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Saturday, December 12, 2009

Open Question: Need some relationship advice!? and more...

 
 



Open Question: Need some relationship advice!? and more...

Open Question: Need some relationship advice!?

Ok full story cut short. Boyfriend is going through a tough time with life and family problems, his parents broke up. He asked me to give him some time apart (not on a break we're still going out) to let him think some things over about his life. I let him and give him some space trying to understand and be patient. I pass him on friday night and he completey ignores me. He said we could still text and he would ring but when i texted him he didnt reply so i guessed maybe he didnt want to text. Another week of us having no contact and i see him on sunday night, he acts like nothing is different. Then when he's about to leave at the end he says i still need some time i'll see you on friday at youth club. Kisses me on the cheek and leaves. He doesnt come on friday night and hasnt been texting at all. What do i do now? I just need some advice if i should do anything or wait on him to be ready. thanks xx when we talked he told me it wasnt about us and he didnt want to break up.

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Open Question: how do i get her, the girl of my "dreams"?

She's the girl of my dreams and it's only freshman year in high school. I feel like a complete loner and stalker because the only words she's ever said to me was watch your head because I'm a locked under her. Sometimes I just wish I could stand up and hit my head, not make a big scene of it but enough for her to say she's sorry and then I keep her from feeling bad by saying "oh it's not your fault." Trust me I've got it from talking to her every single day, then I could date, her. I know how to get a girl. Any guy can get any girl. The problem is I'm like 2 month's new in the school and she's a sophomore and she's turning sixteen next week apparently (or so my friend said). Just because I'm new doesn't make me a loner, I'm friends with allot of people but just not her and not all 1,000 kids at the school. But people know her and say oh she's into seniors and won't date a freshman. I find that bullshit (excuse me) for two reasons: 1, she's not touching any guys -it appears she has no boyfriend. and 2, I dated a girl older than me just her age and just about as beautiful as she is... for 18 months. Long time but I made her feel good- I won her heart and she made me happy to. She's outta the picture now though. Anyways to touch base on who I am I'm fifteen and I hate bragging but Im going to spill the beans on who I am. I can buy her whatever she wants if its the holidays and birthday ect. I don't flash my wealth though I would definitely share it. I am a student pilot and whenever my friend brings it up (remember I don't brag) girls find that a plus and ask me all of these questions about it, I try and divert the attention to them because I know girls like to talk and not to ask... I know how things work I'm a gentlemen. I know exactly how to treat a girl and I am very smart with the game and through the books (academics). I'm more matured then your typical hormone raging 15 year old boy, I don't act like a idiot / jerk is what I basically am trying to say. Here's one flaw, I don't have a license or a car (will in oct '10) and she apparently likes seniors / or "go's for them not you" is what allot of my friends say. I know I can make her happy, please help and if you want any additional details give me your email in your answer. Thanks I appreciate you time.

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Open Question: my boyfriend broke up with me after being together for 3yrs. he lived in italy and i lived in uk?

his reasons for breaking up didnt make sense, it originally started as i lend him money from my mom which i had been saving to show embassy that i potenitally have to support him, although the money never belonged to me it belonged to my mom which i had to give back when he moved over for good to be with me. he knew all about this he never had money from the start of the relationship and he knew it wasnt a problem to me, but then when i texted him on how much i needed to pay my mum back because of family problems within the home and bills i needed to pay he didnt agree that i had to pay my mom back all the money before he could come to live with me for good, i told him that its a must as its not fair to be struggling then because i told my mum and he found this out through his mum he decided to ignore me i told him to face it and talk to me and he dumped me by text saying there are too many differences between us like religion, family ties, trust,fianaces, and that we couldnt stay in marriage for long i have painted him bad to my mum and that we cant stay in marriage for long.(as we were engaged) then i later find out that he things we never agree and that he made many suggestions on how he wished me to be, and that he told his mum he doesnt have money to marry and thats why he had to let me go. but i think the real reason is because of what i told my mum and also because he was probably hoping me to support him, because to me those differences we could have talked and solved or at least could have waited til we were financially stable. he even wanted to be friends i told him i cant? did i do the right thing?

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Open Question: My boyfriend comments on what I eat?

In my country people don't eat as much (in quantity or calories) and I arrived from there in September and met a guy who I was really attracted to and then we started dating after getting to know each other. He says things like "is that all you're eating" and also in my country people have fruits/vegetables for breakfast and so do I, but I know here a lot of people have eggs so he comments on that too and says "your having that for breakfast". I'm not really "hurt" by his comments but I'm concerned. Does it look like there is a problem, or does he actually mind what I eat? I don't really like to eat the things like pie that they make in our cafeteria because I don't know what they are/what is in them. Would that be a problem for our relationship?

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Open Question: Make up or leave it as it is?

Ok, I used to have a good friend and we're really close. We text each other almost everyday for the past 2 years and if we see each other on msn, we chat. Whenever I have a problem, the first person I talk to is her, and she does the same thing when she has problems with her friends and/or boyfriend. Well she's got quite a lot of friends and she's usually closer to the guys (she happens to have quite a number of close guy friends too). Sometimes we dont text each other for a day or two because one of us most likely didnt receive each others message (error, signal problem, etc), and she would be the first to ask me if I received her previous text or not. Now what happened was that her boyfriend was coming to over to visit her from another country, and she told me he might want to have sex with her. She turned to me and told me she was worried and afraid because she's not sure if she wants to lose her virginity and that she knows her boyfriend will get pissed at her if she refuse. So being a good friend, I helped her mentally and emotionally by giving her advice, etc. She had sex with her boyfriend eventually and was afraid she'll get pregnant. She texted me, saying she got a guy friend from her school to buy her a pregnancy text kit, and she couldnt stop telling me how grateful she is to him. She also mentioned that they hardly know each other and are not very close. I felt very insulted because she seems more grateful to a guy whom she hardly knows and not to me (I bet she thanked him a million times but she never said "thank you" or some sort to me). She also told me in that same text, that he's rich and he's gonna bring her out to eat something expensive. I felt insulted that I didnt bother replying her. A few days later, she didnt send me a text asking if I received her previous message or not and we havent spoken to each other (text,msn) for 3 months now. I talked to some of my other friends about this problem and they said I should just forget about it. I'm leaving soon to go back to my country to serve the military and I'm wondering if I should make up with her or leave it as it is and not make up? I know its very long, sorry, but your opinion is much appreciated.

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Open Question: SOME ONE HELP, men, I need s-x advice...?

I am a HIGHLY attractive gal. TRust me. No belly rolls here, no cellulite, no sag anywhere... nothing but tight, firm, toned, sexxxy body here...I have all my teeth, I have really big juicy lips for a white girl... big sparkling hazel eyes.... If I could best describe me, I'd say I look like Angelina Jolie. So the problem here is not my appearance I HOPE!!!!! Here's the deal: my boyfriend used to cum like CRAZY during s-x. I'm talking like at least 3 or 4 times in a row during one sex session. NOW, lately, He can only cum ONE TIME and he takes SOOOOO long to cum A second time in a row! HE NEVER CUMS MORE THAN ONNE FREAKING TIME nowadays?!!!! nEVER! WHAT AM I DOING WRONG? I FEEL LIKE SO UNNATTRACTIVE because of this! It is ruining my self confidence. HELLO i look like angelina jolie... no ugliness here... so what IS THE PROBLEM!? could it be that I have a hard time getting moist/wet? because my birth conrtol dries me up. IS THAT CAUSING HIM TO NOT BE ABLE TO CUM? I am sorry if this seems immature, but my hormones are RAGING.

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Open Question: Having a problem with Trojan Ecstasy condoms... What is the lubricant?

My boyfriend and I usually use the Trojan Ultra Thin condoms with no problems, but a friend recommended the Ecstasy and we decided to give it a try to see if it lived up to the hype. However, we have now used it twice and each time it has caused an uncomfortable itching that last for a day or two. I know that they call it the "Ultra Smooth Lubricant," but was wondering if anyone could tell me what it actually is so that we can avoid it in the future.

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