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Open Question: While my Boyfriend and I were split he slept with someone that I LOATH...is it possible to get over that? and more... Open Question: While my Boyfriend and I were split he slept with someone that I LOATH...is it possible to get over that?We broke up for about 3 weeks. I moved out and stayed with a friend of mine. While we were apart I started working on myself, concentrating in school, working out and hanging out with my girlfriends. He decided to get drunk a lot and start seeing a girl from his work almost immediately. Now he says he regrets it and it never was going to go anywhere and he wants me back and to try and make things work. I have known this girl for a long time and she has a reputation for getting around, especially where they work. I understand that we were technically single for that amount of time. If I want to make this work I have to be able to put that behind me, but how long does it take? Its been 3 days since I found out. I'm still fuming and he says he understands and would take it back if he could. Is it possible to get past something like this and concentrate on the other problems of the relationship? Open Question: How can I kiss him in my condition?Alright, so me and my boyfriend have been going out for about 4 months already, and well our Karate Christmas party is this Sunday. I plan on kissing him right after I give him his present. But here's the problem. . . I'm short and he's TALL. I'm 4'7" And I think he's like 5'6", how embarrassing. And so, how in the world am I gonna pull this off? Open Question: could i be pregnant? not sure, too soon to test?i am on birth control. it is supposed to be 99.9% effective. i have had problems with it, bleeding and elongated periods mostly. my boyfriend and i had sex last thursday and we used protection, however we thought some semen may have come through the top. i have had scares before but this time it feels much different. i am showing some early signs. you're supposed to test 2 weeks after conception which means i cant test until christmas day. i got anxious and tested today anyway, negative. my symptoms are as follows: sore, darkened nipples tender breasts sensitivity to smells nasuea and vomiting just tell me what you think. he doesnt think i am, but something is different. let me know, PLEASE, im desperate! Open Question: Relationship Problem?I have been with my boyfriend for 9 months. His niece has been caused problems for use the whole time. Trying to get me out of the picture and now she's trying to get my boyfriend and his ex back together. By trying to get him to say he still loves her. When he has already told his ex that he's not going to leave me for her. But it's getting so bad it's putting stress on our relationship. What should i do? i have been trying to avoid her as much as possible but she still finds something to try to break us up. Shes even talking to his ex and there texting him calling me all kinds of names and i thought it was funny at first until she started spreading rumors around the family about me. Open Question: its a sex question. anyone got advice?well, im 15, i never considered the big "it" before.. i mean ive had a hundred boyfriends. so i got with this guy im with now.. hes not like my macho hot-body exes,, hes cute, nicely built, but its not a physical thing here, its an emotional one. see i have this problem.. where my emotions are kinda wild. they stop and go and crazy stuff. most guys i get with, i dont really wana be with. this one is like .. making me see things differently, and see he dont even KNOW it. ive changed. a lot. since i met him, well since we started talkin at least. it took us 2 months to show any affection (im NOT an affectionate person), and he like read me 100 perfect pretty much. he nailed me! so, we go out 2 months, and our first hug. so we do that for like 2 weeks, and then our first kiss. RIGHT before our first kiss, however, we had a little.. weird problem. we decided we were gona have sex. so we go out and get a condom and go to my place. we play with some condoms, i hate them, and then we talk about THE sex. so we get in my room eventually.. and i FREAKED. i had bad childhood experiences,. and this was just too much. i stalled til his dad called and then we both got dressed and his dad showed up. i REALLY wana do this but im SO SCARED that thats gonna happen again. we talk about "thursday" all the time and i apologize and he does too and i really am so sorry to him and i really do wana please him, but i find it harder to get turned on the very SECOND he talks about a condom!! ive found a way that we can get the condom faster but i really dont know. then i think about all these THINGS and its like "really?" i really am about to .. give it up. i know were not that old but i went go get birth control and i gota wait on my period.. to start it. then periods gota leave. well, problem is: sometimes i wanna NOT wait even one second. sometimes he wants to not wait even a second. sometimes hes willing to wait a long time, and that makes me wana even MORE, and sometimes its vice versa. this is a PROBLEM. first thing, i love this guy for sure and i wana, but is that okay?? and second- if im not that turned on when we do it, will i rip? weve been talking for a year and a half. and weve known each other for ...... lets see ...................... 4 and a half years almost, but we never talked til i left the skool. lost contact for 6 months, saw him on myspace, added him, he emailed me, we got into major talking, and like a year later we started texting, and i was hiddenly happy and then i came back to IL and then we started hangin out and it turned out that he was really willing to do fun things (altho not certain fun things :( ..) and his x dumped him for no reason and he kinda talked a lot about her and i advised him somewhat i guess, and a while later he asked me out i thought on it for a week or 2, and said yeah. and then 2 weeks after that i dumped him, hated being away from him, hated not being his gf, and .. here we are today. all this stuff its like .. wow the guys virgin, actually.. im only his 2nd gf. his friends are sick and weird in my opinion, and we talk a lot about them. hes not a bad guy tho, hes kinda harsh tho. i am too, of course, which is probly why we get along so well- he actually stands up to me. im pretty sure i love the guy. idk if he loves me, he says he does, and he freaks out when i tell him i dont believe that.. and were like always together. but some days its just not good to be together. everyone has to be alone some days haha. what REALLY sucks is that im older than he is. but im willing to ignore that. im a little under 6 months older but we were born in the same year. geez and were so different and at the same time not. its so weird. but i just love being around him, and we have a clean slate- he knows everything ive ever gotten mad about the whole time. and we always talk it over. sometimes he gets real emotional it seems tho.. we talk very much about the sex, thank u! we both freak out a lot about if itll effect our relationship. geez its like both of us are never ready at the same time but its getting closer and im nervous. mentally 11 or 12? ive had people tell me that im mentally in my 20s. truth is- im mentally 15 just like everyone else my age, and thats just that. we talked about the sex for i dont even know how long. neither of us thought about it until i .. accidentally rought it up. then he realized i was serious. and we started talking about what itll do to .. us. Open Question: (guys preferably) i love him...but...he's just not who he used to be....?ok...ive been dating my boyfriend for a year and a half.... and he's just so different and we always fight and somehow its always my fault now..to me...that doesnt even make sence...cause we fight ALL the freakin time. it cant be my fault every time...right? i cry all the time cause of him... like...i love him...dont get me wrong...but just... i feel like he's changed sooo much and sometimes i feel like i dont want to be with him anymore..cause im just sick of it. and i feel like im in love with who he used to be but then when it actually comes down to it...when we start to break up...i loose it and i cant let it happen...idk.. guys...have you ever had a gf and had problems like this and i just dont understand? or what? i feel like im a horrible girlfriend...and i dont understand that... cause before him..every other boyfriend i had...according to them i was the best im still friends with most of them. but with my current boyfriend...idk... guys...i like to think im a good person, i get good grade...dont have any real enemies...hate drama..im a senior...going to college in the fall...have a job...id like to think im pretty...i get along with everyone i meet...im pretty fun to be around......i have very strong beliefs...not even about god or anything...just how i think and was i believe if very strong to me...i dont believe in abortion, devorce...like just that kinda of belief stuff...i speak my mind. i tell the truth, even if its not the best...and i try to make everyone happy... so....guys...thats mostly me...is there anything in there to say that maybe thats why me and my boyfriend fight a lot..or maybe why he's changed? Open Question: Boy trouble. Girls i need your help = /?Alright so heres my problem Im going out with this guy whos 17 & im 13 & he smokes,drinks,& is a drop out & doesnt have one romantic bone in his body. & whenever we're tagether we really dont havve anything to talk about we just like kissing = P he is really disrespectfull but for some reason he makes me like him alot....its wierd but yet i wanna end things with him yet i dont. kk now therest this other guy cept he lives in canada n im in the U.S so its a long distance thing yet him and i have actual stuff ta talk about n we've been friends for a year as ta where my boyfriend and i have only been with eachother for a month. & this guy is in school n hes really nice = ) & he doesnt have anyyy bad habits n he doesnt have much friends n hes really sweet. & i feel great around him. So i was wanting ta leave my boyfriend for this guy but what if this guy doesnt ask me ta be his gf? Hes really shy thats why. he got close to it once. But yeah. i dunno what ta do. So should i break up with my boyfriend or not? Open Question: why am I so emotionless?I'm 17, 10/29/08 my best friend killed himself, and idk why but it didn't really affect me emotionally at all(I never talked to anyone about it). A couple weeks ago I moved from Michigan to Tennessee to get away from my mom and her dick boyfriend and I don't even miss any of my friends or family. when i was 13 my stepdad (my dad ditched out on me before i was born and i have no clue who he is(and that doesn't affect me emotionally either) and my stepdad got with my mom before i was 1 so he was always like my real dad) got addicted to meth and started getting really aggresive,he was constantly yelling at everyone and breaking evertying and he threatened to kill us several times, my mom finally ended up divourcing him and that didn't affect me either. Not even a year after that my mom ended up getting with some asshole who was constantly being a dick to me just for his entertainment. she then had a kid with him even tho we were already struggleing with money. and none of that affected me either . About 6 months ago I started thinking about killing myself, which really confuses me because compared to alot of people my life is good, and at first i didn't think anything of it but it was constantly getting worse, about 4 months ago I started cutting and once again I have no clue why, I just randomly get urges to do it and the more i ignore it the worse it gets and the the longer i wait the deeper i end up cutting, so I guess I do have emotions but... well I can't really feel them. and also I remember almost nothing that happened in my life past age 14 but from what I've been told all of my cousins and my sister and step brother were constantly making me miserable. When ever someone ask me to list good qualities about myself i freeze because I can't think of any. I have a lot of people that i chill with but I don't have any true friends, i've had 3 good friends in my life, 2 turned out to be backstabbing ***holes who were just using me and the other killed himself. I've had a few girlfriends but i didn't love any of them, I've actually never loved anyone, not even family, and that really disturbs me. last year i spend 2 months in juvie because my mom called the cops and said that i threatened to kill her even though i could never threaten to kill someone, and then told me that i got what i had coming because i did bad in school even tho i tried my hardest i just could never concentrate on anything longer then 2 minutes. I've been like that my whole life and when i was going to school it made my life hell because of all the trouble i'd get in at home for failing classes. there were a few years in my life where i was really bad with my mom, constantly flipping out and cussing her out, I finally got it under controll last year but she still constantly throws it in my face and acts like I'm a horrible person even though i hated myself after every fight i got in with her. I've had a couple therapist, and I've been in an anxiety counselling group and idk why but i could never tell them about wanting to kill myself and cutting, i really couldn't tell them any of my problems, I always feel like an ***hole when i complain about my life because there are sooo many people out there that have it so much worse then me. Sorry for the long paragraph, I didn't plan on writing anywhere near that much when i first started, I just sordove got in a trance and i couldn't stop typing lol Open Question: Do you think not being underweight is unlovable?For as long as I can remember I have wanted to be severely underweight. I love having my bones protrude so much that it hurts to have my back against a chair and I'm obsessed with the gap between my legs widening. I guess my eating disorder is finally out of control, but still only in the "it's an internal struggle" type of way (everyone comments upon how together I am, so at least no one else knows I'm a failure). People in my life and strangers always tell me how cheered up they feel after speaking with me and if anyone were to know that I have issues I wouldn't be that person anymore (people would pity me and they wouldn't feel comfortable sharing their problems, because they'd know how messed-up I am). I can't stop though. I always thought I wanted to be underweight for myself (the one thing I could have and not be selfish in keeping it to myself), however, I've come to realize that it's also about being worthy for me. My dad and brothers call me fat all the time (even when I was underweight they would say that), and my mom points out my specific body flaws non-stop. At school people ask if I'm Anorexic, but since I laugh that off they have their doubts and still feel comfortable asking me for advice (which is good)- it's weird hearing different things though. I know that the truth is that I'm huge. Sometimes people try to pick me up and I always try to get out of it, because I don't want to make someone collapse. Honestly, I feel like being tiny means one can be loved and held, but that being huge means one should only be there for others (and never need help of their own). People are always telling me that they love me and such, but they love the fat me (the one who sets them up with their boyfriends and would never go after a guy they're interested in, the one who will help them out in any situation, the one who is a doormat, and the one who is ugly). Whereas if I were small I could be really loved, whereas while I'm fat it's more of an "Aw, your gross but nice (I'm bad, but no one will accept that for some reason) so we're friends" thing. I attend a school where everyone is so kind and we're all friends, but I just got lucky. Do you think not being underweight is really unlovable? I just can't do this anymore. Hating my eating disorder is shaping up to be more confusing than loving it ever was. I'm so sorry that this post is evil and selfish, but I only mean it in relation to myself, even when I say "one" instead of "I" or "me" (I have nothing against anyone who is overweight, I'm just angry with myself for being gross because it makes ME unlovable). Thank you. Also, of course, my eating issues are about much more than my weight, but I won't go into that. Thanks so much. Open Question: Sharp pain in left testicle and in stomach..is this normal or an medical emergency?My boyfriend has been having a sharp pain in his left testicle and his stomach. It comes and goes but some nights its really bad. We haven't been having sex because of my pregnancy. Has anyone had any similar problems if so what was it? Open Question: Savage Garden (your opinion) Pop singer?Hi this is my second account in which lets me ask more questions. SAVAGE GARDEN so okies Darren heuys has been under a huge stress well before in the past suppose. But i still wish i new how come he has been so much upset and sadness? whats with all his worries and concirn? It all seems to happen right after jones left his group of savage garden... Yet i still wish i new why he left from savage garden leaving darren been the only solo pop singer.... Was there some dispute on money? or one of them was better and famours then the ather? So okies after he left there was only just darren himself from savage garden... And when he does these mini concert interviews he gets on the mic and ends up talking about (How you could change your life for the better) its like as if he trying to help athers but whats with the big ideal about all this sad times and lonelyness ? Please do tell us your espectulation and every time i seen him on television his allways ends up talking about something about sad times and changes and so on.... But still dont get the point of what exactly is darren heuys problem ? I wish i new. I think his beautiful and he is cute, Oh and back when the song called cherry cola came out in 1997? i straight away wondered and said to myself back in 1997... i heard this song els where.... it sounds abit like roxette or something... it has a similar tone sound... So yeah all this times i kept saying that song reminds me of another pop singer group that sounds very much the same with the sound of the music within. Aniways tell us alittle more dept into savage garden life as it happens love to hear from you. So also i want to know is it still called savage garden ? is he still lives in brisbane australia? course his australian. Who is hes boyfriend and how old is his boyfriend? Also what year was it when darren heuys was when he was just 33 years old? if you know what year he was 33yo with a picture of him at age 33 would love to know. Pretty much simple questions here. I will give YOU full rating and full stars if you can write down as much information and answer at least all my questions within. PLEASE NOTE: DO NOT SEND WEBSITE LINKS OR OFF-TOPIC WEBSITES AS WE DO NOT WANT SPAM HERE. we will report you. IF THERE ARE A WEBSITE YOU WISH TO SHOW US PLEASE WRITE IN CONCIRN EXACTLY WHAT THE SITE IS ABOUT IF ITS IN THE SAVAGE GARDEN SUBJECT. please write as much posible in your own words to gain full rating in the next within 24hours time. Goodluck Open Question: what can i do about this girl ruining every chance..?im 15. theres this girl iv known since 6th grade, we went to catholic school together. for some reason she makes everything between us a competition. for example i got a cute haircut and she went out and came back to school the next day and had the SAME haircut so that people could see who looked better (she walked around school saying "who looks better me or her?") .. i think she won but i dont know .. i got a new original haircut (i hate being hte same as people). my problem is that she keeps ruining my chances with guys. in 7th grade i had a huge crush on this one boy, she found out and started dressing a little sexier and was his girlfriend after 3 days, while she was with him i liked another guy, she started cheating on her boyfriend with the guy I LIKED! so i got over those 2 guys, then i got a boyfriend and all the sudden she loved my boyfriend and tried to make moves on him, but suddenly stopped when him and i broke up. then in 8th grade i liked another guy sure enough she became his girlfriend. (she didnt even like any of the guys she dated or that i liked!) .. so after i failed with that guy i moved on and got a boyfriend. she found out and said 'can i meet your boyfriend?' (he was in high school so she didnt know him) i asked her why and she said 'i want to see if he will like me more than you' .. i couldnt believe her! she never did meet that boyfriend but somehow tracked his number and called him a few times to flirt,, me and him dated about 7 months and then broke up. then there is a boy i have liked since i was around 7 and he was 9. we have known eachother forever, he was my first kiss, and i have liked him forever .. i really like him and honestly think i'm in love with him, i never told her i liked this boy but she knows he was my first kiss and knows that i have liked him in previous years and the other day we were talking in the hall and now she is flirting with him infront of me. so today on the bus i flirted back, but then he fell asleep (he had been up all night) so i figured i'd wake him up when i got off the bus (we are neighbors) and then i could give him a flirty smile or something. she comes by wake him up and then starts smiling and stuff at him. he and i had like a 20 minute conversation when she got off so i know that me and him are friends but still. what do i do? this girl always has to get everything i want! i really like this guy and i think i have a chance with him, what do i do so she cant get him? i know i sound mean but im desperate. Open Question: Anyone else had any problems conceiving?Ive been sexually active with my boyfriend for over a year now, and I have not gotten pregnant. I went through some tests last year with my GYN doc, and she said that everything looked ok...but even having sex during my "most fertile times" I haven't gotten pregnant. I am 25 years old and would like to know if its even possible for me to have children. Any suggestions?? also, ive never had regular periods... i havent had a period since august. More Recent Articles
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