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Open Question: What to do about a super overbearing mom? and more... Open Question: What to do about a super overbearing mom?Okay, I'm 18 years old. Me and my mom use to get along so wonderfully, but recently (the last two years) she's changed into some other person. Some of the things she does is really saddening to me and I'm unsure about what I need to do to fix it. Some examples: 1. I'm not one to be prejudice to paying rent, I'll gladly do it because she could have kicked me out once I turned 18, but when she asks for rent, and then more and more money until she's sucked away half my paycheck I don't think it's okay. 2. If I don't give her all that money, she sends me on a guilt trip and says we'll be on the streets because I'm selfish (This extra money tends to go to lottery tickets, energy drinks, and other misc. things that if we're in so much trouble she shouldn't get on a daily basis twice a day.) 3. She talks badly about my boyfriend saying we ignore her and don't pay attention to her, and he's troublesome, and when he finds out she's said it, she'll start trying to explain herself and say that I'm the reason she says those things. 4. I'm trying to MOVE OUT so that I can start my life (Going to college to become a nurse, work a full time job, both those things are already underway.)) and she gets upset about it. I can't save to move out for her taking all my money. 5. She's pessimistic about everything. She thinks everyone is against her and that everything is everyone's fault but her own. 6. I'm paying usually for what her bf can't afford to pay because he lays at home and sleeps all day and won't find a better job than a cook at a fast food restaurant. Most of my problems are just about money. Not to mention the fact that I'm trying to get my car up and running and she is slowing that down too. She yells a lot, and if you try to stay out of her way, she gets angry. What do I do???? Open Question: girlfriend worrys.... any help?hey guys, I started dating my girlfriend in May last year. We started off so great, so good infact we ended up moving in togteher after 3 months. After living together for about 2 months things started to go badly down hill and in we ended up splitting up in March this year. We are now back together , and got back together 3 months ago, but in the 5-6 months apart we both had differnt partners and slept with 3 people each. Obviously this makes it very hard to think about things like this. The problem is, is that i have tottally fallen head over heels for her again, and i never lost that love for her really. She says she loves me too alot and all that, but somtimes i dont feel like she does. She often takes along time to txt back even if i know she is just sat infront of te tv doing nothing. I have a motor bike and finish work at 11pm often and i ride all the way to see her just about everynight through the wind and rain for about 30 mins just so we can spend the night together. She says she is happy i come and stuff but somtimes i dont feel like she is. When we split up first time i lost my job aswell, and i ended up having my first panic attack and it was horrible, it put me out of work for about 5 months because i kept getting them and couldnt think properly or anything. I am now working agaun but im sooo scared that all these feelings i have might put me back into that situation and i really cant have that, i cant not work again!!! I think about her every minute of everyday and even dream about her on a night, im getting soo annoyed i just cant get on with things and just act alot more calmer about it all. She can be quite sneaky somtimes, like when we was first together i found out she had spoke to her ex boyfriend about 3 times and she had txt a guy who she know who likes her a few times. nothing sexual or flirting....but you know. I just want some advice. She is away in poland back home for a week and she txtxs me about 5 times a day and says it costs alot to txt and that she cant txt me more then that. But when i txt her and she hasnt replied for like an hour and i txt her again, she just says she was busy and stuff.....but this happens alll the time. what should i do.....i feel like she doesnt care that much anymore....but she says she does love me and im being stupid.....is their anyway i can just act calmer about this or what should i do. we really have a love hate relationship....and somtimes i just wonder if it wud be safer to end it with her so i just dont have to worry anymore....but i do love her and would miss her greatly. Any advice would be very helpful :) More Recent Articles
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