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Open Question: why is it hard to get a girlfriend for me? and more... Open Question: why is it hard to get a girlfriend for me?i am a 16 year old guy, 5 11 1/2 (not kidding), pretty dark brown hair about mid-eye level. not fat, muscular build. i have lots of friends, im the guy who throws the big partys that get remembered. i average a B in school, i play 5 different instruments. yes, i drink/smoke. i have good teeth. ive been told im cute, good boyfriend material, hot (a few times), a sweetheart, etc. i always know how to have a good time, and im always smiling and having jokes with people. So whats the problem here? ive had like 3 chances recently with very attractive girls from my school, and they always decide "no" at the last minute. any insight is appreciated. Open Question: Why don't girls want to be my friend?Why don't girls want to be my friend? I'm 21, I've never had a girlfriend. I've never even been kissed by a girl. I don't even have any friends that are girls... I've been praying for a girlfriend for over 6 years. There are no singles group at my church. All the girls there are either too old for, too young for me, have a boyfriend, or just don't like me. I love God, and I'm trying to become a stronger Christian all the time. I'm waiting until after I'm married for sex. I don't drink I don't smoke I don't do drugs I'm a virgin I'm waiting till I'm married for sex.(This include oral and anal) I'm a computer geek I'm planning on becoming a video game programmer.(I'm actually pretty sure that's what God wants me to do too.) I do sometimes look at porn, though for the most part it's fixed. But I could still use some prayer for to get this fixed. Since I don't want it in my life anymore. I do have basic hygine. I brush my teeth I shower I use deorderent I don't smell badly. I'm about 5-8" or 5-9" feet tall. I have dirty blond hair. I have no disfiguring scars or anything like that. Personalty: I'm nice. loyal respect(I actually look at a girl's face when I'm talking to a girl, and not her breasts) sincere I listen to what girls have to say, and actually care what they are feeling and saying. trusting honest smart I'm lazy I have Social Anxeity Disorder I have low self confidence I can be selfish I tend to slur my speech. I talk too speech. I have a hard time explaining things. I have perverted mind, and like perverted jokes, though I don't act on the pervertedness. I like touching when it comes to girls(Nothing sexual till married) Just stuff like hugs. I have OCD(Mostly fixed, yay God) GAD(Mostly fixed, yay Jesus) ADD(Not bad enough to cause any real problems) and a touch of depression(Fixed) Open Question: Why is my ex-boy answering me through facebook statuses.?Ok.First off this is going to sound extremely immature, and I have deleted my facebook because it was impeding me from moving on. ( months ago my ex and I became friends after 3 years off war(i kissed another guy when we dated at the age of 18). It's been crazy ever since. Its long distance so it really hard( he lives in Dominican Republic and lives across the street from my family...NOT GOOd!)Ive been loyal the last nine months bc ive wanted to be...we were just fwb so i knew he still was doing his thing...but he causes me such heartache! Two weeks ago I had enough of his bullshit and so I facebooked him and said its I want nothing to do with him and to stope leaving me comments every few days.We used to talk all the time..but I def know i worked harder then him. Anyway since Halloween I have distanced myself and have had a very active solcial life. Anyway i called him less because I knew he it hurt me to know that he liked me, but still wants to date another girls.I started texting him and calling him about once a week.Anyway he wont comment my pictures which he never did on any social site before..He would make lil smart aleck remarks if i said im going out!He then started posting statues that said he was going on this weekend! On tuesday! it was driving me crazy, because I know he has commitment problems and all the stuff but he knows I love him. He is so insecure.What drove me crazy was how he posted pictures of when he picked me up from the airport on Aug 21! I was not in them of course..put he posted the ones I took of him carrying my suitcase...and then we talked that night and he asked me if i saw them.Anyway since the fight two weeks ago...i havbe had withdrawel sometimes...and Ive been freaking posting facebooks status...not always about him and Im noticing a very sick pattern. If i say a saying, hell say it next week. He re posted a saying i had put like too! He has been posting romantic song lyrics.AHHH!!If i use a word in a saying, he answer it back using a the same word!$ days ago i mentioned i had a new guy and then he posted a song saying Your boyfriend is a fool....I'll steal you...That was yesterday!! It was driving me crazy because I'm just so mad at him and I finally had enough of his games. So i cant get my self to call him..and he def wont since he is so prideful!...Im sick of it so I'm taking a break from the internet...but someone please tell me what doe sthis mean??????/ Open Question: Bugged the hell out of my boyfriend, whats my problem?I think im too clingy and demanding. He hasnt really been wanting to talk to me for a couple days now and today when i called him like 10 times he said he didnt want to talk to me, that hes sick of seeing my name pop up on his phone, and that i bug, and he'll call me wen he wants to talk to me. I called him leterally like 100 times after that cuz he wasnt answering every time, and he was getting so annoyed, he said he was gonna change his numbers. I havent called him for about 2 hours, and im not gonna talk to him until he calls me. What should i do? and what did i do? Is this normal? Open Question: Can someone help me out with Girl problems?Hey guys I have a major problem.. I've currently been talking to this girl for 2 weeks. He boyfriend hadn't spoken to her in two weeks because they were mad, but now they are talking again. But she told me that she doesnt know if she should choose her bf over me.. At the moment she is leaning toward continuing her " so call" relationship , with this jerk.. Question is.. How do i get her. Should I stop talking to her so she can miss me a little or should i keep nagging her? Any ideas are welcomed! O. I did kiss her on thursday but on Friday she went on a date with her bf.. I just want her, please dnt tell me to quit.. Thanks Open Question: Why can't I even be able to make friends with girls atleast?Why can't I even be able to make friends with girls atleast? I'm 21, I've never had a girlfriend. I've never even been kissed by a girl. I don't even have any friends that are girls... I've been praying for a girlfriend for over 6 years. There are no singles group at my church. All the girls there are either too old for, too young for me, have a boyfriend, or just don't like me. I love God, and I'm trying to become a stronger Christian all the time. I'm waiting until after I'm married for sex. I don't drink I don't smoke I don't do drugs I'm a virgin I'm waiting till I'm married for sex.(This include oral and anal) I'm a computer geek I'm planning on becoming a video game programmer.(I'm actually pretty sure that's what God wants me to do too.) I do sometimes look at porn, though for the most part it's fixed. But I could still use some prayer for to get this fixed. Since I don't want it in my life anymore. I do have basic hygine. I brush my teeth I shower I use deorderent I don't smell badly. I'm about 5-8" or 5-9" feet tall. I have dirty blond hair. I have no disfiguring scars or anything like that. Personalty: I'm nice. loyal respect(I actually look at a girl's face when I'm talking to a girl, and not her breasts) sincere I listen to what girls have to say, and actually care what they are feeling and saying. trusting honest smart I'm lazy I have Social Anxeity Disorder I have low self confidence I can be selfish I tend to slur my speech. I talk too speech. I have a hard time explaining things. I have perverted mind, and like perverted jokes, though I don't act on the pervertedness. I like touching when it comes to girls(Nothing sexual till married) Just stuff like hugs. I have OCD(Mostly fixed, yay God) GAD(Mostly fixed, yay Jesus) ADD(Not bad enough to cause any real problems) and a touch of depression(Fixed) Open Question: stay with boyfriend, or leave for crush.?okay so theres two people (ima use fake names) gage and colton gage: my boyfriend, i love him sooo much. i have known him for 2 years. we dated before and then broke up. it happened a couple times, but we always seem to draw eachother together again. BAD: he is really clingy... and he gets supper sexual. sometimes i want to keep it real you know. he dated this girl i hated and he cheated on her... and it was for me. he promise me that he is never going down that road again, but its hard to believe it, but in a way i do trust him. he has done weed... but he says he wont do it again for me. he says he wants to by me a necklace but doesnt have the money, but every day i see him with a new 20 dollar bill. when we werent dating he called me his best friend, but he never talked to me in the hallway. he never looked at me or anything, but outa school we always talked (we are dating now). GOOD: i cant stop thinking about him, im in love with him. sometimes i think about spending my life with him. he is always there for me, listens to all my problems, helped me threw most of them. whenever im with him he cares for me. he is always by my side and i cant forget him. colton: my best friend, he is supper funny, the funniest person i know. im always walking with him to next period at school. we have a couple classes together. we are known as the schools closest friends. gage is jelous of colton. BAD: hes a really bad player, dates way to many girls. he is only looking for sex from girls. hes really mean to my other friends that are girls. he talks about my boobs in front of me. and is real sexual it get nasty and is a turn off. GOOD: he has the skater look, black hair fliiped to the side, hes normal weight, and wears skater clothes. hes hilarious! always makes me laugh. i dated him once last year but not that long haha. but hes always helping me with work. we are constently seen together almost more then me and my bf. (maybe thats not good) he compliments me alot. and everyone knows we are best friends. i know he likes me and i dont want to tell him i like him, but i think its gonna happen sooner or later. who do you think i should stay with??? this is just opinions here. Open Question: Girl advice/problems? please help!?Okay, so there is this girl I really like..but the problem is she has a boyfriend. Recently I told her that I still like her despite her having a boyfriend. She said she liked me too, but for now we are just friends. So I told her I understand and I would really love to go out with her someday. She responded " Thanks, I'll keep that in mind" What does that mean? and What should I do? Hmm, but the thing is she liked me before she had a boyfriend but the guy asked her out before I did i guess? Open Question: How should I get this girl to be my GF?Hey guys I have a major problem.. I've currently been talking to this girl for 2 weeks. He boyfriend hadn't spoken to her in two weeks because they were mad, but now they are talking again. But she told me that she doesnt know if she should choose her bf over me.. At the moment she is leaning toward continuing her " so call" relationship , with this jerk.. Question is.. How do i get her. Should I stop talking to her so she can miss me a little or should i keep nagging her? Any ideas are welcomed! O. I did kiss her on thursday but on Friday she went on a date with her bf.. I just want her, please dnt tell me to quit.. Thanks Open Question: my boyfriend got arrested...help!!?my boyfriend got arrested friday morning and they are charging him with identity theft..he buys and sells online and he thought it would be funy to put sumone elses name on a package that he has had problems with in the past. the detective told me that he can do 3-12 years in prison..he does have a record but it all has to do with car theft stuff...what do you think will happen to him? Open Question: Why is my Twin sister acting like this?well we are both 18 years old and go to the same college and never had boyfriends. Everyone said that we look alike but I don't really think so. My whole life I always been the 'ugly twin'. When we were young, all the guys has a crush on her and she had many friends. She won awards and was in honor. I was always bully and no one really care and I cut a lot because I was scare. I told teachers but they didn't do anything. So I have really bad self esteem problems and is really shy/scare to talk to people. Finally I thought in college it was different and it was. In one of my classes, their was this really sweet guy and we became more than just friends. He ask me out 3 months later. I was finally happy that I have someone their for me. I recently found out that my sister have been reading my texts! The problem is Im chinese and he is indian. our parents will never approve so its a secret relationship. He is my first boyfriend. Now she is with me 24/7! when I text she looks at who im texting and when I come home a little late. She just curse and bitches at me for being a slut. Im afraid she will tell our parents. The worst part is that my bf and I haven't even gone out for 3 weeks yet! and this drama starts! I just wanted to spend some time with him to get to know him better. She acting like I can't have a boyfriend. She text her friend that she is gonna break us up! When I tell my bf, he is always saying sorry and its his fault? How is it his fault? I don't want him to feel bad. How do I deal with my sister? Open Question: what should i do with my boyfriend "problem"?ugh!boyfriend problems i have a bf and he is always spending more time with them then me and i told him that i don't think that's right and he told me he likes being with both me and his friends and lately ive been feeling alone in this relationship because i feel like there is most of the time no response now from him and it was never like that in the beginning and its like every time i tell him its just not functioning in his head and there were several times i was close to breaking up with him but he just keeps on saying no no no and stuff and trays to make up for it with kissing but that's not really working and its still bothering me that lately ive been feeling like its just me and not me and my boyfriend as a couple.Can someone please tell me what should i do about this because its just so confusing now Open Question: My parents took my phone away practically forever...boyfriend issues...HELP?My parents are SUPER strict, and one day my mom took my phone away to find messages with my and my boyfriend talking to each other. she thought they were way to intimate...though they were things that probably you would say. Just various versions of "I love you" "I miss you" "I want to kiss you" more and less of that stuff. we've only been dating 3 months and are both 15. But they don't want me with him...because they're just super strict and too protective. They like him as a person, they just don't want us together. Who knows why?? Problem is, I'm HEAD over HEals for this guy. He's smart, funny, charming, cute, and an extremely good kisser. This relationship is the first one i feel really secure and safe in. So, i can't really leave him. He loves me too and doesn't want to lose this. But now I'm sneaking around behind their backs and i have to hide everything from them. What's worse, is i hardly get to talk to him and never get to see him outside of school. I don't know what to do. Any help would be appreciated. Please? Open Question: Need help with sleeping! Sleeping position, nightmares, help!?Lately Ive been having alot of trouble falling asleep. I'm finding I'm laying there and will fall asleep when the sun starts to come up. I would try to sleep when the sun is out however I cant just sleep all day. No matter what position I lay in I'm always uncomfortable. When I lay on my stomach I can feel a slightly painful bulge on my left side, around where the spleen and intestines are (I have gone to the doctor for his and he said it is a bit inflamed and I am going for an ultrasound for it soon). However when I lay on either of my sides my hips are get sore too. I recently lost alot of weight so the usually fatty cushion is gone. And when I lay on my back it pushes against the one spleen area and feels just uncomfortable and I get some odd feeling (not painful, at least). When I actually do fall asleep at a decent time, I have nightmares, usually involving my boyfriend leaving me in some way. We have had problems somewhat related to the dreams (though the dreams are much more intense) in our relationship in the past, however that was due to the fact we live 8 hours away and hardly got to see each other while I was dealing with alot of extreme family issues. Makes things hard, but we now live together and have been dating for almost 4 years. We have no problems at all now. However the nightmares persist. I usually whimper and twitch and occasionally sleep talk, which is when my boyfriend wakes me up. I dont know how to get rid of these nightmares, I get them at least 3 times a week, if not more. I dont eat anything before I go to bed or read or watch anything that may influence the strange dreams. I know of different crystals and stones that can take away nightmares, such as amethyst or citrine, and of dreams catchers, but Im not sure if they actually can work. Im pretty against taking sleeping pills because my mom became addicted to them and would get high on them. I know if i take them responsibility Ill be ok, but just no. Can any one give me advice to reduce nightmares, sleep more comfortably, or just ways to fall asleep? Its really becoming a problem :( Open Question: How do I convince my boyfriend to propose?Back story: We've both already agreed that we are mutually the only people we want to spend the rest of our lives with. This is great, he's given me a commitment that someday he'll commit. We live together and get along fine. We have our problems but they never last more than a few hours before we resolve them. We've talked about kids, our future, etc, but when it comes down to him just popping the question that he said he would... he can't and the reason always changes every time I ask him about it. I've already tried proposing to him (that didn't exactly go spectacularly) and I am at my wits end because if I get one more call from my grandma asking of I set a date or get another lecture from my mom about the importance of commitment and the dangers of "living in sin"... I might just spontaneously combust! Open Question: Relationship problems....HELP?So, I found out today that my friend has been role-playing boyfriend/girlfriend scenes over text message, and with scary regularity. Nothing immoral, but enough to impair how I feel about her. Granted, I love her, and I'm not mad at her, but..I just don't know. It hurts to think about, but I can't let her know that. She said, and I quote: "I roleplay so I won't get upset with you. Because I love you and that's a stupid thing to get upset about". I don't roleplay with her much because I know it's unhealthy for us to do, but I don't know how to keep her happy. I don't wanna leave her, there isn't a point, I still love her, and she loves me, but...I don't know what to do. Any advice?? :( Open Question: Can a pending National Guard contract supersede Army IRR recall orders?Situation: Boyfriend served 3 years in the Army and was granted early separation for academic pursuits and was thus placed into a contract in IRR. He deployed to Iraq for 15 months while in his unit. He is now a junior in college, and we're trying to find a loophole for him not to have to deploy. Please try to keep your political opinions to yourself, if possible. Our feeling is that the 30,000 troops to be deployed to Afghanistan is NOT a national emergency (not to mention this situation is what the Reserves are designed for), and thus contradicts the whole purpose of the IRR. While he has no problem deploying, it would completely undo and pause three years and 120 credits worth of work towards his engineering degree (which he wanted to use to be an Officer in the Army anyway). Would signing a contract with the National Guard prevent him from having to deploy regarding the IRR orders? Thanks for your answers during this stressful time!! Open Question: should we break up? (details inside)?okay so i've been with my boyfriend for a while now and i really feel like i'm falling for him. but theres a couple problems: - he drinks - he smokes - we hardly see each other - he doesn't even talk to me until after 5, which only gives us an hour to talk (i'll explain later) - he's extremely rude to his mom okay so the reason we only talk is because his mom takes his phone away at 6 because he cussed her out. i told him that i was mad at him for doing that because he did it for a stupid reason and i know for a fact that his mom didn't deserve it. i don't know if i can deal with this but if we do break up, how am i supposed to tell him? i mean, i really love (or loved) him but now, i just dont feel happy. please help. Open Question: What is a good website to use as a reference in issues dealing with a pregnant 15 year old?and her 17 year old boyfriend. They are talking marriage and doing pros and cons to help them decide if they should. They love each other and want to stay together. The baby will be born after he turns 18 but before she is 16. Should they get married before he turns 18? Will marriage help or be a hindrance for him going to college, such as getting grants and such. She has 3 years of high school to go, will being married be a problem or a solution for her going to college later? So many things to consider and I want to give them all the information I can to help them make a wise decision. I'm asking for a reference site! not anyone's advice Open Question: my boyfriend hates my guy friend... HELP?okay so i have a boyfriend of two months. i have known him for a year and a half we totally click, we have everything in common and yeah! even our birthdays are suuuuppperrr close but theres one problem. he hates my best friend, and my best friend is a guy. whenever someone brings him up he cringes and goes "i didnt need to know that" and im always with my him (my friend) and my bf brings up that im always with him alot i love both of them (but the friend in a brother way) and i deffinatly wanna stay with my bf. but what do i do?!?!?! help! More Recent Articles
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