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Open Question: what should i get him for christmas? and more... Open Question: what should i get him for christmas?me and my boyfriend have been going out for only 2 months this christmas eve and i want to get him a 2 month present and a christmas present, but the problem is that i have no idea what to get him. he is such an amazing boyfriend so i want to get him something sweet. he is 15 a sophmore in highschool and is a swimmer. i have been having some hard times and he has helped me through them, unfortunately my ex had passed away while away in denmark. my boyfriend things of himself as a downgrade to my ex because before we started dating people were always telling him how perfect me and my ex were together, i dont want him to think of himself like that since i really like him so i really wanna get him something to show him how much i care, any ideas are wonderful. my boyfriend is a really shy guy, i was his first make out lol. Open Question: Opinions please .. Me & my boyfriend ...?" I'VE ASKED THIS BEFORE ! " but i want more opinions, k well, im 15 years old , and my boyfriend is 17 , ye there's some age difference, but age doesn't really matter, i think my relationship with him , is the best, like im inside a fairy tail, well i'll tell you how our relationship is , and i wanna know what your guys opinion is ; well we've been dating for almost 3 months, christmas eve will be actually 3 months, im really attached to him and his family, he has 3 niece's & a nephew all little kids, and i love them off when ever i go over his sisters house and everyone is over , or his house and the whole family is over, im always playing with the kids and bonding with the family there is these girl , who ONLY dealed with him for 2 weeks and it was about 1 year and half ago , and she is completely OBSSED WITH HIM. .. she has tried to break us up , telling lies and crap , but never really worked out, if there is a problem , we won't argue and than leave, we'll stay inside his car, yes he drives , and we'll talk and clear things out, he'll never let me leave crying , or knowing something is really bothering me or if im hurt, he'll know right away [ because me and him also have been really good friends for a long time, but never had the guts to admit we liked each other ], and we won't argue ,we'll talk about it , share ideas, and clear things out , and make sure it won't happen again , his parents are the best, i love his family , their fun , our background is Portuguese, and problem that i have is, i wish he felt the way towards my family , like i feel towards his, his parents always inviting me over, the family individually brought me gifts for Christmas, & obviously i bought them gifts too, BUT my dad does not know about him , he wouldn't understand it , and my mom knows about it , but she doesn't believe in me, she thinks this relationship is crap, like it means nothing , it's like she doesn't care about my feelings .. and she's my own mother . the two opinions i would like to know is, a) what do you guys think about mine and my boyfriend's relationship ? b) what's an opinion , or idea , suggestion in what to do, about connecting him with my parents . Additional Details i really don't like people who say your too young to be in a realationship, if what i feel is strong , and if i want him in my life for a pretty long time, hopefully forever, why do you think it won't happen ? i have a example that i could happen- his brother started dating his wife at the age of 12 around that age, and they are now married , never broke up , married with 3 kids and they have a awesome relationship .. they believed in their selfs, and i believe in my self and so does my boyfriend, that we really have a strong feeling for eachother . & the other thing is, my mom DOES know about him, he had been to my house, i've been to semi formal with him , while i was getting ready , him and my mom talked, i think it was awkward, but even before me and him dated, she already knewn him, my dad is the only problem, and i've tried telling him i had a boyfriend, more like giving him a hint , and he wouldn't listen and started jumping into conclusions. so that's how i know Open Question: Eugggh why do i always get caught out in some way?Eugggh why do i always get caught out in some way? its just my sisters boyfriend been msging me to talk about her xmas gift and if shed like it and to make sure no one else gets her the same thing. when he msged me he talked about all these different things about my sister and all these arrangments and all. and if id like to tag along sometimes. just the usualy banter. but i had to keep this a secret, cause of her surprise (i hardly ever keep things from her). but also i dont know him that well, and its weird that im talking to him at all. completely harmless though. she mentioned all these things that her boyfriend had mentioned tonight, and she was confused about things but i didnt let her know i was talking to him and knew the answers cause shed be wondering why and i couldnt say it was for her christmas present. cause it would ruin the surprise. i started feeling a guilt though cause she was talking about info that maybe she wasnt sure about or needed an honest opinion on, and i was like emm... and didnt let on anything. i acted like i knew nothing. then she goes all of a sudden "he said hed been talking to u and had invited you out with us" but it was kindof accusing she was wondering why i had kept talking to him a secret. and she had brought it up the whole night waiting for me to chip in and tell me that i had been talking to him. then i got embarrassed. i started blushing badly. i dont know why. then i said casually yeahh but we were talking about u... hmm... obviously making a hint about the surprise. i think she took it. im not sure. i dont even know if this is a problem. but i feel guilty why is this? feel like im caught out... by her. or something :S what can i do to make the situation right. it's not even wrong .. it;s just a lil awkward. looking over this it seems like nothing is.. just dont feel right. im 18 and theyre about 22. maybe i think shes suspicious for the wrong reasons or something? Open Question: boyfriend's female friend is driving me crazy?we are together for 3 years. he will never cheat on me but Im having problems with his female friend that he met in business class this year and since then they've been texting to each other and going out for shopping. the other day he didn't go to class to take her to the mall and I lost control and I got her phone number and called her. I started to curse at her then later my boyfriend got pissed of and broke up with me. we got back together again last week and I told him that I was sorry and that it would be better if I met her. he refused to introduce his friend bc he is afraid that I might rip her face off. everytime that hisis talking to his friends on the phone I have to keep my mouth shut bc he said to his friends that we are not together anymore and he doesn't want to feel stupid around them. so I got really upset and he broke up with me again on Tuesday and back again on Friday. yesterday he told me that he slep over at her place on Tuesday but didn't tell me the reason why and he swears that they didn't have any physical contact. he slept on a separate bed in the same room. so today I went to check his text messages to find out why he went there. she started with " omg I can't finish my paper and I have to study 13 chapters for tomorrows exam, can you come over to help me?" he said " yes why not I'll be there in 15 min" then she said" oh you're my hero". this is not the first time that she tells him to go to her house. since he started to go out with her he hasn't take me to anywhere. he never help me to study like he helped his friend. He told me that they would never get involved because she is ugly, much older then him and she is probably dirty cuz she is a typical bartender that sleeps around. lately he's been asking me for more freedom (which he never asked me before), wants to experience more things in life and not having only one gf stuck in his whole life. he said he will sleep over and go out with her as much as is necessary. am I paranoid or I have my reasons to be worried about this skank? I don't mind him having friends but why being friends with such person? I don't think she is a good influence to him. he is a honest guy. he never hides anything from me. she is 29. he is 22 and I'm also 22. PS: I need serious answers please, I'm trying to save my relationship. Open Question: How will I get my belongings back? Is he fond of me or does he like me?"Hey I would like your opinion please and others opinions on this: I met a man on the night I was with James who is 28 years old, outside the nightclub and he noticed that I was looking for someone and I asked him if he knew a man called James from Galway but he didn't seem to know but said he recognised my face from some where before but doesn't know where but he definitly met me before. I followed him because I thought he was getting a taxi home so I walked with him and he invited me in for a few drinks in his house so I went in coz I thought there was some after party there but turns out it was just him and I and we talked and there was no pressure, he seemed nice, wise, inteligent, friendly, understanding, polite and enthusiastic and he was attractive looking but had a strange accent so I stupidly asked him if he were gay earlier. He had a great view of people and life and encouraged to seek the answer in myself and that he believes that deep down I know whats right and know the answer but I couldn't seem to find it at the time. We cuddled on the coach when he told me to lie beside him and relax coz I was walking around in circles and over and back in a confused and frustrated or stressed state and he believes that women should be allowed to cuddle men without them expecting sex which I believed myself. It was getting late so I got up and asked him to walk me to the taxi rank which he said "No problem but seemed eager for me to stay the night by saying "Can't you just stay here and go home the next day, you can sleep here on the coach and yes he does have a bed but he was on the coach that night, anyway as we were 15- 20 minutes away from his house I realised that i forgot my umbrella, "Yes now you have to come back, its a good thing you forgot something! he said delighted. We went back and he had no energy to move and he was nearly out on the couch so I rang a taxi and he said okay but whished I slept on the coach and he appologise and didn't realise how late it was. After being think about him and feeling bad for wanting to live so fast, I knocked on his door in town yesterday and after a month, he didn't remember me until I refreshed his memory because he almost shut door on me. He invited me in and it seemd like he just woke up when he answered the door and he got dressed and we had two cups of tea together and he had no memory of the night I was in the house or of me but was glad that I reminded him yesterday and he appologise about acting clingy and admited that he felt that he shouldn't have been so insistive and determined of me staying over night and that it was nice to see me and he was drunk that night. We spoke for 1-3 hours yesterday and after a while he made more eye contact with me and he believes that I am not as bad as my family think I am in what my capabilities and believes are and that I am very clever in reality and that maybe my mother is holding me back from doing things by myself and achieving my dreams and goals by not believing in my strenghts. After a while he said " I will be around later if you want to come back, "Before you go could to the hair dressers can I have a kiss please?. I said no. "No, are you are sure? he asks. No I responded. "okay but trying to figure out if the attraction is there,the attraction is there maybe but you dont want to kiss me, it's good that the attraction is there! He said. I responded "I easily get emotionally attached, I can't do it, I said. "That's okay he said. Then I started talking about flings, unsutiable boyfriends and dating, then he said "We must date in the future to see what happens!, he said someting like that and before I left said "you have been choosing all the wrong men it seems!. " I may be around later I don't know, cya! I said. "Have you got everything, you haven't left anything behind have you! "No thank god, I don't have to come back to the house again! I said, I think I said that. After the hair dressers I realised I left my hat and bag in his house, so I thought "**** now I have to go back, but was half thinking of going back to get his proper name which he told but I forgot. I think it's Steve Cullin but don't know but he is from Ballymun in Mayo and got him some chocolate which he loves. I arrived at the door and knocked 3 times, but no answer, so got impaient and shouted hello in the mailbox and I saw that everything was dark and I was eager to get my bag and hat back if it was there and he was going home for christmas but he did say "I will still be around later, so why wasn't he there? "Did he go home? " Did he go out? "Is he ignoring me? "Why isn't there when he said if I came back he would still be there later, what did he mean by that? "Did he fall asleep so he can't hear anything which is possible??? What do you think?. By the way, I enjoyed his company and I think I would like to hang around with him. Have you any idea if why would a man ignore someone or a woman by Open Question: Why won't the needle on my Singer 5127 sewing machine lower?NOTE: I've never used this particular machine before. I was trying to bring up the bobbin thread, and it said to turn the hand wheel toward me so the needle would lower. Well, I tried moving the hand wheel toward me, and the needle barely budges. The bobbin winder is where it's supposed to be, the presser foot thing is down and all of that, but the needle won't go. This machine (Singer 5127) came from my boyfriend's grandmother who died 6.5 years ago and probably didn't use the machine for a couple years before that, but she took meticulous care of it. Is this a problem that can be fixed by lubricating where the manual tells me to? I don't have the money or time (this is a Christmas present!) to take it to a repair shop, not that there are any near me anyway, so basically I need to know if I can do something about it on my own, and quickly. Thank you! More Recent Articles |
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