and it was sooo hard..this is only a month ago.. and then he went to Europe for a month because he has always wanted to and he figured then would be a good opportunity, but I found out I was pregnant.. and he is super excited........... we havnt talked about getting back together.... he seems very excited to have a baby... but im just so confused.. because I love him more than anything else in the world and I just dont understand why I treat him so badly when im in the relationship and then once we break up I would do anything to get him back, and thats always whats happend and then once were back together it goes all crappy again... but I do know I want to be with him soooooooooooooo bad.. He gets back next week? any suggestions of what I should do? Open Question: Please help me!!! Parents hate my boyfriend...?My ex and I are planning on getting back together. I talked to my mom about it last night and she basically told me I couldn't see him outside of school. My parents are divorced so I was going to tell my dad tonight. The guy I'm getting back together with wanted to hang out this weekend. I need some answers asap as to what I can possibly say to convince my dad and mom. The only reason they're against it is because we had a lot of problems before. But we were each other's first big relationship so we didn't really know much. Pleaseee help me!! I love him so much and I can't stand not being able to see him outside of school! I'm almost 16, and so is he. Open Question: I fall for her, but here is the problem?Ok.. I'm a type of guy that hardly fall in love. I know this girl because she is my bestfriend sister. I just know her for about 3 days now, we start chatting in facebook and texting. And I deeply fall for her. She lives far away from my home ( well me and his brother are in boarding school ). Yesterday, I told her that I love her and she said she loves me too but she couldn't be my girl friend at the moment because she has a boyfriend and also loving his boyfriend. I told her that okay nevermind i will wait for you. Then she replied, "can you ( speechless )". Then it went awkward for a moment. afterward it went back okay again. and we became more intimate, i freely could text her and say that i love her so much . and she told me the same thing. I really love her but the problem is she have a boyfriend and her boyfriend is really closed to my bestfriend ( her brother ). I feel so guilty that I do this. I told her that I'm sorry that I make her in "Love Triangle mode" etc etc. She said it's okay, it's her fault too. We're texting secretly and her brother didn't know about this. Her brother seems to prefer she with her boyfriend right now than me. =( .. What should I do?. I really love her.. --> we never met before but I know her really well, it's all because of his brother ( my bestfriend ) who told me like almost everything about her. I've told her that I love her and she love me too.. My best friend is the coolest thing ever and It's kind of impossible for him to break our friendship because of this. I know him. I know that 3 days is a short time. I have to do something with this >.<.. Time!! Open Question: How can I feel more secure with my boyfriend?To give you some background-my boyfriend & I have been together for roughly 7 months. We had a terrible start to our relationship with constant arguing, mostly because he lied ALOT. There were two nights he "spent the night on a couch" at a "friends" house-which both times was a girl that he's known from his past. Of course he swore up & down though that "nothing happened". (although I have a gut feeling that something did happen since he said his ex used to argue a lot with him too & he cheated-of course only one time & on top of that i know he lies & was drunk both times!). We have since grown stronger & more together in the past three months & he has been more honest with me, but yet I still feel very insecure & worried that he lies to me about going out or that he will cheat. He says that he has nothing to do with me being insecure & is something that I have to "get over". I feel that because of our past that he should try to help me feel more secure because of all that has happened. What do you think? Is this something I have to figure out on my own or do you think he should help me feel more secure? I have never had this problem in my past relationship because I trusted them & knew they would never do something like that to me-so it's not like I've had this problem in every relationship. Open Question: Need some advice, don't know what to do?OK, so I kinda like two girls, just want people's opinion on which I should try and take things further with, and explain your answers please. The first girl doesn't live that close to me, but I drive so that's not really an issue, it's only 20 mins in the car. We really get on and make each other laugh loads. I met her through mutual friends, and think we would be really good together. But I don't really see her that often. The second girl I'm on a course with, and we see each other almost every day. I find her more physically attractive than girl one and also feel I have a better emotional connection with her. Only problem is, she has a boyfriend. He's away working right now but when he get's back she's planning on dumping him coz he treats her pretty bad. Just wondering your opinion on what I should do, go for girl one, or wait for girl two (give her time after breaking up with her bf obviously)?. Don't forget to give reasons please :) Open Question: does he like me? and if so how do i get him to be my boyfriend?ok so i am on the swim team and there is this boy named Zach that i really like. He is a really nice guy but there are a few problems... 1) he is older then me 2) im not even sure if he likes me. This boy is really cute but shy. We were on the bus on the way home from our very first meet lastnight and we talked all the way home which was about 2 hours. He kept poking my stomach and wen i laid down in the seat on the bus across the isle from him with my head in the isle he kept covering my face and so forth. I really like him and i think he likes me too but howdo i get him to be my boyfriend? im 15 and he is 17 More Recent Articles
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