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Open Question: Troubles with to many guys!? and more... Open Question: Troubles with to many guys!?Ok so i've been talking with this guy over the internet for the past 6 months. We met at camp and hit it off real well. But I've also been righting this guy letters. NOT love letters but just as a friend way ya know. Anyways he asked me out yesterday. I don't know what to say. (If you have read one of my previous questions it's the guy that had the mood swing with me.) Then today another guy asked me out. I've been talking to him for like 2 months now and i think i might like him. Then there's my ex boyfriend who has threatend the two boys who asked me out. I don't even like my ex anymore but he threatens every one (even girls) that come near me. Im not into gilrs but i can talk to them right. Anyways...What do i do? 4 guys. 1 HUGE problem! Open Question: Feeling a bit helpless and that what I am going through also feels like torture.?My girlfriend and I have been together a little over 7 months. For that 7 months we have lived together about the same amount of time. Yes, it was stupid and dumb to move in together that soon. Last Friday we had an argument over a game that we both play. I felt like it was starting to be her life, so I called her on it. She did say that it is her escape from reality and that she found something that she's good at and the alliance that we're in has given her a bunch of responsibility which she also enjoys. She has MS, so this is a big thing to her. She ended up saying that she wants me to move out of her apartment. She wants her space and her life back. She had only had her own place for 5 months before I moved in, so she feels as though it's not really her apartment. She said she would give us dating a try still. I moved back home with my mom. Now, how do I give her space? I feel like it's torture not being able to really talk to her. She has said that she still loves me, she kissed me several times since then and she has told people that she believes that god has written that her and I are supposed to be together, that we're soul mates and that she prays to god that we can work through this. She said the soul mate part while we were talking to a pastor at a church that we go to. We were told by 4 different people, a prophet, two evangelists and a pastor over the 7 months we have been together that we are going to get married and be together for the rest of our lives. Even with all that said, I still have all these negative thoughts running through my mind. Is she cheating on me, is she only saying these things to shut me up, those kind of thoughts. I still have her spare set of apartment keys and car keys. she does threaten to take them back if I start talking about what happened. she just wants to move forward. What's done is done and she says it's time to look towards the future. She wants to get her life back in order. Get back to where she was spiritually when she met me. I know I would be ok if she would reassure me that we're still together once a day. Let me know that she's still thinking of me, like I say to her. Yesterday, she told me that she is in solitude and that she doesn't want me to bring her out of it. What does that mean exactly. I did ask her if we were ok and she did say yes. I think for me, I'm afraid of what may be. I am very afraid to lose her. I love her so very much. I haven't felt this way before about anyone. It was an instant connection between us. I also know that part of my problem is that I don't really have any friends down here. I moved to where I am in August of 2008 and since I don't go to clubs or bars (I don't drink or dance) friends have been hard to come by. I did meet my girlfriend through a mutual friend, but she has her own problems with her boyfriend. If I was to hang around her, they would have even more problems. What can I do so that this doesn't feel like torture? See that's the thing. She doesn't want to talk about it at all. She just wants to move forward and not talk about it at all. I apparently am the only one that wants a resolution to the issue. She seems fine with just not talking about it. Is it just a difference between us in handling things? The game is called Evony. It's not a bad game at all. Just a strategy game. She has been spiritual since before I met her. So this is nothing new. She just "fell" a little bit as she puts it off of her path. As for where I stand, I guess what she feels is that she has told me where I stand already, so she shouldn't need to do so again. My thing is that feelings can change. If I ask her, it just drives her away more she says. Open Question: is he still into his ex or why the sudden mood swings?i've been dating this guy for 8 months. it's been a very serious relationship long distance relationship( chicago to florida). we get to see each other like twice a month. he talks alot about marriage, includes me in his future plans, announces that he is in love and has found "the one" and he has stopped flirting with other girls. he met my family, and ive met his..we've planned the year we would get married.so it's pretty serious.communication is very intense.. he and his last ex broke up a year ago. they talked after a few months of no contact...and i believe she thought they were getting back together...until he met me! when i came visiting, he took me over to his organization and everyone could tell that he has a new girlfriend. so they dont contact eachother anymore..and she left their organization. problem: ever since they broke up, his ex didnt date anyone( so i heard). now, my boyfriend just noticed she has started dating someone else and he has been totally moody and differnt after that. he acts so moody, mad, and just angry...he has suddenly become so busy etc..but he doesnt know i know it's because his ex is seriously involved with someone else....what do i do??? he chose me over her..so why the sudden change and anger?? or am i missing something? i mean, she wanted him but he met me and chose me instead so why is he being moody now??? Open Question: Constantly thinking you said/did something when you didn't.?I have a problem of not remembering if I said something or not, or I'd think I said/did something, but I really didn't. My boyfriend and I got into a fight last night, and he brought it up and it has happened before and I don't know what it is. I'm not sure if I just make things up in my head where I actually believe it happened, or if I actually did say/do it and he just didn't realize or acknowedge it. I know this isn't a doctor or a psychiatrist, and it's just online with mostly normal/real people, but if anyone knows what this could be, like if there is actually a disorder or something out there or something, please share your input. Thank you in advance. More Recent Articles
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