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Open Question: Ex Boyfriend Threatening Suicide And Says It's All My Fault!? and more... Open Question: Ex Boyfriend Threatening Suicide And Says It's All My Fault!?I broke up with my boyfriend a few weeks ago. I am 16 he is 15. I felt he was emotionally abusive and the relationship was not good for me so I ended it. We had tried it once before and it ended the same way. He was very controlling and manipulative and I just couldn't take it anymore. When we broke up we tried to keep things on good terms but he started playing the pity card to his friends and posting hurtful things on his facebook. I tried to ignore it but I felt like I shouldn't let him get away with it so I challenged him on what he was doing because I didn't think it was fair that he was trashing me publically and trying to hurt me. He sent me an email today telling me I had ruined his life and he was on suicide watch and that he was going to cut his own throat. I am scared to death. What if he actually does this? He comes from a very dysfunctional family and I know that is why he acts the way he does but he is blaming me for all his problems. What should I do? My parents are freaking out that he is going to do something to me! Open Question: Roommate won't pay back bills?Hi, I've been having a little problem since I moved into my boyfriend's place. One of our roommates wasn't paying his share of the bills before I moved in, because my boyfriend wouldn't take care of the breakdowns and let him slide for so long. Since he isn't good with bills, he wanted me to take over. Now, our roommate owes over $500. I've talked to him regarding his situation, and he told me that he's not working. I explained to him that I would be happy with a payment of even as little as $15-20 per month (I'm not working either, but I still manage to pay my back bills owed like this - our state is very good as far as unemployment goes, and there's really no reason for him not to be able to pay this little on it.) However, bills came around this month, and he didn't include a payment on his owed bills. I'd like to know what, if anything, I can do in this situation, as it is making it very difficult for us to pay our bills. My boyfriend and I can't support his portion of the bills, and we are reduced to paying the bill that is in line to be shut off. My boyfriend gets very defensive of our roommate (not really sure why, since he's causing such a strain on his finances), saying that "he's not working", "he's made a payment already," (months ago), etc. I really don't want our utilities to be shut off, and any insight on this would be greatly appreciated. Thanks! Open Question: how to make my relationship better?my boyfriend and i have been having a lot of problems lately and we are both not to happy at the moment. first we fight because he doesn't show his feeling towards me and he always acts like somethings wrong and when i ask if something is wrong then he says " i am fine now stop asking" but you can really tell that somethings bothering him. He doesn't tell me anything anymore like he used too and he says i have trust issues because i don't believe him but how should i make my trust better? i guess if thats the right question? we agreed to be together and try to make things work but he wants me to work on my trust problem so i need help???? how am i suppose to do that? Open Question: Are we (my new boyfriend and me) moving too fast?We're both in our early 20's and we've never been in a relationship before, so I hope you guys can help me out. :) Okay, to keep things simple, here's a timeline: Week 1-2: We were introduced and started casually chatting online. We ended up chatting for hours about anything and everything. Week 3: We started going out almost everyday. We'd stay up for hours just talking and enjoying eachother's company. He'd find excuses to drop by the house or stay longer. Week 4: He went abroad for a week and I've never found myself missing someone more than I missed him during this time. He's also told me he's been losing sleep the whole week from missing me. We've been communicating with eachother the whole time. He flew back here last night and drove straight to my house. We hung out and then he told me that he loves me and asked me to be his girlfriend. And now we're a couple! He seems to be head over heels with me, but I kind of feel guilty for telling him I loved him too just so he wouldn't feel bad because I don't really know if I love him yet (for me it's too early to tell) although I do really, really like him. The truth is, I have no problems with this whole "whirlwind" thing. I just want to know if this stuff happens in "real" life and if it's possible that he really does love me. Open Question: my problem is i cut myself (alot)?so im 15 and ive been doing this for about 4 years some of my friends know and one of there moms. It started cuz my first boyfriend abused me and threatened to rape me. and from then on i couldn't stop. ive tried so many times! And it got to points were i wouldn't smile unless i did it. andyes ive tried to kill myself. My parents dont know they would flip on me, can anyone help me give me tips on how to stop plzz Open Question: GIRL PROBLEMS!?! i need help ill pick best answer within a day!?Okay so this girl is a very cute girl. I have messaged her before on facebook by the mail way almost a year ago. And it was alright messaging until she just stop messaging one day. Then i never talked to her ever again. About a month ago it was my friends sweet 16 and the girl was there at the party. She gave me some eye contact from a distance but never talked. This girl has not had a boyfriend all of her high school yet and she is a sophmore and i am a junior. We dont go to the same high schools but they are very close. I have no clue what to do because i am shy, and the only way to talk to her is through facebook, and i am not going to mail message her again because that would be creepy, i would rather message through the facebook chat. I just dont have enough guts to do it because im affraid of after whats up that it will go no where. This girl is like a dream for me to have and i could use any/the best advice possible, so please help me out. Maybe you could give some confidence or what to say? Thank you! Open Question: Why would God do this?I have called myself a Christian all my life until very recently I've been teeter-tottering on the fence. My life has been less than great the last few years and I would say everything started with a miscarriage. I was very much in love with my soon-to-be firstborn but when I went for an ultrasound I learned the baby was not developing and would probably soon die. I went back 6 days later to only see a sac of blood and tissue where my child once was. After that, I hated.. no.. despised pregnancy and pregnant women. I avoided seeing them at all costs because it only reminded me of my loss and how no one understood my pain. It seemed like everywhere I went someone was pregnant. Many of my friends became pregnant. I became depressed and usually ended up with my friends at a bar after work to smoke and drink the rest of the day off. 5 months after my miscarriage my boyfriend and I found out I was pregnant again despite being on the pill. I now have a PERFECT 8 month old son who means the world to me but my life certainly hasn't gotten easier since he's come into my life. This last week has been so tough on us and I'm trying so hard not to cry thinking about it right now. We've had tons of expensive car problems, sickness, someone trying to break into our apartment, our washing machine overflowed and sent 10+ gallons of water onto our carpet, I have crazy family issues, and I've got thousands of dollars of hospital and doctor bills floating over my head that I can't afford to pay. I know a lot of this sounds like "life" but this isn't even the half of it. What I don't understand is why does God keep allowing these terrible things to happen to me? I was always told that God would only give you as much as you can take but I've reached my breaking point long ago. I'm almost numb to things anymore because I constantly walk around knowing something bad will happen. I'm miserable but I can't afford to see a doctor. If it weren't for my son, I wouldn't want to live. I know and have read the story of Job many times but he was a much stronger person than me. He knew God was real and he stood strong because he had a very strong faith. I don't. I don't even know IF I have any faith. Wouldn't God try to BLESS someone like me, or at least not make there life complete Hell? What could he possibly be trying to "teach" someone who isn't even sure of Him? It's hard to make me feel good or encouraged by telling me "God is testing you!" because I feel like resenting Him sometimes. Actually, most of the time I feel like resenting Him. And all the other times I just feel like I was dealt bad cards and just have to deal with it. I know this is long and stupid and venting but I guess I just needed someone to talk to. :/ If you're still reading, thank you. And I guess my question is this: Why would God do this to me? Why is He letting my life be so terrible and never giving me anything positive (other than my son) or showing me "the light at the end of the tunnel"? Why would He allow someone who hasn't been really certain of their faith get SO down and depressed that they totally question His existence? Any answers or encouragement is welcome. Thanks. Open Question: How to Gain a Good Friend Back (Help Please! May Involve Some Thought)?I don't know what to do! Just yesturday I was minding my business and my bestfriend's girlfriend called me things like a b**** and when I started to defend myself she told my bestfriend! Now, you see his girlfriend is soo jealous because me and my best friend (a guy) are always talking to each other on the phone and just so close. And btw My bestfriend was once was my boyfriend, and she (the girlfriend) found out and got even MORE jealous. She also accused me of trying to steal him from her. By that point I went off on her (this was through text unfortunately) Anyway, on to the problem: She didn't tell him the full story so he got upset that I called his gf all this stuff when I never started it! Then he did something I never thought he'd ever do in my lifetime. My "bestfriend" sent me a long text about how im the biggest slut on the face of planet earth and just went on about how "horrible" I am. Of course it made me cry. 1. Because I didn't know where this anger was comming from 2. He promised he'd never call me anything like the things he called me 3. It wasn't like him. But there's a twist. He apologized. Next day he took it back and claimed I didn't deserve it. His girlfriend had won at that point. So what I wanna know is: SHould I try to explain to him the full story and gain him as a friend oooorrr should I just forget about it and never talk to someone like that anyways. Tell me. Explain. Be as harsh as you want, I need to know so the hurt can go away! Thanks, God Bless Ps: I care for him more than I can explain. Even though sometimes he can be mean to me but he told me not too long ago that he loves me... I love him to and I hoped maybe one day we'd be together again. Help? Open Question: how to make him my boyfriend?hey everyone! who knows how to make this boy like me? without scaring him or anything, haha. so here's my problems with this.. (please don't say anything negative it will make me feel un-confident) He doesn't go to the same school. thats okay with me because rumors wont start or anything. i have his number :) and im not sure if he has a girlfriend and i am shy to ask. PLEASE GIVE SUGGESTIONS <33 hey everyone! who knows how to make this boy like me? without scaring him or anything, haha. so here's my problems with this.. (please don't say anything negative it will make me feel un-confident) He doesn't go to the same school. thats okay with me because rumors wont start or anything. i have his number :) and im not sure if he has a girlfriend and i am shy to ask. PLEASE GIVE SUGGESTIONS <33 ps.. he gave me his number and asked me to the mall and said he would call me when he's ready to go, but never called.. :( Open Question: Why is he such a jerk?My ex boyfriend and I had a long relationship and broke up a month ago, I was completely okay with it because I was becoming more mature inside and outside and he had many issues with that and always tried to bring me down. What girl wants a guy like that? Certainly not me. Anyways, I'm polite to him in school. If I see him, I'm not glaring at him or growling or anything like that. I have a small smile on and I say hello to him. What does he do? Well, he frowns at me, keeps his head high, and just walks away with an attitude clearly saying, "Beat it, bi*** (he talks about me behind my back a lot and refers to me as The Bi***)". I don't get it. He dumped me, why is he acting like this? I currently have a crush on one of my friends, and my ex acts so jealous! He glares at this boy that I like and looks like he's ready to punch someone in the face if he sees us even walking together. Just a friend walking with me sets this boy off. He's also been hanging out with other girls and sucking up to almost everyone (his personality is so fake and as transparent as glass) to try to make me jealous. Hah! I am anything but jealous and I could care less if he gets another girlfriend. That poor girl will have to put up with his nonsense. So, what's his problem? Why is he being so immature and a jerk? Open Question: What to do when boyfriend has very large penis?Ok so I have had a few previous partners before my current boyfriend. We just began having sex for the first time a few of days ago and it has been quite uncomfortable. He is wide (which is part of the problem), but then he is also quite long. It is painful when he goes too far and finding a rhythm is difficult. My past partners have been more average and there were never any difficulties with them. We tried using lubricant but that didn't really help a whole lot and I don't think he knows what to do about the pain either. If you could hold the sarcastic responses, that would be very much appreciated. I know I'm not the only one in the world with this problem so some genuine advice would be nice. Thank you Open Question: Relationship Problems, please help?I've always had problems with dating, I'm really shy and pretty much keep to myself. My first boyfriend I had I loved and trusted and then he left me and told me he was lying about loving me. Ever since then all my other boyfriends I wouldn't be truly committed too and I would suddenly just stop liking them for no reason. Is that a connection? How can I stop it? I don't know what's wrong Open Question: My boyfriend says he doesn't care if I were to sleep with other guys....?I have been dating my current boyfriend for 6 months now. At the beginning of the relationship we had a long conversation on jealousy, and he expressed to me that he's never felt that emotion towards any of his previous girlfriends because he feels that it leads to irrational behavior and can consequently harm the relationship. I completely agreed with him on that part but he continued to say that he wouldn't even care if his exes slept with other people as long as it made them happy. When he first told me this I thought that it must have just been a way of protecting himself from his previously slutty girlfriends and unhealthy relationships by convincing himself "he didn't care". I thought that as time went by and our realtionship grew stronger, that he might feel differently towards me and maybe show some emotion when it came to feelings of jealousy. But he's repeatedly expressed to me that he doesn't care if i were to see other guys or even if I were to have sexual relations with them because love has nothing to do with lust. I told him that his way of thinking concerned me because I'd certainly have a problem if he were to cheat on me and he assured me that he only wants my happiness and that he'd never do anything to hurt me. I just don't know what to think...I don't find it normal for a person not to care at all about their partner's relations with the opposite sex. I'm not saying for him to be a jealous nutjob but I just feel like his not caring about this kind of stuff is another way of saying that what's between us is not serious. I see it as human nature to be just a bit jealous because of the natural fear of losing someone you really care about...I don't know, is it just me?? What do you think? Open Question: my friend and her problem help please?i have a friend thats name is going to stay unknown but i fear she has a a eating disorder,, she eat small but when she eat big she goes straight to the bathroom me and her boyfriend fear for the worst,, she hypervenalates alot and passes out like once a day!can you give me advice Open Question: Im 15 and I want a baby soo bad that i have had sex with more than 3 guys this month?i think i have a problem but i want a baby! im totally prepared, i know my mom would help, i have a job, money saved up, a vehicle, a steady boyfriend, (as of last week) and i might be pregnant.. tell me where theres a problem because he and i are 100% drug free and we are very good with kids and he is 17. More Recent Articles |
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