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Open Question: Why would my girlfriend leave me for her ex boyfriend? and more...

 
 



Open Question: Why would my girlfriend leave me for her ex boyfriend? and more...

Open Question: Why would my girlfriend leave me for her ex boyfriend?

Ok so I was dating this girl and we were dating for about three months. The whole time we were dating she told me how she loved me and always wanted to be with me. She wanted to even have kids with me and I really did not have a problem with that. Then she just decided out of nowhere to just end it and told me that the reason she was breaking up with me was that she worked all the time and never had the time to spend with me or her friends. Also she said that when she did have off that she was either helping her grandparents or just too tired from work to do anything with me. Then later on I find out from a friend that she is trying to get back with her ex boyfriend. So I texted her to find out if it was true and she got all ignorant with me and told me that it wasn't true and to stop bothering her. But it was true cause my friend works with her ex boyfriend who she is now with and told me that she would come to his job and pick him up and would drop him off at his job. So she broke up with me and went back with her ex boyfriend. What I don't understand is how she could tell me that she loved me and always wanted to be with me and then just end it and go back with her ex boyfriend. Also she broke up with her ex boyfriend to be with me. Just another detail cause I'm wondering if it's cause of this that she broke up with me. I lost my job and shortly after that is when she broke up with me. Also she had broken up with her ex boyfriend twice when he didn't have a job. So what I'm wondering is, is she just after guy with money and if they don't have it she moves on to another guy. Because every other boyfriend she ever had she broke up with them. The only guy that ever broke up with her was this contractor guy and she was with him for a year and engaged to him and he just broke up with her. So I'm wondering if it is the fact that she is just after money and not the guy. Sorry for going on so long it just pisses me off that she did this to me and that I didn't realize it.

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Open Question: how can i get rid of my low self esteem because of my strech marks?

well i had a son and so i got strech marks, they have faded away a lot but you know when you have a baby people say to put a girdle well i did wear one so my stomach is not as gigglely. my only problem with my esteem is that i dont feel completely comfortable when i am having sexual intercourse with my boyfriend. i dont let him see my stomach because my stomach isnt that pretty. also, is there anything i can do to make my stomach a bit more prettier????????????lol

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Open Question: Im 17 he is 27, what shall I do?

I'm a 17 year old guy (just turned), and I really really love this guy only problem is he is 27!!! Okay here is the story. Basically I'm bisexual and i've never had a girlfriend or boyfriend, Iv had crushes here n there but never dated anyone. So then I was hanging around with my mates one day and I meet this guy at this event he starts talking to me etc quite an interetsing guy but I wasn't really attracted to him. Later on my when we leave my mate tells me that guy liked me and he gave that guy my number. I was like 'oh no' - but didn't really mind. So later on he rings me and talks about general stuff. Next day we meet at the same event again, we keeping meeting at this event for about a week and random phone calls here n there. Then one day I remeber I was thinking about him all day and was looking forward to meeting him, I realised I was really attracted to him now. We meet again at the event and I realise how much I like him, when we left my friend so to me you couldn't stop smiling when u were with him u change so much when ur around him u really light up. Next time we meet at the cinema with this guy and his mates, then we got alone for a couple of mins (I deliberately weny back with him to his car, then i kissed him - he pushed me away) He said that he really liked me and said anyguy who been soooo lucky to be with me but because of the age gap he can't. Then later on in the week he rings me and asks me if i am upset I said I am and he said meet up so we did and then we talked I felt sooo much better so I tried kisiing him again, he pushed me off again, i was upset then he said okay one kiss so we kissed for quite long, I really enjoyed it (my first kiss). But he said that this was it and he is going to delete me of his phone and we can' talk because it isn't right. He has dleted me but I still have his number, I feel so depressed without him, shall I ring him? dont know what to do? I know this is wrong, but I like him sooooo much. and I am so sexually attracted to him, feel like losing my viriginity to him he turns me on a lot too. Would this be illegal cause even if we did have sex I wouldn't tell noone. WHAT SHALL I DO?

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Open Question: i cant get it to go away?

so my boyfriend and i had a 3 person included with us one night which was the biggest mistake ever! so i had some discharge that wasnt normal so i went to the doctor to get test for a std. and he said it looked like gonorrhea/ chlamydia. soo he treated me for this i got a shot of something i dont remeber what it was andi had to drink some nasty stuff. and talked to some lady about it. soo i could have sex for 2weeks or drink anything and i was like okay i can do that my boyfriend went to basic training so i dont have a problem i wrote him a letter and told him and he went to get checks and i told that girl. but 2 weeks later nothing seem to change for me. so i went back to the doctor and he gave me some doxycycline and its been almost a week and nothing is really changing i have like 15 days left on it but why wont this go away!.. like what can i do to make it go away!

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Open Question: relationship problems.. im stuck & dont know what to do

i broke up with my boyfriend on monday, it killed me inside and upset me, but it was for a good amount of reasons; - he flirted with other girls. - (this was after we broke up but..) he kissed 3 girls behind my back at my friends party. i later found out that they made fun of him and stuff so he did it. 2 quick pecks on the lips, 1 kiss on the cheek, but still. - he never asked to see me. - barely contacted me (msn, text, etc.). - his xbox & football seemed more important. - he upset me a couple times (compared my BOOBS to another girls?!, made fun of me, etc). - etc. he was really upset that we broke up though. and i felt so guilty! he bought me a £70 necklace for my birthday which is coming up and he had to cancel the delivery because of it. he always stared at me at school, like not evil stares, but long stares and i just looked back and we'd both stare for ages. he texted me all night the day after we broke up and sent me a cute wake up text the next morning :)! he told me on msn he still loves me and that hes not over me and many other things. he talked to me at school & texted me in lessons, and he never used to do that :/ then on friday it all went downhill. my best friend found out about the kissing thing (they've hated each other for ages) and she had a go at the 3 girls (one of them is her best friend and they've fallen out over this :S) and she had a go at him. he thought i got her on him so he went in a mood with me. he didnt wanna talk to me.. i sorted it out and told him i didnt get her on him, and he believes me :) then he texted me ''were you going to ask me back out?'' and i said ''i dunno, cos you always ignore me.'' he didnt text back.. :( :S he feels guilty about everything, hes apologised, he even said he wanted to die because hes made me so unhappy! his best friend said that if we go back out, hes most likely to change because he wouldnt want to lose me again. ive cried myself to sleep every night because i miss him SO much. everyones like, ''omg, you could do so much better! he doesnt deserve you! forget about him!'' -thing is i cant do better and i dont want to forget about him. hes different to every other boy ive been with. hes not even the type of boy i go for. he can be really caring, he listens to me, he makes me feel happy most of the time, and he makes me feel complete. my feelings for him are much more different than ive ever had for anyone else. what can i do? i dont want to give up, but should i? what would you do if you were in my situation?

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Open Question: feeling down and boyfriend isnt helping!!!?

i feel depressed some times and down with myself and well i have went to my bf and told him how i feel sometimes and expressed my feelings to him...he even told me he wanted me to open up more to him, but i feel i cant go to him now for my problems cuz ealier i told him i was feeling stressed about skool and stuff and he was like sayn it was kinda stupid and hes like i dont know what do and said he was loosing intrest in me blah, so i felt more down...like i was looking for encouragement or somthing like its ok was hopeing he would understand and be there to make me feel better but i felt more down =[ and its like we had a fought ealier and he got mad at me for several things (stupid things) so i tired explaining to him stuff cuz he was taking it the wrong way and show i'm not this bad person u think i'am like he thought i didnt care or called him stupid...whatevr and aftr that he still thought i ment all those things even after explaining and he got more mad cuz i was still talking about it and explaining myself cuz i didnt want him mad at me!!! i'm just tryn to fix it so he ant mad no more =/ i mean all i want is to have a bf i can go to talk to that can understand and will be there for me not put me down more and not blaime me and make it my fault when its not you knw understand me bettr. why is he acting this way? what should i do? and how can i feel bettera bout myself

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Open Question: boyfriend help please?

i am 15. almost 16. i own a car. now i want a boyfriend, but all the guys who like me are, like, the total OPPOSITE for what i need. *scream of frustration* i'm pretty, kinda...enough. 5"2, i weigh 97 lbs, i'm pale, i have curves, i'm just thin. red-brown hair, bright green/grey eyes and full pink-pink lips. i KNOW it isnt how i look. my exboyfriends all say they loved my voice, and all my guys/gals i've dated are punk or emo hardcore. that's fine. i lean that way, too. [just with more bows, lace and cutesy.] but all the guys who like me are really... submissive. they like to sit and cuddle and say "yes dear" and they all might as well be on weed they're so chill. it KILLS me. i want a dominant guy who is alittle bit more.... exciting(?) i dont want HIM to be the one asking ME for hugs, i want it vice versa. me asking him. or a guy who is gonna at least argue with me when he knows i'm wrong. my personality is... quiet. i'm independant, i have no problems doing what i have to do, i'm a happy liberal protestant, i am a smart-allic, sometimes i do things specifically for the sport of ticking someone off, but who doesnt? i am openly affectionate, i am loyal, smart, and when i grow up i want to be a doctor. a surgeon. i am kinda shy around guys and some girls [i'm bi]. obviously i have the capability of attracting guys/gals, but how do i attract the right one? [girls always go the same way. I want her to wear the pants in the relationship, but she always seems to submise to ME in the end.] BOTTOM LINE: what do i have to do to put off the right signals for a more demanding, dominant partner??? i dont do 2-month dating. i want a serious relationship. what am i doing wrong?

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Open Question: Peoplew say I am pretty, but I can't seem to land the guy?

Alrighty, so here is my problem. People tell me a lot I am pretty, beautiful, or whatever, but I can't ever seem to get the guy. Every single one of my close friends have a guy except one, but she does not care. I do not know what is wrong with me. I have medium length wavy brown hair with blue eyes, and I am tan. I am not a skinny-minnie, but I am not fat. I have a flat stomach, muscular thighs but not overly muscular, good calves, and a great chest area. I'm a cheerleader, soccer player, beginning golfer, beginning tennis player, and I am a straight A student. It also always seems that I can start to get a guy, but it never completely works out. I need tips on how to get a guy, be more approachable, flirting, or anything. I know you are thinking you do not need a guy, but here is the thing I want one. Like, last night I went over to my best friend's house, and my other best friend came over, too. They both then proceeded to invite their boyfriends, and I was left out the whole time I stayed. I left early though, because I was getting tired of watching my friends and their boyfriends. I just kind of sort of want a boyfriend. Just help me, please. Thank you! P.S. I will answer any of your questions on Yahoo! Just give me a link to it! :)

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Open Question: My friends dating problem?

A buddy of mine always seems to not get the girl, i see how it hurts him and i have seen it happen many times. he is a nice guy and he falls into the freind catagory or the girls find a boyfriend before anything seroius happens. he is really nice guy, tall, funny, big into movies, not quiet on dates, and treats everyone with utmost respect. he is 20 years old, 175lbs blue eyes. so the question is what is my freind doing wrong with the ladies

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Open Question: Relationship advice please....?

My boyfriend and I have been together for a little over two years and we have an 11 month old baby together. I also have a 4 year old from a previous marriage. We both work full time, and I feel like when we are not at work we should spend time with our children. But it seems like all he wants to do is hang out with his friends. On the weekends I spend time with the children while he is out playing golf or hanging out with friends playing video games. He is 25 years old and I think he should grow up. I see no problem with him spending time with his friends but that should be done once the kids are in bed. I have tried to talk to him but he just gets mad and leaves. Please give me advice...I would love to hear from some dads......

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Open Question: People say I am pretty, but i can't seem to land the guy? What do i do? Help?

Alrighty, so here is my problem. People tell me a lot I am pretty, beautiful, or whatever, but I can't ever seem to get the guy. Every single one of my close friends have a guy except one, but she does not care. I do not know what is wrong with me. I have medium length wavy brown hair with blue eyes, and I am tan. I am not a skinny-minnie, but I am not fat. I have a flat stomach, muscular thighs but not overly muscular, good calves, and a great chest area. I'm a cheerleader, soccer player, beginning golfer, beginning tennis player, and I am a straight A student. It also always seems that I can start to get a guy, but it never completely works out. I need tips on how to get a guy, be more approachable, flirting, or anything. I know you are thinking you do not need a guy, but here is the thing I want one. Like, last night I went over to my best friend's house, and my other best friend came over, too. They both then proceeded to invite their boyfriends, and I was left out the whole time I stayed. I left early though, because I was getting tired of watching my friends and their boyfriends. I just kind of sort of want a boyfriend. Just help me, please. Thank you! P.S. I will answer any of your questions on Yahoo! Just give me a link to it! :) ok, sorry! i didn't realize i had put this question here! sorry!

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Open Question: People say I am pretty, but I can't seem to land the guy? Explanation please? I do not know what to do. Help!!?

Alrighty, so here is my problem. People tell me a lot I am pretty, beautiful, or whatever, but I can't ever seem to get the guy. Every single one of my close friends have a guy except one, but she does not care. I do not know what is wrong with me. I have medium length wavy brown hair with blue eyes, and I am tan. I am not a skinny-minnie, but I am not fat. I have a flat stomach, muscular thighs but not overly muscular, good calves, and a great chest area. I'm a cheerleader, soccer player, beginning golfer, beginning tennis player, and I am a straight A student. It also always seems that I can start to get a guy, but it never completely works out. I need tips on how to get a guy, be more approachable, flirting, or anything. I know you are thinking you do not need a guy, but here is the thing I want one. Like, last night I went over to my best friend's house, and my other best friend came over, too. They both then proceeded to invite their boyfriends, and I was left out the whole time I stayed. I left early though, because I was getting tired of watching my friends and their boyfriends. I just kind of sort of want a boyfriend. Just help me, please. Thank you! P.S. I will answer any of your questions on Yahoo! Just give me a link to it! :)

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