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Sunday, December 13, 2009

Open Question: Should I move with my cousin and her husband to Japan? and more...

 
 



Open Question: Should I move with my cousin and her husband to Japan? and more...

Open Question: Should I move with my cousin and her husband to Japan?

I was supposed to move to Virginia with them (her husband is in the navy) but he just got orders to move to Japan. They still want me to go with them there. I'm a pretty adventurous person and like to try new things. I have no kids or a boyfriend so I'm not leaving anything behind. I just am not sure if I should go or not. I'm a nurse so I hope finding a job on base wont be a problem.

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Open Question: Christmas gift for my boyfriend?

im thinking about giving my bf a stocking filled with little things for christmas, but there is one problem, idk what to stuff it with... any ideas? they can be cute, serious, funny, etc. last year i gave him shirts and cds, so i want to do something a little different this yr all ideas welcome! thank you!

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Open Question: My mom just found out I am sexually active.?

I'm 15 going on 16 (not that it matters). Me and my boyfriend was in my bedroom with me. He's not allowed to be in the house without my mom around (My mom's a single parent by the way). We were not doing anything that day, honestly. We had a few problem that we had to figure out together, so we talked about it in the room. We both liked my room as a hang out spot, sort of. She came in the house and saw my boyfriend's shoes and called my name. She waited in the porch until I walked out. She looked very very very angry. I asked her to come back inside of the house and to talk about this properly, inside. She told me she wanted him out of the house that instant and I called my boyfriend. The three of us stood on the porch. I said sorry first. And he said sorry too to my mom. She said she doesn't trust us anymore, although he loved us both so very much and she told him to leave. So he did. Since she already found out that we were in the room together, I told her that we are actually sexually active, although we haven't done it for a while and I am trying to be abstinent again *renewed abstinence*. I've been wanting to tell her, but I couldn't. She is a really busy person and she has her own problems with her boyfriend. I felt like I could not burden her more by my own, supposedly, "wrong doings" - that's what sex is according to my mom. She was really... idk, angry, disappointed, sad? She talked about my future and how sex has changed me as a person. I believe this is total BS. She didn't know before and nothing happened. Now, she doesn't want me to see him anymore, which I think is utterly stupid. Our relationship will basically go to waste if she doesn't let us see each other anymore, outside of school. I told her that so far, I have proven myself to be a happy person that can achieve my goals in the academic world while having fun at the same time. I don't know what to do now, in terms of dealing with my mom ( who apparently does not want to come out of her room because of all this sex talk we had ). Did I do the right thing, because honestly I think I did and I don't regret having sex either (I told my mom I didn't regret it at all) because I did it with someone, who I felt was the "right person". Should I go up to her and tell her how sorry i am, again? (I have said how sorry i was to burden her and trouble her mind so much, i also told her that i didn't want her to find out this way - after all, i did plan to tell her, i just couldn't find the right time). I love my mom, but i really can't do anything right now. Any positive feedbacks, please?

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Open Question: My job is making me misereble. Please helppp me :(?

Hi. I recently got a job as a Health Care Assistant as when i'm 21 and have had driving experience I want to do Paramedic Training. Problem is I HATE my job and the company I work for is awful. They said I wouldn't need a car, I do as I keep getting stranded everywhere and I work all day and night (obv with breaks but it doesn't feel like it) I have literally NO life anymore, I can't go out as i'm always at work and I never see my boyfriend. I need a Health Care job however as the ambulance service won't employ me a an Emergency Care Assistant without my last job being in Health Care. I was trying to think of a Health Care job whicj ISN'T shift work and stupid slave driven hours, my Mum is a Pharmacist and suggested Trainee Dispenser but there's no jobs like that in my area. I applied for one in Boots but they haven't got back to me. Please help I dunnoo what to do as I dunno what job to go for as I can't stay where I am, have only worked here 3 weeks but it's hell and I hate it. I mean I understand people need care but does that mean I no longer deserve a life? I wake up in the morning and want to cry cos I hate going to work. It is seriously getting to me. Any advice or help would be much appriciated thanks :) xXx

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Open Question: Can someone please interpret this dream?

I do not want to date or anything like that. And last night I was thinking about a boy, that was not even in my dream, that I have a big crush on though it's not a healthy crush solely because I couldn't bring myself to actually date him(sounded superficial, but I promise it's for legit reasons. Not because I'm "higher" then him or whatever). I have never had any sort of physical relations before(which, I'm young. I have time, and I don't want a relationship right now.) so explaining this dream is very awkward for me. - Alright, I guess I was dating this guy in one of my classes. When I first met him I instantly began to like him(in real life) though he was a good four years older then me. I got over the crush, because it was pathetic and pointless. In the dream I suppose we were dating. He kept talking about if I was ready for something that started with an 'i'. For some reason I said sure; in the dream I was being rather stupid and going "gaga" over my boyfriend. He brought me to a room-and we somehow got around without my parents knowing. In RL, I seriously fear my parents finding out about any romance in my life.) - that was a bedroom. He jumped into the right side of the bed, and lifted the sheets. He said "come on, we can't do this without a bed." I climbed under the covers and he lifted the sheets again, and I relized he wanted me to give him a handjob(I'm not sure why in the bed.) and I jumped out of the bed and said no. He wasn't being a jerk either; he seemed a little sad because of other reason then him not getting a handjob. I left him in the room. When I left the room the living room outside of it was full with people that in real life I know. They were all watching a very tiny TV, and a good number were on the lounging on the floor because the two couches were full. They had a slight idea what just happened, but didn't know entirely. I moved around one boy, who in real life I sort of know. He is my mom's friend's son; he is around 20. We didn't really talk; he was sort of drunk then hungover when he was over. But when we did talk, he was nice. He smiled at me and moved a bag of marshmellos so I could sit by him on the floor. I did; and the other boy was still in the bedroom feeling a bit hurt. This whole scene was in black and white. Then, I was back in my room(fully color) when the boy that let me sit by him, a friend, and his ex step brother(who is my age) came by. The boy my age fist bumped me and asked if I remember him. I said yeah, then the boy who let me sit by him came from behind him. I said "Oh...I thought you were him." and we all laughed. And then I woke up. At first I didn't remember the dream, then it suddenly came to me. I felt very queasy once I realized what I had just dreamed; I have a big anxiety problem. Can someone please tell me what they think it may mean?

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Open Question: my boyfriend is really starting to creep me out?

ok my boyfriend has a foot fetish and i have zero problem with that and i also enjoy it,he smells my feet ive grown to like it,foot rubs i love it,sucking toes amazing,even foot jobs ive started to do(since im only seeing his privates and hes not seeing me naked). but now hes doing things like asking me to kick his naked testicles with my bare feet,and the last time i gave him a foot job he actually peed on my feet. i seriously think enough is enough but i really like him a lot, i mean were only 16 fine and i know i probably wont wind up marrying the guy but i wanna stay with him. how should i try to work this out before breaking up with him? thanks a lot.

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Open Question: gay ex boyfriend problem?

my ex boyfriend that i broke up with has recently come out as gay and has a boyfriend, i have a very close guy friend that i have no feelings for but whenever i bring him up to my ex or he sees us together he gets mad and it is tearing our friendship apart, im just tired of him either hating me or wanting to be friends, i just dont get it he can have a boyfriend but i cant have a close guy friend what should i do?

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Open Question: What do you think the problem is?

ok a friend of mine a few months ago or while back can't remember, well her boyfriend cheated on her and I msg her on facebook that was sorry to hear. And I did like her at one time, and I tell her and she didn't mind. We'll I heard what happened, and told her that when I found out I did get worried and not too much does bother me, but that really did. And I told her, and since then she hasn't talked back to me on facebook, msn or anything. Like I wonder if its my fought, I wish she'd talk back I like talking with her. What do think the problem might be?

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