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Open Question: what should I make out of this situation? and more... Open Question: what should I make out of this situation?Ok I broke up with my boyfriend 3 weeks ago.In the beginning he would straight refuse to see me or talk to me, but with time we started texting each other and now we see each other everyday, but he keeps mentioning that we are just friends. (I know that he does not have to repeat that). 1. the first day when we met after 2 weeks of not seeing each other he showed me this weird video in his phone, which said " Just know i love you *my name*" and he claimed that someone has emailed him the link to the video and he thought i was the one who made the video for him. I checked the emial from which the video was supposedly sent and that email address does NOT exist. 2. the same day he started taking bunch of pictures of me, than he showed me our old pictures together and said " do not think i keep this pictures they are just stored on the memory card" 3. We see each other almost twice a day for 3-4 hours 4.He turned off his second phone number which as I found out he was using to talk to other girls. 5. Whenever i tell him i need to talk to him he asked if it has anything to do with us. 6. today he told me he found and downloaded the cartoon for me that I love and could not find 7. he got really angry and left when i told him that my uncle is the only person who really understand me ( earlier today I called him to share some stuff that really bothers me in my family) and said " next time share your problems with your uncle since he is the only person who understands you" what do you think of this?? do you think he still has feelings??? Open Question: My boyfriend's ex won't leave him alone (LONG STORY)?Well I will start off by saying my name is Selina and I'm 18. My boyfriend's name is Michael he is 20, I have never had a boyfriend before him or ever had any experience with men before him. His old flame is named Audrey she is 22. I found out that my boyfriend use to be hardcore in love with this girl named Audrey way before I met him. I have no problem with that, it was the past and he had a life before me. Audrey never wanted to be serious with him. She would tease and play him, but he was still so madly in love with her. She slept with many men including all his friends. He would have low-self esteem because of her and was suicidal. He got distant from his family because she would never be with him She would tell him that she will love him one day then the next be with another man. She would use him and take advantage of him. She played him very well Though he was still blinded by the love he had for her. I became friends with one of his best friends. His best friend invited me to his birthday party. His best friend introduced me to Michael at the birthday beach bash. I thought he was very sweet and good looking. We talked all night long and he even asked me to dance. We even went off and walked by the shore and at the pier. We had a great conversation and everything was perfect. He offered to take me home and I accepted. He then asked me for my number and I got really excited because this is so new and amazing to me. He gives me a hug and then calls me the next day. We go on many dates and everything goes great and within a month we get official and serious. His friends have told me he is a new man that he is always smiling and happy and never depressed. He is now confident and closer to his family. He completely changed. Then like a week ago I find out Aubrey is starting to text him. Telling him she loves him and calling him. She sends him dirty pictures and is so clingy. I find it quite annoying and my boyfriend tells me everything, he tells me he will not respond to her and that he will not give her any sort of attention. He even erased her off of Facebook after out first date. I'm glad he is being very mature about it. Though she use to have him like a puppet even when she treated him very badly, I'm kind of scared she will somehow manipulate him. She even went as far as to stalk me one day when I went out to study at the park and started insulting me. She said I was a wh**e and a sl*t, and went on. She said she was his first love and that she is the one that truly matters. She said he lost his virginity to her and that she will always have that special bond. I was shocked because I have always thought me and him lost our virginity to each other. He even told me he was glad to lose it to the love his life which was me. I just walked away from her because I did not want to fight with someone who was definitely not worth it and just trying to ruin my relationship. He told me that I had nothing to worry about because he is so deeply in love with me. He said that she lied about her and him sleeping together. He also said he realized he was sickly obsessed with her before and it was not true love. He tells me he feels special knowing that I waited for him to be my first kiss, boyfriend, etc. I was very happy to hear that. Though even if he was not truly in love with her, she still did something to him to have him so wrapped up. I just don't know what to do about this woman. She will not leave him alone and it is getting really annoying. Please help and be critical if you have to. I can take constructive criticism. Open Question: EX BOYFRIEND ACTS WEIRD !! Y?Ok I broke up with my boyfriend 3 weeks ago.In the beginning he would straight refuse to see me or talk to me, but with time we started texting each other and now we see each other everyday, but he keeps mentioning that we are just friends. (I know that he does not have to repeat that). 1. the first day when we met after 2 weeks of not seeing each other he showed me this weird video in his phone, which said " Just know i love you *my name*" and he claimed that someone has emailed him the link to the video and he thought i was the one who made the video for him. I checked the emial from which the video was supposedly sent and that email address does NOT exist. 2. the same day he started taking bunch of pictures of me, than he showed me our old pictures together and said " do not think i keep this pictures they are just stored on the memory card" 3. We see each other almost twice a day for 3-4 hours 4.He turned off his second phone number which as I found out he was using to talk to other girls. 5. Whenever i tell him i need to talk to him he asked if it has anything to do with us. 6. today he told me he found and downloaded the cartoon for me that I love and could not find 7. he got really angry and left when i told him that my uncle is the only person who really understand me ( earlier today I called him to share some stuff that really bothers me in my family) and said " next time share your problems with your uncle since he is the only person who understands you" what do you think of this?? do you think he still has feelings??? Open Question: Boyfriendd problems.?Okay well me and my boyfriend are very serious we have been going out for 9 monthes and we fight alot because he has anger problems but he doesnt usually get that mad anymore, ita more like he gets jelous of my guy friends. and well my ex and i are talking and i dont know why but i like him, and then this other guy that talks to me, i like him to and i dont know what to do? is it normal to like another or other guys while having a boyfriend? why is this? Open Question: 24 year old, stomach problems regularly?This question is for my boyfriend: He is 24, healthy (not overweight, non-smoker) but has been having stomach problems regularly as of late. When he goes somewhere (travels to see friends in another town, for holidays, etc) he gets an upset stomach (nausea, indigestion, malaise). He has tried cutting out dairy and that has helped some but still when he goes out somewhere, travels somewhere he feels sick to his stomach. Any ideas of what these symptoms mean or solutions? Open Question: HOTEL QUESTION!!! . . . . . .......?I need some information about being 17 & getting a hotel!? okay well christmas day im going to newjersey to see my family. i live in pa. and well my boyfriend lives in newjersey too. he's coming to my grandmas house for christmas [where my family is going] and well we wanted to spend christmas day and saturday and sunday together. problem .. he lives with a room mate and well i cant stay there cus well .. you know lol anyway we want to get a hotel. if my boyfriend make reservations for it .. do i have to give an id? by the way he's 20. Open Question: CAN SOMEONE ANSWER THIS QUESTION PLEASE? (i feel like i ruined everything?)?so i broke up with my boyfriend a couple months ago, and i felt so relieved at first, but now im a complete mess. he was so perfect, nice, and funny. the problem was, i barely got to see him..my parents don't let me date even though im 16...it sucks so much, and one day after not seeing him for almost a month, i kinda felt differently about him,like i was losing feelings, and he was in a bad mood which made things worse. and he really didn't want to lose me, he even started crying. and now he's dating my best friend, omg it killled me, and i told him i want him back, but he said he couldn't trust me anymore. i cry almost every week. what do i do about this? ): i'm trying to find another guy, but idk it seems so hard, because i want someone like him..)': Open Question: CAN SOMEONE PLEASE ANSWER THIS QUESTION?! (it's killing me what i did)?so i broke up with my boyfriend a couple months ago, and i felt so relieved at first, but now im a complete mess. he was so perfect, nice, and funny. the problem was, i barely got to see him..my parents don't let me date even though im 16...it sucks so much, and one day after not seeing him for almost a month, i kinda felt differently about him,like i was losing feelings, and he was in a bad mood which made things worse. and he really didn't want to lose me, he even started crying. and now he's dating my best friend, omg it killled me, and i told him i want him back, but he said he couldn't trust me anymore. i cry almost every week. what do i do about this? ): i'm trying to find another guy, but idk it seems so hard, because i want someone like him..)': Open Question: I had epilepsy while growing up but havent for a while, what are my risks at pregnancy?I was diagnose with epilepsy at 3, I believe. And I havent had anything to do with it, since I was 10. They took me off the drugs, I dont have seizures or anything close to it. I was wondering, because my boyfriend and I plan on having babies in the next 2 or 3 years or so, will I have any problems during pregnancy that I need to worry about? Will I have a higher chance at dying? Will I be able to carry full tern? Do you ever stop having epilepsy? What are my chances of it coming back again? What are my chances of my children having it? Serious answers only. thank you for anyone who can help me and put my mind at ease. p.s. Ive been feeling a little woozy, and kind of sweaty and getting cold sweats, and feel like I am going to pass out different times. I know its not that big of a deal, but if I were to pass out, would those symptoms be related with my epilepsy possibly coming back? Open Question: Boyfriend Drinks Help!?What happened: I have been in a relationship for 7 months, a few months ago I was going through some problems with family and my boyfriend knew about this. When I met him he was a drinker, sometimes drank everyday about 4-7 cans. One night it was clear that I was having problems at home and that I needed to talk to someone. He got drunk when we were together so I left. When I called him later on he was passed out because he was too drunk. It really hurt that I couldn't talk to him because of stupid drinking. When he called me he realized that drinking was a problem and promised me that he would never drink again. However, months passed and I found out that he had some beer. It really hurt when I found this out. I feel that I can't trust him. He states that he shouldn't have made that promise to me because he can't keep it. I asked him why he broke the promise, his response was that he missed the taste. I don't see how missing the taste of beer is more important that a promise. What should I do? Open Question: i like this girl? please help?am a guy in 10th grade and i like a girl who is in 10th grade, but the problem is she goes to a different high-school. she went to my middle school, but we weren't friends and we never talked because i was shy, and she had a boyfriend but not anymore. i still think about her after all this time. everyday am feeling sad and depressed for some reason. one time i kinda cried for a little bit while thinking about her. the other problem is she popular and am not, am just normal. i play soccer so that's something. and i could make varsity football am strong, but my problem is that am very shy with girls, and i don't even think i have friends that are girls. its been along time since 8th grade, i wish i could see her one more time and i would open up to her. i have never had a girlfriend. so what do you think i should do? she is really nice and smart. do popular girls like normal guys? Open Question: My friends problems are burdening me and i dont know what exactly to do...?My friend is going through a lot of trauma right now. She told me what happened two weeks ago and since then i've been seriously stressed. It's just that even though we are new friends she chose me out of everyone to confide in. Though she told her boyfriend she hasn't told him that much because "she doesn't want to burden him...". I wish i could get her to see that what shes doing has a huge effect on me too. The thing is i do really want to help her and i am happy to listen to her. When i became involved i desperately wanted to help and though that remains the same it's all just getting to be too much. I just finished an hour conversation with her and before that we chatted for about to. I was all about how she feels. Maybe im being selfish but i feel angry at her sometimes, like she's asking way to much of me. She loads off everything on me but doesn't even let me give her that much advice. I've had to beg her to go to a counselor and there are other things that i still think she should do but she wont listen. More than that she got a bit angry at me when i told her that i was going to go to the counselor without her if she didn't speak up even though it really is that serious. I don't know what to do... i feel like i'm being trampled on and being a pushover. She was really down at one moment and asked me to call her ex. and cuss him out and leave a threatining voicemail. Yes that was such a stupid thing to do. But she was crying and down and i wasn't sure. The thing is i realize everything i just have no idea of how to get the message to her. Because i don't want her to stop trusting me. Could anyone please give me advice??? Open Question: Tell me what to do about this?so i broke up with my boyfriend a couple months ago, and i felt so relieved at first, but now im a complete mess. he was so perfect, nice, and funny. the problem was, i barely got to see him..my parents don't let me date even though im 16...it sucks so much, and one day after not seeing him for almost a month, i kinda felt differently about him,like i was losing feelings, and he was in a bad mood which made things worse. and he really didn't want to lose me, he even started crying. and now he's dating my best friend, omg it killled me, and i told him i want him back, but he said he couldn't trust me anymore. i cry almost every week. what do i do about this? ): i'm trying to find another guy, but idk it seems so hard, because i want someone like him..)': Open Question: Best romantic surprise date for him?Live in phoenix and the susnsets are to die for!! Looking for a fancy romantic restaurant with a breath taking view...but good not too fancy food. Price is not a problem but I am trying to surprise my boyfriend with a romantic surprise date...! Open Question: My boyfriend broke up with me recenly and of course Im feeling down...?it was all because he had problems wit depresiion and the 2 of us were very sensitive and sometimes we cud grow distant from each other which would hurt me and the fact I was down would hurt him so it was more like a vicious cycle. He as aweel as me need to go back to our old selves becuase we have undergone changes especially me, i went quiet and less outgoing. After a break up I feel really gutted but I do respect the decision and it does make sense but the pain in my heart is quite strong and I dont know how to get rid of it and I do feel happy for lots of everyday reasons, but empty inside and i find it hard to cope with internal pain...what to do? Open Question: boyfreind trouble. what do i do?Lately, my long-term boyfriend has been fairly depressed. I've never dealt with this in a relationship before, and it's starting to get to me. He seems to absolutely HATE his life and everything in it right now. He's insanely stressed about money, whether or not he wants to continue doing the job he studied for (he's working directly in his field, and is now questioning whether or not it was all worth it). I am a very sensitive and loving person, and when he gets down like this, I usually absorb his negativity and take his problems on as my own. It's eating away at me. He is pessimistic, unaffectionate, lacks interest in sex, doesn't express his appreciation for me whatsoever, and tends to mope around and complain a lot. I love this man dearly, and want to try and understand him and what he might be going through. Depression and other types of anxiety run in his family, so this isn't surprising. Has anyone else had to face this type of challenge in a relationship? I just want to know that there is some light at the end of the tunnel. Open Question: Present problems (with present problems)?My boyfriends friend spoiled a present for me for next year... my going to 13 year boyfriend is getting me a Diamond necklace for me for Xmas and i don't know if i should except it he said like 2-3 things that are SO sweet. Also he insists on me accepting it but i don't know if i should.... please help More Recent Articles |
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