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Open Question: When friendship hurts? and more... Open Question: When friendship hurts?Ok I have this friend who always wants to talk bout herself if I have a story she never wants to listen she always tell me about her problems n I am glad that she trust me but I wanna talk about sething else N also it kinda hurts for me to be her friend she is very rich n I know for a fact her life is perfect except for her boyfriend I have a lot of things going on at home n I feel so sad when talking to her I am not sure if I should end my friendship if I should. How should I go bout it Open Question: HELP me out please about ma ex.?Ok so like i have this ex boyfriend riqht? Ok well like where do i even beqan..Me and him went out over the summer and i was his first qirl friend.and first kiss.(: like we were only flirtinq buddies from july 21st 2009 to auqust 13th 2009 cause auqust 13th 2009 was the day we were offical(: ok well he broke up with me october 7th,2009. and the reason was he didnt see me that mutch but he still likes me,well ever since we broke up we flirt off and on off and on and we arque like were qoinq out and sumtimes talk like it..but idk whats his problem is like thee other day he was beinq so sweet and monday and today he has been a jerk at times...what do i do to make this work...cause this friday ma friend is havinq this biq party and like he is qivinq me a chance to be with him and decide if we qo back out or not...but i dont know what to do...? help and give me tips about what to do this friday and leave me some advice about what to do with this guy. Open Question: Am I being too much of a 'friend' than a 'girlfriend' material?There is this boy that I met at an after school activity and it seems we are growing very fond of each other and I like him! Alot! I've been trying to be very delicate with him because I want him to like me too and it paid off! He likes me alot now. But am I being too much of a 'friend' than a 'girlfriend' material? because I want him as a boyfriend and not just friends! : -He said 'loooool ur cute' and I answered 'bebe I know ;)' -he tells me about his family problems/ his plans for the future ... he started being more open with me. and he tries to find out as much as he can about me too. -I told him a funny story about how I saved his butt when the teacher accused him of somthing and he said 'oh!I love you.' -He wanted me to listen to a song he likes when we were alone together and it was 'halo' by beyonce We've been getting real close, joking around and talking very often. He is so comfortable with me now and my only concern at this point is that this might lead to him thinking of me as a friend than someone he likes. Lets just say we are both about 15-18. How can I be more of a girl friend than a friend!? Should I stay away from giving him cool witty answers...? How do I get to the point!? I want to some how slide in the clue to him because I don't want to get him annoyed or nervous etc Open Question: He should understand, right?I caught my boyfriend of a year + 3 months cheating on me for the second time. He is in Germany now and has tried to call me multiple times everyday for a week. I can't take his voice mails or emails, he will never change. MY QUESTION: If I never speak to him again, he will know that I have forgiven him but I just need to move on, right? I feel like saying, "I love you but I don't this anymore," however, that would entail speaking or writing him, and one one of the only reasons it's been easier to get over him is the fact that I haven't communicated with him in days. And I feel better everyday. Please don't tell me I'm stupid for caring about his feelings; I was in a 15 month relationship. I am not considering going back to him. My problem is that I just want him to understand that I DO love him, without having to tell that to him. He should understand that, right? Open Question: Boyfriend&Myspace Issue..?So I asked my boyfriend for his myspace password since I love putting things like "i love you" in his status. I've only done that once months ago and he gave me his password right away. I quickly changed his status and got off. Now, he refuses to give me the password again for some reason. It's really bothering me. I asked him what it was and he said "i don't know." I asked why he refused to give me it and he said "its weird." He didn't really give me a real reason so I dropped it. Does he not trust me or something? I know I'm not the type of person to go read his messages. Thats going past the boundary. I respect any privacy he has. And I know I would never do anything to his myspace, no matter how mad I get. And he knows this. Yet he still refuses to give me it. He acts like I'm gonna write it down and log on all the time like some stalker but I'm not like that. I would honestly have no problem giving him my myspace password. We've been together for over a year now so of course I trust him. I don't understand why he doesn't feel the same though. I know I'm overreacting a little but this is just bothering me a lot. I know if I bring it up again, he'll get mad... So can someone tell me why he's acting like this? Thank you:) Sorry this is in the wrong category! I wasn't really looking at that. I guess yahooanswers just assumed it was myspace cuz it said myspace a whole buncha times. Haha again, sorry!:) Open Question: What to do about a weird room mate?OK, so I recently moved in with my boyfriend and one of his friends. We needed the money so we allowed him to live with us. There was no problem at all at first, now we are together almost everyday and I can't stand it. He is way to cuddly with me no matter how many times I tell him to lay off. I'm in an open relationship, which he takes to mean that he can flirt with me as much as he wants. But the real kicker was today when he asked me to be his friend with benefits. I told him that I don't want to do that just in case it made things weird. But that was the only nice way I could think of to tell him no. Then when I was going to get out of the car he asked me again and told me not to answer yet just to seriously think about it. How do I tell him that I don't want to fool around with him, nor am I comfortable with him being so touchy-feely with me? Thanks Open Question: Ok you Awesome Ppl have got to help me make a decision!!!?Ok so My boyfriend and i have been together for 2 yrs. He just moved 1 state over after just getting out of the Military, to go to a university and get a good job. Well i cant move there until my lease is up in 8 months. The problem is i cant trust him bc he has cheated on me 3 times before. But now he swears that he has changed and that im the one he wants to be with. I treat him well never lie or cheat. Im'a five star chic=0 He says he wants to wait 2 more yrs until he gets married again but i would like to within the nxt yr. Well this new years i was going to drive to see him (11 hours) but his friend told me that he's not worth my time and that im stupid for being with him. Should i give this guy a chance to see if he's really changed? Should i go see him in 3 wks? Should i move when i get the chance to be with him? Open Question: My ex boyfriend has ALOT of problems..?Such as Compulsively lying, unable to control his anger(maybe bipolar), ADHD, plays ALOT of head games, and the school has labeled him as Emotionally Disturbed. He used to get in alot of trouble at school until we met than he started changing, and getting better with his actions. We went out for a year and than he randomly broke up with me never giving me a straight reason.. And now hes back into his old ways of acting out and Im really worried about him. He also gets pretty depressed and has threatened suicide before.. And im worried about him, even though he broke up with me.. He also has a REALLY screwed up home life also. We used to be really close and he is really is a good person, I just don't know what happened to him. My question is, Should i try and help him again and try to be his friend? If so how? any tips? Or should i just go on my way and leave him to get worse..Which i would rather not do because i care to much. Oh and by the way were in 8th grade.. Thanks. Oh and, he has been to many diffrent counselors and nothing has worked.. More Recent Articles
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