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Open Question: what should i do now , hes a lier ,? and more... Open Question: what should i do now , hes a lier ,?right for two days its been mad with my boyfriend of 6 months first day - he came to my house at 3pm looking ruff , he then lied to me about going out the night before , but only lied about who he went with, his mum was the one who told me. a bit later i got in a fight with my mum but a very big one , and he was there to , making it worse , my mum shouted at him and he started calling her things. i then got home and i was very upset so i called him and said please can you come over tomorrow morning early , he said yeah ill be there before 11 i promise and i kept saying it to him , then he said ill be there i promise stop annoying me . He then went out that night with our friends and he probly didnt get in till late seeing as its 12.30am and hes not here ! should i be mad at him ,. when he lied to me yesterday i ignored him all day and he kept saying sorry and coming to hug me , at the end of the day i forgave , now i have to forgive him again ... what should i do ,. i love this boy so much , but i cant take this anymore , .. weve had some problems last month aswell with some serious things. i just want to be happy .. Open Question: My partners 4 year old?Hi everyone My partner has 2 4 year old girls (twins). The relasionship he has with his ex is not good. Loads of things has happened and no matter what he does she will never meet him half way. She stopped contact on several occasions simply has she put it because "she could". She then went on to tell everyone including the girls that daddy didnt want to see them and told her friends family and everyone who would listen. He eventually went to court had texts etc to prove that he never refused to see them and infact it was her that stopped contact. court went well and he has has no problems since he also only has contact through her new partner and since he had found out all her lies has been alot more nice to talk to. Now although she will no longer stop contact she has done all she can to make life a nitemare the girls call her new boyfriend daddy and has been told that daddy (my partner) should not tell them off and if he does to come home to mummys. As you can imagine this has caused no end of problems if they are naughty. They just cry and cry wont do as they are told and ask for there mum. I have to say though they love there daddy and always want to see him and me. We never ever say anything horrible about there mum and just ignore what horrible things she says to them about him we just hope when they are older they will rember that we were always in there prescence respectful about there mum and when they have told us they do the same with there mum ie ask for daddy when they get told off (which they do) we tell them they must be good for mummy. We just dont want them confused anymore. Do you have any ideas how to handle the didapline situation when they start asking for mummy so as to get there own way. Sorry this was so long winded I have never done this before. I would like to state I never get involved with there mum I do stay out of it. We just want to be able to nip these tatrums in the bud. The daddy thing he has just let go of saying that as long as the girls are happy and know and love him when they are older they will remember there real daddy not pressuring them and will wonder why there mum did the things she did. Its just the fact that they are clicking on to all these things and trying to use it to get there own way. Should we just ignore it and let them sulk/cry.We just dont know. Thankyou for your comments guys you have been a great help x x x Open Question: how do i know for sure she is into me? do you think she is?-emails me all day daily -she knows I like her - tells me her boyfriend is jealous of me and only ever speaks bad about him around me - tells me the more time she spends with me the more she wants to move on to the next step in her life (leave her boyfriend) - tells me she is only happy when she is having fun with me and that its the only time when she forgets her problems -tells me she loves spending time with me - wants to move in with me -i have another wealthy lesbian friend overseas and has offered her to come with me to meet her and try the whole (3 girls together) she told me it's a definite she has decided to come and try -says she wants kids and asked if I would ever have kids in my life just after we were talking about being with 2 girls -tells me she even enjoyed regular grocery shopping with me and needs me to hold her hand - tells her ex about all the fun things we have been doing to rub it in -she talks about me heaps to her other friends and they all want to meet me and they invite me everywhere but they have never met me Open Question: How can i control feeling sick and hate everytime i see this old friend?Ok i use to have this friend and I knew her and her mother were beyond average gossipers but I became really close best friends with her. Then began the classic storyline of her finding a boy and she became so incredibly stuck up and yet always complained constantly saying "i hate my life" when she has it pretty well off and complaining about walking up a ramp etc. She then turned on me and one night she apologised to me for how she was acting (selfish etc) and i told her some of the things that hurt me but also that i want to help her get better and she was fine. Next day as far as i can tell she told her bf (who lives overseas) and her mother (who then began spreading rumours about me) and from what ive heard the story was completely turned around! It was made out that i was a horrible person and that i had done all these things and now im so hurt that i can't bear to even look at them without getting this pain in my stomach like im about to be sick. Since this time - a few months ago- I've had things in my life and the way she's acted is as if she's jealous the light always has to be on her. Problem is she's gone to live with her boyfriend who lives in the same country I'll be on a working holiday in and im also going there to see alot of my friends there too (as we shared friends in this other country). I just want to be able to not feel this feeling and to enjoy myself but i cant when i think of her, it ruins my day and my mind. HELP More Recent Articles |
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