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Open Question: What should I get my boyfriend for his birthday/Christmas/anniversary? and more... Open Question: What should I get my boyfriend for his birthday/Christmas/anniversary?me and my boyfriend... december 21st is our one month (by the way, we've been on and off dating because of distance problems for 2 years; its not like we've only been together one month, ya know?), 23rd is his birthday, and 25th is christmas. all 2 days apart and 3 gift giving days in a row -____- i feel like i HAVE to get him something. i don't mind, i just don't know what to get him. he's into music (screamo, techno, hardcore). he has his lip pierced. he's very joking, but sweet. i need a creative idea that won't need a lot of money. something special and not too corny. thanks (= no sexual ideas please. something ORIGINAL :D by the way, he's 16. Open Question: my friend's boyfriend is driving me nuts?My close friend/roommate is dating this guy that I am also friends with. The problem with that is that they assume it's fine if he is over all the time. She spends all her time with him, and I don't mean to sound like the jealous best friend but they literally spend every waking breathing moment together. She knows this, and still doesn't make the effort to spend time one on one with me. Not only that, but since he is over all the time I have to be around him all the time and he can be extremely annoying. I'm going crazy---but I don't know how to tell her that it's getting ridiculous (the amount of time I have to spend around him!) Open Question: Am I right in demanding that my boyfriend stop all and any communications with his ex girlfriend?I think my demand that my boyfriend not speak to or see his ex anymore ever again is a reasonable demand. Yes demand. He told me they are just friends now. Okay, I am still friends with a few of my exes. She said the same thing until he and I got into a tiff and he went crying to her. That is the first thing I don't like. Then she steps up to the pity plate for him and starts batting my virtues out of the park, so to speak. Bad mouthing me. This has become their routine now whenever he and I have any problems or trouble. She then makes it her personal business to contact me, telling me I should be ashamed of the way I treat him. How terrible a person I am and what a sensational guy he is. The way I see it is it is none of her damn business if I use his shirt to wipe my butt with. I told my boyfriend no more running to her and no more telling her about me and him. All this time she is insisting that they are just friends. But my female nose can smell another females scent if she is out for my man. So at one point through all of this I come right out and ask her point blank: Are you still in love with him? Do you want to move back in whit him? Again she plays the friendship card and accuses me of just being jealous and wanting to break up a 5 year friendship. On down the road, he and I break up. Then is when she comes clean in a letter to me that yes I was right, she has loved him all along. That he is and always will be the love of her life. (her words) And wants nothing more but to move back in with to try to make it up to him for leaving him in the first place and she and he will be ever so happy for the rest of their lives. She then expresses her best wishes and good luck for me in my new life without him. Then he and I get back together and I tell him what she told me and advise him that her true intentions are not in the interest of protecting their 5 year friendship from my desire to destroy it, but that her real intentions are to reinstate herself to her formal post with him as his girlfriend and roommate. He says he does not returns her feelings or any living arrangements that she might want. He continues their communications. Sure enough at the first sign of he and I needing to do some problem solving in our relationship, he does the old run to her and tell her all about it. She starts her crap with me and it's happening all over again. She bats the hell out of me with him, for him and sooths his wounds that I have inflicted upon him (so he says). This time, I tell him she's gotta go or I go. It worked for awhile. Then I found out he is talking to her without telling me. Now it's I can't tell him who and who not to talk to. Well, I am! And I want to know what you think? Thank you" Open Question: How do i deal with a friend's grief?The boyfriend of my friend has recently passed away. And its terrible to see her in such a state of grief... I don't know what to say to her... I tell her to keep her chin up... But it's terrible to pretend... it creates such inner turmoil. I'm a man and I really do want to help her feel better! But without making it seem like I'm taking advantage of her emotional state... Please don't tell me the answer is time... this is about a healing a grieving heart. Love is timeless whoever was in love should know this. And to those who say this is not my problem f*ck you! She's my friend and I'll help however I can! Romans 12:15 Rejoice with those who rejoice, mourn with those who mourn. Thank you for your time and effort! Open Question: need help with a girl/?Okay i go to church and there i meet this girl i don't talk at the church one day i found a friend request from here in facebook so we started talking for a few months she seems really nice and we sometimes chat for hours so i invited here to a movie but she would refuse one day in church i found out she had a boyfriend and i was like okay in my mind but we continue talking like friend but i feel something for her and i think she to that what bothers me , so a couple of weeks ago we where chatting and i felt something strange about her i ask here and she was having problems with him i didn't go on and asked her details so we chat for a lot of hours s more. Then a few days ago she invited me to see a movie i say no because i had to do something important. My question is she likes me as a friend or something more? a woman's mind is a strange thing... o and i am living to the US in a few months 2 she don't know . Open Question: Guy problem! guys I need your opinion!?Should I call him back? In a nutshell- I liked this guy for four years. I liked/loved him from afar. I got back in touch with him and I found out he's married. I did not have an affair with him! I threw out his card, blocked him from email and deleted his number. today he texts me and says we should meet up. He doesn't know how I feel about him. I get mixed singles from him. Since I can't have him as a boyfriend. I want to be his friend. However, I'm still not totally over him, but i'm 90% there. What should I do? Open Question: Boyfriend of 2 years and having problems?My boyfriend and I are juniors in high school and we've been going out since our freshman year. My boyfriend is the nicest most respectful guy you'll ever meet but.... He's getting on my Nerves! I still love him but it's getting hard for me to see the love anymore because I'm angry at him all the time. This happens almost everyday. I know this might not sound like a big deal but the littlest things bug me. Like if he loses something or if I'm trying to work on something and he starts bugging me or if I ask him to find a job he'll attempt and not do anymore about it. If I ask him to do something that involves helping him he'll forget and I remind him ALL the time. Over all it's stupid but I seriously don't know what to do. I've tried everything to try to just make me relax about things but it doesn't work. I just get so mad I can't discribe! And I don't understand why. I honestly don't have any specific questions for anyone. I just need any type of addvice. O a few more things. I'm a perfectionist. I'm just looking for advice to fix our relationship. Not end it. I just want our relationship back to the way it was when he brought me flowers and made me smile eveytime he walked up to me or kissed me. When we seemed to be the perfect couple. Open Question: Christian Girls, do I look like the type of guy your looking for?Christian Girls, do I look like the type of guy your looking for? I'm 21, I've never had a girlfriend. I've never even been kissed by a girl. Even the girls that hang with me and my best friends don't like me or really talk to me. I might be close to getting a friend that's a girl, but I might have already screwed that on up too. I don't know, right now it just seems like I never get married, or at this rate even have real friends that are girls... I've been praying for a girlfriend for over 6 years. There are no singles group at my church. All the girls there are either too old for, too young for me, have a boyfriend, or just don't like me. I love God, and I'm trying to become a stronger Christian all the time. I'm waiting until after I'm married for sex. I don't drink I don't smoke I don't do drugs I'm a virgin I'm waiting till I'm married for sex.(This include oral and anal) I'm a computer geek I'm planning on becoming a video game programmer.(I'm actually pretty sure that's what God wants me to do too.) I do sometimes look at porn, though for the most part it's fixed. But I could still use some prayer for to get this fixed. Since I don't want it in my life anymore. I do have basic hygine. I brush my teeth I shower I use deorderent I don't smell badly. I'm about 5-8" or 5-9" feet tall. I have dirty blond hair. I have no disfiguring scars or anything like that. Personalty: I'm nice. loyal respect(I actually look at a girl's face when I'm talking to a girl, and not her breasts) sincere I listen to what girls have to say, and actually care what they are feeling and saying. trusting honest smart I'm shy I have low self confidence I can be selfish I tend to slur my speech. I talk too fast. I'm can be lazy... I have a hard time explaining things. I have perverted mind, and like perverted jokes, though I don't act on the pervertedness. I like touching when it comes to girls(Nothing sexual till married) Just stuff like hugs. I have OCD(Mostly fixed, yay God) GAD(Mostly fixed, yay Jesus) ADD(Not bad enough to cause any real problems) Social Anxiety and a touch of depression(Fixed) Open Question: im in love with two guys at once. which one should i pursue?im IN LOVE with them both. and i really would hate to hurt them. i've never cheated on any of my boyfriends and dont plan too. both of these guys like me back i might add. im 5'8 and 112 lbs. senior in high school. 17 guy #1- is 20 years old and a sophmore in college. he says that im so beautiful and classy and smart and he respects me. although he did say he was a bit of a freak. but he is SUPER nice and SUPER smart. he said he likes to cuddle and be intimate and all that stuff. he thinks im like the perfect size regarding weight. hes soo goofy and funny, but im goofy and weird and funny so we'd make a good couple. the only problem is his height. he's 5'8 tooo. but i suppose i could get over him. im a virgin until marriage b.t.w. he said i was adorable guy #2- he goes to my school. he's 17 like me. hes a junior. he doesnt talk as much as guy #1 and we have some akward silences. but hes really nice. he doesnt have like any friends. i always see him by himself so i be walking with him most of the time. i feel sooo bad for him because hes always alone. but he said he likes to be alone.. i guess. hes the PERFECT height. he's like 6'3 anddd tonedd and i just think hes really cute. he's got te whole damnnnn package. i just think he needs to be a tad bit more outgoing. but he said a lot of girls be trying to follow him and he dont like that but he said really likes me Open Question: Do you ever just feel sad in your usually happy relationship?Do you ever just feel upset in your relationship, even if it usually a happy one? I love my boyfriend, we have talked about the future, living together, marriage, family, all of that. It's just that sometimes I feel he doesn't pay attention to me the way he should. Like if I'm trying to tell him something nice about him, or something important, and he just starts watching TV mid-sentence. Even if I'm what I'm trying to say really is just one sentence. I don't know if it's just that he is immature, but I feel like even though I know he loves me, he treats me like I'm his friend. I love being his friend, but I want to be treated... like his girlfriend. Not just a friend who he has sex with. I don't know that it makes sense. Anyway, my question is, is it normal to just sometimes be sad and down about your relationship, even if there isn't a clear cut problem, and overall the relationship is a happy one? Are things going to be okay? Open Question: im so confused over mixed signals?im a 32 mail and i have had this female friend since i was 17 and over the years we have flirted with each other and i beleive we would have have a relationship but when she was single i wasnt ,vice versa,over the last four or so years we have became very close and she has said things like (i only go to certain nights out because you are there ,i love you more than anyone,constantly tels me im handsome and one night i was dancing with her she whispered in my ear that she love me holding her ,now there has been hundreds more like this said and been close situations with us "but always when shes been drinking ,even as close as last week she asked me why i didnt pick her as my girlfriend when we where younger and that she regrets not making the move,problem is that i would ask her when shes sobre but i know she would kick up a stink as shes a totally different person to me sobre and i know she does not flirt like this to anyone else.she has a boyfriend and last night we where at a party and i had a one on one conversation with her (whilst she was drinking )and she told me in this conversation that her boyfriend was her soul mate (i felt like telling her to get stuffed),she always says thing like this a couple of weeks after saying mind hurting things to me (what is she doing because i cant read her Open Question: guy problem! girls please help!?Should I call him back? In a nutshell- I liked this guy for four years. I liked/loved him from afar. I got back in touch with him and I found out he's married. I did not have an affair with him! I threw out his card, blocked him from email and deleted his number. today he texts me and says we should meet up. He doesn't know how I feel about him. I get mixed singles from him. Since I can't have him as a boyfriend. I want to be his friend. However, I'm still not totally over him, but i'm 90% there. What should I do? More Recent Articles
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