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Tuesday, December 8, 2009

Open Question: (Repost) Boyfriend Trouble? and more...

 
 



Open Question: (Repost) Boyfriend Trouble? and more...

Open Question: (Repost) Boyfriend Trouble?

So I have a boyfriend, we've been going out for about a month and I realized that I think I rather just be friends with him. I am also getting interested in another guy. But the main problem is: I won't be seeing him for about 2 weeks or more so I would not be able to say this to him face-to-face for awhile and I really want to. I've been thinking about breaking up with him and saying we should just be friends over MSN.. but thats kinda harsh. I really don't know what to do, help?

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Open Question: Christian Girls, do I look like the type of guy your looking for?

Christian Girls, do I look like the type of guy your looking for? I'm 21, I've never had a girlfriend. I've never even been kissed by a girl. Even the girls that hang with me and my best friends don't like me or really talk to me. I might be close to getting a friend that's a girl, but I might have already screwed that on up too. I don't know, right now it just seems like I never get married, or at this rate even have real friends that are girls... I've been praying for a girlfriend for over 6 years. There are no singles group at my church. All the girls there are either too old for, too young for me, have a boyfriend, or just don't like me. I love God, and I'm trying to become a stronger Christian all the time. I'm waiting until after I'm married for sex. I don't drink I don't smoke I don't do drugs I'm a virgin I'm waiting till I'm married for sex.(This include oral and anal) I'm a computer geek I'm planning on becoming a video game programmer.(I'm actually pretty sure that's what God wants me to do too.) I do sometimes look at porn, though for the most part it's fixed. But I could still use some prayer for to get this fixed. Since I don't want it in my life anymore. I do have basic hygine. I brush my teeth I shower I use deorderent I don't smell badly. I'm about 5-8" or 5-9" feet tall. I have dirty blond hair. I have no disfiguring scars or anything like that. Personalty: I'm nice. loyal respect(I actually look at a girl's face when I'm talking to a girl, and not her breasts) sincere I listen to what girls have to say, and actually care what they are feeling and saying. trusting honest smart I'm shy I have low self confidence I can be selfish I tend to slur my speech. I talk too speech. I have a hard time explaining things. I have perverted mind, and like perverted jokes, though I don't act on the pervertedness. I like touching when it comes to girls(Nothing sexual till married) Just stuff like hugs. I have OCD(Mostly fixed, yay God) GAD(Mostly fixed, yay Jesus) ADD(Not bad enough to cause any real problems) Social Anxiety and a touch of depression(Fixed)

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Open Question: What is a really good present to get my boyfriend for Christmas?

He is into basketball big time and some football. He loves to read old classic books. He also loves country music. My problem is: he has pretty much everything to do with anything he is into. He means the world to me and I want to show him how much I love him through this present.

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Open Question: I want my boyfriend to leave his wife for me. What's a woman to do when she just can't take no more?

Look, Darnell is a good guy and I love him so much, but I can't wait forever. I met Darnell 6 years ago at his nephew's wedding; I was one of the bridesmaids for his nephew's wife. I knew Darnell was married but he would always run to my arms crying whenever he and his wife had problems. Now, we have a 5 year old son together. His wife found out about me when I was 4 months pregnant with my son and she was 7 or 8 months pregnant with their second daughter at the time. Darnell broke up with me after his wife threatened to divorce him. I was hurt but I tried to move on. Believe me, I TRIED! After my son was born, I applied for welfare and Darnell had to pay child support. Darnell is a good father, he spends a lot of time with our child on the weekends. Eventually, I met a guy named Patrick but the lowlife deadbeat left me after he got me pregnant. My daughter was born in 2007. Darnell was nice enough to claim her as his own and now he's the only Daddy my daughter knows. I will always love and respect Darnell for that. When my daughter was 6 months old, me and Darnell started sleeping together again. It's been TOO long and I'm sick and tired of playing games. What can I do and/or say to get Darnell to leave his wife for me? My kids deserve better! I know he and his wife have 2 kids together as well but she HAS a WELL_PAYING JOB!! I have NOTHING!! Darnell got laid off last year so his wife had no choice but to pay his child support for my son. I can't give that woman the satisfaction of paying child support for my child while she's calling me a "dirty hoe" behind my back! I has me my pride! What should I do? Think about it, if I really mean nothing to this man, then why in the hell would he claim BOTH my kids even though he only made one of them?

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Open Question: Relationship problems?

My boyfriend said he wanted an open relationship, just a break from us. I'm afraid though, because it makes me feel as if I'm being knowingly cheated on. Can someone tell me what to do in this situation? ._.

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Open Question: My Boyfriend is talking to his exes about problems in our relationship he hasn't even told me about?

I broke up with my boyfriend of 2 years today and he keeps making me feel like I am really stupid for doing it. A few days ago he got home from work and completely ignored me apart from a few rude comments directed at me. I asked him what was wrong but was again shut down with rude remarks. It was completely out of the blue and i didnt know where it came from. I shrugged it off as just a bad mood. After 3 days of this treatment, and still no explanation, i went to my mums to get away, telling him to let me know what was wrong asap. He later messaged me that i dont listen to him enough and that because of that he was falling out of love with me, resenting me in silence, and had striked up contact with three of his exes so he cud feel loved again! I didnt even know we had a problem! He had just asked me to move half way across the state with him so i thought all was fine! Yet his exes were apparently helping through issues that i didnt even know we had. I do not appreciate being told about our problems like this and i feel he is using it as an excuse to justify him sneaking around with his exes! He says i have turned my failures as a woman around on him and i have no right to be angry. I just dont feel the situation is right. I am only 20 and i think i have to draw a line in the sand with regards to what is acceptable in my relationships and wat is not! I feel guilty like i should be working on wat he says are my problems but i kinda feel like i have been wronged! Am i over-reacting?

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Open Question: Having problems with Austrailan Sheperd puppy?

I just got an Australian Sheperd puppy for my boyfriend for Christmas. I will be keeping it myself until Christmas until i give it to him. He is 8 weeks old and VERY playful. He has seperation issues, if i go in another room away from him with the door shut he starts to whine because im not in the same room with him. I put him in his big cage at night and he whines until i come and get him and put him on my bed with me... then through the night he whines to get down so he can get up and play. How do i make his behavior better?

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Open Question: lip piercing question PLEASE PLEASE HELP?

I've had a lip piercing now for 3 years, after getting many infections the last month I've decided to take it out. Here comes the maybe silly question: In the healing proses (takes up to 8 weeks right?) will it be okay to french kiss and like give my boyfriend blow jobs? (He's had a std test that came out negative so dnt worry bout those problems) I do of course still clean it properly with salt & boiling water once a day. Thanks & sorry for the silly question I didn't rlly want to have to ask my piercer haha

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