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Open Question: which guy should i date? and more... Open Question: which guy should i date?im IN LOVE with them both. and i really would hate to hurt them. i've never cheated on any of my boyfriends and dont plan too. both of these guys like me back i might add. im 5'8 and 112 lbs. senior in high school. 17 guy #1- is 20 years old and a sophmore in college. he says that im so beautiful and classy and smart and he respects me. although he did say he was a bit of a freak. but he is SUPER nice and SUPER smart. he said he likes to cuddle and be intimate and all that stuff. he thinks im like the perfect size regarding weight. hes soo goofy and funny, but im goofy and weird and funny so we'd make a good couple. the only problem is his height. he's 5'8 tooo. but i suppose i could get over him. im a virgin until marriage b.t.w. he said i was adorable guy #2- he goes to my school. he's 17 like me. hes a junior. he doesnt talk as much as guy #1 and we have some akward silences. but hes really nice. he doesnt have like any friends. i always see him by himself so i be walking with him most of the time. i feel sooo bad for him because hes always alone. but he said he likes to be alone.. i guess. hes the PERFECT height. he's like 6'3 anddd tonedd and i just think hes really cute. he's got te whole damnnnn package. i just think he needs to be a tad bit more outgoing. but he said a lot of girls be trying to follow him and he dont like that but he said really likes me Open Question: Where did my orgasms go?? I'm a young woman.?I am only in my 20s. My boyfriend and I have been together for 2 years and are sexually active. My sex drive is HIGH, I am extremely attracted to him, we have make love almost daily. But I can't orgasm anymore.. it's been almost 4 months now. He's the only guy to give me one, I can't even get one through masturbation. I could only get an orgasm if he performs oral, or if I'm on top. But now I can't get them at all and this is so frustrating for me! I am not stressed, and my mind is not occupied by something else while we are being intimate. I was off birth control for about 3 months (we used condoms) and I have recently started again about a month and a half ago (same method). Could it be the hormones in the birth control? I'm on NuvaRing. I've also heard of Fematril, but I don't know how comfortable I am with this. I read it's for women with a low sex drive, and that's not my problem.. it's the inability to reach orgasm. I also heard bad things about the His and Her KY lube. This is very frustrating to me, and I don't want to hurt his feelings, he's doing everything that I like. You guys suck. Open Question: How do i fix this roommate problem? (kinda long)?So before i start.. My roommate and my boyfriend have been friends for a couple years. Me and her met through him and when she moved to Houston to go to school, we decided to room together because we got along really well...plus her boyfriend and my boyfriend are roommates so its just easier to room together. Before we moved in together, she knew i had a cat and i told her i wasnt the cleanest person. I usually only keep my room a mess but the living room/kitchen i clean my messes cause its everyones. So we moved in together and everything was fine at first. Then my friend had a littler of kittens and i asked her if its ok if i got another one so we would have two cats. She said yes and was really excited. Since i got another cat, i had to get another cat box. I put the other one (i had one in my closet) in my bathroom because my older cat stopped usuing the one in my closet. Well, my bathroom is near the front door so you can smell it when you open the door if i havnt cleaned it. She started bitching EVERY time she would come home...even if i had just cleaned it. She would be like "oh my god it smells PLEASE clean it" and her bf and mine would be like...we cant smell anything. So now, she is texting my boyfriend instead of me about stuff i need to do (like put away blankets in the living room or clean up a mess in the kitchen) and she refuses to tell ME. He keeps telling her "tell her cause i'm not going to" (he tells me anyway) but she seriously will not talk to me. Two days ago, a bottle of my syrup spilled on the carpet. I didn't know about it and apparently it has been there for a while. She, of course, texts my boyfriend instead of me so he doesn't tell me since she won't. I don't understand why she just wouldn't text me? She has been spending the past three days with her boyfriend at their apartment and i havn't seen her at all. She will send her bf over to get stuff from her apartment instead of herself coming over here. I've texted her a couple times asking her whats going on and why she is avoiding me. What do i do? I want to go talk to her face to face but everytime shes mad at someone and they confront her she just stands there and doesn't say ANYTHING. Help :( oh and i clean the catbox and kitchen every night Open Question: Walking on eggshells with my boyfriend. Why is he like this?First of all, I realize this is an unhealthy situation. I realize that I'm being codependent and what he's doing is mentally abusive and I know I should end it. However, when you're in a situation like this, it's easier said than done. I'm hoping that if I know *why* he is like this, it might be a bit easier for me to let go. My boyfriend of a year is an officer in the Army. He has a very stressful job, and has been in Iraq for two months now. However these problems have existed for our entire relationship, the distance hasn't created any new issues. Ever since I've known him, he's been kind of a quiet type. I figured he was just shy, and I'm somewhat shy at first, so I can understand this. However, a month or two into our relationship, I realized that he wasn't just shy and slow to warm up, he just has a brooding negative personality. The only way he shows any kind of affection is by buying me gifts (he bought me a Wii, I get flowers every few weeks, jewelry, and any little thing). I do not ask for the gifts, and I would MUCH rather get an enthusiastic hug from him than an expensive gift. I literally have to ask him to hug me more, he huffs if I try to cuddle on the couch, and I'm surprised if I get any random act of affection from him (a spontaneous "I love you" or holding my hand, etc). We have a decent sex life, but it's a wam bam thank you ma'am type of thing. The only way he knows how to show his love is by buying presents. But the real problem is this. He's so easily angered. He's deeply insecure and jealous. If another guy is in my presence in an entirely innocent situation (hanging out with my friend and her boyfriend, for example), he gets upset. He says he can't trust me and that I'm replacing him with another man. It's exhausting trying to explain myself constantly. I am not a cheater, it's deeply against my morals, but somehow I can't prove this to him. I promised him that I would be entirely faithful to him for the deployment and he shouldn't even have to worry about it. He said "I expect the worst, hope for the best." Furthermore, he's easily angered at really insignificant things. I interrupted a story he was telling the other day, and it infuriated him. If I miss a phone call or if I'm late or if I forget something that he's told me or if I even begin to suggest that I'm at all frustrated with him, he gets mad. An he doesn't even stay to discuss it, he just leaves. He'll leave me alone in his apartment, or if he's at my apartment he'll go home. He's left me at his uncle's house. I am NOT a fighter. I have had relationships where we never had a single big blow out fight. So whenever he gets upset over these tiny things, I find myself apologizing profusely. Desperately trying to salvage the peace. Even though I know perfectly well that it's his own darn fault for being mad about a stupid insignificant thing, I apologize. If I stand up and say "get over it," he leaves. Besides all of that, he's just always in an unhappy mood. Now that he's in Iraq, he calls every other day or so, and I wait for his calls, I love hearing from him. I'm bursting with things to tell him, and to tell him I love him. He complains about work, complains how he's tired, and if I ever try to tell him a story or anything, he says "well, I need to get back to work." I always feel defeated and disappointed after his calls. I know he loves me. He always talks about getting married, he sends very sweet notes about how much he loves me and misses me. He had a lockett made with our names engraved on it and our favorite picture of us inside it. Just little gestures like that let me know that he loves me. But at the same time, I've never felt satisfied. If he loves me, why can't he be happy to talk to me? Why does he constantly criticise me and pick at me? I don't need expensive gifts, it would make my world if just one day he could call and sound enthusiastic to talk to me and say "I love you so much!" I've read dozens of stories of women with men just like mine. But I don't understand why. Why is he like this? Again, I know this is unhealthy and that he will not change. I know I need to end it, but when you truly care about a person, it's hard to let them go....even if they are hurting you. Open Question: All the single ladies!! LOL?Venting: UGH!! I need to make some new friends who are single!! Any out there!?!?!?!?! lol jkk So sick of hangout with my friends and their boyfriends/girlfriends and listening to their problems and looking at their lovey dovey faces!! Open Question: I SEE NOBODY BUT HIM...its tearing me up inside now...HOW DO I MAKE MYSELF FALL IN LOVE?I was in a string of bad relationships...the latest broke my jaw and gave me stitches I met my best friend...He treated me better than ANYONE who ever claimed to be my boyfriend and in love with me. We stayed friends though because he didn't want to be with me. The problem is that when I meet guys, I compare them to him. If they cant treat me better, or at least equal, to the way my best friend can, I dont want any parts of them...I feel like I settle and sell myself short if I'm not happy with the way i'm being treated. I settled last time and HE tried to kill me...I'm not stuck up, i'm just not going through things like that again EDIT: for a while i THOUGHT i was in love with my best friend...I found out it was just GREAT APPRECIATION. There is a difference and I recognize it More Recent Articles
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