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Open Question: Starting to lose physical attraction for my boyfriend? and more... Open Question: Starting to lose physical attraction for my boyfriend?I've been going out with my boyfriend for almost a year and we live together. I love him very very much and I know he feels the same about me. The only problem is that I'm beginning to lose the physical attraction. For instance, my mom invited us out to dinner at a fancy restaurant and my stepdad wore a nice suit and my boyfriend wore highwater too-small jeans, a shirt and a velvet blazer that was too small to button, as well as dress shoes with white socks peeking out. I tried to give him some ideas when we went shopping at Barneys but he got upset because nothing fit. He's short (5'7") and has recently gained some considerable weight (think large pot belly). Combined with his insane back hair and tighty-whities...well, I feel like I'm with a guy 20 years older. He's only 30 years old!! I asked if he wanted to go jogging or to the gym with me and he said he was tired. I know he works long hours but is an hour or two on the weekends too much time to make for your health? I make simple organic salads and he picks up candy at the store. It's not just a physical thing either, I don't want him to be like his dad; really overweight, ill, and on all sorts of medications. I take good care of myself, I spend money on getting my hair and my nails done. I exercise everyday and try to eat local and organic (we live near the beach so I have to maintain a beach body, plus it feels good to be active and healthy!). I feel like I'm putting in all this effort and he's just given up. How do I tell him all of this without hurting his feelings? ps- I'm not looking to break up with him by any means. I love him. I just want him to shape up and take pride in his appearance and be healthy. I don't want to hurt his feelings either, looking for a gentle but firm way of telling him. Open Question: is my boyfriend in love with me?? any other signs to know he loves me?boyfriend is worried whenever i don;t pick up the phone Says i am the best of the best can't get enough of me Ending up talking to me until morning to help with problems btw this is it ok it's only been 5 months Is always there for me when i need him Is open a lot up things Says he cares for me a lot more than his brother says i deserve the best. Why would he say that? Open Question: How can I get my boyfriend to kiss me?I've been best friends with my now boyfriend for a while so we know each other really well. We just recently started dating officially a couple of weeks ago. We've hugged, and cuddled, but we haven't kissed.... the closest I got was the other day when I said goodbye to him, I gave him a kiss on the cheek. My boyfriend is a shy kind of guy who is rather geeky, but in a totally adorable Eric Foreman kind of way. He is incredibly sweet, extremely respectful and would never ever do anything to hurt or offend me, which he has let me know. But the only problem with all of this is that he is lacking in the self-confidence area a little, and I know he wants to kiss me, we were so close the other day while cuddling, but i think he is just worried about freaking me out or something. According to m best friend, she thinks he is just scared because I "intimidate him" and "I'm out of his league." I don't really know what she meant by this, but all I know is that I love my boyfriend, everything about him, and I really want to kiss him. I just don't know if I should wait for him to make the first move, or if I should just go for it when the time is right... help me? thanks (: Open Question: My boyfriend just got home, and is mad cuz i went out to get alchohol, I wanted to get buzzed?and he is pissed. Now he is finally home after going god knows where because he left when i left to go get a six pack. should i just leave him alone or try to make up with him? we sometimes have problems over drinking but tonight i just wanted to drink a little. I don't know what to do..I'm buzzed now and actually could care less and hopes he just goes to sleep, which it seems he's doing. Should I just let him sleep and wait til the morning to wake up and make up? Open Question: Does this sound suspicious to you?Okay, here's the story. My boyfriend has had some past problems with cheating and doing stupid things. About 2 months into our relationship, I caught him talking with this guy on AIM and "webcamming" with him. I figured id give him another chance because everyone deserves another chance. We end up dating for 9 months, but he broke up with me this past summer. We met during our freshman year of college and he ended up cheating on me during the summer. His excuses were depression and he was in a dark phase and he couldn't even figure it out. The rest of the summer we didn't talk and when we came back to school, a few weeks went by where we were avoiding each other. I was sick of acting immature, and due to the fact that we had mutual friends, I wanted to be civil. We settle things and about a week later, he tells one of our mutual friends that he's starting to have feelings for me again. We hang out for about one month and end up dating again. Now, we've been dating for almost three months and I came across a letter he sent to another gay guy on facebook. For the conversation, i'm just going to use the letter B for boyfriend and G for other guy. B: hey, just randomly found out your not going to school here anymore. made me sad 8( hope life is good ! G: hey yeah haha. I'm 30 minutes away now. Its so weird that you messaged me because I was thinking about you yesterday. How are you? we should hang out soon :) B:Haha great minds think alike lol 8P I'm good, frustrated and glad the semester is over but overall good. How about you? Hell yea we should hang out. (number here) Thats my number so hit me up whenever 8) G:(number here)... same goes to you ;) I asked him who this guy was, and he told me he was just a guy he had art class with last year, but only had two classes with because he dropped the class. I just think it's a little strange that you say "made me sad that you don't go here" though you only saw this person twice for two hours. I also think it's strange that the other guy said I was just thinking about you. Same thing as before, two weeks? Seriously and you're thinking about him? It all sounds a little strange to me, and the wink face at the end doesn't help. Can anyone give me their personal opinion please? Open Question: boyfriend problem?????????????????????I've been with him for for about 8 months and honestly it has been great. everything seems to go well when i am with him but once i leave or i don't see him everything just goes wrong. honestly, i must admit, i do get quite jealous and suspicious for all the right reasons. in his past relationship he cheated on his ex a couple times with a couple different guys, all at the same time. recently one of his friend has been pressuring him to smoke weed and whatnot just the two of them. my boyfriend says the guy is straight and that i should trust him. i'm totally against him smoking that as well as him even thinking of doing that with that guy. a couple nights ago he showed me a secrete handshake where it ends with a hand gesture that is quite obscene ( think of a sexual act with the index finger and two fingers making a circle...) and today he told me that he was standing and his jeans made him look as if he was turned on and the guy kept poking at it. how do i tell him that this bothers me? i've tried to bring this up already but he seems to dodge it or responds that he is just a friend, that he loves me a lot and won't ever cheat on me or completely gets mad at me and says why would i think of him cheating on me... Open Question: who needs help with boyfriend?I am having problems with my boyfriend i ask to come and pick me up from a friend house and he has not pick me up what should i do i love him want to be with me i just don't want to get treated like dirt or not wanted help Open Question: My boyfriend has "disappeared" for the night...we had a fight, what do i do?He was mad at me cuz I wanted to have a couple drinks, not 10, just a couple....he himself is a drinker, and is probably out getting smashed right now. Alchohol is a big problem in our relationship. I amd at home and he won't answer his phone, making me think that he is is out cheating on me or worse....how can i ease my mind? Open Question: Should I dump my boyfriend?My boyfriend and I have a long-distance relationship. We've been together for about a year. He's one of the sweetest and caring people I know. Handsome and CRAZY about me. But the thing is is that the more I get to know him, the more problems i find out he has. He has a brain disorder that will need surgery when he's older, he's in pain quite alot, he's having huge financial problems with his family and everything, and where I will be going to university soon he can't afford it. It seems like everyday he has more depressing stories to tell me, and that just keeps me worried and depressed like I can't do anything when I love him so much. I tend to bring other peoples problems among myself. I love him, and i feel like a could be with him for a long time, but all these problems of his makes us very different where as i'm well-to-do, he's rather poor and it just looks like things are getting worse for him. Things I can't help. I want someone as a boyfriend that I know I could have a future with if I wanted to. He just doesn't seem like "marriage material". You know? Open Question: Should I allow her or decline her?Well, given sufficient response from a previous question. I do know this girl is interested in me in more than just a common friend, because I can touch her hand and she will not flinch, so some level of attraction was felt. She also texts me on a fairly regular basis. As to how far she wants to go is anyone's guess. Problem is..she has a boyfriend. Now the answer maybe fairly obvious..or maybe not. I just want to see everyone's point of view on what can be considered friendship and what maybe overstepping and/or misleading. My current interest in her: friend, possible date candidate. Question of interest today is: She offers to help me decorate our family Christmas tree, and yes, I do live at home with the folks. If I let her, can that still be considered friendship or has she already begun to overstep her bounds? Reasoning is normal friends usually won't give a damn to decorate someone else's Christmas tree when their Christmas tree isn't even up yet. Thanks More Recent Articles
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