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Open Question: Will I get a girlfriend before I turn 30? and more... Open Question: Will I get a girlfriend before I turn 30?Will I get a girlfriend before I turn 30? I'm 21, I've never had a girlfriend. I've never even been kissed by a girl. Even the girls that hang with me and my best friends don't like me or really talk to me. I might be close to getting a friend that's a girl, but I might have already screwed that on up too. I don't know, right now it just seems like I never get married, or at this rate even have real friends that are girls... I've been praying for a girlfriend for over 6 years. There are no singles group at my church. All the girls there are either too old for, too young for me, have a boyfriend, or just don't like me. I love God, and I'm trying to become a stronger Christian all the time. I'm waiting until after I'm married for sex. I don't drink I don't smoke I don't do drugs I'm a virgin I'm waiting till I'm married for sex.(This include oral and anal) I'm a computer geek I'm planning on becoming a video game programmer.(I'm actually pretty sure that's what God wants me to do too.) I do sometimes look at porn, though for the most part it's fixed. But I could still use some prayer for to get this fixed. Since I don't want it in my life anymore. I do have basic hygine. I brush my teeth I shower I use deorderent I don't smell badly. I'm about 5-8" or 5-9" feet tall. I have dirty blond hair. I have no disfiguring scars or anything like that. Personalty: I'm nice. loyal respect(I actually look at a girl's face when I'm talking to a girl, and not her breasts) sincere I listen to what girls have to say, and actually care what they are feeling and saying. trusting honest smart I'm shy I have low self confidence I can be selfish I tend to slur my speech. I talk too speech. I have a hard time explaining things. I have perverted mind, and like perverted jokes, though I don't act on the pervertedness. I like touching when it comes to girls(Nothing sexual till married) Just stuff like hugs. I have OCD(Mostly fixed, yay God) GAD(Mostly fixed, yay Jesus) ADD(Not bad enough to cause any real problems) Social Anxiety and a touch of depression(Fixed) Open Question: Why do I feel like this?Basically, I have plenty of friends but no base friends or close friends. Why am I worried about every move I make? For example.. 1) If a friend comes online, I feel like if I dont say hi, they will fall out with me. 2) If I dont see them everyday, I feel like they will lose interest in our friendship. 3) If there is a party.. and all my friends go.. i feel uneasy because its not my apartment and I am paranoid people will speak about me if I stand there. 4) I tend to feel like an outcast.. and always worry about tagging onto groups. I used to be very insecure and have confidence problems but they are not as bad anymore. For example, my friend always asks me for money and stuff and she just got this new boyfriend and hardly spends time with me now she has him and when hes busy she wants me. what could I do to be more part of everything and what else could these feelings be? there is also a big crush of mine always hanging around! x Open Question: Call of Duty Modern Warfare 2?I bought my boyfriend the new Call of Duty Modern Warfare 2. The first time he played it, it worked great. Now our PS3 isn't playing ANY PS3 games, but the PS2 games and DVD's still work just fine. He had deleted all the game information off the system but is still having the same problem. I have tried contacting Sony, but when I call, it goes to Playstation Network. Has anybody had the same problem? Is there a different number for me to call? Open Question: Let go or try it again?this is a long story but i hope you can give me some help.... so me and my ex boyfriend were dating for three years. We meet in my home town but then i moved to az and there were times when i went to visit but most of our relationship has been long distance. We never any problems until he meet a girl at the bar. They started to hang out and he started to get feelings for her and then one day he just broke up with me. I was completly heart broken and shocked, i had no idea..... a few days went by and my friends invited me to my home town. i agree since i wanted to get out and stop thinkiong about him. The same night we got there we went to the movies, i didnt want to go at first but they finally convienced me and i decide to go. i tried to relax and enjoy the movie but i could only think about him and her since i was so close to where he lives. i keep wondering to myself why he had just let go of everything for some chick he barely met. The movie was over and as i was walking out of the movies i saw him and her holding hands waling towards the ticket stand. i was completly shocked and surpise to see them there. i didnt know what to do. so just stood there watching them as tears filled my eyes. After this i was in so much pain i didnt do anything but stay in my bed all day along. after a couple of weeks he randomly called me and ask how i been. i told him that i was really bad and that i missed him and then i told him that i saw him. he was speechless and then he told me that he was calling me to ask me to forgive him and that he missed him as well, He wanted to know if i could give him another chance. and i seriouly dont know what to do...... Open Question: Why am i terrified when i think about having a baby?Okay, so i posted a question a few months ago, about how i didn't want to have a baby.....but i really want one now, but of course i'm gonna wait until me and my boyfriend are married, and if we have a good house, and no financial problems, we're just going to try, and start trying to conceive on honeymoon.....But the problem is i get so terrified when i think of the labour, and birthing process, and even more when i think about when the baby gets older, and starts wanting to play and get into trouble? My aunt has 2 kids, and they are the reason i'm not to sure if i should have a baby, they are absolutely worse than the devil by a million times each, they scream, they yell, and god knows what other thousand things i could name.......I told my bf, that if we ever get that far, i'm just gonna get off of birth control, and throw away any type of protection we have, that way when it happens we know nothing was in the way of having a baby.....and he doesn't want us to have sex until i'm absolutely ready bcus i'm a virgin, and he said though he wants to have sex, he wants me to be ready for our first time together, and he also says that when i think i'm ready to have a baby we're going to sit down, and talk things over before we start trying to have a baby. So advice, and answers to this pls! Open Question: When i find out he likes me back i suddenly panic + go off him :\?I have a problem when it comes down to relationships. I've been experiencing this problem ever since i had a chance with my first relationship a year back. I grow to like the boy alot, too much actually, often getting really down over the fact i can't see him, or if hes with another girl or even if i find out he doesnt like me back, and when he does text me, or ring him or i see him, i get so happy and butterflies in my stomach, i guess you could say i was a typical 15 going on 16 year old girl. The problem is though, as soon as things start getting somewhere, for example, he tells me he likes me back, i stay at his either overnight or go to his for abit during, i get all weird and paniky, and i just think to myself, nooo, this isnt right, i dont like him anymore now he likes me back, and suddenly go off him within a second, even though i liked him so much before. Its like, when i cant have him i get so down about it, but when i do and i realise somethings happening, ever single time withought fail i feel like this, like im being pressured or things are moving too fast or just generally i dont think hes right anymore, to be honest i dont know what it is but usually it takes me ages to get over someone, but when they like me back i get over him within a second. i also feel really bad about this for the boys sake. i try not to let it happen and its ruined my last 5 or 6 chances with a relationship, meaning ive never had a boyfriend. also i feel like im leading him on and then suddenly turning away, i really wish i didnt feel like this and i could just have normal relationships, please help! Open Question: How to feel comfortable around me ex-boyfriend?My boyfriend recently dumped me in a harshly way. Since then his best friend and i have been getting close because i suffered heartache. His best friend was there when no one else was and it has been like that from the beginning of my ex and i relationship. So now me ex- boyfriend's best friend fell in love with me and i fell in love with him and we are together. My problem is i don't feel comfortable around my ex at all, but i try to deal with it because he is always around and i respect all of my current boyfriend's friends, but the thing is how do i feel at ease around my ex that hates me? Open Question: i am dealing with a friends sudden passing. what do i do?recently, one of my good friends suddenly passed and i am having difficulties coping. everyone and everything reminds me of him. the last time i saw him, things were great and i just feel really crummy 100% of the time. i really miss him. the pain i feel seems to be brought upon others and i have been having an attitude problem. especially with my boyfriend. i have been very stressed and i know he understands, but honestly i don't know what to do. i don't to be kissed or anything. it feels so empty and blah when i do. i'm not in the mood for anything. i honestly am clueless on what to do. should i tell my boyfriend about how i am upset? if so, how do i tell him so he doesn't think i'm a crazy stressed out person. Open Question: What should I do in this situation? Please read it all and help me.?I have this boyfriend who i have been with for 2 and a half years. and i have this little girl who is 11 and she is like a sister to me and i love her so much. but she has said horrible things to me that you dont think could come out of a little girls mouth because im with my boyfriend Josh. Josh and I have a long distance relationship and i havent seen him for 2 years. And we have had so many problems but we wanna make it work. but dezzy ( the girl who is like my little sister ) said she is never gonna talk to me again and she already deleted me from her myspace and facebook account. and she said so many hurtful things that nobody has ever said to me. What should I do? for all you people who keep saying you dont understand. i dont understand either. she is basically making a problem for no reason thats why i dont kno how to handle it. Open Question: i have a boyfriend already but someone i've liked for a while has shown interest...?help! i just started going out with someone, he's absolutely lovely. he's 6 ft 3", dark, incredibly intelligent and all my family adore him. the problem is that someone I adored before i got in a relationship has started showing interest in me, and flirting with me quite constantly. i don't know what to do.. my current boyfriend is lovely, as is the guy i've liked for about a year! any suggestions would help xx Open Question: I think I have a horrible best friend, but i need another opinion. Is her behavior understandable?my friend is a fun person, however she is very judgemental. She always caves into peer pressure, for instance, if something is popular she has to have it, just because everyone else does. However she has usually been a very good friend to me. She invites me places and we hang out and have a good time, and because i'm poor, she spends her money on me. She has baught me a lot of stuff over the past three years. But whenever I start to get interested in a guy, she begins to vehemently hate that guy. She forbids me to text them while she's around, and says I'm being ignorant by texting. But whenever I'm texting one of our female friends, or a guy friend that we both hate (wierd relations with guys friends lol) she's perfectly fine. She hates when I hang out with them. She hated my last boyfriend, for no reason. She didn't know him. Now I have a new boyfriend. Keep in mind, before I met him, my friend and I hung out once or twice a week on average, and i see her everyday in school. I go out of my way to visit her classes and what not and occasionally get into trouble for being late to my own classes. Since the day I met my boyfriend, we've hung out every single day. He are very close partners. I still see my friend once a week, every week, IF she wants to. She keeps asking me "So... where have you been all week?" even though we hung out that week, as usual. She wouldn't give a shit any other time. And She also called me and said she does't want "our friendship to die." and that we have to hang out soon, and more often. Of course, I put up the effort to invite myself over her house at least once a week and we hang out at the mall every friday, because we have friends that work there. And she still says we aren't hanging out enough. Actually, this is the most we've hung out for a long time. And in my last relationship I hung out with her every other day. That three-four times a week for several months! And she still implies that I ignore her. She has never dated anyone. 1st becasue no one lives up to her impossible standards (she was raised in a very judgemental enviroment) and 2nd because she's too shy to go after a man that she wants. And she gets soo jealous whenever I start to date someone. She degrades my boyfriends, saying they have pimples, pudge, funny looking hair, ect. I took my friend on vacation to Florida with me, and at that point, I was just getting close to my boyfriend. He was having problems at home to (he comes from a violent home) and I was texting him almost constantly, but I still paid 90% of my attention on my friend. And at nights, when everyone was winding down from vacation fun, my boyfriend called me and it gave me a chance to relax and talk to him. Being stressed from my friend and family telling me how ignorant and rude I was being and how I was ruinging the entire vacation for everyone, all because I was texting, I was relieved to hear my boyfriend's voice and it relaxed me a lot. My friend got so pissedoff at me for calling him on our vacation. Now i can understand that she may be jealous, but is it me, or is she going to extremes to make sure I don't spend time with him? More Recent Articles |
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