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Open Question: See email from ex boyfriend of 6 years ago? What does he want with me? and more... Open Question: See email from ex boyfriend of 6 years ago? What does he want with me?We live in different countries now and had been in touch on and off, just as old friends. Neither of us had met anyone..he was the one to end it as he 'couldn't get his head around marriage'. His Dad told me I'm the only close female friend he has. Now I've just got this mail and don't know what to do. Why does he want contact when he seems to be starting something? Here's his mail: I havn't spoken to you for a while so I hope your well and life is going ok for you. I'm pretty good these days still hanging around home area although I have managed to move out of mum's place and am renting a nice little house out in the forest a bit so it's kind of out of the way but that's alright because the ambiance is great. I've met somebody really nice so it as been going well so far, but every relationship has it's problems so we'll see how we go together. She's a dancer as well so I've been trying to learn some of the basics. Are you still dancing? We'll have to have a chat sometime, I've lost your number so if you could e-mail me and let me know when a good time to call is that would be great. My number is xxxxxxx and I'm often at home in the early evening. The last time I talked to you I was quite ill with flu but everything seems fine now I lost a lot of weight but am back to pretty much full health at the moment. OK talk to you later lots of love Open Question: Ex lodger wanting money back.?Ex lodger wanting money back.? i had a lodger for 3 months, they moved in on a verbal agreement for at least 6 months. House rules etc were run through and the main question she asked was whether boyfriend could stay now and again. Advised not a problem as long as not reg and i am asked about it due to my work. This was agreed and boyfriend stayed couple of times without problems. Till they spilt up and she asked every week for someone to stay over, friends etc and even ex uni mates that were coming to town for night out and wanted somewhere to crash. I declined this as i work shifts and was sick of having strangers wondering around the house. She didnt like this as told me she was looking for somewhere else, advised what about the 6 months as her leaving would leave me in money worries without rent and also coming up to xmas didnt have the time etc to look and get someone else moved in. She agreed as she was staying for at least 6 months she'd pay the rent up till jan 2010 even if she moved out. This was agreed and accepted. We then had another disagreement over people staying, i was asked if 4 friends could stay after night out one weekend, advised no room for them and also working the next day and didnt want waking up in early hours so not really appropriate. She didnt like this as told me she was moving out in 2 days. She then changed her mind and said she'd pay Nov rent owed and Dec as good will!!!!!!!! Was given cash and she moved out. This girl knew the ground rules before she moved in and accepted them, she has then moved in and totally gone against my wishes and caused me lots of worry and hassle.... This payday months rent has gone into my bank from ex lodger via standing order, i then receieved a text saying she didnt cancel standing order in time (she moved out 2 months ago) and wanted the money back???? I am in a right to ignore and refuge this as on bank its titled rent and she did orginally say she'd pay the 6 months... I know she'll most prob come the house for it but if i didnt give her this and said you owe it in rent, can she take legal action to claim back???? Open Question: i want my boyfriend back please help!!?we split up last week cos we had been arguing for a few weeks and we have been texting eachother still and we have both said that we still love eachother, i said to him why arent we still together then and he said because of the arguing, but we didnt even argue much, is he using this as an excuse? how can we get around this problem? Open Question: moving in with my boyfriend?(i promise its not too long to read!)?Me and my boyfriend are dating, were serious, etc... well its time for me to move out of my parents house. what we want to do is split the cost of rent of a house with 6 people. my bestfriend and her boyfriend, me and my boyfriend, and my other bestfriend and her boyfriend. one problem. my boyfriend tells me that he has this aprentice job working, and since he has no job and needs to get one im not gonna stand in his way, i support that completely. but the plan was he would move in with everyone, but if he does this job, it lasts for a year, and he wants me to move to his town with him...insted of moving here right away. this worries me for 3 reasons. 1) if i go there, i lose my job, and if his job doesn't pay, ill be stuck there. cause there will be no way to go anywhere. 2) he wanted to move to oregon, and i told him no, but i know if i give into this, he will try to make me go anywhere cause i wont have a choice. 3) my friend tells me those jobs are for working there, so he would be wasting his time to apretice and move. dont get the wrong idea about him hes a nice careing sweet guy, just a bit lazy... i told him i may move... but im not sure. what should i do? Open Question: what do about my ex boyfriend?me and my ex boyfriend, jaydee broke up in june. we started dating in december of 08. i guess you can say we had a pretty close relationship, he helped me thru alot of family problems. the reason we really broke up is because my family and his family got involved in our relationship which became into a he said she said type of mess. it took me a long while to get over him i still think about him alot. ive been on several dates since the breakup. but at the end it will last a month at the most and ill start to compare them to him. when school started. i had to face seeing him every day...the last time me and him actually really talked was the first week of school when we decided to go to lunch. he still says he loves me but he cant handle it anymore. lately he started dating my ex best friend. i guess im okay with it. shes a good match for him but not the best. are mutual friends are always telling me how much he still cares. and they even start to see him comparing me to her. example: my friend ashlee & her boyfriend, kegan went on a double date with them. and she started complaining about how she didnt like how he was acting, hes a goof ball. and she doesnt like his jokes. and when she went to the bathroom. he said kassie would never act like this...and ashlee told me about this. idk what to think or do. we are just so awarkward around eachother. i still do care about him. i just want the best for him. i wish he could get over the past and leave it there. i wish there was some way i could just talk to him... maybe its just me trying to hold on to him... what to do...what to do... Open Question: 99 Jeep Grand Cherokee brake problem/pulsation.?My daughter is away at school and called me about her front brakes shaking violently from about 25-10 mph, and a significant drop in rpms when this happens. The brakes have maybe 400 miles on them and this problem started without any warning. She says the abs light is on but has been for 2 months. I dont see the rotors being the problem as this started all at once., except for complete failure of the rotor. Could it be the ABS actually doing its thing when the brakes are applied under normal braking conditions. This happened once before when her boyfriend was driving it--he disconnected the battery and it reset. Help please.. Open Question: Girls: Why Is My "Girlfriend" Acting Like This?There is this girl who I've had a huge crush on for 2 years. We're both 17 and I think about her all the time, every second of my life and I swear she's reminds of an angel, that's how sweet she is. The problem is that she is pretty antisocial, she doesn't like going on dates, to the movies or dances. She's never dated or had a boyfriend even though she's so beautiful and has been asked out at least 30 times. I was scared to ask her out but I couldn't keep everything bottled and I told her everything and how I felt about her and she agreed to date me. We've been spending like 2 hours together and talking to each other over the phone for another hour everyday for the 2 months we've been going out. Basically we're like boyfriend and girlfriend but she says she doesn't want a boyfriend. We hold hands, hug, kiss in public and in front of her friends so its not like shes trying to hide we're together. She still a virgin so its not like she wants sex. She's never shown interest in other guys (you can look at her rejection list) and she says that I'm the only guy for her. I don't get it, I'm like her boyfriend but she doesn't want to officially call me that, anyone have any idea why? Open Question: Why can't I forget this girl?details: i have liked this girl for 4 years now and i've haven't seen her in 2 years, there is something different about this girl that i feel but i don't know what it is. even though i had a lot of chances i have never talked to her in person only online. the problem is i can't forget her even if i try to move on i can't because when i try to think of another girl her image always appears in my mind. what happened: i tried to get to know her but i had jerk friends who though of it as a joke and would always try to make me look bad in front of her as a joke. one of my friends who started making fun of me in the first place made me to talk to her online(msn) which i didn't want to do because i didn't know what to say so i said a lot of stupid pointless things and some nice things(the making fun of me still continued). even after all of that at the last dance of the year in my school another guy asked her but she turned him down then my friends and her friends made us dance together but then she danced with another guy and i got a bit pissed but not because she was dancing with him it was because some people were clapping for them. after that we went to different schools. the first two years in my new school were fine i didn't really think about love and got interested in a few different girls but never got in to a relationship but now i'm in my 3rd year and my feelings for her have returned i can't seem to forget about her, my feelings are stronger than ever and i don't know what to do about them option 1: ignore my feelings for her (which is nearly impossible because i like her so much) and move on with my life by focusing on my work and hope one day that i will meet that certain someone option 2: try and reconnect with her and finally get to show her the person that i really am (because i didn't get to the first time) which could lead to a serious relationship or me getting shut down for the second time thanks for reading all of that and i hope you could help me update: i found out she has a boyfriend but i don't know if they're still together though. i do know a little about him through another friend but its really weird because this guy looks like me, comes from the same country as me and is friends with the same people as me it seems like shes trying to find a substitute for me what should i do? Open Question: Contacting A Girl Who Has Asked For Some Space?There's a girl who I've gotten very close with recently, but she has asked for some space while she sorts her head out. We'd got really close over the past month and a bit as I have helped her through some problems she's been having at uni. We've spent a lot of time together, watched films and cooked for each other, I've held her as she's cried, we've stayed up all night talking, walked around the city in the evening with my arm round her etc. Because of the problems she's had she not going to sit exams this semester and has gone home early. We were texting as she was being driven home and I asked how she had explained me to her parents (I helped to load up the car after staying up all night with her). She said "a very good friend who's been helping sort things out". Even though we had a big hug in front of her mum as we said goodbye she said sorry for not being able to say goodbye properly, and that she would owe me an extra long hug when she got back. Later that night she was at some sort of party (and from the texts she was obviously feeling quite fragile), and she said she felt it was getting really intense and that she needed space to sort her head out. So I agreed, and haven't contacted her since Saturday. She knows how I feel about her, as a few weeks ago when I asked if she wanted to go out for a meal after going ice-skating with friends. She said yes, but only as friends she said she wasn't ready for a relationship as she was in a bad place at that point. I told her it was ok and that I would wait for her to be ready. She has some issues; her confidence has taken a big knock, and there's pressure from a friend who is confiding something in her (and I'm helping this girl cope with it). Also she's talked about, but refused to go into detail, about some guy who broke her heart, even though they never dated (she's not had a boyfriend before). I have given her a present for Christmas, so I'm sure she'll contact me then, but I'm really missing talking to her, and I really want to know that she is doing ok. Given we last talked on Saturday, when is it ok to send her a message and what should it say? Open Question: Why Doesn't She Want Me To Be Her Boyfriend?There is this girl who I've had a huge crush on for 2 years. We're both 17 and I think about her all the time, every second of my life and I swear she's reminds of an angel, that's how sweet she is. The problem is that she is pretty antisocial, she doesn't like going on dates, to the movies or dances. She's never dated or had a boyfriend even though she's so beautiful and has been asked out at least 30 times. I was scared to ask her out but I couldn't keep everything bottled and I told her everything and how I felt about her and she agreed to date me. We've been spending like 2 hours together and talking to each other over the phone for another hour everyday for the 2 months we've been going out. Basically we're like boyfriend and girlfriend but she says she doesn't want a boyfriend. We hold hands, hug, kiss in public and in front of her friends so its not like shes trying to hide we're together. She still a virgin so its not like she wants sex. She's never shown interest in other guys (you can look at her rejection list) and she says that I'm the only guy for her. I don't get it, I'm like her boyfriend but she doesn't want to officially call me that, anyone have any idea why? More Recent Articles
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