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Open Question: Should I tell my boyfriend I'm sleeping with his brother and best friend? and more... Open Question: Should I tell my boyfriend I'm sleeping with his brother and best friend?Please do not judge me but I have been cheating on my boyfriend with his brother and best friend for the last six months. I love my boyfriend and he is so sweet but he has cheated on me in the past. I know he has been faithful for the last year but even so I still cheated on him with his friend and brother. I have been sleeping with them for the past 6 months. It kinda just happened and never ended. I'm scared to tell my boyfriend because he does have a temper problem. He's a nice guy but he has beaten me numerous times in the past for flirting he is very jealous. There is more I am 8 weeks pregnant and I know his brother is the father :-( When we were doing it the condom broke and this was exactly eight weeks ago. I feel like crap and I cry myself to sleep every night. I do not believe in abortion plus my mom would kill me. I am hoping the baby will look just like my boyfriend Richard. Luckily Richard and his brother Johnny look like twins. I was hoping to just pretend like non thing is wrong but I can't. My boyfriend is so excited and is already picking out baby names. I can not continue living a lie and have my child calling his uncle daddy. I can not stop crying. Should I tell my boyfriend? Should I wait till after the baby is born? Should I keep my mouth shut since the baby will look like Richard anyways? Open Question: fights with boyfriend. can the pill be linked to moodiness?i've noticed that ever since ive been on the pill, which i began a few months ago, i've noticed i have these mood swings where i will suddenly just get really angry at my boyfriend and i guess i sort of look for reasons to be angry and upset at him, even though he's an amazing boyfriend and never does anything wrong. i know im lucky to have him. its just i always get angry at him and i'm always starting fights with him. and when we fight i know how irrational im being i just can't stop. these crazy moods started like 10 / 11 months into our relationship. he's a good guy and doesnt deserve it. i can be quite harsh when im in these moods, i say things to try and make him feel just as upset as me. i really want to work on this problem i have. =( i was thinking of possible reasons as to why i start fights with him now so frequently and i thought maybe being on the pill has made me really hormonal and moody. could there be a link there? why do i try and fight with him all the time? =( Open Question: why does it hurt and bleed when he fingers me?alright my boyfriend fingered me a few weeks ago and it really hurt like to the point where i was bleeding and screaming bc it hurt so bad. and it happened again the other night. and im not talking about a little blood ti was a lot. and it hurt to walk, sit, go to the bathroom, or even touch it down there. but i've been fingered before by a different guy and NONE of that happened before. and i talked ot my boyfriends ex girlfriend about it and she said the same thing happened to her. why? could he be in the wrong hole? && IF he is the problem, how do i fix it? like could he be in the wrong place down there? He washes his hands regularly, he doesnt bit his finger nails, and his nails arent long. i remember my ex would like put his index and the finger beside the pinky between my labium majoria? if thats right to like open up the area a little to get into my vay jay jay and my boyfriend doesnt. ? if that helps and i dont think he popped my cherry because it was a lot of blood. Open Question: how many of you know about chnlove.com?I found out that it's a website that horny men go on to. It's like e-harmony.com but for Asia. My boyfriend goes to that site and calls it his e-mail. For one thing, I know for a fact that e-mails are free. We've been having problems with each other ever since I found out that he's been visiting that site. If you're not in a relationship, then you should try it. But if you are, then you should stay away from it. Look for P-512687. If she talks to you then I know that it's a hoax. Open Question: What could cause my ice cream to taste metallic?A long time ago, I noticed that every time I got a Reese Cup Blizzard from Dairy Queen, it tasted highly metallic, once, even causing me to spit it out. I remember a few years ago, sending it back with this complaint, only to have another one made that tasted exactly the same. Nobody else could taste it, so it was only me. After a while, I didn't want to eat that type of ice cream any more, which wasn't a huge loss because I didn't eat it a lot. I did, however, notice that I also tasted the metallic taste in a shake at Steak 'N Shake and also in a knock-off version of a Blizzard at a local shop, as well as in a frozen yogurt from the same shop. I had forgotten about this problem since I haven't had a lot of ice cream in a while, and when I did, it was from the grocery store and did not taste like that. Anyway, the other night, I was reminded of this when my boyfriend talked me into going to Dairy Queen. I got one of the Candy Cane Blizzards, and it tasted like metal. It's only me that can taste this. Has anyone else experienced this? I don't taste metal in any other type of food, except for soft serve ice cream from places like Dairy Queen. In a way, I'm glad because it deters me from eating the ice cream, which I know is terribly unhealthy, but since it happened recently, it has me wondering what it could be. I'm just on birth control, but when I first noticed it, I was not taking anything. I'm going to the dentist in a couple of days for a cleaning. Maybe he'll know. Open Question: Help please? I think i may be depressed?Well to start out with im 17, i believe i have anxiety because when i have to go to school i become scared i guess, and i get really nervous for some reason and my heart starts to pound and beat fast and i cant sleep the night before because thats all i can think about. And on top of that i start thinking about the problems in my life which makes it worse and gets me more nervous. I might be depressed now but how can you tell for sure? Ive been crying about how stressed i am, my boyfriend doesn't understand and when i get sad i think he tries to avoid me..(99.9% sure he avoids me) and makes me think im not the one for him but i love him SO much that im scared im going to scare him off and i dont think he can take my situation anymore because i tried talking to him already and he knows all my problems i have at home. I have anxiety attacks and it seems like he's the only one who can calm me down and keep me from crying. So i cant lose him, i just cant he's the only person i can truly talk to but yet i dont think he understands my situtation.So i guess my questions is.. 1. What are some ways to help with my anxiety? 2.How can i help my boyfriend understand my situation? 3. Am i really depressed? ( Because im sad all the time and always look on the negative side even though i try so hard to look on the brighter side of things) Please help. And Thank you all for taking the time out from your day/ or night. Open Question: Would it be weird for a straight guy to bring another guy to a wedding banquet as a guest?A very close friend of mine is getting married soon. A good mutual friend of ours, who is a single guy, is also invited to the wedding. The problem is that he doesn't have anyone female to bring as a guest. He's an only child and doesn't have any female cousins. He would consider bringing his mother but she lives on a different continent. I would have actually considered going as his date if I weren't already going with my own boyfriend. All of the other female friends he knows are also going with their husbands or boyfriends, so he's out of luck there too. Anyway, it's gotten to the point where he was thinking of brining one of his closemale pals as a guest instead. Understand, both of them are straight guys. The bride-to-be and her groom are 100% okay with that idea. First of all, they've invited many gay friends who are couples, so seeing two people of the same gender attending the wedding together is not an issue, period. Secondly, she also said that if a straight woman can bring a female guest to a wedding who isn't a relative (e.g. a close gal pal), why would it be any different if a straight man did the same thing? I completely agree with her. However, my boyfriend thinks it would be too weird and that people would automatically assume the two guys were a gay couple. He even thinks it would be better to set him up with a blind date as a guest, than to bring another guy. I would rather my male friend bring someone he knows well, regardless of gender, and have a good time...rather than spend the entire evening with a complete stranger just to keep up appearances. What do you think? C: What is this so-called "wrong message" that you're describing? This friend is not going to the wedding to pick up dates, he's there to celebrate our friend's wedding. Lulu: I understand your point, but take in mind that pretty much everyone else there will be as a couple. If you're one of the only single people at a wedding banquet, it'd still be nice to have someone at your side for the entire evening, even if it's just a platonic friend. Open Question: I just got into a love triangle without knowing it. help?So here's what I've been told. My boyfriend who I broke up with two months ago didn't tell me about the psycho girl that is in love with him. Now we are back together I am worried for the relationship.So the history is that she has some serious mental problems. She tried to kill herself before and is a constant cutter. She tried to get him to cheat with her back when we were dating, and said she might kill herself again. What should we do? Open Question: Girls, My GF is depressed what can i do to help?My girlfriend has fallen into depression. I love to fix things and help people. I've tried, but I can't fix her. I love her so much that it pains me that I can't help or make things better. She's too damn considerate. She would rather suffer than bother anyone with her problems. It's so frustrating because anything I suggest gets shot down. I just can't watch and do nothing. I want to help, but I don't know what to do. Please suggest anything that your boyfriends did to make you feel better. Open Question: my freinds x is a jerk what do i do?so im visiting my best friend scence the 6th grade who is also my x. we broke up becuase i moved. well she got a boyfriend. im jelous im not going to lie.but i just want her to be happy. the problem is the guy she is dating is a total jerk and im visiting in a couple of days. i dont want to get in a fight with this guy so what do i do Open Question: My boyfriend's best friend is destroying our relationship?I need advice. I met a really sweet guy almost a year ago. We seemed to click immediantly, taking our time getting to know each other. We eventually realised that we were right for each other and everything seemed perfect. But then he became close friends with a guy. This friend seemed to be a nice enough person, I too liked him as a friend. My b/f has always been outgoing and surrounded by lots of friends, all of which he cares a lot about (this is one of the many things I love about him). But as time passed, this particular friend of his started getting too involved and intrigued by our relationship. It seems like it's been an ongoing battle ever since my b/f met this guy. He has constantly stuck his nose where it doesn't belong. He has even made passes at me, and has tried several times now to split me and my b/f up. He has been the cause of all our fights, lying and telling each of us things about the other - things that are totally untrue. My problem is this: My b/f is a very forgiving person, who always tries to see the best in everyone. But I am afraid that this guy is going to split us up for good. He keeps playing the 'innocent' role, attempting to convince my b/f that I am being a selfish brat who is trying to force my b/f to dislike him. I have even shown my b/f proof where this guy has talked trash about the one person I care about to my face, but now he is telling my b/f that I set him up. My greatest fear is that he is going to win this ongoing battle and cause me to split up with someone I greatly care about. Aside from the constant stress caused by this guy's manipulating, he has taken up all my b/f's time. They constantly do everything together, always hanging out and doing their guy-stuff. I feel really left out because it feels like I have to take a number to spend any time at all with my b/f. I want him to be happy and have fun, but this is rediculous...this guy has taken up so much of his time until even my b/f's long-time best friend (who is like a brother to him) has been ignored a bit. If any of you out there (both men and women) can offer me some comforting advice, it would be totally appreciated. This is the first true love I've had and I have tried so hard - hopefully not too hard - to make him see what this friend is doing to us. I just want my b/f to know I love him and that I don't want him to get hurt or for this guy to come between us. I have told him this countless times, but he is still drawn to this friend. I am at a loss now, because everytime I bring it up, a fight breaks out between us...and I am tired of arguing to prove a point about something that has been right in front of my b/fs face since the start. He knows what this guy is capable of as far as causing trouble, but he still pities this person to the point where he still overlooks things because he feels sorry for his friend (who always has a sad story to tell in an attempt to cover up why he does what he does). Has anyone else encountered anything simular in their relationship? I am just so frustrated. I don't want my b/f to accuse me of trying to force him to dislike his friend. And lately this seems to be what he thinks because it's what his friend tells him I'm doing. I'm also hurt because I thought my b/f knew me better than this. I only want us to have a normal relationship like we used to... I don't want to do anything mean that might hurt anyone. All I want is for my b/f to remember who really loves him and for him to know I'm only trying to save our relationship. I just want this guy to move on and leave us in peace once and for all. This guy now has a girlfriend of his own who is expecting a little baby and he needs to quit interferring with me and my boyfriend and grow up some and take care of his own family. I know that if he remains friends with my b/f that our relationship is going to go down hill. I don't want to be selfish, so I hope I'm not. Just some pointers is what I really really need, and any other advice someone can give. And if I am overeacting please point it out in the best way possible. I don't want to make my b/f miserable. Thanks in advance guys and gals! Open Question: ughhh boyfriend problems. HELP?i love my bf soo much i couldn't even put it into words of how diffrent this guy is from other guys i think thats why i love him the most. but lately everytime we hang out and he brings me home he always do the same thing he wont call my phone until a day later. why does he do that? i never ask him and i dont bother to call or text him cause.....im scared he wont pick up or text back so i just wait tilll he calls or text me but 2morrow will be offically 2days since i heard from him? what should i do? More Recent Articles |
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