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Monday, December 14, 2009

Open Question: You think she likes me or not? and more...

 
 



Open Question: You think she likes me or not? and more...

Open Question: You think she likes me or not?

I work with this girl and she gives me signs that shes interested but she confuses me. she laughs at pretty much every thing I say even when it's not so funny, she smiles at me every time we meet eyes, she'll look at me when I'm trying to avoid her, I can see her starring at me from the corner of my eye. Not too long ago, I asked her for a ride and she wanted me too drive her car? She ended up giving me a ride and I live pretty far from where I work. All in all, it seems like shes really interested in my education, because she's going for her masters. Really smart girl, nice, and pretty, seems like shes helpful too my needs too. But one thing? she has a boyfriend? Also fortunately, she never brings him up, and I've heard that they were going through relationship problems. Do you gals and guys think she likes me, should I maybe ask her out on a date?

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Open Question: Boyfriend problem! Please read, I need advice.!?

i think I was too clingy and pushy with my boyfriend. I annoyed the hell out of him, he told me to leave him alone, that i bug, and that he'll call me when he wants to talk to me. I haven't talked to him since yesterday. And as bad as i want to call him, i'm not cuz i think that will push him further away.What do you think? Do you think If I just stop calling him or contacting him in any way that he'll start thinking of me and missing me? in addition: We just had a great trip to tahoe a couple weeks ago. We both had so much fun and it was so romantic. I just don't get it

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Open Question: How can I introduce my boyfriend to my sycotic mother?

I'm going to try to keep this as simple as possible. My best friend gave my email to a guy about a year ago and we've been talking. I mean we hit it of after our first conversation. He's funny, sensitive, cute, and mature. I seriously think he could be the one (no rude comments please). A few minutes ago he told me that he loves me and I realized how much I actually care about him. He lives in New York which ironically is where me and my mom are going next week and of coarse we've already planned where we are going to meet and I really want to introduce him to my mother since I'm tired of hiding this from her. She's not open to new people. Especially guys around my age which brings us to another problem. I'm almost 14 and he just turned 17. I just want her to get to know him for who he is. In ten years the age will be no big deal so I don't see why people make a fuss over it at this age. Please help me when it comes to getting her to understand. If your a parent how would you react? We've been on video chat so we've seen each other. And I never said that we never met. We did over the summer my mom just didn't meet him she's really unexceptive of new people

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Open Question: She gets jealous when I talk to other girls but she has a boyfriend?

Okay, my friend who I kinda have a crush on I notice seems to get kinda jealous if she see's me texting other women. She will even go through my phone when I'm not looking and leave little messages on my wall paper like "hi jojo <3". The problem is she has a boyfriend who she has been with for 11 months now, before I met her. Yet when she see's me talking to other girls or if other girls flirt with me, she seems to get jealous. How come she doesn't want me to have a girlfriend or get close to another girl when she has a boyfriend?

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Open Question: writing a story about witches? help me find a better name?

I'm writing a story about witches. I'm making it unique where they're split into two different sections (it's hard to explain in just a paragraph for i'm still planning it). So the main character's name is Karyn Flowers. She has black hair, voilet eyes and tanned skin. She is beautiful. She is what's called a finding witch which is where she doesn't want to be a witch, but she has rich witch blood in her. in the end, she does become a witch but that is because of her boyfriend who is a noble witch (his parents are king and queen). so i'm looking for a name for her boyfriend. his last name is kingston. he has brown hair, green eyes and is very charming. he has tanned skin like her for they are from the same area. he is sweet and kind and knows how to solve problems. he is not all that smart. he's not smart in the regular world, but he knows his witch stuff. I was thinking of a name like ben, but it doesn't seem to totally fit him. So can you help me think of a witchyish kind of name for him that sounds like him? it is not like harry potter or twilight. there are no others except witches. the witches aren't like the ones in harry potter for they don't do magic. they are more the type that control the elements around them....

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Open Question: 14 year old single girl? Male and female opinions?

I have this friend she is 14 and single. The thing is she is really pretty but can't be bothered with boys at the moment i'm not saying she hasn't ever had a boyfriend because she has. One problem is that the boys in our school aren't attracted to her, but they were when they first met her, also older men like 18 years old and above are really interested in her always asking for her number when we are out in public. Is it possible to be happy when its mainly older guys into her? Why do you think it is older guys? Any other opinions? Please help I can't really think how to word my actual answer.

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Open Question: How to introduce your boyfriend to you sycotic mother?

I'm going to try to keep this as simple as possible. My best friend gave my email to a guy about a year ago and we've been talking. I mean we hit it of after our first conversation. He's funny, sensitive, cute, and mature. I seriously think he could be the one (no rude comments please). A few minutes ago he told me that he loves me and I realized how much I actually care about him. He lives in New York which ironically is where me and my mom are going next week and of coarse we've already planned where we are going to meet and I really want to introduce him to my mother since I'm tired of hiding this from her. She's not open to new people. Especially guys around my age which brings us to another problem. I'm almost 14 and he just turned 17. I just want her to get to know him for who he is. In ten years the age will be no big deal so I don't see why people make a fuss over it at this age. Please help me when it comes to getting her to understand. If your a parent how would you react? We've been on video chat so we've seen eachother. And I never said that we never met. We did over the summer my mom just didn't meet him

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Open Question: SO STRESSED, ALL I CAN DO IS CRY, SOMEONE HELP! BRAIN TUMOR OR STRESS? STRESS , NEED SOME IDEAS!!!!?

im 17 years old. i believe i have some anxiety problems. well here i go, i am also a hypercondriac, big time, i stress every small thing thats wrong with me, before it was blood cancer, i found out i didnt have that now im stressing brain cancer/tumor. my symptoms are dizziness, ear sensitivity to noise loud noise..?,some headaches that have gone away, twitches in head and body, feeling shakey, and emotional. well now my boyfriend who i am in love with got locked up today for 10 days and will be sent to a youth home after he gets out of there.. all day all i have been doing is crying. i feel like im losing it. i never felt this way about anyone and i have so much stress on me its not even funny. i feel like just bursting. any idea on what i can do to relieve this stress? my back hurts from cryng so much and stress. and plus im stressing the brain tumor thing! idk what to do :( help.

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Open Question: Vaginal discharge problems?

When my boyfriend fingers me it turns out that instead of the sticky clear discharge its white and kinda gritty. I clean myself well and wipe front to back but it is still the same. I tried to douch but it did nothing to effect it. I just got over a kidney infection too. What can I do to get the clear discharge back> Any tips?

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Open Question: Started new bc, horrible symptoms, pregnant?

I recently just switched from Yaz, to the generic brand of Lo Ovral. I was on Yaz for 10 months, and never had a problem. Last month I started Lo Ovral, and I started having symptoms. This month I have been feeling even worse. I understand that nasuea, bloating, and tender breasts are symptoms, but I've never felt anything like this. My breasts have gotten at least a cup bigger, are swelling, changing color, my back is killing me, I am exhausted, I have been eating everything, I have gotten a horrible Sinus infection, headaches, ect. ect. I don't know if this is the birth control, because I have heard the symptoms are horrid, or if I'm pregnant. I got my period about two weeks ago, and bled for two days (heavy blood), and it stopped. Me, and my boyfriend do use condoms, but we where having sex, and I was on top, and got off, and I think a bit of the sperm might have spilled out. I took a test, and the result came back negative. I don't know if I'm being paranoid, or if I really am pregnant. Thanks We do use two forms, Birth Control, and condoms, but sometimes mistakes happen. I switched because my Gyno told me the Yaz affects aren't worth being on it, so she switched me. I'm getting switched to something else because this birth control sucks.

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Open Question: GIRL PROBLEM PLEASE ! X?

Im 17 and im sexually active ihad sex after my period last month with my boyfriend but it was protected like extra safe condoms and its unreal how safe i am... my period is due around the 18th and for the past couple of days i have been having a redish browish discharge.. i had that a couple days and i thought it was my period because i got really bad cramps then it went away the next day then came back then away and there was more discharge today... any one any idea what it could be im kinda scared so is my boyfriend =( . thank you xx :)

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Open Question: my sister says she thinks my aunt is molesting my 18 month old son?

Here's the history on my aunt, she has helped raise me and many of my cousins, and has no prior history of that stuff in the past. She does have a drinking problem though and has a violent relationship with her boyfriend, thats the bad stuff about her. But anyway she is very close to my son, she sanitizes all his toys, cleans up after him without even giving me a chance too. She watches him for me when I go to work sometimes, and my sister said she always has him in her room with the door closed. My mom said she'll open the door unannounced often and my aunt is just laying down sleep with him or watching tv. My sister said she thinks our aunt is molesting him because she is very fond of him and that my son hates getting his diaper changed. I approached my aunt about this and she said, "How could she fix her mouth to say something like that?" I started crying and she got up an gave me a hug and said "You are going through too much as it is" I told her that I wanted her to take a lie detector test and she said absolutely and wanted to do it right away, she took on the next day and passed it. The whole family is mad at my sister and is saying that she is always starting problems. I am happy she passed the test, but I just can't get over it, I just keep asking myself, "What if?"

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Open Question: How do I get my boyfriend to see it from my POV?

My boyfriend and I have been dating for a year and a half And for that entire year he has had problems with two of my best guy friends They run in different crowds, and don't particularly like each other, but my guys friends are at least civil to my boyfriend when I'm around. My boyfriend hates that I hang around them. He thinks that they are a bad influence, but they have been my friends forever. My two best guy friends are kinda druggies, but they are fun to hang around, and it's not like they ever push me to do it with them. My boyfriend is an athlete. He drinks, but he doesn't do drugs, and he only pays attention to my guy friends' reputation, not what they are really like.

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Open Question: Girl problem =( Period ? x?

Im 17 and im sexually active ihad sex after my period last month with my boyfriend but it was protected like extra safe condoms and its unreal how safe i am... my period is due around the 18th and for the past couple of days i have been having a redish browish discharge.. i had that a couple days and i thought it was my period because i got really bad cramps then it went away the next day then came back then away and there was more discharge today... any one any idea what it could be im kinda scared so is my boyfriend =( . thank you xx :)

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he was my boyfriend, he was everything that made me happy....... we'd meet in the hall ways and kiss eachother then last night... i was joking around with him; hes a non virgin. and he asked me if i evr gave a guy a B/J ( hes asked me this before) and i saiid heck yah;D and he.. just.idk..kinda went detatched? then i said i was JK'ing and he was like : dont joke around like that the last girl who did that i dumped her" and im like "o...did you wanna brake up?" and i was expecting the answer to be "NO" instead he goes "kinda" i started crying.. he's my everything... then after the whole convo i texted my frend who text hiim she solved this problem.. i was soo releived that we were still together, now today..........im in pain i feel like hes hurt me soo mcuh and i want him to know how much he hurt me... i just...wanna be left alone and cry...... but at school i was fine idk.. i just dk... can someone please tell me how to tell him? how to make me feel better? im not breaking up with him, that would add to my heart ache ideas please ? i'll be happy to answer your question below if u answer mine........... thanks.

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Open Question: Help, don`t know what to do... Should i talk to him?

There is a guy who likes me for almost 3 years. He even wrote me a romantic letter which I never responded. He used to mail me, text me, call me and so on. Because I am very shy I rarely responded to his calls or texts… He asked me out for about 3 or 4 times (this after I broke up my last relation – yes meanwhile I had a boyfriend a bad guy but I liked him, with whom I broke up more than 1 year ago)… The problem is that I was never sure if I liked him and was also insecure about the fact that he is 12 years older than me. Maybe I was a little immature (I am 22) and found him a bit old fashioned at the time. But know after knowing him better iI find him sweet, intelligent, strong, serious and with humor at the same time… well a man that knows what he wants (he also has a very good job…)… a nice guy But from 1 month ago he stopped call me and text me or chat with me via messenger. We live in different cities so we didn`t met yet since then… I think that maybe he thinks after trying so much with that I don`t like him after all (I didn`t said yes when he asked me out – I didn`t say no either… i feel a bit embarrassed near him) or was playing hard to get or even playing with him. Do you think he lost interest in me? Did I messed up? BTW a friend told me that he is not seeing anyone... Should i wait for him to see what he does? Should I tell him how I feel or make it more visible to him? Please help… What should I do? Thanks. Red

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Open Question: Toddler Adjustment to new Parent?

I am in desperate need of advice from other parents that have been through the same situation! I have a 3 year old son (just turned a few weeks ago) who is having some problems adjusting to a new living situation. We recently moved in with my boyfriend, who has been in our lives for about a year and a half. The change came about suddenly as we have another baby on the way and are due in April. He is a wonderful man who really has been in my life since before my son was born, but we were only friends up until then. My son has always loved it whenever he would come over. They would play and get along just great. His real father has never been involved so there is no animosity coming from there. BUT since moving in, my son wants very little to do with him. He will try to play or engage with my son and he (my son) will scream "no!" and run to me. Now, to be fair, my son is 3 and screams "no!" all the time as well, it is one of his favorite words recently. I should also add that my son had to have surgery on his ears and while he is making great progress with his speech, he is behind developmentally in that area and has a hard time expressing himself. With all the new changes in our lives (new daddy, new home and new sister soon), I want to make sure I am doing all that I can to help my son adjust to his new life while still being fair to my loving partner who is trying SO HARD! Please help!

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Open Question: I think im growing apart from my husband?

I'm starting to see my husband more as a roommate/bestfriend then a lover. The problem is we are both young, and starting to become really different. He is 4 years older then me.. I have been with him since I was 16, married him at 18, and now am 20 (Meaning hes 24). I am young and I want to go out and have fun, and I want him to come with me. However, all he wants to do is sit at home. The ONLY place he will go out to is over to our mutual friends house to watch a movie, then come home. I want him to have somewhat of a life. I WISH he would go out with friends, his problem is he never made any. He moved to this city 2 years ago (its where I was living), and he only has 1 friend. And he rarely even calls up this friend anyways (This is the mutual friend, they are another couple) Like, when we first got together, he would be fine with going out over to friends houses, having a life.. and now its just like "Work, come home, watch tv, go to bed"... Its so frustating. I refuse to become the old hermit lady. I've watched my mom lose alot of friends because of this problem. My father is the same way as my husband. Work, work work, home, only be friends with wife. My dad has ONE FRIEND, where as my mom is the girl who likes to be social, throw a Christmas party, go dancing.. but she lost all of that because my dad is such a hermit and I refuse to become that way. I would be the happiest girl if my husband would just come to the pub and shoot some pool with some friends one friday night.. Instead I'm ALWAYS going by myself. My friends will be there with their boyfriends and they always ask "O so your hubbys not coming again?".... He will even drive me sometimes, and then just drop me off, go home, and come back and pick me up. When I bring up his hermitness to him, he says "Well this is just the way I am so stop trying to change it".. but its like YOU WEREN'T THIS PERSON. He used to be fun!. I just don't know what to do. I've tried talking to him, and I told him I refuse to become that hermit lady, and how Im sick of always going out by myself well he just sits at home, and he refuses to change. He is a very loving and devoting husband, but he acts like an old 80 year old man. But even saying that, my 75 year old grand father has more friends, and does more things then my husband does. I just don't know what to do anymore!!!! What do you think? I know i got married to young. I would take it back if I could. We were forced into marriage. I just don`t know anymore. All I can think about is all the stuff im missing. I never got to live on my own. I went right from my parents house to living with my husband. I never got to go to the bar and meet a guy (I met my husband before I was of legal drinking age). I wish I met my husband 6 years later. He is a great guy, but I never got to be young adult. I went from being a child to being a wife. I just wish he would go out with me, so that way I could be a young adult, but WITH him.. To Climbing: Why should I have to SUBMIT to my husband and do what makes HIM happy? That sounds extremly sexist to me. I am allowed to be married and be independent and shouldn't have to bow down to my husbands needs. Why can't he meet me in the middle? Why can't he "submit" to some of MY needs? Geez, get out of the middle ages.

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