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Open Question: What do I do to fix things or are they irrepairable? and more... Open Question: What do I do to fix things or are they irrepairable?Me and one of my closest friends, have been friends for about eight years, but over the last few months we seemed to begin drifting. When we talk it often feels like a responsibility or something; rather than actually talking because we want to. She has a boyfriend and a lot of other friends, which I don't have a problem with, but due to this I'm often left feeling isolated and alone. There was a time when we relied on each other for support; but I never felt like I could rely on anyone-except her. We went through some very diffcult times together and had to battle bullying, as well as are own self-esteems. I truly don't want to lose her and I told her that; but she took it as though I just didn't want to be friends with her. I told her everything I was feeling, as I wanted to be honest and she shut down on me. I love her (as a friend) dearly and I just don't know what to do. But at the same time I don't want a friendship based only on obligation. And I'll still have to face her at school for three more years. SO PLEASE HELP ME AND PLEASE TREAT THIS MATTER SENSIBLY!!!!! Open Question: how to stop flirting with other guys when im with my boyfriend?lately ive been having problems. i flirt a little too much with my male friends and my boyfriend gets mad, but i sometimes dont realize im flirting and i know it hurts him but i dont know how to get other guys too stop flirting with me Open Question: (LONG QUESTION) Do I have a right to be upset or am I just being silly or selfish?I'm warning you in advance that this is going to be a kind of long question because there is some background to be covered for you to fully understand where I am coming from so if you don't like reading, please change to another question now. Nearly 4 years ago my parents seperated. It was hard on me and I decided to live with my brother and Dad. The relationship between my mother and I is very strained and I don't get on with her at all. The parent - kid relationship is muddled up and sometimes I feel like I've been stuck with the role of parent. I talk to her pretty much once a month if that. The relationship with my Dad is also very strained because he is not one to express emotions and he bottles things up where as I like to talk about problems etc. He hardly ever pays attention to me, we never do stuff together and our house doesn't have 'rules'. We don't even eat meals together... He doesn't care where I go or what I'm doing. Most teenagers would love that but I need that support and guidance and it's not there for me. Whenever I mention how I feel he goes 'you're an adult now' and I'm freaking 15. Even when we do talk, he talks down to me like I'm an absoloute moron and I can't stand it. He either completely ignores me or treats me like a lump of dirt. It hurts. The only person that is truly there for me is my Nana and she's been going through operations and sickness as well as my Poppa. My Uncle and Aunt recently split up so she's also been stressed about that as well. It's just one big family of stress here and everyone does their own seperate thing. Well, just now I went downstairs and glanced at his computer screen where he left his laptop and he was filling out an application for a dating website. I'm absoloutely shattered and disappointed and I don't know whether I'm being stupid or not. My Mum's had a few boyfriends and has one currently but my Dad has always preached that he will 'never ever have another girlfriend' after the mess that is my parents. I feel almost like there's not much to share and I don't want another person just coming into my life like that. I wish my Dad would have talked to me or something but I really didn't expect it. I've been through so much in the past years and I don't need another person coming in and complicating it all. I don't know whether I have a right to be angry but I am. Can someone please put his in perspective for me? What should I do?! Um. Okay, just thought I'd clarify some things before I get a lot of rude answers that I can't deal with. 1) Yes, I realise that a lot of people have seperated parents but that doesn't make my pain any less significant. 2) Why am I constantly putting myself out there to make my Dad proud when it's never good enough. I almost feel like he's replacing me. 3) The relationship with my Mum isn't going to change. She's immature, she's attention-seeking and she's unbearable to be around. She's hurt me on a number of occasions before and I've forgiven her every time but I'm through with it and I don't care any more. I'm never going to get the mother I used to have back. Open Question: is there something wrong with me?okay, sooo heres me problem. my best friend tells me all the time that the reason i dont have a boyfriend is because i have an intimidating presence. idk how i do though. im very tiny, like im barely five foot. and i have a good personality. but like when i get around guys, i act indifferent. i mean, i dont flirt like other girls and throw myself at guys. is that why? she said if she was a guy, she'd be nervous talking to me because i never show an interest in anyone. i've had a few pursuers, but no one i would like to date. also, i think im pretty, but not like "hot" pretty like most guys want. like all i hear all the time is how "cute and tiny" i am. so basically this is two qustions wrapped in one. so do i sound intimidating? and do guys not like me because im not "hot". i would like a guys perspective on the situation, but girls would help too. thank yuh for reading this! :) oh yeah and im fifteen. Open Question: i need help picking a guy. which guy should i date?okay i realllly need help. i am sorta talking to this guy i met through an old bestfriend of mine . we started talking on myspace threee months ago and ive fallen for him so hard. we've talked about meeting,but havent yet. i cant help but say were both in love and plan on meeting and spending all the time we can together. i meen we talk from like 12 at nite till five in the morning,every nite and he makes me feel like the best girl in the world. then i have this amazing boyfriend who it seems like i couldnt live without,yeah we have our problems,but overall our relationship is pretty good. anywaysss i love them both and im very confused on what guy i should date or what i should do. HELP ! 10 pts for best answer (: Open Question: in love with best friends boyfriend..? with all additional details added @_@?yeah so added all details..cause with peoples responses think i should clarify some things. Ok so im like completely in love with my best friends boyfriend..and i had a crush on him but never told her about it before she started dating him, he kind of acts like he likes me sometimes too tho, like he cuddles me and kisses me on cheek and forhead and always hugs me so much and his gf even asked him one day we were hanging out who would be his second choice if he didnt have her and he said me..but he was laughing a bit and im not sure if he was saying it jokingly..but i reaaly like him so much..he always listens to me and helps me with my problems and s.hit.. but hes dating my best friend..like my best friend since kindergarten.. him and her have been on and off for about 8 months now, the longest theyve lasted without breaking up is 2 months.. and she is telling me she thinks they should break up but she tells me she doesnt want to cause she loves him.. wtf..i dont know what to do...like if they do break up would it be horrible if i went for him..like how could i explain it to my friend without her getting mad..? ok to clarify some things, i already know she woudnlt stop being my friend if i did go for him.. she seriously is always saying she thinks we'd make a great couple and that we should go out..its really odd since hes her bf but w/e. The reason they are on and off is cause she treats him like s.hit every day she tells him hes ugly, gets pissed at him if he goes away from her to talk with his guy friends for like 5 minutes, and she is a total flirt and does the worst things with other guys right infront of him and acts like she doesnt realize shes flirting. and the kissing of cheek and forhead , sometimes shes the one telling him to do it o.o like the other night we all were sleeping over at our other friends house, she wanted to sleep with both of us so we all slept in same bed, him in middle, he kept trying to cuddle her and kiss her and she told him he was being anoying and to cuddle me and kiss me, so he turned around and leaned on top of me and was like is that really wat u want ?'looking at her' and shes like YEAH! O_O! and so he kissed my forhead and she was like "LOSER YOUR SUCH A PUSSY NOT KISSING LIPS XDD!!!" -she makes it realy hard for me to try to ignore feelings all the time..- and ive know guy (and had crush for about 3 years now) and been close to him for about 2 years. and im 17 :/ Open Question: I have a serious girl problem?I am a huge Oklahoma sooners fan and will go there for graduate school, but I attend Clemson for undergrad, but People(especially hot sorority girls) in Clemson are asking me to come to Clemson games and I'm telling them to **** off and that I am an Oklahoma fan and no bandwagon jumper and i'm not switching teams, and if I go to some other game that is bandwagon jumping, I have the right to do this right? if they keep asking me, I'll snap their necks like a twig until their heads rip out and come after their boyfriends and rip their jaws out Open Question: i need a woman's help. body image problem?i have a HUGE body image problem. i'm not going to lie, i do want big boobs for the "unwanted attention" that girls with larger breasts get. i'm 14 and wear a 34B. (i'm done growing. my mom wears a 36B, so i'm small and done). women and girls with larger breasts are soooo lucky. boys are just IN LOVE with them. i would do anything to get looked at "like that". i've never had a boyfriend and i'm 99.9% sure it's because of my boobs. people tell me i have a good personality and i have a pretty good size "butt", but wear i live guys only care about boobs :( i'm tired of crying and causing self-harm. how do i get them? i know there is a way to get them at a young age and without them being in your genes..there has to.. and i don't want to tell my mom cause then she'll think i'm stupid. (she actually likes the fact that she has small breasts and is glad she doesn't have big breasts and she wants me to do the same.) and i'm tall, too. 5'5", so my boobs just look smaller than they really are! Open Question: Serious relationship problem, please help me?I've been dating my boyfriend for almost two years, we're seventeen. I love him very much, but there's a problem. I see him up to five times a month I guess. I've been hanging out with my friends from school a lot. And i've started developing feelings for one of my guy friends. I've been trying so hard not to let it show. I have no intention of breaking up with my boyfriend, but I can't tell my friend I like him either, because that would ruin our friendship. What do I do here people? THANK YOU SO MUCH. Open Question: Boyfriend problems please help!?!?I know this guy we talked since this August and also were dating we started our relationship around november.. its been all good but lately he has not been texting me like he used to or talking to me on the phone... hes a lil ruder now and he used to tell me he misses me and i like u a lot and i love you on text and the phone and now he doesn't at all! we kind of have a long distance relationship we dont see each other often due to school, distance, and life... he lives 45 mins away but we live in totally different towns... he never contributes to coming to see me, every time we met up it is because i made the effort to go to his area and see him.. idk hes been shady and acting diff.. whats going on can anyone help?? I already taked to him about it and he just shakes it off and he thinks im acting wierd and he doesnt seem to care....I am nicer than i usually am to anyone else to him Open Question: HELP PLEASE BOYFRIEND?? (:?Ok so i need help lookimg for a Christmas gift for my boyfriend, he is really sweet and would love anything i got him the problem is i cant think of any ideas. I really need help i would love if it would something reallly cute and sweet (: but im up for anything at this point!! thanks! (: Open Question: in love with best friends boyfriend..?Ok so im like completely in love with my best friends boyfriend..and i had a crush on him but never told her about it before she started dating him, he kind of acts like he likes me sometimes too tho, like he cuddles me and kisses me on cheek and forhead and always hugs me so much and his gf even asked him one day we were hanging out who would be his second choice if he didnt have her and he said me..but he was laughing a bit and im not sure if he was saying it jokingly..but i reaaly like him so much..he always listens to me and helps me with my problems and shit.. but hes dating my best friend..like my best friend since kindergarten.. him and her have been on and off for about 8 months now, the longest theyve lasted without breaking up is 2 months.. and she is telling me she thinks they should break up but she tells me she doesnt want to cause she loves him.. wtf..i dont know what to do...like if they do break up would it be horrible if i went for him..like how could i explain it to my friend without her getting mad..? ok to clarify some things, i already know she woudnlt stop being my friend if i did go for him.. she seriously is always saying she thinks we'd make a great couple and that we should go out..its really odd since hes her bf but w/e. The reason they are on and off is cause she treats him like shit. every day she tells him hes ugly, gets pissed at him if he goes away from her to talk with his guy friends for like 5 minutes, and she is a total flirt and does the worst things with other guys right infront of him and acts like she doesnt realize shes flirting. and the kissing of cheek and forhead , sometimes shes the one telling him to do it o.o like the other night we all were sleeping over at our other friends house, she wanted to sleep with both of us so we all slept in same bed, him in middle, he kept trying to cuddle her and kiss her and she told him he was being anoying and to cuddle me and kiss me, so he turned around and leaned on top of me and was like is that really wat u want ?'looking at her' and shes like YEAH! O_O! and so he kissed my forhead and she was like "LOSER YOUR SUCH A PUSSY NOT KISSING LIPS XDD!!!" -she makes it realy hard for me to try to ignore feelings all the time..- and ive know guy (and had crush for about 3 years now) and been close to him for about 2 years. and im 17 :/ More Recent Articles |
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