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Open Question: does he like me? or should i give up, and just be friends with him, like we already are? HELP ME!? and more... Open Question: does he like me? or should i give up, and just be friends with him, like we already are? HELP ME!?my ex boyfriend and i were hanging out as friends though. well sometime ago he told me that he would kiss me, and he DID kiss me. but we're NOT dating. he does things to me that he would do to a girlfriend, but i don't have a problem with that, because he still knows that i like him a lot. he always touches me, and i touch him too, mostly because he doesn't care, he likes it when i touch him, and i do too. Friday, at school, he saved me a spot so we could sit together. he walked with me the entire day. we made up silly jokes. (and MOST importantly, i had gotten my phone taken away and i was using my grandma's phone so i could talk to him. he was all caring because he said, "i don't want you to get into anymore trouble."). he made me feel like he still likes me, but some times i don't know. please tell me, what do you people think? does he still like me? i get the feeling like he's gunna say/do something on my birthday, which is in 7 days. is he planning on asking me out? or are we gunna be friends forever, like he said? THANK YOU VERY MUCH FOR ALL THE HELP! :) Open Question: I need some insight on my boyfriend... I'm about to go crazy trying to figure him out! Please help?Long but PLEASE read. He is 30 and I am 25. We dated last year for about 4 months... things were amazing, he told me he loved me, it was awesome then things fell apart because he decided he wasn't ready for another relationship (just got out of a 10 year one), he broke my heart. I begged and pleaded. He would call me at 2am to "come out for a bit" and then wouldn't talk to me the next day. I was miserable and just wanted another chance. Well, about 5 months ago came that chance. He told me he was ready, a lot thats on his plate is gone and he is clear-minded. We had a BLAST over the summer, bonfires by ourselves, fishing, going to the beach, etc. We are PERFECT together and we don't need anyone else. We have so much fun alone and just click. We spend every weekend together and it wasn't like that the first time we dated. Things took a turn for the worst about 2 weeks ago. He seemed distant, not as loving, didn't kiss me as much and didn't seem "into" me (a girl can sense this change), still spent all of his free time with me tho, cuddled me and held me in bed, laughed with me and took me to family functions. He never tells me how he feels. So Saturday I brought it up, and he said he "just can't tell me he loves me" and he has been through a lot... he said I'm awesome, he likes what we have right now, etc. and its more than just friends. He does still take me to family functions, buys food for me when we go out (gets me a drink even tho I said I didn't need one) and is nice to me. But the texting "good morning babe" has stopped, I called him tonight and he didn't call me back, stopped texting back, stopped making plans first but still agrees with me on plans... hangs out with me all the time still, but doesn't ask for kisses anymore... hardly ever kisses me and when I kiss him it seems forced. We hang out all the time on weekends so I know there is not another girl - but his sex drive has dropped off too. We used to have sex 2-3 times a week now its down to once every 7-10 days or so...I know he is having money problems and is stressed about his job, but still! I ask him whats wrong and get "why does something always have to be wrong? im just stressed and really tired" I don't want to lose him and I don't know why but I don't. I love him so much, I could never see myself with anyone else, It would make me sick to have him leave my life and potentially be with another woman. Today I texted him and told him to have a good day and got "you too babe" back. I don't know. I'M SO CONFUSED and I can't talk to him anymore or it will push him away more. Some of my friends think he is keeping me around to fill an empty house hoping his ex will come back. Others think I'm over reacting. What should I do? Open Question: Do you think my little brother has ADD or ADHD?my half brother is in the custody of his mother, who lives over three hours ways from our father. We are in a court battle for full custody of him. He does bad in school and has changed schools over 7 times in the past 5 years because of his mother moving around with boyfriends ETC.. He is also left home alone alot by his mother and is allowed to stay up as long as he wants, he has free Access to the internet and is allowed to do whatever he wants. As the custody hearing gets closer his mother has come up with a reason he is failing school.ADD or AD-HD. My family feels that if he had a sound living environment, rules and structure he would do much better in school. I myself struggled in school, but my other brother has gotten straight A's and plans to be a doctor. He is a smart boy, not hyperactive, but he has been fighting in school and on the bus and has even been suspended. Do you think his behavior is because of his mother, or do you think he really has a problem with ADD or ADHD.?? he is twelve. He has been to doctors with no real results. My family is against him being on medication. Yet no one has proven he has ADD or any type of diorder. Open Question: I need some insight on my 30 y/o boyfriend... please help!?Long but PLEASE read. He is 30 and I am 25. We dated last year for about 4 months... things were amazing, he told me he loved me, it was awesome then things fell apart because he decided he wasn't ready for another relationship (just got out of a 10 year one), he broke my heart. I begged and pleaded. He would call me at 2am to "come out for a bit" and then wouldn't talk to me the next day. I was miserable and just wanted another chance. Well, about 5 months ago came that chance. He told me he was ready, a lot thats on his plate is gone and he is clear-minded. We had a BLAST over the summer, bonfires by ourselves, fishing, going to the beach, etc. We are PERFECT together and we don't need anyone else. We have so much fun alone and just click. We spend every weekend together and it wasn't like that the first time we dated. Things took a turn for the worst about 2 weeks ago. He seemed distant, not as loving, didn't kiss me as much and didn't seem "into" me (a girl can sense this change), still spent all of his free time with me tho, cuddled me and held me in bed, laughed with me and took me to family functions. He never tells me how he feels. So Saturday I brought it up, and he said he "just can't tell me he loves me" and he has been through a lot... he said I'm awesome, he likes what we have right now, etc. and its more than just friends. He does still take me to family functions, buys food for me when we go out (gets me a drink even tho I said I didn't need one) and is nice to me. But the texting "good morning babe" has stopped, I called him tonight and he didn't call me back, stopped texting back, stopped making plans first but still agrees with me on plans... hangs out with me all the time still, but doesn't ask for kisses anymore... hardly ever kisses me and when I kiss him it seems forced. We hang out all the time on weekends so I know there is not another girl - but his sex drive has dropped off too. We used to have sex 2-3 times a week now its down to once every 7-10 days or so...I know he is having money problems and is stressed about his job, but still! I ask him whats wrong and get "why does something always have to be wrong? im just stressed and really tired" I don't want to lose him and I don't know why but I don't. I love him so much, I could never see myself with anyone else, It would make me sick to have him leave my life and potentially be with another woman. Today I texted him and told him to have a good day and got "you too babe" back. I don't know. I'M SO CONFUSED and I can't talk to him anymore or it will push him away more. Some of my friends think he is keeping me around to fill an empty house hoping his ex will come back. Others think I'm over reacting. What should I do? Open Question: She's dating someone else.... But then again.....?I got to know this girl about six months ago. We didn't talk a lot, but even then I kinda had a thing for her. But I was dating someone else and so was she, so I just shut it all out for that time. Over the summer, while we still were both dating other people, we started txting each other out of the blue. She's such a great girl, funny, attractive and exactly my type. But again, we were dating other people, so I blocked it out. However, we didn't stop texting each other... We would talk abt everything, including problems in our current relationships. After texting for a month or so she started telling me goodnight and "sweet dreams" after we'd talk or even days when we didn't talk at all. The very first time she texted me "goodnight" she said she needed to tell someone goodnight and she needed to be told it in return before going to bed. I wondered briefly why she wasn't texting this to her boyfriend (Or maybe she did both????) But I didn't think much of it, and besides, we were still dating others. I broke up with my girlfriend a couple months ago. It was one of those bad breakups and this girl kinda helped me through it. Her random "goodnight" txts would always hit me right when I needed them. We recently hung out for the first time by her request. It was me and her along with my sister and her boyfriend. It was just at my house and we hung out and walked drove over to a nearby creek. Nothing really special.... But all this is re-sparking my feelings for her, but she is still dating her boyfriend of two years. I deliberately bring him up sometimes and she doesn't seem to eager to talk about him or even shrugs him off. But I'm worried that I may just be seeing what I want to see, like maybe I'm exaggerating this in my head or I missed a joke or something.... The actual story is that I told her that her English teacher would go easy on her if she told her she knew me. She laughed and so I threw in that she could let her boyfriend do the same, and that's when she seemed to shrug him off. So is this girl viewing me as a friend or something more? Honest answers appreciated :) Open Question: What do I do here? (Drama Filled Story Attached!!!)?I got to know this girl about six months ago. We didn't talk a lot, but even then I kinda had a thing for her. But I was dating someone else and so was she, so I just shut it all out for that time. Over the summer, while we still were both dating other people, we started txting each other out of the blue. She's such a great girl, funny, attractive and exactly my type. But again, we were dating other people, so I blocked it out. However, we didn't stop texting each other... We would talk abt everything, including problems in our current relationships. After texting for a month or so she started telling me goodnight and "sweet dreams" after we'd talk or even days when we didn't talk at all. The very first time she texted me "goodnight" she said she needed to tell someone goodnight and she needed to be told it in return before going to bed. I wondered briefly why she wasn't texting this to her boyfriend (Or maybe she did both????) But I didn't think much of it, and besides, we were still dating others. I broke up with my girlfriend a couple months ago. It was one of those bad breakups and this girl kinda helped me through it. Her random "goodnight" txts would always hit me right when I needed them. We recently hung out for the first time by her request. It was me and her along with my sister and her boyfriend. It was just at my house and we hung out and walked drove over to a nearby creek. Nothing really special.... But all this is re-sparking my feelings for her, but she is still dating her boyfriend of two years. I deliberately bring him up sometimes and she doesn't seem to eager to talk about him or even shrugs him off. But I'm worried that I may just be seeing what I want to see, like maybe I'm exaggerating this in my head or I missed a joke or something.... The actual story is that I told her that her English teacher would go easy on her if she told her she knew me. She laughed and so I threw in that she could let her boyfriend do the same, and that's when she seemed to shrug him off. So is this girl viewing me as a friend or something more? Honest answers appreciated :) More Recent Articles
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