| |
Open Question: should i believe my husband? and more... Open Question: should i believe my husband?my husband met a girl back in april who gave him and his friend a ride from a place to save them a texi ride (i was in a different state at this point). i read his texts recently and found out he was texting her for about a month and they talked about her boyfriend and me (his girlfriend at the time) and they're relationship problems. one text asked if she was "over her boyfriend yet ;)". i was very upset and he swears up and down that he constantly tried to meet up with her only to get his expensive sunglasses he left in her car. he says it sounds like the worst excuse ever but she ignored him after a while so he said that to her to get her to respond. is this just an insult to me that he would lie like that or is there any chance he could be telling the truth? i want to believe him but i just don't know if i can, if i had found out before we got married we'd probably be broken up. i saw her on his facebook and she is definitely his type of girl. i can't stop thinking about this, how do i deal? any advice would be great. oh and the texts seemed to stop in may. Open Question: i wanna have a baby...! how?i wanna have a baby but my boyfriends doesn't want one what should i do? we never use a condom we always use the pull out method. what should i do to convince him to have one..? and i have irregular periods i think that would be a problem too.? can people give mee some ideas.? Open Question: Guys would you still date a girl if (revised)?one day she was like "It's always been a fantasy of mine for my boyfriend to pull my panties down, bend me over, and spank my bare butt until I start to cry"? (for those of you who have a problem with the 'until I start to cry,' that's just to demonstrate that I wouldn't want him you to lightly tap me a few times and be like 'bad girl' haha...I'd really wanna feel some stinging sensation I mean. you don't literally have to bring tears to my eyes) Would you agree to do that for her or would you just think that's strange and break up with her. Because, honestly..it is something I'd like to experience, but I've never told a guy because I'm afraid of it causing problems in a relationship. Open Question: Can I sue my doctor due to my miscarriage?I was hospitalized in early December for heart problems (tachycardia). I was discharged on the third day & given a 24 hour Holter Monitor that would track my heart rhythm & beats. I returned it to the hospital after the 24 hour mark & was told that my general physician would call me to do a routine follow-up. Approximately a week & a half later, I met with my general physician. The nurse performed a check of my weight, temperature, heart rate, oxygen level, & height. When I finally was in the room with my doctor, I realized that I hadn't seen him in over 2 years. He asked me if I was on any medication & I told him no. I had already finished my prescriptions that were given to me upon my discharge from the hospital. He then said, "Are you on any form of birth control?" I answered no. I have not been on birth control since 2007. He then asked, "Are you sexually active?" I answered, "Yes, but I am in a monogamous relationship." He then asked, "Have you had a recent period?" I answered, "No, but I am due for it anyday now." He then asked, "Where is your boyfriend?" I answered, "He is on tour in Europe." He then asked, "Oh, so how many girls do you think he's sleeping with over there?" I answered, "None. It is not like that at all & I have full trust in him." He then asked, "Do you know how long sperm can live in the female body?" I answered, "Yes, I did go to nursing school." He then said, "Ok. I hope you don't call me with regrets." I knew he was referring to the fact that I am not on birth control & was concerned about me getting pregnant. He then started to discuss surgeries with me. He asked if I had any prior operations & I answered, "Yes, breast implants & wisdom teeth removed." He then asked, "How big are the implants?" I thought this was really strange but I answered him & changed the subject to what I came there for -- my heart. He told me that he didn't have any results from the monitor for me & would "get back to me later." I asked, "Ok well they told me that I could have heart problems. What am I supposed to do if these problems reoccur?" He answered, "Just lay down & relax. We will discuss your options when I read your results." I wasted an entire day & took off of work to deal with this appointment. Nothing was accomplished & I left very frustrated & offended by his remarks. The next day, I got a phone call from one of his nurses who informed me that I was being put on a heart medication (Atenolol) & referred to a cardiologist for a 2D Echo. I picked up my prescription that night & began taking it the next day at lunchtime. I read over the entire pamphlet that came with the prescription so I could be aware of the side effects. They seemed to be general side effects other than the "unusual dreams" & "numbness of hands & feet." I took the 25mg pill with my lunch & fell asleep. I repeated this for 3 days. On December 16th, I was 3 days late on my period & took a pregnancy test. It was positive. I immediately stopped taking the prescription until I could consult with my cardiologist. Also, I DID report my doctor for his remarks & it is being relayed to quality management. Two nights after taking the pregnancy test, I started vomiting around 1am & had SEVERE cramps & a headache. My heart was racing & I "just didn't feel right" so I went to the ER. I told them that I was pregnant (about 4 weeks along) & they performed a blood test to check my pregnancy hormone. They told me that I was in the beginning stages of a miscarriage & they were going to admit me overnight for observation. I informed them that I was previously taking Atenolol but was no longer due to the pregnancy. A cardiologist came to talk to me in my hospital room & began asking me questions about Atenolol. He said, "Who prescribed that to you?" I told him & he then asked, "Did he perform a pregnancy test before prescribing you the medication?" I told him no. He then said, "That is the first thing that he should've done before prescribing that to you. That medicine is a beta-blocker & will cause severe harm to any fetus." So basically, he was placing the blame on my doctor (who is NO LONGER my doctor, by the way). He suggested that I file another complaint & possibly consider a lawsuit for the damages (hospital bills, my health & well-being, etc). A cardiologist is not a lawyer & I'd like some more advice on this issue. Can I sue my doctor for prescribing me a medication without doing a routine checkup that resulted in my miscarriage? Open Question: Men would you still date a girl if?one day she was like "It's always been a fantasy of mine for my boyfriend to pull my panties down, bend me over, and spank my bare butt until I start to cry"? Would you agree to do that for her or would you just think that's strange and break up with her. Because, honestly..it is something I'd like to experience, but I've never told a guy because I'm afraid of it causing problems in a relationship. Open Question: Two part question. How do I overcome speaking to a crowd? Do I like this guy?So everytime I'm around this guy my heart turns to water and I'm nervous...I think he's cute but I don't really see anything in him and I don't think I like him, I'm just getting mad that he makes me nervous. Why does this happen? It's not a butterflies in your tummy feeling. It is like stage fright. I found out that I have to find out I have to present my final exam essay to the class orally. I can't do it with him there , I literally start sweating when I walk by him. How can I overcome this? I love guys! I breath boys, I'm kinda of the school "friendly" girl. I'm straight foward and brave so what is happening. I'm pretty posistive that I don't like him I think he's cute but at times he's ugly I hate his smile and he's very immature. I have a boyfriend and I love him dearly I even told him about my problem. I realized that I could present my project to the class without fear, it's just him that makes my heart turn to water, I can't breath. It's major stage fright! Open Question: was i wrong? and why isn't my boyfriend on my side about this? molestation ?i have 3children my daughter 3, son almost 2, and a newborn 5months old. For almost a year i have had a bad feeling towards my sisters boyfriend. they always want my daughter to spend the night and not my oldest son. i cannot explain why.. but her boyfriend makes me really uncomfortable. he is an ex heroin addict, i know he used to pick up prostitutes.. so he isnt the best of people. my sister is in love with him and they have been together for 2years.. now to my question.. everytime my daughter spends the night over at their house she comes home red in her vagina and always complaining about her butt hurting.. (she just turned 3 on dec. 5) so its not like i can ask her cause she doesn't really understand what i mean. i have taken her to her dr. and had her looked at.. even gone as far as getting std check on her.. just in case. there has never been any real proof, just a bad feeling. my boyfriend, her father, tells me that if i dont approve of him dont send her.. she has spent the night over there maybe 4 times and for the last 6months she hasnt spent the night at all.. i try to convince myself that nothing happened and i am just over reacting.. so i let her spend the night again on monday. again she came home with a bump on her lip and red, along with pain. i texted my sister "i dont want to ask this but i have to, was your boyfriend alone with her at anytime?" she replied, "no, but why" i didn't reply immediatly and she texted me again "i think i deserve to know why, you are accusing someone i love very much of something terrible" i texted her back "i have noticed she is red everytime she comes home, and i always have a bad feeling when she is over there" she then texted back and said "it really sucks that you may have just ruined my life in a text" i replied with "wow." she later texted me something along the line that she doesn't want to talk anymore and that i am wrong.. i wrote her back saying that "i would rather be wrong and have said something then to be right and not have said anything.. my children come first no matter what!!" her boyfriend called my boyfriend and my boyfriend said that he doesn't have a problem with him at all and i am shouldn't have said anything.. though my sister and i are pretty close, i am not sad.. i'm mad. i do not feel that i am wrong about him and even if i am, i feel i have the right to ask questions. my sister and i were molested when we were younger and our mom didn't do anything about it until my sister told other people. i feel like of all people she should understand where i am coming from. i have been with my boyfriend for almost 4years and though we have been through a lot.. this might be the one thing that breaks us up. my questions are: was i wrong? and why isn't my boyfriend on my side about this? She will NEVER She will NEVER She will NEVER Open Question: Guys would you still date a girl if?one day she was like "It's always been a fantasy of mine for my boyfriend to pull my panties down, bend me over, and spank my bare butt until I start to cry"? Would you agree to do that for her or would you just think that's strange and break up with her. Because, honestly..it is something I'd like to experience, but I've never told a guy because I'm afraid of it causing problems in a relationship. Open Question: I don't enjoy sex with my husband but I do with someone else I love?I've been married for over 30 years and I do love my husband. I had affairs in my early marriage without any emotional attachment. I've never enjoyed sex with my husband. Recently I met my 1st boyfriend again who I had a brief fling with 15 years ago. But this time something clicked and I've fallen in love with him. He is an amazing person and we made amazing love. I enjoy every aspect with him whereas sometimes I don't like, let alone don't enjoy, sex with my husband. I've always let him but I never feel like it. I don't want us to do certain things whereas love doing everything with my boyfriend. The boyfriend has now stopped making love to me as he feels so bad wanting another man's wife. We still see and talk to each other but not as regularly as before. The desire is there but we both know we shouldn't. We would be together totally if we weren't married. I went to a psych about 6 months ago as it was really getting to me. Before all this happened my husband used to yell at me, never listened to my opinion, once put his hand around my throat and threatened me. Most of the time it was because he'd had too much to drink. But he's realised he can't do that and has changed and is really a very lovely man who will do anything because he loves me so very much. The psych really helped and I can now stand up to him better and he will listen to me now. But I never got around to addressing the intimacy problem which I've had for such a long time. I've never been turned on by him and don't know what to do about it. I think I've always loved him but it's not and never has been a passionate love. I could probably go on and on but that's the general gist of it. Any ideas? More Recent Articles
|
Click here to safely unsubscribe now from "Yahoo! Answers: Search for " or change your subscription or subscribe
| Your requested content delivery powered by FeedBlitz, LLC, 9 Thoreau Way, Sudbury, MA 01776, USA. +1.978.776.9498 |
0 comments:
Post a Comment