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Open Question: Why is my Twin sister acting like this? and more... Open Question: Why is my Twin sister acting like this?well we are both 18 years old and go to the same college and never had boyfriends. Everyone said that we look alike but I don't really think so. My whole life I always been the 'ugly twin'. When we were young, all the guys has a crush on her and she had many friends. She won awards and was in honor. I was always bully and no one really care and I cut a lot because I was scare. I told teachers but they didn't do anything. So I have really bad self esteem problems and is really shy/scare to talk to people. Finally I thought in college it was different and it was. In one of my classes, their was this really sweet guy and we became more than just friends. He ask me out 3 months later. I was finally happy that I have someone their for me. I recently found out that my sister have been reading my texts! The problem is Im chinese and he is indian. our parents will never approve so its a secret relationship. He is my first boyfriend. Now she is with me 24/7! when I text she looks at who im texting and when I come home a little late. She just curse and bitches at me for being a slut. Im afraid she will tell our parents. The worst part is that my bf and I haven't even gone out for 3 weeks yet! and this drama starts! I just wanted to spend some time with him to get to know him better. She acting like I can't have a boyfriend. She text her friend that she is gonna break us up! When I tell my bf, he is always saying sorry and its his fault? How is it his fault? I don't want him to feel bad. How do I deal with my sister? Open Question: Can you help me find a specific ushanka hat?I'm looking for a black ushanka hat with real fur(no faux and no rants about how i should get faux please) flaps and a leather top and no insignia. I know i'll have to order one online but the problem is i'm buying it for my long distance boyfriend and i don't know his size and i don't want to ruin the surprise by asking him. So if anyone knows of any websites that offer such a hat and have good exchange policies i'd be so grateful. Thanks. Open Question: Eating problem, I don't know what to do?I am normal size but extremely self conscious about my weight - I don't know quite what has fueled this. I know a lot about eating disorders and their cause danger and harm but for some reason I am finding myself becoming overwhelmed with the idea of perfecting my body and have on a few occasions nearly gone to extreme measures such as depriving myself of food for a long period. Luckily I have always stopped myself but I'm worried I won't always be strong enough. For instance I was about to make myself throw up this morning and I managed to overpower the overwhelming urge to get "bad food" out of my body. It is the strangest feeling to know exactly what you are doing, how bad and stupid it is but still not being able to stop almost doing it. I really don't know what to do I know I have a problem but I'm not sure what its name is because I have never actually made myself sick or taken laxatives etc. despite wanting to so badly. This has been going on for about a year and I feel it getting worse. I really don't know what has triggered it because i have fantastic friends and family and a very loving boyfriend, I enjoy school have great hobbies and passions. The only thing I can think of is it may be hereditary, my mother had bulimia for 8 years starting at my age. But she was in a very different environment. I don't know who to tell, or what to do or what to say. I just feel stuck and want to get rid of this burden which is weighing down my life. I wish I was happy with my body but I just can't seem to be. Please if anyone can give me any advice or help I would really appreciate, just hearing someone else's words of wisdom or their own experience would help me a great deal. I am so ashamed of myself :( Hi letitia, thank you for your honesty, it is inspiring, I think I will do exactly that. Who should I call? I don't want to go to the GP that knows me since birth, I'm not sure I could talk to him openly. Please be strong and honest with your doctor I'm so proud you have booked an appointment, I guess that is the first real step. You can recover I believe in you! Open Question: why does this happen when he fingers me?alright my boyfriend fingered me a few weeks ago and it really hurt like to the point where i was bleeding and screaming bc it hurt so bad. and it happened again the other night. and im not talking about a little blood ti was a lot. and it hurt to walk, sit, go to the bathroom, or even touch it down there. but i've been fingered before by a different guy and NONE of that happened before. and i talked ot my boyfriends ex girlfriend about it and she said the same thing happened to her. why? could he be in the wrong hole? && IF he is the problem, how do i fix it? like could he be in the wrong place down there? He washes his hands regularly, he doesnt bit his finger nails, and his nails arent long. i remember my ex would like put his index and the finger beside the pinky between my labium majoria? if thats right to like open up the area a little to get into my vay jay jay and my boyfriend doesnt. ? if that helps and i dont think he popped my cherry because it was a lot of blood. Open Question: What should I do when another dude shows up?Hi, I'm kind of have a problem with approaching girls at public places. I can approach girls and I do but not as often as I would like because one little thing. The thing is, I'm always thinking what if another dude shows up? Maybe the boyfriend or just another guy friend? Then, what should I do? Should I stay and talk to them both or should I leave now? Open Question: I think I have an eating problem and I don't know what to do?I am normal size but extremely self conscious about my weight - I don't know quite what has fueled this. I know a lot about eating disorders and their cause danger and harm but for some reason I am finding myself becoming overwhelmed with the idea of perfecting my body and have on a few occasions nearly gone to extreme measures such as depriving myself of food for a long period. Luckily I have always stopped myself but I'm worried I won't always be strong enough. For instance I was about to make myself throw up this morning and I managed to overpower the overwhelming urge to get "bad food" out of my body. It is the strangest feeling to know exactly what you are doing, how bad and stupid it is but still not being able to stop almost doing it. I really don't know what to do I know I have a problem but I'm not sure what its name is because I have never actually made myself sick or taken laxatives etc. despite wanting to so badly. This has been going on for about a year and I feel it getting worse. I really don't know what has triggered it because i have fantastic friends and family and a very loving boyfriend, I enjoy school have great hobbies and passions. The only thing I can think of is it may be hereditary, my mother had bulimia for 8 years starting at my age. But she was in a very different environment. I don't know who to tell, or what to do or what to say. I just feel stuck and want to get rid of this burden which is weighing down my life. I wish I was happy with my body but I just can't seem to be. Please if anyone can give me any advice or help I would really appreciate, just hearing someone else's words of wisdom or their own experience would help me a great deal. I am so ashamed of myself :( Open Question: what are good pick up lines? for approaching a girl you have never talked to before.?im not bad looking and im wondering what a good entrance is. for example girls who are working or girls who are with there friends. im not bad looking at all im always told im an 8. but it seems like i get shut down alot due to them always haven boyfriends but i think the problem is that my approach is bad. but i come in with confidence and a smile. i don't et turned down alot but more than i would like.please help Open Question: jealous of my older sister?im a 16 year old girl, and my sister just turned 22, and i guess you could say were fairly close. she recently had the gastric bypass (my sister has been pretty all her life but was overweight) so she lost a ton of weight and she is so gorgeous now, she has no problem getting guys. i think i am so ugly compared to her, but people tell me im pretty too (i dont believe them) she recently started going out with this really nice, HOT, guy, and i think he might be the one she marries. i cant help but feel jealous, i've never had a boyfriend, and my sister has all the good genes. shes gorgeous, shes popular, shes funny, everyone loves her, and im quiet, and the more serious type. if i was half has pretty as she was i'd be so happy, i cant help but feel jealous and i hate this. can anyone help me? please. i hate feeling like this. Open Question: how do i talk to my step mom about seeing a gynecologist?my problem is that i have a septate hymen. i want to go to a gyno and talk about it getting surgically removed. I WOULD be able to just bring it up in the car..(and thats what im going to do) but im sure shell ask "so why didnt you ask earlier?" cause ive had my period since i was 10(im 14 now) and i started using tampons when i was 12. i dont want her to think that im doing it so i can have easier sex(cause i just got a boyfriend xDD) so the timing is a little awkward but i PROMISE that is NOT the reason. ive actually been thinking about it for a while ever since i learne dthat what i had wasnt a normal hymen. im just wondering how i could casually bring it up and my excuse for waiting so long to ask.. also.. without insurance(i have insurance.. im just wondering what it would be w/o) ABOUT how much would it cost to get removed? Open Question: I am having major boyfriend issues! HELP!?So my boyfriend and i have a really different relationship compared to most people so this might be hard for many to understand and to give me advice on. But we have been dating for almost a year and a half. Hes a Senior and im a sophomore in High School. We both love eachother very much. During our freshman year he gave me a promise ring and promised he would never leave me and that one day we would get married. We are very close. We go on trips with eachothers families all the time. We have sleepovers together. Hes basically my best friend and we do absolutely everything together and have so many fun memories. But we have broken up ALOT. its always me cause when we get into heated fights i just get so mad and i break up with him. It ranges from hours up to about a day before we get back together. So its nothing big. But about a month and a half ago.. He broke up with me. Basketball season had just started and hes on the same team as Harrison Barnes and all those guys. But he never gets to play so that bring him down and stresses him out alot. So i thought maybe that had something to do with it.His family said he was so depressed and would go home after school and go to bed. And wouldnt go out on weekends. They said wheneve he was with me he was happy again. so I did everything i could for a month and a half to get him back. He ignored me completly and some days he would randomly tell me he missed me. Eventually i got him back. We got back together about a week ago. We spent 2 days together and had the BEST time. But this weekend everything went down hill. he didnt talk to me. he wouldnt talk to me if i was having any problems. he just doesnt seem like he cares at all anymore. we always fight because i cant get him to stop saying rude mean and unecessary things to me. So today he finally contacted me saying "what the fuck did you do this weekend??" he was mad thinking id gone out and cheated on him or something. we met up for lunch later today and he asked why i was so upset. I explained to him how i had been working hard to be a good supportive girlfriend but i get no effort in return. He kind of ignored me. And when i left he was really sad and didnt want me to leave. So i guess what im asking is WHAT THE HELL DO I DO! im so confused. I get all these mixed signals and this is just tearing me apart! please help me! and dont be too negative. i dont wan all my answers to be "your too young" or "break up with that jerk" i want advice on how to get him to be the sweet loving boyfriend who used to bust his ass to make me happy. how do i get him back? Open Question: I lost my virginity last night...?I kind of regret it... I don't know. It's not like I don't love my boyfriend. We have been in a happy, stable relationship for 3 months now and we both felt ready. He did everything right. He was really gentle, asked if I was okay, made sure it wasn't too painful, and was really sweet about it telling me that if I wanted to stop I could. We had sex until he came (he said he's never been able to orgasm during intercourse with any other girl) so i'm pretty sure he enjoyed it. But the thing is, for me it was horrible. I mean, I said I was fine. The pain wasn't the problem. It was how it felt. It felt as though, to be completely blunt, i was sh*tting myself... at times it felt really good but other than that it was just not pleasurable... more embarrassing feeling as though I was going to sh*t myself. And another part is that I queefed like three times.. which was horrible. But we laughed a lot. I don't know... everything was so right, but felt SO wrong. Will sex get better the more I do it or will it be like this forever? Because if so, I HATE sex. Open Question: Why does my boyfriend still not trust me?about 4 months into our relationship i made the mistake of giving a guy my number. although it was only on a friend basis my boyfriend didn't believe me. i admitted that yea i thought the guy was attractive, trying to be honest, but that i had absolutely no feelings for this guy. this was a year ago. since then every guy friend i had i was accused of cheating on him with. so i stopped talking to all my guy friends and refrained from making any new ones. he then began to accuse me of lying about where i was when i was with my friends and said that i treated him differently around them. so i stopped hanging out with them. now i have no friends. never talk on the phone or barely leave my room unless im going to class. still his first question when he calls is where are you? where have have you been? what do you have interesting to tell me today? which is his way of saying what type of interaction have you had with a guy today? i have to tell him everything i do, every guy i talk to and exactly the words spoken in the conversation. if i give a friend a hug i must explain how the hug came about, what type of hug then he proceeds to accuse me of wanting this guy. he gets extremely angry and loses his temper in a way i can not get a word in otherwise. he calls me a liar consistently. what do i do? i love him with all my heart. we talk of our life together all the time. things are great when we are alone together but as soon as another man comes around if i look at him there will be huge problem. Open Question: What the hell is my ex boyfriend's problem? ( dont tell me to move on )?we were together for a couple of months im 16 he be 17. at first it was fine , then later in the year , he started slabbering about me and we have be aguring since. But he seems to start the fights , wont leave me alone. His fighting seems to leave me in tears ( but its all online like facebook , msn ) but he has removed me as a friend on bebo , fb and blocked me on Msn. he started fighting with me for no reason , just an hour ago calling me a harlet , sl*t , Skank, and brought up something unessary to do with my past. I wouldnt do that to him , cause im not like that. is he like obbessed with me? stareing me out at a concert , and fighting with me he has a new girlfriend , who looks like me , except more fat. But he has hurt me , so much , like basically crushed me and i can't take it , watching him with someone else , it really hurts me. i hate him , but in a way i still love him helps x ohh and he was also calling me ugly by text.. http://file052a.bebo.com/10/original/2009/12/03/00/5779852039a11929522105o.jpg here be a pic of me , if yer wondering what i looks like ( it be edited ) More Recent Articles |
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