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Open Question: What should I expect? Need a guy's advice!? and more... Open Question: What should I expect? Need a guy's advice!?Some background info first... please, please, please take the time to read. So I've been talking to this guy for a few weeks now, we're both in college, we work together, and we both have goals and are hard workers. He hasn't been involved with anyone in over half a year, and told me that he isn't the type of person to just stop liking someone easily or quickly. He also mentioned that we are on a "path" to a relationship, and have talked about dating and how both of us don't want to rush into a relationship. We have had sex, twice. First time, completely out of nowhere, and wasn't expected whatsoever. Second time, however... Was on purpose. In the beginning I explained how I didn't want to have sex unless it was my boyfriend, and after the first time we discussed the accident. He also mentioned that he wouldn't have even let things get that far if he thought we weren't going anywhere. Problem. I stayed at his place one night this week, and things were great that night, and in the morning before I left. That night at work, he completely ignores me at work, as if we don't even know each other, and haven't talked outside of work. After he gets off work, he texts me. But he seemed to be a little distant after we talked about money and paying tuition. Work was a busy for him, so he was a little wiped out, but it was still out of character. My idea. I think that I might just be over analyzing everything, and thinking way too much since this is the first time that he has been like this. And texting is getting a little difficult because both of us don't have very much to say. However, when we are together or on the phone. We talk in depth about many things. I'm guessing all I need is for some people to give me their opinion, and let me know what they think is going on. We got into it, and sex just sort of happened. It wasn't intentional. Also, he's never been involved with anyone we work with. We've talked about how things would be if we never talked... Because I was still completely head over heels for a different guy, and he thought he had no chance. He's done nothing but try to gain my trust and be straight forward about everything we do or talk about. There aren't any lies between us, everything is out in the open. No holding back. Open Question: What do I do here? (Drama Filled Story Attached!!!)?I got to know this girl about six months ago. We didn't talk a lot, but even then I kinda had a thing for her. But I was dating someone else and so was she, so I just shut it all out for that time. Over the summer, while we still were both dating other people, we started txting each other out of the blue. She's such a great girl, funny, attractive and exactly my type. But again, we were dating other people, so I blocked it out. However, we didn't stop texting each other... We would talk abt everything, including problems in our current relationships. After texting for a month or so she started telling me goodnight and "sweet dreams" after we'd talk or even days when we didn't talk at all. I didn't think anything of it, and besides, we were still dating others. I broke up with my girlfriend a couple months ago. It was one of those bad breakups and this girl kinda helped me through it. Her random "goodnight" txts would always hit me right when I needed them. We recently hung out for the first time by her request. It was me and her along with my sister and her boyfriend. It was just at my house and we hung out and walked drove over to a nearby creek. Nothing really special.... But all this is re-sparking my feelings for her, but she is still dating her boyfriend of two years. I deliberately bring him up sometimes and she doesn't seem to eager to talk about him or even shrugs him off. But I'm worried that I may just be seeing what I want to see, like maybe I'm exaggerating this in my head or I missed a joke or something.... The actual story is that I told her that her English teacher would go easy on her if she told her she knew me. She laughed and so I threw in that she could let her boyfriend do the same, and that's when she seemed to shrug him off. So is this girl viewing me as a friend or something more? Honest answers appreciated :) The very first time she texted me "goodnight" she said she needed to tell someone goodnight and she needed to be told it in return... and that's how all that got started. Open Question: could i be pregnant?? any help ?my last period was oct 8th.i am 8 weeks late and the only symptoms i have had are hungry more often and fatigue but thats it. i have taken 3 at home tests and all have come out negative.my boyfriend and i check the condoms each time and they have never torn or ripped or anything so logically it couldnt happen. what could be the problem? in info could help. thanks i also had completley changed me schedual from doing not so much to almost constantly becoming busy...but its slowed down again...does that matter? Open Question: How do I tell my friend about her changes?She's copying two of my friends (one girl folds legs, she folds legs, one girl laughs, she laughs), she has major attitude problems, over half of her sentences end with "Ugggh!", she's flirting with my friend's boyfriend, she's doesn't tell me anything like she use to, and there's barely a real smile on her face. She's just not acting like herself! We've been BFFs since kindergarten. She wants a BF so she acts like one of my other friends. The thing is NONE OF THE GUYS LIKE THAT! She never tells me anything! Who she likes, what's going on, she's rarely talking to the girl who's been her friend forever and talking more to the girl who she's known for three years. My friend and I wanna tell her about this, but we have no idea how. Anyone have any ideas? I know to do it face-to-face but I'm not sure what to say... Open Question: What can I get my boyfriend for Christmas?We have been dating for almost 5 months now. He's like my best friend and really means the world to me. I want to get him something nice for Christmas my only problem is I can't get him what I was planning on getting him anymore. We were in a really bad car accident 2 weeks ago when a drunk driver hit us. Because he was so upset about the accident and the car he went out and bought the 2 games he's been wanting. I was going to get them for him for Christmas so now I need new ideas. We are both 23. Obviously he's into games. He's really into books and stuff but he has so much I wouldn't even know where to begin. Heroes is his favorite show. I'm not sure if he has all the DVDs. So far I only see season 1 and 2 at his house. He also loves family guy but I know he has all of those. I want to give him something he really likes to show how much I care. But I need new ideas Open Question: i need some advice on boyfriend problems.?ok me and him have been dating a year and a half and its like the longer were together the more he disrespects me. i love him but sometimes i just feel like man why do i stay with him im tired of all his crap. its hard for anyone to understand really cause they don't know what is going on, anyways i don't knw what to do!!!!! Open Question: Me + Fermale = Mental Problems. Help Me. :(?Okay... so back in October, I had gotten pretty close to this girl who, I guess, I've had a thing for for quite a while. IMPORTANT: When I look at her, I don't see anything I shouldn't want at the moment, such as sexual desires. I find this a good thing. Well, we shot a movie at school together (on my birthday) and that got us talking to each other for a few days, 'cause she's older than me by just a year and I never she her. I think she ABSOLUTLEY gorgeous in many ways, she's a Christian, and shes very outgoing. One day, she invited me to her house for a little get-together with her friends and I asked her to go with me to Homecoming. She said "Oh no! (So and So) Just asked me like 3 hours ago!" I was sooo sad, and I felt like sobbing, but I held it in. Then she said "Funny thing is, I wanted to go with you too." That KINDA helped... So to get revenge, I took her on a "date" to go see 'Inglourious Basterds' which was one of the most epic nights of my life. Epic win. :) So we are both in the band. One night on our way to a game, I was walking alone to the bus and ran up to me and linked arms to the bus, which made me happy as a clam. Then, we sat together for the ride. On the way back, I put my arm around her and she held my hand and we talked for the whole ride. During a silence, I turned and kissed her on the cheeck. She returned the favour and smiled. After i did that, I started to cry (not noticably, it was dark) because I was very overwhelmed. I felt soooo happy... when we got off, we held hands, talking about us dating. I was so happy... The night before homecoming, I had a dream that was very subtle, it had her in it and nothing was said in the dream, but I felt like she was saying "No...." and feeling saying that the dating thing wasn't going to happen. I awoke, on my stomach looking left to my desk and said, "No way that'd happen, she loves me." ..................how wrong I was. Then, Homecoming came. I went with her, but I wasn't her date as I said. I stuck with her the whole night (which was my mistake.) And i asked her if she wanted to officially date me. She said... "It's not that i don't like you, it's just that it wouldn't be fair to our friends. I like you more as a friend. So...I'm going to say 'no.' " I stood there not saying a thing for about 10 seconds, then said awkwardly "You know, I had a dream last night that this would happen... but you probably don't believe that." So I took my arm from her and she walked away. I cried later that night in my car and hung with my friends house. i went home, and fell asleep at 6 in the morning. Ever since, she is still nice to me, but not NEARLY as talkative or bubbly, hardly gives me the time of day, but is very concious of how I feel. I'm giving her a birthday card on Tuesday with $20. I love her sooo much... but I have strange emotions... sometimes and feel violent and hateful, but I would never hurt her in any way. I have had 6 DREAMS with her in them since October. One of which, I was reading her Obituary in a newspaper because she was murdered!! << Open Question: I need help getting pregnant, please help!?Me and my boyfriend want to have a baby, we have been trying for about 3 months now and nothing! I am 21 and he's 20 so i have no idea what the problem could be, i have been doing everything it says to do online such as having sex during my ovulation, taking prenatals and folic acid. I really am getting discouraged and scared, that i am not going to be able to have kids. I have 3 sisters and all of them got pregnant easily. I am having a really hard time please help. any advice is good Open Question: IM MAD! DOES HE THINK IM THE ONE THATS GOING TO CALL FIRST!10POINT TO THE BEST ANSWER!?Ok. so im really upset with my boyfriend, and he is so used to me calling him everyday, its just one of those things...im pretty sure he knows im upset with him! so do you think he still think im going to call, even tho im mad?, do you think he will even care, or give a damn if i call or not?, or should i call anyways to avoid an argument, but its like im mad and i want to prove to him that i can stand my ground and not give in!...should i wait for him to call?...hes a really sweet guy, and does not like to argue, we are usually good about sorting out our problems,,,but im mad!...so give me your best advice! thanx! Open Question: Why do guys lie about everything?i was in a long term relationship and the one thing that i asked of him was that he be honest to me about everything. He lied about sleeping around with other people, he lied about his age, he even lied about being an orphan! The thing is, is that this is a common problem i have noticed with all boyfriends and with all men in general. whats up with that? Open Question: LADIES!!! Can you please help explain this girl?I got to know this girl about six months ago. We didn't talk a lot, but even then I kinda had a thing for her. But I was dating someone else and so was she, so I just shut it all out for that time. Over the summer, while we still were both dating other people, we started txting each other out of the blue. She's such a great girl, funny, attractive and exactly my type. But again, we were dating other people, so I blocked it out. However, we didn't stop texting each other... We would talk abt everything, including problems in our current relationships. After texting for a month or so she started telling me goodnight and "sweet dreams" after we'd talk or even days when we didn't talk at all. I didn't think anything of it, and besides, we were still dating others. I broke up with my girlfriend a couple months ago. It was one of those bad breakups and this girl kinda helped me through it. Her random "goodnight" txts would always hit me right when I needed them. We recently hung out for the first time by her request. It was me and her along with my sister and her boyfriend. It was just at my house and we hung out and walked drove over to a nearby creek. Nothing really special.... But all this is re-sparking my feelings for her, but she is still dating her boyfriend of two years. I deliberately bring him up sometimes and she doesn't seem to eager to talk about him or even shrugs him off. But I'm worried that I may just be seeing what I want to see, like maybe I'm exaggerating this in my head or I missed a joke or something.... The actual story is that I told her that her English teacher would go easy on her if she told her she knew me. She laughed and so I threw in that she could let her boyfriend do the same, and that's when she seemed to shrug him off. So is this girl viewing me as a friend or something more? Honest answers appreciated :) Open Question: How to deal with my jealous boyfriend?I've been going out with this guy for almost 4 months. He knows about my past relationships and my friends with benefits. The problem is that my bf gets too jealous easily. Any guy who comments on my facebook wall or guy I talk to he inmediately thinks I fooled around with them. I keep repeating to him that he's the only one and that ive never cheat on him. Although I understand that he cant trust people easily cuz his friends and family have betrayed his trust ever since he was younger. Ive been patient all along. I know he loves me and he knows I love him. But I feel like I might come to a point where I cant handle his jealousy anymore. How can I show him that he can trust me? How do I deal with his extreme jealousy? Thanks in advance. Open Question: confused my boyfriend is mad over me checking his messages?ok yesterday i logged into my boyfriends myspace and saw he had new messages and saw it was from his mom so i checked it so i could tell him what she said cause he NEVER gets on myspace ... well he out of nowhere got on myspace today and saw the messages were read and started fussing me out,.... ive done this many many times for him before and hes never had a problem with it and he does now??? Open Question: What's going on here?I got to know this girl about six months ago. We didn't talk a lot, but even then I kinda had a thing for her. But I was dating someone else and so was she, so I just shut it all out for that time. Over the summer, while we still were both dating other people, we started txting each other out of the blue. She's such a great girl, funny, attractive and exactly my type. But again, we were dating other people, so I blocked it out. However, we didn't stop texting each other... We would talk abt everything, including problems in our current relationships. After texting for a month or so she started telling me goodnight and "sweet dreams" after we'd talk or even days when we didn't talk at all. I didn't think anything of it, and besides, we were still dating others. I broke up with my girlfriend a couple months ago. It was one of those bad breakups and this girl kinda helped me through it. Her random "goodnight" txts would always hit me right when I needed them. We recently hung out for the first time by her request. It was me and her along with my sister and her boyfriend. It was just at my house and we hung out and walked drove over to a nearby creek. Nothing really special.... But all this is re-sparking my feelings for her, but she is still dating her boyfriend of two years. I deliberately bring him up sometimes and she doesn't seem to eager to talk about him or even shrugs him off. But I'm worried that I may just be seeing what I want to see, like maybe I'm exaggerating this in my head or I missed a joke or something.... The actual story is that I told her that her English teacher would go easy on her if she told her she knew me. She laughed and so I threw in that she could let her boyfriend do the same, and that's when she seemed to shrug him off. So is this girl viewing me as a friend or something more? Honest answers appreciated :) Open Question: My bullying mother is killing me?I'm 34 years old and living with my parents. I have had a terrible life as i was in a very abusive marriage which has taken up my life from the age of 23 until now, despite being divorced. The marriage was every abusive and more, i also have attempted suicide 3 times and been raped twice over the past 3 years, also the ex raped me constantly. I am not getting the professional help, due to the same old staff cut backs and what doesn't help is the reign of terror my mother has over me. Firstly i can't move out of the large old farmhouse as i have 5 large dogs and no money as i lost it in the divorce and i have been stalked by an ex male friend that has literally left me in debt. I love my pets as we are survivors of the marriage and i don't want to rehome my dogs. I have no-one, no friends, no boyfriend all due to my mother.I'm lonely, alone and my pets mean the world to me, which obviously i realise that the suicide attempts were selfish. My mother speaks to me like dirt, yaps, swears, puts me down, everything that is verbal and psychological abuse, i know, since being there. I hate her, as when i was drugged and raped she said i deserved it, yet has sympathy for others. I have never done anything wrong, i've been the victim, but i try not to think like that. She is a very nasty woman that reduces me to tears and at 34 yrs old, is terrible. I could go on writing more as i haven't even scratched the surface, i need help in how to deal with her and what to say as i have lived with this abuse since i was a kid and it really hurts to be told by your mother, that, the rape was my fault and the abusive marriage was, also, my fault, needless, to say, she flirted with him so that is another problem, plus i am a slim attractive woman, i keep my body in shape, plus i have tatts and piercings, however she is fat and not the most attractive of women, this is why she critises my dress sense, hair and body, knowing full well i'm a recovering anorexic. Please help me as i'm gradually slipping into my own grave. Open Question: I think it's time I break up...?My boyfriend hasn't been very good to me lately. He's been dumping all his problems on me and treating me like a piece of dirt. I spoke to our counselor, and he was the one who brought the idea into my mind. It made me realize how far my boyfriend has pushed me. I don't like it. Should I talk to him about it first, and tell him i'm gonna take action if he doesn't change? Or should I just break up? We've been going out for roughly eight months, and in eighth grade. (age doesn't matter.) I haven't broken up with someone before, I had one boyfriend before and I moved sooo we knew it was over. But I got over him quickly because I didn't like him very much. I really do love my boyfriend, and lately, he's been having a hard time. He's had a hard life, worst i've heard of. How should I go about this? And where? We can't drive, and not over facebook or text. That's wimpy, right? There isn't anywhere really though, so no park, and we don't live close. Open Question: Which story idea do you like better?Me and my best friend wants to make a manga/comic book thing and we had troubles deciding on which story we should write. We both had a couple of ideas but we don`t know which one to choose. My Idea: Story about a super pretty, and attractive dumb *** girl. Two of her best guy friends always fight over her all the time and she always cause problems for them. It is mainly about the love triangle romance comedy story. My Friend`s Idea- A story about camp. A boy breaks up with her girlfriend to get with a girl named Veronica and the ex-girlfriend gets jealous and such. She is trying to get her boyfriend back the whole time but only has a week til camp ends. Those are just some ideas we have. I would be happy if you could suggest us ideas but we were just wondering what interest you the most. If you think that both story is boring, tell us what we can do to spice it up or suggest ideas. Thanks Loads Please dont be rude. IF U PICK WHICH STORY IS BETTER, PLEASE EXPLAIN WHY FOR 10 POINTS Open Question: people have pores on their genitals right?Well my boyfriend is always worried that he has some problem or std or something because if tiny bumps on the top of his shaft when he like stretches it out. i told him its pores because i really do believe it is. I have them on my genitals too if i stretch the labia or whatever and ive had them since i can remember even way before ive had any sexual contact whatsoever. they are flesh colored.. idk what to say about em they are just there... never puss.. nothin anyone have any advice or anything to say and help?Do you agree with me? Open Question: Whats going on here? (Drama Filled Story Attached!!!)?I got to know this girl about six months ago. We didn't talk a lot, but even then I kinda had a thing for her. But I was dating someone else and so was she, so I just shut it all out for that time. Over the summer, while we still were both dating other people, we started txting each other out of the blue. She's such a great girl, funny, attractive and exactly my type. But again, we were dating other people, so I blocked it out. However, we didn't stop texting each other... We would talk abt everything, including problems in our current relationships. After texting for a month or so she started telling me goodnight and "sweet dreams" after we'd talk or even days when we didn't talk at all. I didn't think anything of it, and besides, we were still dating others. I broke up with my girlfriend a couple months ago. It was one of those bad breakups and this girl kinda helped me through it. Her random "goodnight" txts would always hit me right when I needed them. We recently hung out for the first time by her request. It was me and her along with my sister and her boyfriend. It was just at my house and we hung out and walked drove over to a nearby creek. Nothing really special.... But all this is re-sparking my feelings for her, but she is still dating her boyfriend of two years. I deliberately bring him up sometimes and she doesn't seem to eager to talk about him or even shrugs him off. But I'm worried that I may just be seeing what I want to see, like maybe I'm exaggerating this in my head or I missed a joke or something.... The actual story is that I told her that her English teacher would go easy on her if she told her she knew me. She laughed and so I threw in that she could let her boyfriend do the same, and that's when she seemed to shrug him off. So is this girl viewing me as a friend or something more? Honest answers appreciated :) Open Question: How should I..break up with my boyfriend? :( i've never broken up before?My boyfriend hasn't been very good to me lately. He's been dumping all his problems on me and treating me like a piece of dirt. I spoke to our counselor, and he was the one who brought the idea into my mind. It made me realize how far my boyfriend has pushed me. I don't like it. Should I talk to him about it first, and tell him i'm gonna take action if he doesn't change? Or should I just break up? We've been going out for roughly eight months, and in eighth grade. (age doesn't matter.) I haven't broken up with someone before, I had one boyfriend before and I moved sooo we knew it was over. But I got over him quickly because I didn't like him very much. I really do love my boyfriend, and lately, he's been having a hard time. He's had a hard life, worst i've heard of. How should I go about this? And where? We can't drive, and not over facebook or text. That's wimpy, right? Open Question: what can i do to make my boyfriend stay hard?me n my boyfriend been together for 3 months. were known each other since i was 13 so its been along time. when we first got together we was fine, had no problems having sex. but now since almost a month ago he cant stay hard. one time i went 4 days without having sex. some days he can get hard some days he cant. my boyfriend is 19 by the way. im not FAT or UGLY. i play with him in give him head. he gets hard but he cant keep it. i wear lil booty shorts for him let him look at my body. he gets hard but like i said he cant keep it. what can i do to help him??? Open Question: What should I do?? I refuse to be the "man" but he does nothing?Okay, well, I'm confused on what to do. I've been going out with my boyfriend for 2 months. Here's the problem - he doesn't hold my hand even when i give the MOST OBVIOUS hints - he never says goodbye online or when we text - he FORGETS to hang out with me after school - he keeps saying he'll "try to remember" to hang out - we really have nothing in common -we never really talk/hang out. I really do like him and I want to try to make things work but he's doing nothing about our relationship. He seems to act like he doesn't care even if his close friend tells me he REALLY likes me too. I refuse to be the "man" in the relationship. I don't want to have to do everything. I want him to show me that he cares but he DOESN'T. I really don't know what to do. I can't give him advice on anything but I don't think it's going to get any better. HELP PLEASE.... Open Question: Should I break up with my online boyfriend?He's been my online bf for over 3 months now, and at first it was great. We talked a lot, even though he lives in Australia while I live in Alaska, and he was always so nice. I actually thought he was completely perfect for a while. But now, he doesn't come online until like 3am or later (time zones), and sometimes he acts like he doesn't really love me. It makes me feel unimportant when he doesn't come online until like 3, like I don't matter that much. and I gave him my phone number a month or so ago but he still hasn't called even though he keeps saying he will. But he's so nice sometimes, and I do love him (yes yes I'm crazy for loving someone I've never met I know), and I'm scared that if I break up with him I'll regret it. I know it's a bad idea to bring my personal problems into yahoo answers, I'm not stupid, but I have NO idea as to what to do at this point. People, he's not a 50 year old. I've seen him (webcam) and heard him and yes I know what he does when he's not on the computer. I know almost everything about him. Why do you think this is so hard for me to figure out? Jeez, I'm not that stupid! Thank you the 3-4 people that actually gave me helpful answers. Open Question: Boyfriend problems? Please help?So me and my boyfriend have been going out for a long time. We are in high school. Lately, we haven't been talking as much or seeing each other. He told his one friend that he feels confused about our relationship and needs to hang out. I feel the same way but I'm not sure if we should continue going out or just brake it off. I still have feelings for him but they aren't as strong as they used to be. I feel like maybe it's time for me to be single. This has happened before and it was usually me spending time fixing the problem. This time I want him to put in effort. And he has by texting me or facebooking like once or twice. And id much rather have him try something more formal just to show he really does care! What should i do?! More Recent Articles
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