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Open Question: What is some of the really scaring things your son does and what do you do about it? and more... Open Question: What is some of the really scaring things your son does and what do you do about it?My Boyfriends son always tries to stick things in to the outlets and that extremely scare me.! I try and put things infront of the out let and the clear blockers so he will stop. He also likes to jump off furniture and I have no clue what to do about that one. Just wanted to know what other problems other moms have had.! Open Question: ok my boyfriend really likes that country that is like really old?he likes that really old stuff that is like johnny cash (ew!) and that kind of stuff so I was thinking I would get him a few cd's for christmas of that kind of music. but the problem is I hate that stuff so I don't know anything to get him I need some suggestions of cds to get him please! Open Question: How do can I fix me and my boyfriends relationship?We both know we are in an unhealthy relationship (we have been together for a year and a half) but whenever I try solving a problem he just completely shuts down. We have many disagreements threw out the day, but nothing seems to get threw to him about working things out. I really need help, seems like everyone I have talked to can not help me. Open Question: help me i am i areal fix !!!!!!!!?ok i think with this one, ppl who know really well about indian culture wud know about the solution but others are free to help too. i am a girl living in india of course and in high school i made friends with this boy whom i really liked but now after some 4 months of our friendship he proposed me .this is my first proposal and i used to think i am not the boyfriend type but the problem is i really like that boy and i dunno whether it is really love or just a crush and i dont know what my parents wud say so in short i have no clue how to handle this one but i am totally sure i dont want to lose this boy he is really special to me so pls anyone experienced is free to help !!!!!!!!!!! Open Question: no physical attaction with boyfriend?i split up with my ex bf a few times over the years, because i had changed my mind and i did cheat on him once. we recently split up again. the trouble is, i do really love him, he is perfect in most ways and iv never met anyone i connect with as good- i dont know if thats just coz iv known him so long but, the problem is i just dont fancy him at all, i never have i met him when i was very young and so he was my first boyfriend. i dont particularly enjoy sex with him or even kissing in an intimate way. i love cuddling, being soft and kissing in a cute way with him but i just struggle with the intimate side because of what i have said. i know he really fancies me , and i cant tell him what the real reason is. i dont want to sound shallow because he really was amazing to me, but i cant help thinking il always want someone different, someone i have all that with, and really fancy too. i cant keep messing him around, because its destoyin him and doing neither of us any good. its just hard to walk away when we are so good together, just not the physical, intimate side which i really want. please any advice. Open Question: How often do you and your significant other fight?What do you fight about? How long do the fights last? How do you resolve the fights? How long have you been together? How old are you two? Just curious where my relationship stands in comparison other couples. Thanks! If you're interested, here's my answer: My boyfriend of 3 1/2 years and I are in our early twenties. We have little fights probably once a week, and bigger fights about once every 4-6 weeks it seems. Our biggest ones typically start out small over miscommunications, and then they usually build from there to include pent up resentment, generalizations, and overexaggeration. Then we usually are pretty standoffish and cold for anywhere from a few hours to a few days. Our problem is that when my boyfriend gets upset and says stupid things, I in turn get upset, sometimes cry, and then he will leave. --That keeps us from talking things over calmly and coming to a resolution. Usually our fights resolve by either throwing some dirt on it and moving on (typically comes back to bite us in the ***) or by texting/IMing after some cool off time. :S Yeah, not great; we're working on it. Open Question: I don't want to screw up a good friendship. What should I do/say: A 2-subject question-Which means: LONG STORY?He works for my dad (and is also his friend) and we've been friends for some years now. He told me that when he first got the job he saw a picture of me and asked my dad, "Who's that? She's hot." and he said my dad told him "That's my daughter." and kind of gave him a "back-off" look. As a couple of years went by, I still havent had any serious relationships (just a couple of flings that last about 2 months tops because guys probably don't want to waste time on a celebate girl) and I think my dad started to get the impression that I'm gay because of that (not that there's anything wrong with that) and because I once wore a temporary butterfly tattoo that is a so-called gay symbol (I didn't know that at the time). Anyway my guy-friend said when my dad was drunk he told him to ask me out because I need/don't have a boyfriend. I told him he once got drunk and tried to hook me up with some guy in his early 20's that he only knew for 30 minutes when we went on a camping trip solely because he's so worried that I might be a lesbian (but I'm not, I just don't want a real relationship yet). The thing is, every since he admitted he has a crush on me I've been having some mixed thoughts about him. He's not a bad-looking guy, he's about 7 years older than me, our philosophy on life is pretty similar, we both enjoy the same music, and we like to party. But the problems are: 1) I have met a couple of his ex-girlfriends. They seem pretty cool and I'd hate for them to dislike me if anything were to happen between me and him. 2) I tried to hook him up with one of my friends and so far they're just friends, but I think she's building a slight attraction to him the more he's around. 3) He's my dad's friend and employee, which we both know would result in a real awkward mess if we ever dated. 4) I'd hate to ruin a good friendship by being more than friends. 5) I never really had much sexual attraction to anyone. I've had experience with foreplay, but when I deconstruct the situation and analyze the concept it takes the fun out of it. When I really think about what I'm doing I don't see the point. I'm bored with it. I'd rather have a loyal companion that can be one with me on an intellectual level, but I know he's the type that would eventually want more than that. 6) *Drum-roll*...I'm a virgin and I don't plan on getting any for at least 3 or 4 more years (I'm not religious/saving it for marriage. I'm just not ready.) I think I'm starting to like him. I get that fluttery feeling when he's around sometimes. He's flirted/hit on me a few times, but I don't really know if I should/how to respond because it's still a little awkward for me. I'm afraid that taking it a step further might screw up our friendship. What should I do/say? And what's with my dad? (sex is out of the question for at least a few more years. Who knows? I might not even like it.) More Recent Articles
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