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Open Question: ex boyfriend problems please help me idk what to do anymore..? and more... Open Question: ex boyfriend problems please help me idk what to do anymore..?after almost a year of not seeing eachother (we live in different places) last night we seen eachother but he now has a new girlfriend. there not doing good right now lots of problems. she doesnt like me she deleted me off his MSN list and everything. me n him have a good friendship but last night when we hung out feelings rushed back and we eneded up kissing. it was so hard to say no, we both did it. i feel terible. for her, i know im not a good person for what i did its just when im with him im someone else. he does that to me. it hurts alot. i am still a virgen and we almost had sex but i put a stop to it and asked him to please take me home. i wanna be friends with him so bad but when were together it seems impossible. please help me.. i feel horrible. also hes 19 and im 16 if this helps.. Open Question: what do you think of my story? i also need a title for it?this story tells of a teenage girl (mia) who has gone through too much too fast. it starts in her adolescent years where she was an outcast in school. she would skip lunch everyday and sit at the outside benches by herself for fear of having no one to eat with. she's antisocial and only considers one other her friend yet they hold a competitive relationship. in the summer before high school, she begins to eat normally but notices weight gain. this marks the start of her troubles with eating disorders, sliding from bulimia to binge eating and back. she keeps this a secret, the first of many. she also deals with image problems and low self esteem but in her transition to high school, her facial features have matured womanly and model-like. in all, she turns into an attractive female at age 14. mia catches her young math teacher amazed by her but she ignores him. although gaining a few more friends, she remains in her mute stage, now spending her lunch time in the school library. she puts her focus in her classes and becomes a 4.0 student. she continues this into her sophomore year, being the high achieving student she is, the weight-obsessed freak she is, and the beauty (in the eyes of everyone else) she is. she becomes suicidal when pressed by the pressures of the above. she suddenly finds herself doing worse in her classes, struggling with weight gain and loss, and deeply ugly. she has episodes of mental breakdowns. then she manages to find some positivity by the end of the school year. she ends it with a 4.2 GPA and eases off about her looks. the summer before junior year, she begins talking to older men online out of boredom. she realizes she has never been in a relationship before so she attempts to see how she affects men. the precocious 16 year old charms men in their 20s in chats and later on, her webcam. this begins her numerous cybering sessions, many of them lasting into the early am. the men loved her and she the loved the attention. she was a genius in that her parents never detected any foul play from her. the summer ended on a sweet note for her. her junior year of high school was tough and she knew it. she does well in her classes, including 4 APs, but as time went on, her work ethic falters. her low self esteem came back as well when she begins binge eating at buffets. she finds herself loving food but hates gaining weight so she binges and starves and binges and starves. she keeps her thin body frame but struggles mentally. in a chatroom, 16 year old mia meets 24 year old john. not only were they involved online but this time, mia has find herself a boyfriend. living 30 minutes away, he oftentimes picks her up and the two engage in sex. her parents were clueless that their daughter was sneaking out at 2am and not really studying at the library on sundays. mia and john lost touch after 3 months. she then meets 28 year old ryan. sex ensues. all the while she still chats with other older men online. mia sees how her life has changed. she no longer walks to the local dollar tree to buy school supplies but finds herself there picking up multiple pregnancy tests instead. she no longer sees worth in life, between fcking aimlessly with older men, jogging on the treadmill with her 85-pound body and lying to her parents. Open Question: Is it wrong for me to be excited to be pregnant?I'll start off by saying that I am only 18. However I'm incredibly mature for my age. My mother left my family just about two years ago and in that time I became the only woman in the house with my father, my brother, my boyfriend and my uncle. Therefore I do all of the cleaning and looking after everything, I control the finances and I have already taken care of Christmas :). I am attending university and I was given 18 credits directly from high school, therefore I can take a semester off without losing anything. This means my baby will be born around August (August 6th as a due date), and I'll take the following semester off so that my baby is 5 months old before I go back to university. Money isn't really a problem either. I've always wanted to be a young mother... so I'm really excited. I don't think that my grandparents will feel the same way though. How can I stay happy when I'm not sure how others will feel? Because of my age (I'll be 19 when I have this baby) should I feel guilty? Do you think that in my situation, having a child is the wrong thing to do? My father even talks to the animals and says, "Go see Mom". lol, so I've turned into the maternal figure of the house. Open Question: He can be so controlling?I've been with my boyfriend for about a year and 3 or 4 months. We love each other to death and we are great for each other. I don't ask for much. And he always wants to know what I want to do and I'm usually okay with everything. And the thing is like this is just an example. But like today we were talking about future and we are both 20 and obviously we are not going to have kids till we are at least 28. Anyways, well I said "I want to take our kids to church sometimes." and he's all like "No" like no questoin. No hesitation. I'm not super religious. I'm not. My parents raised me to be open minded with all religions and I totally agree. I do believe in God. And I think he's important. But it's more of like my parents raised me to like we all go to church every sunday. Then once I reached 13 it was my choice to go to church or not just make sure you know God exists. That sort of thing. Again I'm very open. Well he was kind of like "I don't have a religion. I don't want to take our kids to church." And I'm like "But I still think it's important in some way. Fine, you don't need to go I'll just take them." and he's all like "No i'm not having that either. Kids are not going to church." and it was done. I do love him. But he can be so dominant like that. He even admitted it that things need to go his way. And it angers him greatly that i'm still talking to my ex after he cheated on my one or two times. And i'm just like "He hasn't done anything to me as a friend. and he knows what he did was wrong." and my boyfriend is all like "I don't care he's a bad person. I don't want you talking to him. I don't want you having anything to do with him." and heaven forbid if I text him and ask how he's doing. And I understand where he's coming from, like okay this guy hurt me a bit and i'm still talking to him. But I just don't like how he seems so forceful about it. And then like my friend brought over a little kitten because it was thrown out the window. I took him in and my boyfriend got all mad. And I will admit the kitten is a bit psycho. and randomly bites hair, attacks back,etc. But we are getting him fixed and declawed soon and he is about 5months so hopefully his behaivor will tone done. But when the kitten attacks his back he gets really mad and it's all about him all of assudent and it's like "I didn't want the stupid cat and now I have to deal with this!" and I'm just like..."I'm paying for the cat, your not doing anything, and your not the only one he attacks." and Ugh. I do love him but I don't know if this is going to be a huge problem in the relationship down in the road. He is a great guy, It's just that 95% of the time if he doesn't want to do something he won't. And if I want to do something he does not want to he's always kind of "eh. I really don't want to but I know you want to." and then I end up being like "No. Don't worry about it then. we won't do that." and eh. I just feel so trapped yet he's so great and understands me and everything just with these things it's kind of like he always has to be in charge. Open Question: Need serious advice. Boyfriend addicted to opiates. Recovered addict advice?Specifically, he's addicted to opioid painkillers such as hydrocodone, etc. He has hid this addiction from everyone: myself, his family, and his friends. Apparently, this has been an ongoing problem with him since he was 18 (he's now 22). He has never gone so much as a 6 months without using. As soon as his family and I discovered this, we immediately arranged for an intervention, and his placement in a rehabilitation facility. I am having such trouble coping with the fact that he has been lying to all of us the entire time. I dated him for nearly two years, and he hid everything so well. He desperately wants help, and told me that he tried to ween himself off of the drugs but was not successful. As I write this, his parents are en route to his place to detain him and place him in rehab. He has repeatedly begged me to stand by him throughout the process of getting clean, but I don't believe I am capable of it. He has lied to me, and even stolen prescription medication from my father. This in an individual who is not a monster, but simply someone whose mind is twisted by the opiates. When clean, he is a wonderful and honest person. Am I doing the right thing by staying away? I don't plan on ever dating him again, but at this point I don't even know if I have it in me to be supportive because I'm so angry at him. Open Question: Can you give me advice on this (shorter)?I'm 22, female, and not in college. I'm trying to decide whether to go to college now and take out loans, or ask dad to pay for it, causing him to take out loans (He would, but I really don't want him to have to do that). On the other hand, I thought about not going to college yet and spending a year working and living with my parents (like I do now) while saving up money (e.g. $10k to $15k), then putting most of it into a mutual fund to sit during those 4 years of school (and beyond) so that it could gain interest, and putting the rest into savings. Another thing I thought of instead of college was starting a business. I have a business idea that I think might work. I would need startup money, though, meaning I'd probably have to work for about 6 to 8 months and then put nearly all of that money into the business. The downside is that if it failed, I would lose all of that money and time. But the upside is that if I don't take out business loans, and only use cash that I have, I don't run the risk of debt or other problems. Also, age is a factor. I started at 22, I would be a minimum 26 by the time I graduated. I don't want to be left out or visibly older than the other students, especially as a female when so much emphasis is put on looks and age (for peer acceptance, finding a boyfriend if they're mostly under 22 on campus, etc.). One last thing I was thinking about is music, since I've been told by music teachers I'm good at it. Linda Perry also got a late start, at 20, and she went on to do very well. I could devote all of my time to that instead if I thought it would work out. Thanks for reading. What do you think I should do? Open Question: My boyfriend takes too long to cum and it's a real problem!?I don't mind putting in work I mean I like to please him and our sex life is very good and active but he takes a bloody long time to cum! It takes him about an hour if not more to reach that point, he assures me he likes having sex and that it feels good but I feel a little sad because I feel like I am doing something wrong. He tells me I am not and he does enjoy it but it's getting me down :) Does anyone else have this problem? Is there anything I could do to perhaps speed up this process because I am knackerd by the end of it all and sometimes it'd be nice to just have a quickie :S. Open Question: Intimacy problem? HELP?I meet a lot of nice guys. A lot of times, after 2 weeks of meeting them, they tell me they're in love with me. I push them away because after two weeks, I still don't know enough about them to consider them a friend, let alone a lover. I can't give them a fair answer because giving in would mean the start of a relationship I'm not sure I want to have and it would be unfair to him if the spark doesn't ignite. I feel like I'd be leading them on. I tried giving guys a chance, hoping --against my gut feeling-- that somehow I'd fall in love with them too. But I never did. I never had many boyfriends. The men I liked were always taken and I'm not the kind of girl to try and pry a man away from his gf. Because I know that if I succeed, some other girl will come along and do the same to me. So, what to do? Is it me? Girls around me seem to fall in love so effortlessly, but for me it takes a while. The last time I've been really into someone, it was married guy--and as you can guess I didn't pursue him. Open Question: My boyfriend can't ejaculate or orgasm, what is going on?We have been together for a while now and we are very intimate and have a sexual relatinoship. I have no problems having an orgasm, but he has NEVER had one. This make me feel like a piece of crap. He swears its not me and that he can't even ejaculate while doing it to himself, but it still bugs me and worries me. Do you have any suggestions that I can do for him? More Recent Articles
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