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Open Question: What's your opinion on feminism? Everyone who gives 5 stars gets a thumbs up.? and more... Open Question: What's your opinion on feminism? Everyone who gives 5 stars gets a thumbs up.?I KNOW THIS IS LONG, BUT I WANT EVERYONE TO READ THIS, I'VE BEEN THINKING ABOUT IT A LOT. To be honest, It kind of makes me mad. Whether we like it or not, women have an advantage over men. First of all, why can't we hit them? If a girl hits me, I can't hit her back? Uh, no. I'll f*ck a bitch up if she wants to start a problem. But why is that so politically incorrect, yet, women can hit men and it's ok because she's emotional? Ok sorry, I'm ranting and getting off topic, but please bear with me, this might interest you so please listen (read) to what i have to say. Another point, why do women want to eliminate sexism, yet, they're fine with the little rules like "ladies first", or pulling her chair out for her, or that the boyfriend pays for the dates and the wedding rings etc, etc... Also, they use their periods as an excuse to be a complete b**ch. Excuse me if I'm wrong, but don't you know that it comes every month? Take birth control if you don't want cramps, but don't throw shoes at me because you weren't prepared for your time of the month! Okay, my point is that I don't have respect for women. I have respect for EVERYONE. Every living being. But i think that even the statement "you have no respect for women" is sexist in itself, ladies and gentlemen. I don't respect you for your gender and no one else should. Anyway, what do you think? I'm supposed to be writing an essay for 9th grade language arts on feminism, and this isn't actually what I'm turning in to my teacher, but some of the points I've made here are going to go into my project. EDIT: I didn't mean 5 stars, I just meant star my question and I'll give you thumbs up. I was on youtube and I was thinking about ratings. Sorry. Open Question: Can the relationship be saved or is it time to walk away?Almost 8 year relationship you learn alot about someone and yourself. Looking back you can really see how a person changes over time. When me and the gf got to together she was a college freshman, not experienced in love or relationships. I'm 4yrs older and have had alot of relationships before her, but I can say she was my first real love. Things were really good for several years, then I started to wonder if she could be the "one" and I wasn't sure. I didn't have any real problems with our relationship, just unsure if it was to be forever or not. Only real complaint was that she couldn't express and discuss things that bothered her. It was like I had to pry out her feelings. Funny but I kinda felt like the chick in the relationship. Her relationship comunication was non-existant, but I figured that was something we could work on, as I was her first real relationship. I stuck with it as we were planning to spend our lives together, and had discussed marriage after she had finished with grad school. My idea, as I wanted her to concentrate on reaching her career goals. And grad school ended up being much harder on our relationship than either of us had imagined. Four years later, her first year of grad school was ok, then throughout the remainder of it she slowly changed. She became stressed out from constantly studying (perfectionist) she became a less caring person, maybe less thoughtful of my feelings. In one word, narcissistic. I felt as she took everything for granted. We had lived together since basically the begining of our relationship, but I upgraded us to a nice condo (she couldn't even pay her half, or a quarter for that fact) provided her a nice car to drive. And that was ok by me, beause I wanted to see her happy. It did bother me that she never acknowledged any of these type things I would do for her. I blamed all of this on the stress from grad school and thought once she graduated it would all pass. Even though the stress between us was building. Then her last year of school I became unemployed when the economy nose dived. She was upset that "all I did was sit around the house and do nothing" and thought that I should go get any job I could. My self esteem was the lowest it's ever been, I was probably clinically depressed and to apathetic to change anything. And to be honest I was still too proud to fill out a job application at McD's not so much the job but the pay. Going from a healthy 6-figure income to <$10 was too much pride for me to swallow. I kept thinking $10x40hr won't even pay the bills. I'll just tap my savings till I find work again. I emailed my resume to every company I knew of, my entire industry had crumbled. And so was our relationship. Her being stressed out and then she saw it as I wasn't even willing to make an attempt to find a job. (back to my pride thing) Eventually I found a job to pay the bills until I could get back into my career. So she graduates and gets an intern position out of state. Her first trip back home she brings up the idea of breaking up, after an arguement. I said fine. Then later that evening I told her I still loved her and wanted things to work, had to talk her into trying to make it work, but she said ok. So now we are trying to rebuild our relationship while doing a long distance thing. Since then I've gotten back into my career field, and done alot of soul searching and self discovery. Rediscovered and committed myself to goals I once had, both personal and proffesionally. My gf is even opening up and freely discussing the feelings she was once to timid to confess. The problem now is she says she loves me and doesn't want to lose me as I've been her best friend for so long. But says she doesn't feel the spark anymore. (she said this changed back when I was unemployeed and depressed) And since we only see each other once every month or two, she feels as if when we are together it feels "weird". I asked what she means and she just says weird and she doesn't know how else to explain it. I said like awkward-weird? She said kind of. Now we talk on the phone a few nights a week as I'm trying to give her some space. And everything seems ok, but not good. I have so many confused feelings about all of this. Half of me thinks she will never appriciate me as one of my female friends opinions was that I have spoiled her and she doesn't know how good a boyfriend she has. I think if we did breakup she would eventually want me back. I'm not going to wait for her and honestly feel like if we breakup it's for good. I'm not going to rule out the possibility of taking her back. I just know myself and I won't be single for long, I want a relationship with possibility of a future. If it looks like there is a future with someone else I won't let her back in. I've already took my time to get over the hurt and rejection, and while it still hurts some I feel as if I'm ready to move on. Not comple Open Question: Why am I so emotionless?I'm 17, 10/29/08 my best friend killed himself, and idk why but it didn't really affect me emotionally at all(I never talked to anyone about it). A couple weeks ago I moved from Michigan to Tennessee to get away from my mom and her dick boyfriend and I don't even miss any of my friends or family. when i was 13 my stepdad (my dad ditched out on me before i was born and i have no clue who he is(and that doesn't affect me emotionally either) and my stepdad got with my mom before i was 1 so he was always like my real dad) got addicted to meth and started getting really aggresive,he was constantly yelling at everyone and breaking evertying and he threatened to kill us several times, my mom finally ended up divourcing him and that didn't affect me either. Not even a year after that my mom ended up getting with some asshole who was constantly being a dick to me just for his entertainment. she then had a kid with him even tho we were already struggleing with money. and none of that affected me either . About 6 months ago I started thinking about killing myself, which really confuses me because compared to alot of people my life is good, and at first i didn't think anything of it but it was constantly getting worse, about 4 months ago I started cutting and once again I have no clue why, I just randomly get urges to do it and the more i ignore it the worse it gets and the the longer i wait the deeper i end up cutting, so I guess I do have emotions but... well I can't really feel them. and also I remember almost nothing that happened in my life past age 14 but from what I've been told all of my cousins and my sister and step brother were constantly making me miserable. When ever someone ask me to list good qualities about myself i freeze because I can't think of any. I have a lot of people that i chill with but I don't have any true friends, i've had 3 good friends in my life, 2 turned out to be backstabbing ***holes who were just using me and the other killed himself. I've had a few girlfriends but i didn't love any of them, I've actually never loved anyone, not even family, and that really disturbs me. last year i spend 2 months in juvie because my mom called the cops and said that i threatened to kill her even though i could never threaten to kill someone, and then told me that i got what i had coming because i did bad in school even tho i tried my hardest i just could never concentrate on anything longer then 2 minutes. I've been like that my whole life and when i was going to school it made my life hell because of all the trouble i'd get in at home for failing classes. there were a few years in my life where i was really bad with my mom, constantly flipping out and cussing her out, I finally got it under controll last year but she still constantly throws it in my face and acts like I'm a horrible person even though i hated myself after every fight i got in with her. I've had a couple therapist, and I've been in an anxiety counselling group and idk why but i could never tell them about wanting to kill myself and cutting, i really couldn't tell them any of my problems, I always feel like an ***hole when i complain about my life because there are sooo many people out there that have it so much worse then me. Open Question: Its long but please read and answer. Need Advice!?My boyfriend and I broke up 4 months ago. It had been a 3 and half year relationship and we had plans of being together forever, as do most long term relationships. After we broke up I liked another guy who was my exboyfriend's friend (We'll call him J) J had liked me for over a year while we didn't talk and legitimately loves me. Once he found out I had feelings towards him, he was a complete sweetheart, as always. He brought me on the most amazing date, including golf, lunch, a mountain walk, watching the sunset, he rented a movie and he even gave me a back massage. He seemed perfect. So, I decided to date him. While we were dating, every time we drank he was really mean and acted angry. He'd say hurtful things many times. Since I have a father who's an alcoholic, it reminded me of that and hit home for me. Plus, I started to realize I wasn't over my ex. I thought, if I talk to him it will be fine. So we had a little talk about his drinking. One night he drank to the point where he almost burnt my house down while sleep walking. Not his fault, but still a problem. So, I broke up with him. I had told him it was mostly because I wasn't over my ex. Which, he helped me through. After a month of being friends I was starting to get over my ex. J was really trying. He was nice when he drank and still hasn't gotten drunk like he used to. He says he'd do anything for me. Then.. I get a phone call from my ex boyfriends mom saying the ex was in the hospital because J beat him up. Story was, J had been harassing the ex for a couple months and wanted to fight even though my ex didn't want to, he had no other choice. J hit him once and he hit his head on the pavement when he went down so hard that he got memory loss and brain damage from it. I got extremely upset, worried and disappointing in J. I'm not a violent person, I hate confrontations and anger. So I told him I never want anything more then friends. Well after a while J couldn't handle just being friends because he loved me too much, which I understood. It just hurt being so close. We said a last goodbye and he left my house. I was miserable again for 4 days... then he started talking to me again because he said not talking didn't help, it just made it worse. So here we are again.. I do have feelings for him.. but After the drinking situations(which are fixed), the fight which he was a complete *** about, and my ex's parents always telling me how much of a loser he is.. I don't know what to do. Also, my mother says hes a good guy but I should lay low and single for a while. idk I like him but he loves me.. should I just give him another chance? Or look outside the box? Open Question: Peoples Help, opinion and guidance?I have never asked a wuestion on here before but for quite sometime i have been looking for somewhere to go with a small problem i have. I have a very loving boyfriend who means the world to me and i know that he loves me too. my only problem is that sometimes, not all the time he goes out on the weekend drinks a stupid amount them comes home and is uncontrollable. Its getting to the stage where im running out or excuses to explain the small bumps and bruises. I had an easy life growing up compared to him and i no that when he drinks he lets out alot of emotion and his not dealing with it well. I dont want people to suggest just leaving him because i love him to much and that ia all anyone he has ever loved has done, walk away from him. I just need ideas on how to help him deal with his emotions when is sober so when his drunk his not so over whlemed Open Question: i need help its a boy problem?help me please i have a boyfriend ..... and we been going out for six months. and he said that my friend had nice butt and he kinda likes her.. what should i do ask him if its true and confront him or just leave it alone More Recent Articles
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