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Open Question: would you go back to you ex husband after 3years? and more... Open Question: would you go back to you ex husband after 3years?okay!so we got married at 16 and he was 18 we had lots of problems had a baby right away he said he was not ready he took off to another state after 5 years cause he was young! (that was his excuse) by then i was 21y i got in a relationship after 2 months and "so did he" but every time he would come around in state i would put him first and he would too.Even though i love my partner at the time.Now im just confused about my feelings we are still married been separated i dont love him as a couple but i do love him as my best friend i been able to tell him anything and he is always there no matter what or who it is,he ask me to go back. im in a relationship at this time my boyfriend cheated on me , i feel like the best thing to do is to go back i know he is a changed man plus i know it will be better for my child just moving out of state would be hard specially cause he is in the army. Open Question: What should I think about my girlfriend?I've been together with my girlfriend for 7 month's now, before she had a 1 year relationship with some other dude. I think when we started dating she wasn't ready for someone else yet. I always felt a distance but at the same time I felt so calm and loved being around her but obviously I noticed she was distracted. She say she hates him because he cheated on her but when I asked her in the beginning why she bring him up as a subject then she would tell me that it's hard to forget after being together for 1 year. That's logical, but it's not something you tell to your new boyfriend. Since then I've always been suspicious about her. It's not the same. We live together now but I'm not sure it was the right thing to do. I love her a lot and I know she loves me, but why is our relationship so boring now? Because she told me things about her ex? And it changed everything? It makes me very insecure and I can't deal with that right now. I need to be mentally strong. I can't doubt all the time, since our relationship I start doubting a lot. I'm sick of it.. how can I resolve this? I'm 19 years old, I have my own businesses, working 70 hours a week. Many people may say that's the problem. But it's not. I know she tries. We both try but maybe too hard. It's confusing... I own a couple of media stores in belgium, renting out dvd's, selling dvd's, selling games and fixing computers. My shops are open 7/7. It's not really hard work, but the hardest part is that it's a part of you and that you have to be available 24/7, my shops are everyday open, no matter what.. everyday in a year. I love to do it and always be busy with it. My girlfriend is top priority. Maybe a vacation would do good, but I can't afford that. time = cash. I'm planning to surprise her and go on a luxury weekend trip or something like that, nice hotel at the sea, total rest, maybe we don't know each other good enough, I'm not an open person. I'm very carefully with what I say and with what I do. Though, before I met her I didn't have emotions like this, perhaps I was just a player that can't handle emotions. Maybe I don't know them? All so confusing.. I guess I better go to a professional! More Recent Articles
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