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Open Question: What does he want to hear? PLEASE, please help me.? and more... Open Question: What does he want to hear? PLEASE, please help me.?I just broke up with my boyfriend, but he pretty much broke up with me. I didn't want to break up with him. But he keeps expecting me to say something to him to make us work or to fix things. Problems we have are he doesn't trust me, I have a past where I had sex with more than a few guys and that really upsets him, and he asked me if I though his penis was the biggest I've been with, and I said no. I just want to know what I can, or what it is he wants to hear to fix or make these problems better and get him to take me back? Please help me, I'm desperate, I love him soo much. Open Question: boy issue please help! i am putting this in womans health because i dont get any answers in the other catagori?so, my close friends boyfriend is really nice, and so now i like him... one problem, he is sending mixed signals, his name is Leonard by the way. So i was talking to my friend about some extreem diet i heard about, and he over heard and later he came up to me and said thati didnt need to go on a ny crazy diets because i wasn't fat, and he sticks to me like glue in P.E, my cousin says its because i have boobs, but there are 2 things wrong with that... im only a 34B size and i wear a baggy sweatshirt to hide my pudge (not that much, but it is still there) so u pretty much can't tell they are there... And when my friend (robin) found out that i liked her boyfriend, she didnt care, she said we might b able to go out in high school since they are going to different ones and i am going to the same one as Leonard... what i want to know is what do you think about the mixed signals and was my friends reaction wierd and what should i do about all of this? sorry it is such a long question Open Question: I'm not sure what to do about this problem?Well first, I was with this guy; Let's call him "Carl". When I was with him, he wouldn't really act like a boyfriend at all and he would just act like he doesn't care. And that went on for a while and I decided maybe it's not such a good idea to be with him. So I broke up with him. He was sad for a week and he ignored me. And then I started liking this guy and it happens that he likes me too. Let's call him "Alex" It's a coincidence, I wanted to wait a while before I date again. But it was just a coincidence so yeah. So I'm uh somewhat going out with this guy I guess? For a month now. And now, "Alex" is more distant and I asked him and everything. He told me he was busy with school. But he talks to everybody around him except me. He kind of avoids me I guess and barely talks to me anymore. It just happened, I don't why. And I found out from his best friend that he's not ready to date yet. But he already kissed me and everything, so I'm not sure. It's kind of strange because he barely talks to me and he talks to everybody else normally..I don't get it, it's not like I want him to kiss me or do lovey dovey stuff every second. I just want to talk normally! And now my ex boyfriend is like acting really sweet now. Complete opposite when I was with him. He talks to me always now. We were on the bus to the movies with a bunch of friends of course, including my boyfriend and ex. My boyfriend of course, didn't talk to me. Or barely talked to me anyways. While my ex talked to me nonstop and it's awesome because my ex is my best friend. My ex grabbed my hand and we started playing "slap sham bo" (it's like ro cham bo except whoever loses, you have to slap their hand) and he wouldn't let go of my hand. I sat next to my friend and my ex during the movies. My boyfriend sat 2 rows under me with our guy friend..cause he came into the theater late for some reason. So during the movie my ex put his hand on the armrest like awkwardly I guess, seems like he wants me to touch his hand of whatever. I tested him by moving my hand really close to his because usually, if a guy doesn't want you to hold their hand they move it away right? But he moved his hand closer and I held his hand for like 15 seconds to see if he would move it away but he didn't. I kind of miss my ex. I don't understand why he didn't do this when I was with him. And he stares at me a lot in class and zones out. He also follows me a lot now. He talks to me way more than when we were together..Am I falling for him again? I feel like I shouldn't have broke up with him but I don't know. Is this an illusion? Would he be back to the "don't give a crap" stuff again? I love my boyfriend though. -sigh- My questions are: 1) I don't understand why my boyfriend is acting all distant even though he thinks he's not ready to date? I understand, and I respect his opinions and thoughts but does he really need to avoid me that much? Do you think the reason he's doing this is because he feels that if we talk, he's obligated to be all couple-y? 2) Do you think my ex still likes me? 3) What should I do?! Thanks guys Open Question: what do you think of my story? is it better as a book or a movie?this story tells of a teenage girl (mia) who has gone through too much too fast. it starts in her adolescent years where she was an outcast in school. she would skip lunch everyday and sit at the outside benches by herself for fear of having no one to eat with. she's antisocial and only considers one other her friend yet they hold a competitive relationship. in the summer before high school, she begins to eat normally but notices weight gain. this marks the start of her troubles with eating disorders, sliding from bulimia to binge eating and back. she keeps this a secret, the first of many. she also deals with image problems and low self esteem but in her transition to high school, her facial features have matured womanly and model-like. in all, she turns into an attractive female at age 14. mia catches her young math teacher amazed by her but she ignores him. although gaining a few more friends, she remains in her mute stage, now spending her lunch time in the school library. she puts her focus in her classes and becomes a 4.0 student. she continues this into her sophomore year, being the high achieving student she is, the weight-obsessed freak she is, and the beauty (in the eyes of everyone else) she is. she becomes suicidal when pressed by the pressures of the above. she suddenly finds herself doing worse in her classes, struggling with weight gain and loss, and deeply ugly. she has episodes of mental breakdowns. then she manages to find some positivity by the end of the school year. she ends it with a 4.2 GPA and eases off about her looks. the summer before junior year, she begins talking to older men online out of boredom. she realizes she has never been in a relationship before so she attempts to see how she affects men. the precocious 16 year old charms men in their 20s in chats and later on, her webcam. this begins her numerous cybering sessions, many of them lasting into the early am. the men loved her and she the loved the attention. she was a genius in that her parents never detected any foul play from her. the summer ended on a sweet note for her. her junior year of high school was tough and she knew it. she does well in her classes, including 4 APs, but as time went on, her work ethic falters. her low self esteem came back as well when she begins binge eating at buffets. she finds herself loving food but hates gaining weight so she binges and starves and binges and starves. she keeps her thin body frame but struggles mentally. in a chatroom, 16 year old mia meets 24 year old john. not only were they involved online but this time, mia has find herself a boyfriend. living 30 minutes away, he oftentimes picks her up and the two engage in sex. her parents were clueless that their daughter was sneaking out at 2am and not really studying at the library on sundays. mia and john lost touch after 3 months. she then meets 28 year old ryan. sex ensues. all the while she still chats with other older men online. mia sees how her life has changed. she no longer walks to the local dollar tree to buy school supplies but finds herself there picking up multiple pregnancy tests instead. she no longer sees worth in life, between fcking aimlessly with older men, jogging on the treadmill with her 85-pound body and lying to her parents. Open Question: i have been hurt before... am i putting myself up for it?-this is going to be kind of long. okay, so when i was little from the age of 2-5 i lived in mexico with my mom and brother. later on my mom had my sister. in those 3 years we were there my aunt (dad's sister) would abuse me verbally. she would call me pinche pendeja (f*cking idiot, stupid, dumb ass) puta (whore). she hated me a lot. even though she would do it in front of my mom or grandparents no on ne ever said anything to her... at age 8 i started to have body image issues and thanks to my other aunt (mom's brothers wife). she would call me fat, obese.... anything that had to do with large amount of weight. keep in mind that this is to an 8 year old little girl. so i began to starve and i have done it ever since. still my mom brings up my weight and my aunts compare me to my younger sister. im 18 and weigh 135 pounds my height is 5 feet 3 inches my sister is 15 106 pounds 5 feet 4 inches (she starves and never eats). at 14 i went out with my ex boyfriend. he was very abusive. slapped me when i did anything that he hated like talk to guys or look at any guy. he would punch my arms and legs. when i was pregnant (at 15) i tried to trip me once because i talked back to him. and when i was pregnant he would through my things on the floor and 8 mos. pregnant i would have to fetch my things because he wouldn't help me. he made me MORE self conscious- i would starve for him he would call my sister hott and how he would rather be with her. he would call me a slut and all these other things. and every time he would hit me he would say that I MADE HIM DO IT, IT WAS ALL MY FAULT?!. i got tired of him and his sh*t. i was 16 with a 5 mos. old baby boy when i moved back with my parents. (i lived with him for 2 wks. and i cried every day) in between all of that i got raped when i was little. and out of no where comes my boyfriend, now for 8 mos. and loves me treats me right and won't ever do anything to hurt me. but there is one problem... i NVER learned how to talk about my emotions and its killing our relationship. i feel like sure a failure because when we have a problem i cant talk about how i feel because its going to have to make me vulnerable. im scared that if i let him know ALL that up there ^ he will just leave. i mean he knows about my ex boy friend and the rape. but not about the other two... im scared that if i tell him he will just run away. and i dont want that because he makes me happy and im in love with him... can you guys help me on how to open up to him more with out feeling that feeling of 'if i tell him he is just going to leave me because im so f*cked up' any comments or ideas that will help me are welcomed. thanks to everyone who read this. Open Question: Whats going on do I have a problem i really need help here i need an expert to talk to about this?I broke my virginity when I was 18 and I am 20 , And since that till now I have only had intercourse with two people. And every time I had intercourse I never felt anything at all its quite strange to me. I do masturbate I like use a vibrator and just but it on my clitoris masturbating like that is the only way I can get pleasure I can have sex with the love of my life (my boyfriend) but I don't have any feeling . And I know y'all might think im crazy for asking this but I would like to know because I never had a feeling inside me when I had sex. So here it goes When you women have sex where does the feeling inside you come from. and what does the penis have you hit or rub against for a woman to get that feeling. is it the walls or the g spot or something else? and what can i possibly to so that i can start getting that feeling i am desperate please help me I know i am not a virgin but I still feel like one PLEASE HELP ME!!! Open Question: Is this guy a bad guy?Is he serious about me? Is my new boyfriend not good for me? Well, we've only been dating for a short period (about a month, only see each other during the weekend). He works all day and so sometimes he calls me when he gets home, or doesn't, sometimes it's just an sms. Well, last two weekends we spent together and it was nice, he introduced me to his mum already. But, I feel a bit bad, like, that he's only calling me when he's bored and using me to have something to do during the weekends... He went to a party today at work and sms me it wasn't that great, and now is going out with his friends to a club...it makes me feel bad that he doesn't want to see me...eventhough he sms me he misses me, I doubt it because I rarely hear from him during the week... Today (Sat) he wants to go out with me again... yeah well it is true, since he works so much I think I have to understand that he can't see me during the week. He has no problem with me coming over and staying with him, and I actually can see that he looks forward to it :) If I make plans, he comes along, and he always asks me a week before what I'm doing during the weekend. He also did change his facebook status to being with me lol so I don't know if that counts :P I guess it's because he came out of a long term relationship only recently, so he wants to take his time. Besides, he still answers me when I call or sms and treats me well in person, I should be happy about that ;) So, could it be I'm just overreacting a bit? 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