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Open Question: When should I tell a man about my change of genders? and more... Open Question: When should I tell a man about my change of genders?I got some really good avice on my first question and would appriciate your views on this - I was unfortunately born in the body of a boy and hated it, about 7 years ago I finally admitted I cound not go on and I had to be the woman I am supposed to be. The following years were difficult but now I am complete and have the complete female body to match the real me. I have divorced, got a nice 2 bedroom flat, new car etc and am leading my life as Lorraine. I have moved into a new area, got a new job and even had a promotion. Very few people where I live know about my former life, it is so refreshing that my neighbours, friends and work colleagues see me as Lorraine. Any way I am living a very happy life as Lorraine but now I want to try the dating scene. I always knew that if I became the real Lorraine it might be harder to form relationships but I so want a boyfriend. There is a guy I know, his name is Graeme, and I am falling for him in a big way, we have become friends and have flirted a bit but I want so much more. I have also heard from a friend of a friend that he is keen on me. Now without sounding big headed but he has no idea about my past.... ... we have done nothing yet but I so want to. My problem is when to tell him about my past or should I even tell him. I have formed a really nice life and am accepted as Lorraine and don't want everyone to know about my past... I think I would tell a man if we got serious but I am not going to tell every man that shows an interest! On the other hand the longer I put it off the harder it will be to tell. I know Graeme has a positive attitute to transsexuals (I have casually mentioned it in passing). I just want to get on with dating but as often happens I worry my past will impact my future. When should I tell Graeme or any other guy? Open Question: 16 nearly 17 and never had a boyfriend?Im 16 years old 17 in June, Ive never had a boyfriend kissed or dated yet You might think its young but aaaah :( I've always wondered if im ever going to get one. Im 5''10 and tall And i think that boys are intimidated by my height, I'm quite shy at first and find it difficult to talk to cute boys because I always think that they look down on me. Im not desperate for a boyfriend but I've always felt left out and pressured. I'm confident and I smile alot, & if someone talks to me Ill talk back and be nice, But boys seem to not be attracted to me, why is this? :( I know that if i go out and socialise and meet new people then ill become more confident and comfortable, I want to wait for the right one, I've never been interested in Fling relationships, I've always wanted someone to love me for who I am on the inside & out. But I can't find no one. I get so upset when my friends talk about boys & their boyfriends :( I get compliments that I'm pretty but i don't care about those compliments. my personality isnt bad and i have a good sense of humor. Help me please and thankyou :) i've posted it on yahoo answers, because i don't know who to talk to about it and I kinda feel ashamed of talking about this problem with anyone else who i know in real life. More Recent Articles
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