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Open Question: I'm a married woman with a son and i am in love with my childhood friend? and more... Open Question: I'm a married woman with a son and i am in love with my childhood friend?To start, please be very free to judge or post your views. Knowing that noone is perfect, I appreciate your feedback.I've been married to my husband since I was 19 years old and now I'm 24. When i met my 31 years old husband,(before marriage), i was a virgin; then, with a little of his pressure and my youthfull curiousity we had sex and I soon became pregnant. Being raised from a muslim family, I know that my parents would disown me if they found out that i was pregnant, so i decided to have an abortion. Six months later, after the abortion, my boyfriend then asked me to marry him and I accepted. I did not have much choice because I didnot picture myself marrying another man with my loss of virginity. So I settled with him on a marriage. My husband is a great guy, he cares for me and my son. but I just don't love him. I was always in love with one of my childhood friends. since i was young I always idolized and loved him deeply, the only problem is that he was my brother's best friend which made it difficult for us to be toghether. he is very religious (in a good way) and my husband is not. He is very calm ande collected, he loves school and graduated with his masters in accounting while my husband does not even have a high school diploma and does care to get one. i'm one semester away from a bachelor degree in accounting, I nicely tried so many times to take my husband back to school but he seems satisfied with his JOB as a cook. I even suggested that he get a culinary art degree so he can at least get a job as a chef but no luck. Our sexual life is extremely boring, one every 2 to 3 weeks sometimes a month. we can not have an educated conversation but gossips. He embarasses him often when we're out with friend because he likes using fancy words that he does not even understand the meanings. i just don't think that he is my match at all. he likes showing off clothes and jewelries that he can barely afford. The fact that we have a son together makes it difficult for me because i don't want him to suffers because of my mistakes. we often argue that most of the time when i call my parents they keep asking me if everything is all right at home. I usualy talk to my friend on the phone, we email each other sometimes, i know he loves me but it's mostly in a brotherly way. he is not seeing anyone, he is not into the dating thing. i am deeply confused and i am losing my mind. i often get mad at my husband because of how bad i don't want to be with him. i need help i know! thanks for your time and consideration! Open Question: What should i get my boyfriend for our 1 month aniversarry?So we are going to try to make it a really special day as a start to the rest of the aniversarrys we will have together. He was in a really bad mood a few days ago so i told him that my gift will put a smile on his face and after that he was in a better mood since it showed that i cared about him to get him a gift. He said that since i got him one hes going to get me one. Only problem is, i dont acturally have a gift yet.. so i have 2 more days until the days here... what do guys like? He loves cologne but i got him one already before. Please help?> Open Question: is my friend headed for disaster?well, here goes.... so recently i went over my fathers house, me and my step sister are crazy close.....she told me how she had sex with her boyfriend......yes i was disappointed because shes fairly young and has only been dating this guy 2 months. my friend is very close with me,his name not mentioned but he went out with my sister for the whole summer, they were very much in love but because of distance problems, they split apart. my friend went into a deep depression, i finally thought that he was getting over it....he found a girl friend and was happy for a while.....than he started telling me how he doesnt like his current girlfriend.... once my friend heard about my sister having sex, he decided he needed to have sex with the girl he 'doesnt' like...after 2 days!!! he told her he didnt like her but she was ok with that!!!! baisically---i want to know, is my friend going down the wrong path? Open Question: My boyfriend and i broke up?basically my boyfriend and i have been together for 3 years now and on saturday night i broke up with him cause he still talks to his ex like he really likes her.. she always gave him problems like forced him to be with her and tried to get him beaten up and stuff when he was younger, she has always tried braking us up so we agree'd to ignore her. I told him it was bothering me and stuff, he told me he wasn't doing that and i was getting mistaken and stuff so i ignored it and apologized to him. Then yesterday i met him for a while to sort it out and he said it wasn't fair on him that i did that and he doesnt want to get back. I think thats harsh cause i tried apologizing and he seems uninterested now. He has also been smoking occasionally which he promised me he would stop doing cause i dont like him doing that and i smelled it off him yesterday and he said that cause i broke up with him he did that.. so we ended up going home and he hasnt talked to me since i dont know what i should do... I know it sounds silly but hes just being all weird.. i dont know what to do. Should i call him or wait for him to call or text me... and who's fault do you think it is? The reason i dont want to move on is because im so close to him and i dont want anyone else, i dont really want to jump from guy to guy.. i have respect for myself thats why im trying and not going around looking for others. Open Question: Should I say 'I love you" back?My boyfriend says those words to me, but I know it's not love what we have. We've talked about things quite a bit and he wouldn't have a problem if our relationship didn't work out (and I think if you love somebody, you want them in your life forever). And other little things. So... when he says "I love you", should I ask him not to say that if he doesn't mean it? Should I or should I not say it back to him? If I say it while having all those thoughts in my head (although I do love him), would it be considered playing games? That's something I don't wanna do, but I can't just give him a cold answer (like "good for you") either. Open Question: How can i make my boyfriends sister like me?Ive been dating ( illl call him Rob) for over a year now and initially i found it quite difficult to be part of his family. We had many rows and arguements over things because i felt like i tried so hard with them but got little in return. Im not saying they werent nice but they were definately not the same as the ay my family treated "Rob", My family took a lot of time to talk to him get to know him etc whereas i found that when i went to his house his Dad barely opnened his mouth his mum tried way too hard to impress me and his sister goes to my high school but is about four years younger i.e shes 14 and he also has a little brother. i found it so difficult to connect with anyone because it seemed as though every time i was round they were playing the perfect role which is apparantly according to Rob the way his little sister tries to act amongst strangers. it got to the point however when i was made to feel quite awkward because the family has many family issues and there tended to be tension between his parents and Rob when i went round. anyway i stopped visiting his house for various reasons and told Rob why. He said his mother had acted this way because she felt intimidated about the area i live in and other aspects about me which i thought was slightly petty coming from a forty year old lady. He told me that his sister had no problems with me whatsoever. he then spoke to his family about these problems and after about a month i gathered the nuggets to go back to his house which madfe me so happy when i realised that i was starting to get a better relationship with them all, especially his younger brother. I had just returned from a holiday and i thought it nice if i broiught them gifts.. i got his little sister a radley bag which she seemed to love at the time.. anyway However more recently i heard his little sister at school lauighing and talking to her friends at school. All of which were watching me. One of them turned round and said is she pregnant? and the giggling continued. I understand that shes only young but i dont think the i mmaturity is necessary. I just really wanted to be able to however strange it sounds have more of a sisterly role with her and get on with her, but it seems i cant really get to the bottom of her fake persona. she never acts herself in front of me and im worried that she really doesnt like me. I wondered if it was because she may think that i was taking her brother from her but i spoke to Rob and he told me she and him were not that close anyway. I just wish i could really get on with her well and i feel like im constantly trying to please a fourteen year old. Please help me!!! Open Question: My parents hate my boyfriend! How can I convince them to let me spend time with him?My ex and I are planning on getting back together. I talked to my mom about it last night and she basically told me I couldn't see him outside of school. My parents are divorced so I was going to tell my dad tonight. The guy I'm getting back together with wanted to hang out this weekend. I need some answers asap as to what I can possibly say to convince my dad and mom. The only reason they're against it is because we had a lot of problems before. But we were each other's first big relationship so we didn't really know much. Pleaseee help me!! I love him so much and I can't stand not being able to see him outside of school! I'm 15, btw. My parents know I can handle dating...They just don't trust him at all. Open Question: Should I pursue this girl? What do you think she thinks of me?There's a girl I've been friends with for about a year now but the other night we went a bit further and we made out. I'm always had minor romantic feelings for her but after that night I'm full-blown in love with her. The problem is she has this on-again off-again boyfriend who lives far away in another state. The guy told her that he wants an "open relationship" and is seeing other girls which is why she was okay with kissing me. The problem is after we made out she told me "don't get too attached to me" But some weeks or months ago she said things like "I would be with you if I didnt have a boyfriend" and "you could make me your wife if you really wanted to" but at the same time this girl NEVER calls me (I always call her first) What should I do? Should I still try to pursue her romantically? I feel like I would be a much better boyfriend to her.. Open Question: Need some advice please?!?OK, so I kinda like two girls, just want people's opinion on which I should try and take things further with, and explain your answers please. The first girl doesn't live that close to me, but I drive so that's not really an issue, it's only 20 mins in the car. We really get on and make each other laugh loads. I met her through mutual friends, and think we would be really good together. But I don't really see her that often. The second girl I'm on a course with, and we see each other almost every day. I find her more physically attractive than girl one and also feel I have a better emotional connection with her. Only problem is, she has a boyfriend. He's away working right now but when he get's back she's planning on dumping him coz he treats her pretty bad. Just wondering your opinion on what I should do, go for girl one, or wait for girl two (give her time after breaking up with her bf obviously)?. Don't forget to give reasons please :) Open Question: Everytime I have sex my vagina tears?Everytime my boyfriend and i have sex, it doesn't hurt during, but i always have vaginal tearing, everytime. He's not too rough, and i don't think lubrication is the problem. He's a good size (not abnormally big though) but after a while shouldn't i get use to it? More Recent Articles
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