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Open Question: Should i Tell her or keep quiet? and more... Open Question: Should i Tell her or keep quiet?Well a year ago i went out with this one guy, then it turns out his exgirlfriend still likes him. so i broke up with him after a while. i hated the girl alot! it was all her fault why we didnt stay together. they started going out a month later after we broke up. i know it wasnt her fault but his fault too but i was blinded by "love." i keeped talking to him though, hanging out and telling each other how much we missed each other. we spent 6 months talking until i decided we werent going to get anywhere u know so why waist my time. so i went out with another guy but we didnt last. and after i stopped talking to the first guy i told u about, me and that girl that i deeply used to hate are cool now. she came up to me and said sorry for being a bitch and stuff. but now i started talking to her boyfriend again (my ex) but just as friends. but lately he just been bringing up that he misses me and wants to kiss me again while still going out with that girl. he telling me he wants me to get out of class and ditch or something. i told him no of coarse i mean come on its been a year and me and the girl are friends now. and the problem is i dont know if i should tell her the things hes been telling me lately. he has cheated on her and she knows but she is blinded just like i was. her best friends have been telling her that he aint good for her but she wont listen. so should i tell her or keep quiet and what should i tell my stupid ex??? Open Question: h3lp pl3@s3!! relationship problems?okay... well me and my boyfriend have been going out 4 about a month now and he doesn't really act like he likes me :( Every1 tells me we r cute together and that he really likes me. but how cum he cant show/tell me that?...i wish i new how he felt...should i continue to c him? HOW CAN i get him to spill? Open Question: I'm losing interest in my boyfriend but don't know how to handle the situation?I have been with my boyfriend for five years and we also have a two year old together. We met in college and I graduated last year and we both moved to his hometown together. I am 22 and he is 24. The problem now is that I am beginning to lose interest because I feel as though he is losing interest spending time with me as well. We don't go out together anymore unless its a trip to the grocery store. He tells me I need friends so that I can stop nagging him all the time so recently I started going out on the weekends with one of my friends. He always uses the excuse that we don't have money to spend on going out so he won't ever go. We rarely have sex anymore because he is always so tired by the time he gets home from work. Usually he goes to work, comes home and plays video games for hours basically tuning me out, and by the time he comes to bed he is too tired to want to have sex. Also he always goes to his friends house to watch football and smoke on the weekends. It just seems like I'm screaming out that I'm not happy and he knows it but he won't put any effort in to fix things. I try to tell him how I feel but he always turns everything on me like its all my fault and I'm just too dramatic. I kind of feel like he is a little bitter that I stay home all day and take care of the baby while he works all day and pays all the bills. In the last two weeks I have really started to not care anymore because I don't even want to argue with him. The dilemma that I have is that we live together. He pays for everything for me. I am on the other side of the country from my family. I don't have money to move out and get my own place. I don't have a job and I take care of my daughter all day so I can't really get one right now because I wouldn't be able to afford daycare. We have a daughter together and I don't want her to have to suffer if I break up with him. I am still in love with him and want things to work out, but I am just starting to feel like he will never change and I am settling for what could be a very unhappy future with someone I will eventually grow to despise if things remain the same or get any worse. Basically I would appreciate some advice on what I should do or possibly how I could work on things with him. Thanks! Open Question: Do i have a problem? Please read and answer?Im 18 Im 5'3 I weigh 103lbs. and im freaking out, i have never weighed over 98 in my life and this has caused a great deal of depression and excessive dieting. my whole life i have been told i have the perfect body, flat tummy, nice legs, a lil booty, & boobs. & although the weight i have gained is not showing i am terrified that at some point it might and i will be fat. Is this a problem or is it normal? my boyfriend thinks i am crazy for saying im fat Open Question: Why can't my family be happy for me?I am 19 years old and my boyfriend is 24. I realise that there is a substantial age gap between us but we are both legal adults and we do not find it a problem. I love this man with all my heart, he is kind, honest, caring, loving and treats me like gold. I can honestly say that I have never been happier in my life; we even plan to move in together and get engaged when I have finished university. The problem is my mum and sister. They cannot stand my boyfriend despite the fact that he has never done anything to hurt me. He has helped them out so much and they never thank him for it, he always asks how they are and he encourages me to spend time with them. However, they seem to have turned against me too, saying that I have turned into a nasty piece of work since I met him and that I am a bitch for taking advantage of them. My boyfriend and I think they are jealous that we are happy and spend so much time together because neither of them leave the house except for work and college. I have tried to encourage them to go out a bit more but it falls on deaf ears. I understand that my family are worried about losing me but I would be a lot happier to be around them if they didn't shout verbal abuse at me every time I come home. I'm growing up now and I have my future ahead of me. I wish my mum could appreciate that I am in love with a wonderful man, I'm getting a good education at uni and I pay my way by working part time too. I just want to know, how do I make my mum and sister accept my boyfriend and be happy for us? Open Question: What do I do about my ex boyfriend?Alright, me and my ex boyfriend were together for about a year, until he broke up with me about a month ago. He has serious depression and cutting problems, and is in a rehab center. I am really confused because he says he has no more feelings for me, but cares about me more than anyone and he gets jealous if I talk to other guys? I don't get it. I know he's sick, but if he cares so much about me why can't he just be with me. Open Question: please help me out! i dont know what to think anymore!!?there is this girl in my maths called jess and she used to be seeing this guy jem who she broke up with because he had anger problems, which i experienced for mself later on that day. jem is in frnt of me in maths and jess next to me, and i noticed he kept turning round to talk to jess, and i thought he still liked her, especially when he said he 90% sure he was gonna finish his current girlfriend, ella which i dont eally like. i told jess that i thought he liked her,i only told jess this and no one else, (this was like last week) and at break time i find ella in floods of tears and jem comes up to me and starts yelling in my face saying " what the fuck have you been saying to everyone about me and jess?!" i really couldnt understand what was happening and i got really scared and i ran away and then my boyfriend came after me and was like what was that all about? and i talked him through what was happeneing and he understood and then ella comes over and starts shouting verbal abuse at me about what was happening and that her and jem werent going out any more and it was all my fault. i was really confused because i hadnt said anything to anyone apart from jess, who i know wouldnt start off something like that. she is quite shy and isnt that sort of person. now i am worried everyone will hate me for nothing, and jem hasnt even apoligized. what should i do about this? Open Question: Relationship Question And What To Do?Now I just want some feedback/answers bounced back at me. I know how each of my friends would probably answer so im asking you. Now I am a freshman in college and got pretty close with a new friend that i made. Now as time goes on she is having some problems with her boyfriend. And recently we hooked up one night and everything has changed a little after that. She is a lot more touchy feely with me and talks a lot more with me and wants to hang out more. Now what would you say it sounds more like? She is trying to fill a void because of a rough patch with her boyfriend? Or she actually has feelings for me too and is confused, because if they do end up breaking up I just don't want to be the rebound. She is the nicest girl i have ever met so it would be hard to see her as a needy person. Answers? Should i just let time take its course or should i say how i feel and ask her the same. Or would that not be the best way to approach it becuase i might lose her as a friend the? More Recent Articles
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