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Open Question: What would cause a grown man to suddenly start wetting the bed? and more... Open Question: What would cause a grown man to suddenly start wetting the bed?A month ago I finally brought my boyfriend of six months home for a weekend to meet my parents. He was really nervous, spent the night on a blow up mattress in the living room and came up to me in the middle of the night to tell me he'd wet the bed! (there was absolutely no alcohol involved) I was surprised to say the least but of course this doesn't change the way I feel about him. I just want to help. He did that twice that weekend (both nights he was at my house) and we never really talked about it until it happened again tonight. Twice. He shouldn't be having this problem.. If anyone could help us figure out whats causing this or how it can be fixed we'd be so thankful. My man is so mortified right now. The first couple times he said he felt it as it was happening and he stopped it before it got to the bed. Last night I guess he didn't even notice until he woke up... We are back home now, away from my parents. His nervousness over meeting them could have been the reason, then, but it isn't now. It's not an STD, we've both been checked. What are the symptoms of a UTI or bladder infection? How would his prostate come into play? Open Question: Have I been in the wrong with my man..? I feel angry for this situation..?I lost my temper badly and my boyfriend no longer talks to me..Help? I have been seeing this man for over a year..(i'm 26 and his 38.) We have been on and off, his told me his not sure if a relationship is what he wants (or with me). But I've been convinced we are good together and he cant see it yet because we've had some arguments and broken up. I have been really patient, given him time and we've had so much fun together..we've been really close and intimate..We can talk about anything! My vision is though theres always obstacles in every relationship and i didn't expect him to be ready to settle down with me so soon because his been alone most of his life and not really used to having another person in his life full time. His also had a broken marriage (his wife was unfaithful and left him) However i found out his been talking about some very personal issues about me/us to a mutual acquittance and making nasty banter about me behind my back..i was really hurt his been putting me down in front of someone i know by acting like im nothing and showing his chatting other girls.. I thought we were really close because we spend so much time together and even spend most nights together..i felt his been my rock and my love and my best friend..but his been trying to hide from others were even together..i felt so hurt because he said he still wants to be with me, he cares, but wants take it slow to see if his more ready in the future. The other night he was so cold and rude to me, so i snapped and i got really angry.. i yelled so much out of rage towards him..I was so angry he couldn't treat me right and i felt misused and betrayed.. He's not even talking to me now and i dont really expect it or wish it..He thinks i have the problem but is it normal to get so angry or have this built-up anger in this situation..? He said i lost it so bad i nearly hit him and broke a plate..He thinks im not normal..I was so angry. Is it better if I don't see him anymore? It woud be hard because his been the closest person to me and i dont have many close people around where am..I feel really bad about this situation but at the same time im still angry because i felt his been emotionally abusive towards me and i deserve better. I still can't let it go but i wish i could.. Open Question: Gift ideas for my boyfriends new house?Christmas is comin up and my bf actually has everythin...he's moving into a new house soon and I was wondering does anyone have any good ideas for a housewarming gift? The problem is he's a real man's man and I dont no what he would like because everytime I ask him he says don't buy anything for me!! argghh! so annoying! Any help much appreciated!! Open Question: I have been dating my boyfriend for 6 years now,?we are talking about marriage, just recently he has been communicating with a girl that he has known for 20 years or so, he says they are just friends, but he told me that she is interested in being with him more than just a friend. He says she just calls him, but I have proof that he calls her often. I have asked him several times about her and he denies having contact with her. I don't have a problem with him being friends with her, if that is all it is, but because of him lying I feel he is hiding something and can not trust him. We are together every night so I don't believe they are together, it is just the phone calls that bother me. He tells me he loves me but I feel he is feeling guilty about something.. How should I handle this? Open Question: Is this is considered cheating...?My boyfriend lives far away and him and I were going through a rough patch. A guy I work with asked me to climb a small hill that over looks the city with him after work one night. I did because I was upset and he listened to everything that I was going through and gave me advice. At the end of the walk when we hugged he tried to kiss me and I pulled away because it's not right. But because I wasnt getting enough attention from my boyfriend, deep down I kinda wanted too.. and I told my friend that too. I never told my boyfriend because I knew he would be upset but, I would never cheat on my boyfriend though. Then another night after we were helping our friend from work he asked me to go out for pizza, so I did and I offered to pay my meal but he refused. He was there to listen to my problems and make me feel wanted at the time. One night when I was out and my boyfriend and I had a fight, I went to meet my friend and he tried to kiss me again that night, but I told him I wanted to kiss him too but it wasnt right, and i never did. I could never do that. So my boyfriend and I are a lot better now and my friend had kept texting me all the time asking why I stopped talking to him and why we couldnt hang out anymore. So I told him to stop talking to me all together because I didnt want to ruin what my boyfriend and I have. Now I kinda feel guilty and think I should tell my boyfriend...but hes a very jealous man and Im worried things wont be the same..I really dont know what to do, please help!!! Open Question: I lost my temper badly and my boyfriend no longer talks to me..Help?I have been seeing this man for over a year..(i'm 26 and his 38.) We have been on and off, his told me his not sure if a relationship is what he wants (or with me). But I've been convinced we are good together and he cant see it yet because we've had some arguments and broken up. I have been really patient, given him time and we've had so much fun together..we've been really close and intimate..We can talk about anything! My vision is though theres always obstacles in every relationship and i didn't expect him to be ready to settle down with me so soon because his been alone most of his life and not really used to having another person in his life full time. His also had a broken marriage (his wife was unfaithful and left him) However i found out his been talking about some very personal issues about me/us to a mutual acquittance and making nasty banter about me behind my back..i was really hurt his been putting me down in front of someone i know by acting like im nothing and showing his chatting other girls.. I thought we were really close because we spend so much time together and even spend most nights together..i felt his been my rock and my love and my best friend..but his been trying to hide from others were even together..i felt so hurt because he said he still wants to be with me, he cares, but wants take it slow to see if his more ready in the future. The other night he was so cold and rude to me, so i snapped and i got really angry.. i yelled so much out of rage towards him..I was so angry he couldn't treat me right and i felt misused and betrayed.. He's not even talking to me now and i dont really expect it or wish it..He thinks i have the problem but is it normal to get so angry or have this built-up anger in this situation..? He said i lost it so bad i nearly hit him and broke a plate..He thinks im not normal..I was so angry. Is it better if I don't see him anymore? It woud be hard because his been the closest person to me and i dont have many close people around where am..I feel really bad about this situation but at the same time im still angry because i felt his been emotionally abusive towards me and i deserve better. I still can't let it go but i wish i could.. More Recent Articles
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