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Open Question: I'm attached to my boyfriend and im scared, advice please? and more... Open Question: I'm attached to my boyfriend and im scared, advice please?i've been with my boyfriend for 14 months now,, and it seems like i'm becoming more jealous than ever. were not a perfect couple(but, honestly, what couple is?), we fight, we argue. but its because we love each other why our problems just seem to solve themselves. but one of our last fights, he broke up with me because he felt that i was'nt happy with him. but we went back together because he said he really doesnt want to loose me and i'm the only girl he's ever felt this way about. he parties, goes out with his friends almost everyday, he forgets to text me sometimes. i feel so sad when he doesn't talk to me. as if i did something wrong. i go out with my friends too but i'm always thinking about him. and so many girls are always flirting with him, and i can't stand it. i've talked to him about it but he just says "i'm with you. not them. i love you", but i still can't seem to get that through my head. we are both so close. we are at that stage were we dont care how we look. i can walk around and burp, or have a booger, and he takes it out for me. that's how comfortable we are with each other. i love him. someone help me. i dont wanna have to loose the only person who truly understands me. Open Question: Boyfriend problem! :O?I like my boyfriend a lot, he's being to mean a lot to me. I joke with my friends about "tapping that ass" the way guys joke about girls. But the truth is I'm afraid to take my boyfriends virginity... Could this be a big problem? Or am I just over thinking it. Open Question: Should I moved or he should move ?I am dating a guy for 3 years now. I have a son 6 years old. I like him a lot and he claims that he loves me and want to be with me and my son. He is good for my son, responsible, hard working guy. But there is one big problem. I live in one city and he lives in another one - 5 hours driving. He has a very, very good job over there and I know he does not want to loose this job.I have a son here that the real father has a visitation schedule. I spoke with my lawyer and he told me that if I would like to relocate it will be very hard but its not impossible. However if I relocate my ex will have all holidays, extended vacation etc. I am not sure if I will like that. On the other hand I don't see any other solution for us in order to be together. I am kind of tired see him only for the weekend. Plus is time I think to think about something serious between us. My boyfriend told me that he want to get married but first he would like to see if I can move. What do you think about that situation ? Open Question: Help me with my boyfriend problem?i was going out with a guy for three days then broke up dont ask why then he asked me out and i said yeah so we did so we went out for two days before Thanksgiving break then all for break when we got back he was not hanging with me as usual then i saw my friend and him cuddling in line since it was cold but at that time i thought we were still going out since no one told me anything not even him so then i wrote him a note and said what is going on since in class my to her friend said oh you and detray still like each other and i said were going out since know one told me anything then she blurted it across the class are you going out with liana and natalia said no he is going out with me and im just like what no one told me anything so he said he does not want to be commited anymore so i guess we Broke up (is this considered breaking up) so then he left then i asked natalia and she said the way things are going they probably going to go out and im am really sad so this morning i saw them together again and it was sad and last period i said hey are you guys going out and she said yes and i told her did you know that we were going out she was like really i did not know which she did and she still going out with him so she stole my boyfriend and she acts likes nothings wrong what should i do? Open Question: cheating one time???? what does it mean?my boyfriend of a couple months cheated on me. it was with this girl who always caused problems in the relatipnship because she was jealous and couldn't handle that i was with him. she was at his house to "talk" (hes very oblivious to these things) and she kissed him (idk what happened afterwards but it was short and thats all they did). i may have understood this if he told me when it happened, cas she is a bitch, but he never told me. and i found out a less then a motnh later frmo someone else. they are miserable and very sorry and sulking all the time. they say this was the same night that he realized he loved me (really loved me) when he kissed her. i have so much self respect, so i dumped him right away. but im just curious, he sounds soooooo sincere and no ones ever seen him like this,,,can he change? does he mean it? i mean it was 3 weeks before i found out....and we are only in high school (and im not stupidm, i can tell when people means things. im known as an insightful person. but one a liar always a liar? once a cheater always a cheater?) my friends who i respect their opinions think this is some sort of epiphany for him... i also wanna hear some feedback from people who have personally cheated on their gf/bf im just curious to what you tink!!!! Open Question: so my boyfriend changed after dealing with drugs?so my boyfriend which is also my child's father started smoking weed again with his brother and his friends. at first i didnt find it a problem or anything i just thought okay maybe it wont be that bad. so i joined with him also for a very short period of time. then i decided to quit, it just wasnt me anymore. i was against it. so he countinued to smoke and now i want him to stop but it results in him getting offensive. i dont want to be offensive nor rude but it seems as tho now that he smokes he has become lazy and its like im doing everything by myself. when ever i need him he's never around and im tired of it. he leaves me with her all the time and he dont do nothing. im tired of it. i dont wanna break up wit him bt pple are tellin me to do things like that. i dont know what to do advice? Open Question: Girl problems... What should i do?So there is this girl in my school and she has a boyfriend but everytime i pass by her or i look at her shes always checkin me out nd givin me flirtacious looks. I've been told that shes not really into her boyfriend and at first I didnt want to make a move on her because she has a bf but I've been thinking and now I wantto introduce myself to her...should I? and what exactly should I say? Open Question: do you like this storyline?this story tells of a teenage girl (mia) who has gone through too much too fast. it starts in her adolescent years where she was an outcast in school. she would skip lunch everyday and sit at the outside benches by herself for fear of having no one to eat with. she's antisocial and only considers one other her friend yet they hold a competitive relationship. in the summer before high school, she begins to eat normally but notices weight gain. this marks the start of her troubles with eating disorders, sliding from bulimia to binge eating and back. she keeps this a secret, the first of many. she also deals with image problems and low self esteem but in her transition to high school, her facial features have matured womanly and model-like. in all, she turns into an attractive female at age 14. mia catches her young math teacher amazed by her but she ignores him. although gaining a few more friends, she remains in her mute stage, now spending her lunch time in the school library. she puts her focus in her classes and becomes a 4.0 student. she continues this into her sophomore year, being the high achieving student she is, the weight-obsessed freak she is, and the beauty (in the eyes of everyone else) she is. she becomes suicidal when pressed by the pressures of the above. she suddenly finds herself doing worse in her classes, struggling with weight gain and loss, and deeply ugly. she has episodes of mental breakdowns. then she manages to find some positivity by the end of the school year. she ends it with a 4.2 GPA and eases off about her looks. the summer before junior year, she begins talking to older men online out of boredom. she realizes she has never been in a relationship before so she attempts to see how she affects men. the precocious 16 year old charms men in their 20s in chats and later on, her webcam. this begins her numerous cybering sessions, many of them lasting into the early am. the men loved her and she the loved the attention. she was a genius in that her parents never detected any foul play from her. the summer ended on a sweet note for her. her junior year of high school was tough and she knew it. she does well in her classes, including 4 APs, but as time went on, her work ethic falters. her low self esteem came back as well when she begins binge eating at buffets. she finds herself loving food but hates gaining weight so she binges and starves and binges and starves. she keeps her thin body frame but struggles mentally. in a chatroom, 16 year old mia meets 24 year old john. not only were they involved online but this time, mia has find herself a boyfriend. living 30 minutes away, he oftentimes picks her up and the two engage in sex. her parents were clueless that their daughter was sneaking out at 2am and not really studying at the library on sundays. mia and john lost touch after 3 months. she then meets 28 year old ryan. sex ensues. all the while she still chats with other older men online. mia sees how her life has changed. she no longer walks to the local dollar tree to buy school supplies but finds herself there picking up multiple pregnancy tests instead. she no longer sees worth in life, between fcking aimlessly with older men, jogging on the treadmill with her 85-pound body and lying to her parents. Open Question: I feel as if i'm being forced into a relationship. help!?here's the situation. I used to go out with this girl years ago, we had a rocky breakup but we stayed friends over the years (purely platonic). I know that she wanted something more over the years, but I felt that I needed to focus on building my dream career in the arts. After all of the years that have past (take note i'm in my late twenties), the fruits of my labor are finally starting to show. I don't know when but she had come back into my life, I'm not sure what to make of it. Sometimes it does feel like something more than "just friends" but I bring myself back to earth, and refocus on what's happening at the moment. I focus on what I feel is most important, and thats creating art. lately she keeps asking me "why can't I be your girlfriend" and things in that context, I've let her know upfront I just don't feel as if I can be in a relationship at the moment. There have been moments this year when I feel as if she's given me ultimatums through letters, and emails stating how she feels. Its been rough, because there were moments she was sending me these letters/messages and I was on the brink of being either evicted from my apartment, or just trying to figure out how I could survive on a few dollars for the next few weeks (My career in the arts is not stable but allows me to do the work I want) . Sometimes I would just read the letters and I'd laugh and ask myself "she can't be serious, not at a time like this". I was reading these letters under high levels of stress and frustration, and it would have been easy to lay that out on her but I never let people know the stuff that i'm going through in life and I never try to put it down on them as well. If its my problem, then its my problem and I have to figure out a way to deal with it and survive (thats that). It just seems as if more and more, Its I have to be "her boyfriend", and sometimes this ish seems so childish to me (especially at our age..late twenties). She throws fits and gets very upset about this, especially when I visit her. Her behavior turns into something very rude and condescending, and I don't tolerate it one bit. She has a beautifully personality, and thats what I really love about her...all those little tidbits that make her who she is. Thats what attracted me to her in the first place all those years ago, but on the other hand I will not be forced into a relationship (especially if my gut feeling tells me i'm not ready for it). I'm just looking for some advice on how to deal with this situation. Thanks Open Question: Would you put up with her?so i have this girl friend and she's dating my best guy friend who is also BFF's with my boyfriend so we have this little square going on. ever since our boyfriends left for college things have been different. she treats me like dirt, always suspects me of being up to something, acts like she knows more than me and just...isn't much of a friend anymore. i want to kinda disassociate myself from her but i dont think i can because of our "square". my boyfriend says i should do what makes me happy, and her boyfriend really could care less. i guess the biggest problem is that i always back down because these people are older than me and i dont feel like gettin in this huge fight. help! what would you do? Open Question: im having a big issue right now. help?okay. ive been with my boyfriend for 14 months. i broke up with him because we had alot of problems and while i was with him i met this guy that was his friend and he is like everything i want. but im kinda way younger and ive hung out with him the past couple of nights and i just adore his personality too. and i think my boyfriend talked to him and now hes not answering his fone but i also dont know if hes busy. should i call or what??? idk.. More Recent Articles
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