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Open Question: What should I do (Boy Problems)? and more... Open Question: What should I do (Boy Problems)?This guy I liked kinda stood me up @ the movies on sunday, left me waiting for 3 hours and wasting 11 dollars on a movie ticket to a movie that I was too depressed to see. He tells me on facebook that he was grounded and that his parents took his phone away and that he could'nt go, but he sent the message while I was still at work early in the morning and I do recall telling him that I had work then. And then my friend tells me that her boyfriend (who is his friend) told her that he was actually with friends that time. And then I have been avoiding him today at school because I didn't want to see him. And then he told my friend that he was pissed at her for ruining his chances with me...even though she didn't do anything about the sunday movie thing. Then I come home and send him a reply saying I didn't trust him anymore, and my friend said that he is a lying jerk and that he likes another girl as well. I must be extremely gullable then, I thought he was really a good guy :( He said I made his life less depressing because of his parents etc. and then he sends this message: U can ask my friend zach i tlked to him and i was so sad ant pist tht one i couldnt go or get ahold of u i tried to tlk to ryan to see if krissi could get ur number an tell u honestly i really dont want to hurt u i will look in your eyes and tell u this if u want cause its all the truth i care bout u and i would do ne thing to make up for this I haven't replied but idk what to say, I know I SHOULD NOT just forgive and forget, or let him off the hook. Idk if he's still lying...or if my friend is lying? I really don't know : ( Open Question: Will he be deported or what are the chances?My boyfriend was taking me to work because i was late. He was kind of speeding and he got a ticket. That's not the problem. he does not have a license and he does not have a green card. They gave im his ticket and they also gave him a paper saying that he has to schedule a court date before 30 days. Im nervous because i don't know what can happen to him. And i know hes nervous but he wont explain much. Please help me. Open Question: can this relationship be saved?I've been best friends with this girl for 10+ years and have just noticed lately we've got nothing in common. I find her to be boring and she gossips all the time about everyone. She never does anything interesting or has anything interesting to say. She has no ambitions in life. She never has a conversation with you, she waits for her turn to speak. My problem is her boyfriend is best friends with my boyfriend. Do I make more of an effort or just let go? Its hard because we used to tell each other everything, hang out every weekend, do everything together and I just don't feel that connection anymore sorry for putting this question in the wrong place. Didn't realise it till I hit submit Open Question: Why are black people so homophobic?I don't get it. I am bisexual and was born to a white father and black mother. I identify as white for many reasons, one being that my mother abandoned me, and another that seriously, you guys are really homophobic. I really have tried to be nice to black people, but they are just impossible. When I came out to m father a few years ago, he had no problem with it. Black fathers have a massive problem with their children being gay or bi. My father also liked my boyfriend and was as nice to him as he was to my girlfriends )I've been with one boy and two girls). Also, when I was with my boyfriend, black people often called us names, and some whites did to, but nowhere near the same extent. Sorry for the rant, but I just can't understand it. Open Question: Am I enabling my daughter?Ok, I admit upfront that I love my granddaughter and this year due to a layoff, I have had the opportunity to really share some time with her. My daughter asked me before the beginning of the school year if I could help her out by picking up my 10 year old granddaughter from school. I go to school from 7:45 - 11:45 Mon - Fri. I am in training for becoming a medical assistant. My granddaughter gets out at 2:40. So I'm thinking this will be great for both my daughter and I - I get to spend some quality time with my granddaughter (we even do home work together!) and I save my daughter the expense of having to pay for after school day care (she's a single mom). I thought this would be a great arrangement and my daughter would finally be able to get herself to a point where she feels comfortable financially. What it's done is caused her to spend more money. She has dinner with us frequently (which is of my doing - not hers). I was hoping she would be able to save some money for some security but it just hasn't happened. She goes on camping trips with her boyfriend (and yes - they take the kids - he has a son from a previous relationship) but she ends up paying for the entire trip! My daughter has her own apartment and a great job. This has become a sore spot for my husband and me because he feels she's taking advantage of me. He pointed out that she told him she would purchase fire wood every 2 weeks (on her payday) for us, which I thought was very generous of her, but when he asked her for some wood, she said she couldn't pick it up until she got paid. The wood is $25. Since she wasn't due to pick it up before then, I saw no problem with (we had plenty of wood), but my husband was extremely disappointed that she didn't even have $25 since she was saving well over $300 a month for me picking my granddaughter up. Any Thoughts? Just to re-iterate: she was not late on getting the firewood. The conversation happened early in the week and was not due to us till this past Friday - which she delivered on. My daughter admitted to my husband that she did not have the money to pay for the firewood until she got paid. She also admitted to me that she the reason she was short is because she paid for the lastest excursion for her boyfriend and their kids. She's always wanted to live beyond her means - I just want her to be comfortable and I don;t want my husband questioning what she is doing with her money. Open Question: I caught my (now ex) boyfriend in a lie, yet he is mad at me?Hi people...help? So my (as of now) EX- boyfriend lied to me about asking my twin sister out before him and i started dating. While that was BEFORE we dated, i see this as a huge problem because he denied it when my sister told me. I, like a stupid girl... believed him over my twin. Me and my twin were at war for sometime until she showed me incriminating text from his phone. She had saved them but didn't want me to see the bc she was afraid they would upset me. Anyway, he admitted to it today, and then i broke up with him. He only admitted it after he was caught... so it made me really suspicious about everything hes ever said. Anyway, The thing is I loved him soooo much. It just really hurt me to know I was his second choice, I was second to my own sister. Im very insecure and that just didn't help. Now he is so mad at me. He wont talk to me or respond to me in any way. How should I fix this or is it a lost cause? We hung out together everyday and i know i sounds pathetic but I really love him. We are in many college courses together...and Im going to have to see him everyday. I feel so sad! Help. Open Question: Is it awkward that we're not talking a lot yet?I really feel stupid asking this question, but just bear with me xD So my boyfriend and I have been going out for about a week and a half. I asked him out, 'cuz I've liked him for a while. The first time the feelings came up was our freshman year, but he went to a different school after sophomore year and didn't talk much after that. I kinda gave up on him and dated some other guys. This summer was the most we've hung out in, literally, 3 years. I told him my feelings at my friend's bonfire the Friday after Thanksgiving, and he said he'd like to give it a try. =) He goes away to school while I stay home and commute, so we're three hours away. We've both been in long-distance relationships before, so that's not the problem. We talk on AIM every night but we don't talk a lot. Even when we hung out that weekend we didn't talk much. I didn't think it was awkward before but now it's kinda starting to get awkward. I'm thinking it just may be because we're still trying to get a feel for each other after being apart for a long time and not going out for very long yet. But with my other boyfriends we talked like non-stop so I'm starting to worry a little bit. Am I just being paranoid? Open Question: Relationship problems..?My boyfriend and I used to be the perfect couple. We used to always be completely happy and content with what we had and we never fought. We're still completely in love with each other, don't get me wrong.. I think sex complicated things, although I don't know why. Lately, we've been fighting a lot about stupid things that really don't matter. We haven't been able to see each other too much lately either, due to family problems. I really want things to work. I need things to work. I love him and I don't know what I'd do without him. What are some things I can do to rekindle our relationship a little? What are some thoughtful ways to show him how much I love him? Open Question: i have a crush on this girl? please help?am a guy in 10th grade and i like a girl who is in 10th grade but we go to different high-schools. i haven't seen her since 8th grade and i really miss seeing her, i had her in 3 of my classes in middle school and she brightened my day everyday when i saw her walk in there but not anymore. am always thinking about her and wondering what she is doing. my problem in middle school was that i was really shy and i never talked to her, we weren't even friends and i acted differently when she was around, and i think that she suspected that i liked her, that's always on my mind but i don't think she knew. the other problem was she was popular but really nice and smart, which made it hard for me to talk to her. my voice always cracked up when she talked to me. like once she asked me for a pencil, i was excited that she talked to me but i was really nervous and i thought why she asked me if she could have asked her friend or someone else. she also had a boyfriend but they broke up. so what should i do now? you might think am crazy but she is the girl i want to be with forever. i wish i could see her and tell her that i liked her. Open Question: My ex-boyfriend wants me back. It could work, but need advice.?We broke up after about a year and a half because he wasn't giving me the attention I wanted. He was a negative thinker and he wasn't one to talk about things deeply and conversations were mainly me talking 90% of the time, and him just listening, giving nothing back. However, I trust him fully, no one ever cheated, we both love each other, and we really never had any other problems. We took a break before for the same reason and he never really understood so when we got back together, he never really changed. I broke up with him for real this time and I didn't talk to him for about 3 weeks until he called. He said that he had been questioning how this happened and suddenly he realized it was his fault. He said that not having me made him realize that he never wanted to see me with anyone else and that he personally could not see himself with anybody else. H said he loved me and he was going to make some major life changes. I told him that for now I wouldn't go looking for anyone new, but I wouldn't get back together with him until I saw that he was changed. He is already calling more, texting more, and he even mentioned that he had a 12 hour day at work but called it a 'good day' WHICH normally would just be him complaining for 15 minutes. So my question is, where do I go with this? Any advice? More Recent Articles |
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