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Open Question: My boyfriend says he doesn't care if I were to sleep with other guys....? and more... Open Question: My boyfriend says he doesn't care if I were to sleep with other guys....?I have been dating my current boyfriend for 6 months now. At the beginning of the relationship we had a long conversation on jealousy, and he expressed to me that he's never felt that emotion towards any of his previous girlfriends because he feels that it leads to irrational behavior and can consequently harm the relationship. I completely agreed with him on that part but he continued to say that he wouldn't even care if his exes slept with other people as long as it made them happy. When he first told me this I thought that it must have just been a way of protecting himself from his previously slutty girlfriends and unhealthy relationships by convincing himself "he didn't care". I thought that as time went by and our realtionship grew stronger, that he might feel differently towards me and maybe show some emotion when it came to feelings of jealousy. But he's repeatedly expressed to me that he doesn't care if i were to see other guys or even if I were to have sexual relations with them because love has nothing to do with lust. I told him that his way of thinking concerned me because I'd certainly have a problem if he were to cheat on me and he assured me that he only wants my happiness and that he'd never do anything to hurt me. I just don't know what to think...I don't find it normal for a person not to care at all about their partner's relations with the opposite sex. I'm not saying for him to be a jealous nutjob but I just feel like his not caring about this kind of stuff is another way of saying that what's between us is not serious. I see it as human nature to be just a bit jealous because of the natural fear of losing someone you really care about...I don't know, is it just me?? What do you think? Open Question: PLEASE HELP ME WITH MY PROBLEM!?Soo.. I'm making a scrapbook for my boyfriend for our 1 year anniversary.. The scrapbook is going to be filled with 365 reasons why I love him(365 because there's 365 days in a year)I'm on reason 300 and i only need 65 more. I need help with the 65... I already have obvious reasons like his smile, humor, the way he sleeps, etc. Please help me thanks(: Open Question: Boyfriend problems. advice please?Ok full story cut short. Boyfriend is going through a tough time with life and family problems, his parents broke up. He asked me to give him some time apart (not on a break we're still going out) to let him think some things over about his life. I let him and give him some space trying to understand and be patient. I pass him on friday night and he completey ignores me. He said we could still text and he would ring but when i texted him he didnt reply so i guessed maybe he didnt want to text. Another week of us having no contact and i see him on sunday night, he acts like nothing is different. Then when he's about to leave at the end he says i still need some time i'll see you on friday at youth club. Kisses me on the cheek and leaves. He doesnt come on friday night and hasnt been texting at all. What do i do now? I just need some advice if i should do anything or wait on him to be ready.? thanks xx Open Question: I need some help getting over rape.?When I was in the 6th grade I was raped by my boyfriend. I am now 22 years old and still have nightmares, flashbacks, etc. I have been with my fiance for 3 years now and still have problems being Intimate with him. To make things worse, I am pregnant right now so I feel very unattractive. I have learned to live with my rape for the most part, but now that sex if the FURTHEST thing from my mind it's starting to put some strain on our relationship. I need some help getting through this. I want to move on with my life. It's been almost 10 years and I still see his face everywhere I go. I don't know what to do. I have been to counseling, been on antidepressants, talked to friends and family. Nothing helps. I just need a little help... Thanks More Recent Articles
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