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Open Question: What is going on, is this a friend problem? and more... Open Question: What is going on, is this a friend problem?My guy friend has pictures of me(just of me and one with me n my puppy) He asked for pictures of me because he doesn't have any of me and we're really close friends so I really don't care they're not sexual or anything. Today my guy friend was showing his one friend also a kind of friend of mine as well(a girl who he likes but she has a boyfriend) pictures on his phone and while so the pictures of me passed by and she practically flipped. She asked why he had pictures of me and she asked when I'd taken one of those pictures because she's never seen it before. He said "Because I do and she sent me them." Me" Because you asked me for pictures and yesterday when I was bored." But she looked kind of mad I don't know why but is there something going on I'm not seeing? I guess she could be jealous, but that looks bad because she has a boyfriend. Open Question: He hates me, right??My boyfriend and I have been together for almost 3 years. We live together and have a child (he's the only father my son has ever known) SO, the problem is, we never hold hands, hardly ever hug or hold each other, kiss or have sex. When any kind of affection is shown (sex too), it is because I initiate it. More than half the time, he doesn't want to have sex and HATES PDA. I work all day and he works all night, he's a great guy and I love and appreciate him so much (he does take care of our son during the day), I give him space, let him go out with his friends or play Xbox when ever. We've been like this for about a year now, So WTF could be his problem? I just don't get whats with the coldness. I tried the communication, he said he still feels the same way, that I'm his everything, blah blah...but no explanaion to the no affection. It's so hard to get him to talk about anything important. :( Open Question: WHAT SHOULD I DO ABOUT MY GIRLFRIEND?I have been with my girlfriend for 3 months. She seems to be the girl of my dreams. I am 29 and she is 19 which isn't a problem. I love this girl more than anything. Last week we had our first major argument. Her ex boyfriend who she has been broken up with for over a year recently has been trying to contact her again. Her ex is serving in Iraq and was very abusive towards her. He beat her so bad that caused her to have a miscarriage. What made me mad was that she wouldn't just tell him to leave her alone. She just decided to change her number. This past week was the first anniversary of that happening to her and she warned me a few weeks ago that this would be an emotional time for her. Since we have had our arguement she has been more distant and semed to have something else on her mind. She would rarely text me and was being extremely moody. She also has only told me that she loved me once since the argument. I kept asking her about it and she said she no longer has feelings for him. That was my main concern. We had a long telephone discussion last night and I laid it out on the line. I told her it wasn't fair that she make me pay for what he did to her. She told me that she does love me and that she is not intentionally trying to take it out on me. She said that she is punishing herself from being happy. She also said that she doesn't want to lose me because I'm a good guy and treat her better than she has ever been treated. She wants me to be patient with her and said she can't guarantee that she won't push me away but said she would try not to. I told her that I would be as patient as I could and said if it lasted much longer I wouldn't be able to continue the relationship. We hung out last night and went to a movie. She seemed ok for the first few hours prior to the movie but during the movie she had a blank expression on her face and was moody on the ride home. She told me her mom thinks she is depressed. I can't help but think she is losing feelings for me. She told me several times last night that she loved me. Today I texted her a few times and told her that I loved her and missed her with no response back that she loved me or missed me. Prior to my arguement she told me several times a day that she loved and missed me. Am I overreacting? Could this be part of her depression? I just don't know what to do. I love this girl more than anything. How long should I wait? Should I set a timeline? What should I do? More Recent Articles
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