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Open Question: What to do when you're stuck single for a while? I mean a long while? and more... Open Question: What to do when you're stuck single for a while? I mean a long while?I had a break-up about 5 weeks ago. It was with my first boyfriend/first love from Germany. We could never see eachother. We were together for 9 months. He was very important to me. So now that ended. And now I know what I'm looking for. And I now know what I don't like. I'm a quick learner and I read people easily. So I don't have a cell phone or a car because I'm in High School. I'm from a town of 1,400 people, and a school of 300 people. I see the same boys every year and they've all been here since I was in kindergarten. I don't party on weekends, because I don't like parties... all the drinking...no. I get A's in school and I'm not an immature, self-centered female. But I know that I'll probably be single for a long time. It takes time to find someone really good. But the problem is, is that I don't think boys like me that way. Barely any do. It's almost like that if I get good grades, guys think I'm not fun...because I don't party. Of course I don't want those guys... but I'm 5'4 130 lbs (9 years of gymnastics) and I have light blonde hair and blue eyes. What do I do. I'm always lost. Open Question: Anxiety that I can't seem to shake off; please help?I'm literally at a point in my life where I don't know what the f**k to think anymore! For about five years now, I have been working for the a private owned company that does face painting and airbrush art at Six Flags and the local zoo. I'm one of their assistant managers out at Six Flags and lately, I also do odd jobs for them in their office on a "as needed" basis during the off winter season. I was scheduled to come into the office this morning, but plans changed--My boss called the night before and said that he'll be busy all weekend at the zoo so I have to take the day off today, and he told me to call him back on Sunday to see when I would coming back in next week. This is a real blow; my weekend is ruined now since I'll be worrying for the next two days wondering if my job is still going to be there and if I'll have to take out unemployment at least until Six Flags opens back up in April. I'm lucky and grateful to earn extra money at their office, but I hate how things are so unpredictable--it leaves me to think I'm getting fired or something will go under and I'll be out of a job. I am basically losing touch with reality where my anxiety consumes me cause I'm not making a quick buck now. I have also been looking for a second job at restaurants and bars. I had a interview yesterday at a sports bar and grill and the manager spent less than five minutes with me which is a really bad sign. He didn't even extend a handshake to me like they're supposed to!! I think I f**k'd up the interview cause it took less than five minutes. I'm going later on today to apply at Applebees. Now these are jobs that I totally hate but I have to have a second job since I desparately have to move out with my boyfriend in March. He and I are obligated by his sister to move into a trailer park by the beginning of March. We both are in a position where we can't support ourselves on our own yet: He lives with a friend in a runned down apartment helping out with bills here and there every month and has two jobs that are not much support and don't have health benefits. In fact, he and his friend were behind on rent and were about to be evicted. I still live with my parents with only about $4,900 in my name--I need that in case something goes wrong since I have no health insurance and for food. Of course my boyfriend and everyone else says that I am putting unnecessary pressure on myself; I don't have any kids and none on the way, or other serious financial problems now. But I have to disagree; I don't think I'm being unreasonable at all here. Anyone else's input appreciated. NO SPAMMING about online opportunities or else I'll report you. Thanks. Oh yeah, I'm on Pristiq antidepressant and I'm gonna call my doc about switching to Xanax hoping it will shake this anxiety I have. Open Question: How do i overcome this emotionally abusive relationship?I'm 16, turning 17 in January and i love my boyfriend very much, we've been dating for two years and we've been planning on moving in together after i graduate. Lately we've been having a lot of problems because my mom is finally letting me go out, but now anytime i want to go out, he wants to come too; Now I told him that there's time for friends and time for him, but atm i'm not allowed to see him cause my mom doesn't like him, so on the weekends when i see my friends, that's the only time i can see him. My boyfriend is very insecure, i can't have guy friends on Myspace (unless he knows them) and i recently added a Myspace application called a "Truth Box" and he asked me if i added that for guys attention. It makes me upset because after 2 years, he's taking me for granted. -I've tried telling him that he's being controlling and i won't take it, so he needs to change, but now i'm noticing that we're fighting almost every day. I guess i can say that i'm ready to let go of this relationship, but whenever i think about life without him i can barely breathe. So my question is, How do i overcome this emotionally abusive relationship? For instance, what are some ways to keep my mind off of him if i do plan to end it? -Thanks.. Open Question: This girl has the hots for me, but one problem, she has a BF. Should I make a move?She's a new co-worker and I've only known her for a few months now, and her boyfriend is a cross between an idiot and a jerk. I know she's into me because there are just certain cues guys pick up on when we know a girl is into us. First she's always saying my name (and I don't ever remember formally introducing myself to her!) and holding eye contact. When she's with her BF she always look uncomfortable (most likely from something stupid he's done), and she always waves at me with a sort of "help" expression, lol. When explaining things to her she always gets close and touches me (in a playful way). I do find her attractive, and not just in a one night stand sort of way : ) I'm not an immoral person but she's obviously tired of this guy. I ask should I make a move on her or should I just leave his one alone. Open Question: How can I ask my mother to let me visit him?Me and my boyfriend have been together for more than a year, and everything is great. In September he moved to university in the north of England (I live in the south of England.) We have been talking on MSN and Skype, on the phone etcetera and it is okay... But he has invited me to spend a week with him at his flat in uni... I really want to go, I want to be able to be face to face. I would travel by train and he said that he'd help me with the costs. The only problem is, I don't know how to approach my parents to ask them if I can stay. My mother knows about my boyfriend but she hasn't met him properly. I am scared to ask. I want to know how I should ask this question to her without her freaking out... Can anyone provide some advice? By the way, I am 15 and my boyfriend is 18. (My mother knows his age and is fine with it.) Please don't judge me by my age! :):) Open Question: How can I teach my boyfriend to kiss better?So I am dating this guy who I haven't know very long at all, about a week. When we started kissing I tried a little, and noticed he uses a LOT of tongue. So i told him i just wanted to do little kisses for a while. It was cute and all, but now he wonders why I will not make out with him. Since I don't know him very well, but we are already really close, how could i fix this problem while NOT SEEMING like I am the bad kisser. that's the part i'm worried about! too much tongue, too fast. i honestly don't even know what to do with it. ha. that is why i dont want it to look like its my fault. also, when he kisses me he gets really close, (obviously) but if there is no room behind me i cant possibly kiss him. how i can i tell him i need space (literally) ? Open Question: Something I feel so bad about, Yet I need an opinion?Ok so, A few months ago and i came out i was gay, And then shortly after my best friend came out and said he liked me, time passed and we agreed to give it a try, but there's a problem, I thought i loved him until another guy walked into my life, gay and a really good friend from college, he talks to me about everything, he's funny and charming in his own way, And he has a really good looking boyfriend who's the biggest @ss ive met and ive had times when {friend} comes to me in tears because of what he's said and done to him, and i honestly didnt know what love was untill i met him, Now im in a relationship with a guy who i only love as my bestfriend, and ive tried so hard to love him more but its killing me being with someone who loves so damn much and i cant return the favour to him, I've given it time and a few weeks ago it was ruining my mind so much it pushed me over the edge to the point where im thinking my lifes going know where and im crying to get out. Am I just like the worst guy in the world right now for feeling like this??? I have to say im the nicest guy you could possibly know and wouldnt hurt anyone on purpose, Im not a flirt and i dont just move from one guy to another {boyfriend} was and still is my first. Thanks -Jordan Open Question: What is this bump on my upper lip?I'm a 14 year old girl, and I noticed just a few minutes ago have this bump on the inside of my upper lip. There are two little black dots on it that appear to be scabs, but I cannot be sure. It is merely a bump, and not exactly a cut. It isn't painful or anything, it's just there. It wasn't there before however. I think I MIGHT know the problem. I was with my boyfriend the previous day, and he has the tendency to bite at my lip. This could've been a result of such, but would it cause a bump? I don't know. I'm not very worried, but I would still like some answers. Please and thank you. (: Open Question: boyfriend problem please help!?ok so i have been going out with this boy for about almost a year and these idiotic boys that like me are mad about it so they are gonna tell him i like his older brother and i am scared i think he might break up with me i told my best friend boy to tell him its not true but he hates him so i dont know whats gonna happen i really love this boy!!! (yes he will believe it i have a bad rep.) help? Open Question: Which condom do you like to use the most?my boyfriend and I don't like to use condoms but we do anyways. There's just a couple problems. One the condom usually rips and two it's not as pleasurable for us. Any suggestions? More Recent Articles |
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