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Open Question: advice on boyfriend, at the end of the road? 30weeks pregnant? and more... Open Question: advice on boyfriend, at the end of the road? 30weeks pregnant?I am 7 months pregnant with his baby and everything between us is good, apart from the fact he is constantly letting me down, it's got to the point where he says hes going to do something and I expect the oposite! He has promised to help me buy things for our daughter, yet he still hasn't! I decided to put my foot down and ask him every other day but still nothing has happened...I don't see what the problem is, I'm the one that has got our daughter mostly everything, he hasn't got her anything as yet...but is always on about how much of a good father he is going to be. He has also promised that he would stop going out so much, that he wants to get used to family life...nothing has changed, he managed for a few days only! It's rediculous! He has promised a trip to visit my parents in January - I can't see this happening, i really can't. Unfortunatly we don't live together because his job is far away but recently a good opportunity came up closer to us both and seems very stable! I gave him the number, he seemed very keen and he didn't ring the number! This is beyond a joke now I am so scared because he's so unreliable I can see myself going through the birth alone! I don't want to start an argument with him, but I feel like everything is going to get to me and i'm going to burst! Yet, I know if i talk to him about it, he will probably not take any notice and continue doing the same. Any advice on how I can approach this situation? It needs to be dealt with and I need to see changes or I'm leaving him as hard as it is for me to say that Open Question: advice on boyfriend, at the end of the road?I am 7 months pregnant with his baby and everything between us is good, apart from the fact he is constantly letting me down, it's got to the point where he says hes going to do something and I expect the oposite! He has promised to help me buy things for our daughter, yet he still hasn't! I decided to put my foot down and ask him every other day but still nothing has happened...I don't see what the problem is, I'm the one that has got our daughter mostly everything, he hasn't got her anything as yet...but is always on about how much of a good father he is going to be. He has also promised that he would stop going out so much, that he wants to get used to family life...nothing has changed, he managed for a few days only! It's rediculous! He has promised a trip to visit my parents in January - I can't see this happening, i really can't. Unfortunatly we don't live together because his job is far away but recently a good opportunity came up closer to us both and seems very stable! I gave him the number, he seemed very keen and he didn't ring the number! This is beyond a joke now I am so scared because he's so unreliable I can see myself going through the birth alone! I don't want to start an argument with him, but I feel like everything is going to get to me and i'm going to burst! Yet, I know if i talk to him about it, he will probably not take any notice and continue doing the same. Any advice on how I can approach this situation? It needs to be dealt with and I need to see changes or I'm leaving him as hard as it is for me to say that Open Question: MORE boyfriend problems!?OK, so I love my boyfriend, we've been dating for 9 months. He tell me he loves me, I'm all he'll ever want and need, I'm perfect for him, you know.. But he still like obsess over other girls. Like he watches movies just for the girls, like Wanted and Transformers for Megan and Angelina. I get it, they're pretty and all, but come on... And he claims he just watches them over and over again because they're amazing movies. Granted, they are good, but not that good. And when we go to the mall or something he always checks out other girls, sometimes they really aren't even that pretty. But anyways, I feel like I'm not good enough for him, and I've been really trying to be all that he'll need. But I'm so tempted to just snap and say, fine, you like those other girls better, then go for them. But i've bit my tongue on that. Any advice? Open Question: I feel like I'm "addicted" to a person - not a "crush"...a problem...?About a year ago, I got really close with this guy. I had no romantic intentions with him and was in a serious relationship. The situation exploded when he grew feelings for me, and the friendship ended overnight. I was hurt, but I slowly moved on. I still miss the friendship I had. We just got along so well. I'm still with my boyfriend from that time, and I love him dearly. I just do not understand my problem...I texted this "addiction" a few nights ago, and he says he wants to start a friendship again. I know inside that this is a terrible idea...I can feel he has a manipulative personality, but something about him draws me in. I try so hard not to contact him, and yet I did it anyways. I know that this is nothing but bad for myself, and I want it anyways... Does anyone have an experience like this? I feel so confused and frustrated with myself. Open Question: I'm out of ideas... Need help?I'm trying to figure out what to get my boyfriend for Christmas. I thought of this idea where I leave a trail of notes with clues that lead him to the next destination and ultimately leading to the location of where I've got a picnic set up with gift(s?) for him hidden in the bottom of the basket. -.-'' Here's where I come to a problem. I've no idea what to get him.. I've got one idea of a engraved flip photo frame key chain.. and an idea of making a wooden box at my grandfather's workshop and putting a key inside claiming it to be the "key to my heart". XD Corny, I know but he likes the kind of romantic stuff. I want to give him something that will just excite him. I'm not talking about like some sexy thing.. like a material possession. Thanks for answering! Open Question: A girl that I find attractive has a boyfriend, what's the best solution to this problem to make her be with me?Howdy, there was not enough space in title field, so I'll express my problem here. How it goes, I'm a student, 15yo. Not a long time ago, I saw a pretty girl in school. She's 2 years younger then me, I found her attractive. Later, after joining Facebook, I started chatting with her thought there, and later got her mobile number. She was very friendly to me, etc. Then, after about a week of chatting, I called her up yesterday, without saying her anything about my feeling, I asked her out for tomorrow. She said she's busy, then I asked Sunday, same problem. Today, moments ago, chatting with her, I found out she got a boyfriend. Without continuing our conversation, I told her I had to go, cause our chat went clumsy, so I just went out. So, now, I'm in such position. I really like a girl, don't know her much, but would like to possibly know her more and perhaps build a relationship. My problem, is her boyfriend. He's 1 year younger then me. What should I try to do? Continue chatting with her normally/Ignoring Try asking her out again/Not asking Anything else... Thanks a lot in advance, I know you can help me solve my problem! One love, - Yaroslav I know that she has a bf, etc. Yet, he's younger then me, but that's not the most important thing. The thing is I feel I'm capable of being better then him. And it just sucks, If I can't prove this to her. Just first time I meet a girl who's in relationship. Should I just wait until they brake up (but this will look stupid, as I can go and find another girl) or should I try and take her off him (but because she's only 13, she may not understand some things I'll say). Really need help, where are you those Gurus? ))) One Love. Open Question: I've been having such as bad time the past few months and it's getting worse?I could say most of it is my relationship with my boyfriend. I've been with him nearly two and a half years, and we have had problems in the past, but apart from that everything has been, well used to be amazing. He is really good friends with a womaniser, who i personally despise, and i have noticed a big change in my boyfriend since the beginning of May, as they were spending a lot of time together. We split in October due to some problems, but i could not handle it, i love him so much. But it's his friend that is making it so difficult, he's taken away the man i fell in love with and who changed my life, i get so jealous and insecure when i know they're going to meet up. On Monday, he phoned me up whilst at this guy's house and i was so upset by the way he was talking to me, it just wasn't him. We discussed it afterwards, he always apologises, but it does not take away the feelings i get. I'm not the same person i used to be, i have very low self-esteem, and the saddest thing is i love him and cannot let him go. It's coming up to christmas and this will be the 5th time without my mother who died. I never see my father as he is a selfish man who has never cared, i hardly have any family as they are all getting ill. One woman who i was so close to is dying,it's all destroying my life and i'm not sure how much more i can take. i'm sorry this was long i needed to get it all out, thank-you xxx More Recent Articles
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