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Open Question: very confused... any relationship advise for me? and more... Open Question: very confused... any relationship advise for me?i have been dating this guy for a month..and things where doing really good..met his family...his mom really liked me...then one day he calls me saying that his ex had called and says shes pregnant...shes only 21 years old ok my boyfriend is 36...im in shock but nicely asked him what is he going to do! he says he doesn't know he tells me hes going to meet her to see how things are..after that day i don't hear from him in 5 days..im confused and upset....called him and no response..at the day six i go over his place and wait for him to talk(then i received a txt from him that says sorry for everything i just have a lot on ,my plate right now and don't really know what to do yet)...at this point im like if he doesn't want me anymore he better tell me...we finally talk and all he says is that hes life is all screwed up he doesn't want to have a baby with this girl...and he doesn't know what to do..im like what going to happen to us...he says he doesn't know...until he fixes his problem..im all confused still and asked him if he wants me to move on and look for someone else he says he cant tell me to do that because he doesn't feel it,but he cant ask me to stop my life for him...because he doesn't know when this is going to be fixed.,im like do you care for me ,do you have feeling he says yes i do have feelings..that night i stayed with him...and in the morning before he goes to work he gives me a quick kiss and im like is that how are you going to say goodbye..he looks at me and says no this is not a good bye ...he leaves ...and i haven't talked to him ever since..its been 8 days and don't know anything about him i have text him once to say good morning..no response..im so confused...im thinking if this man has gone back with this girl why hes not telling me good bye..could this be a lie to get rid of me...if it is i think is not necessary he could tell me that things are not working out...and that's it..im so confused..help please! i really like this guy ..hes very nice to me,but this situation is so confusing...i cant understant why hes so distant from me?any advise would be apreciated it! its been 15 days since this problem started..and i have seen him only twice..he doesnt call me or looks for me..im like if he doesnt want me why he doesnt tell me the truth! i dont want to push him but if he at least could tell me something! Open Question: girls: how many of you have a husband/boyfriend that ALWAYS touchs you outside the bedroom? (sexually)?my boyfriend does it all the time. he is always groping me acting like a perve. just wondering how upset i should or shouldnt be by this. i know some girls would be flattered if there man thought they were that attractive that they couldnt keep their hands off. but how many of you feel offended and have problems with a gropey husband/boyfriend Open Question: Ex boyfriend/best friend problem?Looonggg story.. if you feel like reading. I met my ex boyfriend one year ago around October. And we talked for about 3 or 4 months, then he asked me out and it was amazing at the time. I would give anything to go back. He is one of the sweetest guys I know. Buttt... A girl liked him.. she started talking to me as a joke and said that she didn't even know him.. So, I was like.. okay. Later, she told me he asked her for head. She also told me she gave him head when we were together. I broke up with him, and me and her have been friends because she told me that I was a really nice person and she couldn't do that to me. She is now my best friend. The ex boyfriend on the other hand tells me that it's absolutely not true and he told me he was being 100% honest. I told him not to lie to me, and that I would not get mad... but he still tells me that it's not true. I don't know who to believe and it's driving me insane. Any suggestions as to who it might be? Thanks. Open Question: Boyfriend Present Problem....Christmas?My boyfriend and I go to different schools and we can't drive, so we hardly ever get to see each other. I can't see him until January, but in the meantime, I want to do something for him for Christmas. I can't mail anything because my parents will find out. Is there something I could say or do over a text or the phone that would be as meaningful to him as a tangible present? Thanks! Open Question: Why do girls like to play games with guys?Ok so I THOUGHT I met a really great girl. I wanted to do the whole relationship thing with her. Turns out she's just using me and 5 other guys for phone sex cause her boyfriend can't give it to her cause of his religion. Why can't girls just be honest with us guys? I wouldn't have had a problem with what she wanted (I'm a guy after all) but she lied about it and I got emotionally attached... Someone help here? Open Question: Not fun because I don't drink?In my first year of college people just accepted that I didn't drink and those who weren't close friends didn't even know that I didn't. My close friends had no problem with the fact tht I didn't drink and I hung out with them drunk or sober. In fact they would say things like "we drink to keep up with you" (jokingly). Granted I am older and a bit more reserved now but with close girlfriends I am still pretty much the same. After I turned 21 I noticed that people became more intolerant towards my not drinking (they didn't pressure me - or very little) but we didn't hang out much because their idea of fun/free time was drinking. Still with closer freinds we'd go out to dinner/coffee/acitivities (movies, plays, etc) Now my best friend (who I haven't seen in a year) was discussing her excitement to finally be in the same city as me. But she implied that I was lame because I dont drink and dont want to go clubbing without my boyfriend. And that she could not have fun with me because I would not do anything fun (ie: drinking/clubbing/going to the beach). And that she could not drink around me because it would be 'not fun, and awkward." I mean come on...all of my other friends have no problem drinking around me ! It hurts to hear this from MY BEST FRIEND. We are almost like sisters, talk everyday, rely on eachother emotionally etc. Why do people think like this? Do you agree with her? What can I do to change her attitude? I feel like she ASSUMES we wont have any fun before we even try. I'll be hanging out with her next week and I am pretty sure we will have fun (not just talk about depressing feelings) but still .. I wanted an answer/opinions. Thanks My boyfriend also lives across the country so we see eachother a few times a year. Therefore I cant just go with her and my BF. Open Question: i'm really starting to like him, but i have a boyfriend?so, for the last couple days/weeks i felt like my boyfriend was just using me for sex. my friends have been helping me out on this problem and giving me advice. but the thing is, im not sure if he is or not. and theres this other guy. i think im really starting to like him. he likes me, and has asked me out already. i rejected, and told him the reason why. and told him my probllem with my current boyfriend. i dont know what to do. to tell the truth, i just dont wanna lose my chance with both guys. what should i do, please help me. thanks. Open Question: Drug addict needs help, how do I help them?This story is long, so please be patient with me. I work in grocery store (college student) and there is a girl who graduated with my brother (in 2008), who I know is addicted to heroin. Her family consists on a sister who has a serious drinking problem, mother who is a lush as well as a cocaine user. She has older siblings who live far away and don't associate with most of the family. Anyway, I'm not friends with this girl nor do I really honestly care for her, but I care enough to get advice to maybe try to help her. She's been using drugs since she was in high school and is now so severely addicted to heroin, it's only a matter of time before she dies. Her skin is grey and she has sores on her body. She has multiple tracks in her arms. She probably weighs under 100lbs. She comes into the grocery store to steal food because she can't afford it for obvious reasons. Her boyfriend does it as well but he's told me the only reason he does it, is because she does it and this is his first love and will do anything to keep her. I'm sure she's with him because he'll buy the drugs. They steal from anyone they can, to get the money for drugs. Neither of them can keep a job.... I mean this sounds like a typical drug user. I live in a town of about 4000 residents and we have a SERIOUS heroin problem with people who are ages 18-30. Is there anyway I can help her? When I see her I just want to shake her and ask her "what the f**k are you doing with your life?" I try to call the cops on her to get busted for the theft but she's gone by the time the cops come. I really could care less if she stole a little debbie chocolate donut pack I just want her to get busted and maybe she'll get some help. Anyone have any advice for what I can do? She's one of those girls who live for the moment and says f**k anyone who has a problem with it. Open Question: Christmas gift for a close friend who has a boyfriend?So... this girl that I really like has a boyfriend. Due to this fact, we have kept a just friend relationship, and have actually became pretty close lately. After tomorrow, our finals week for college will be over and we will go our separate ways for the Christmas break - and yes, i said Christmas, dont like it, kiss my ass. Anyways, this girl has became my closest friend and cheers me up whenever I'm around her. She knows that I really like her, but she is in love with her boyfriend. I was thinking about getting her a Christmas / thank you gift (for various things she's helped me with lately). I had bought a pearl necklace/bracelet/ear ring set for my sister last week, but was actually thinking about giving my friend it instead. The problem is, she has made a comment that she really doesn't like or wear jewelery, and hates it when her own boyfriend tries to get her something. So should i go with just a simple french rose and a hug goodbye for now, or go out and give her the pearls? Thanks for all replies! thanks. but im not worried bout the boyfriend. He's a damn wussy...city nerd kid, and apparently he's been getting pretty jealous lately. I had same classes with her, so we've been studying together a lot lately. My feelings aren't to ignored, she's pretty kind bout things and we've been told by ppl passing by that they thought we were a couple. lol. What can I say, she has a perfect personality. Any other ideas besides a card that I could get her? More Recent Articles |
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