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Open Question: relationship advice please? :(? and more... Open Question: relationship advice please? :(?OK well I'm 18 and im dating a 24 year old. for 8 months He is my first real relationship, and he wants more like marriage but the problem is my parents and my situation..Because hes Egyptian and im Greek and our religion is completely different my mother doesn't accept it because he is Muslim and because im to young to date. my boyfriend friends tell him that his relationship with me wont go anywhere cuz i still live with my parents and listen to my mom and i cant make my own choices. im afraid to tell my mom that im still with my boyfriend. and that i want to be with him. my boyfriend also has a feeling thinking i will dump him and say i cant go through with this its to hard cuz of my family.. yeah im afraid i lie to my mother i tell her im out with friends but im actually with my boyfriend he loves me very much..my mom always ask if anything is going on with him cuz she knows who he is but i keep saying nothing is going on and it hurts my boyfriend.. i cant tell her the truth im afraid she wont let me see him again my mom is very protective i cant do anything with her and my reltionship is a secret to all my family members also there was a chance we got caught in the movies theaters and my boyfriend said i wana talk to your parents so they know im serious i told that to my dad and he said no..i know im to young to marry but i wana have a normal relationship with him not my mom on my back. they are not giving him a chance.. Open Question: Can i get some relationship advice about sex and feelings afterward ?Me and my boyfriend have been together since Sept. Things are really good, im not questioning the relationship. We had sex for the first time yesterday. In my last relationship me &my boyfriend had sex &immediately started having problems. I am starting to feeling insecure &wondering if he is going to leave me. Also after we had sex he started touching on me a lot more &he mentioned that he really likes sex and wants to do it more. He started sounding sex craved. He never acted like that before &im also wondering if that is going to be all he wants to do now. Instead of hanging out. Should i hold back on having sex with him to see if he stays or just trust his word. It was my idea to have sex but i have become a complete paranoid freak over it! Help! Open Question: I don't want to go to my boyfriends house tonight, theres no problems with him but im just not in the mood?ok so, my boyfriend is 2 years older then me and whenever i go over his house, his friends are there. tonight, his friends will be there again (im not to crazy bout his friends...3 girls and 2 boys) the boys are ehh but the girls are a lil strange. he said we would be making smores and stuff and EEK, because how am i supposed to NOT get something embarresing stuck in my teeth and ugh you all prob think im weird but i dont want him to find me weird. so, my question is... what is a good exuse to tell him that i cant go tonight? THANK YOU SO MUCH<3 Open Question: My boyfriend is going out with his mate every weekend. Should i be OK with it?He goes out with his mates almost every Friday or Saturday coming back home very late 4-5am in the morning. We fight because of it. It just doesn't make sense to me - instead of doing something together he prefers to link up his mates. Because he is back very late he ends up sleeping till 1-2 pm and the weekend is gone without us spending time together. I am tired because of it, feeling lonely and despite the fact that I told him how I feel he still goes out...because there is almost always somebody's bday or somebody is leaving job etc. etc. How do you girls deal with these kind of problems?Is there anything I could do about it? Open Question: I kicked the boyfriend out, and things are not improving?About 4 months ago I started writing on these Q/A things- I used to live with my 29 year old boyfriend in an apartment paid for by my employer...(I manage the complex). We had a huge break-up fight and didn't speak for a week- I packed all of his things and he moved back to his moms-where he was before he moved in with me. And let me mention that he doesn't think there is a problem with him living with his mom and dad. The ultimatum was "Get a job or we are done!" He currently bartends 2-3 nights a week...that's all. Well he didn't get a job, but did handle his minimal money that he takes in better. We began talking again, mostly because I was so lonely and I do care for him. I thought maybe he would shape up. But, he has been at his parents for over an month and now has decided that he will just work on my new house as his "job". I just bought a duplex (by myself with my savings) and I will live in one side and rent the other. It does need some work, but how can he reason that this is enough "work" for him to do and not get a job?! How do I convince him he must get a job to stay with me? It is embarresing to say I am 23 with a degree and working 50+ hours a week dating a MAN who is 29 and works 20 hours a week at a bartending gig. If I let him get started on remodeling my house- I will be completely stuck~ Brag to my friends? what are you talking about? Open Question: VERY MANIPULATIVE FRIEND...?Since i have moved away to university, i have realised how controlling and manipulative my friend was. And I admit, she had too much influence over my whole life and is very controlling. She twists everything i say to make me look bad and appear "better" to my boyfriends mates. Its affecting my relationship a lot when she is involved and i'm sick of it. She is still causing problems with my boyfriend and my mates, and his mates and i'm not sure how to handle it. Everything is done very sneakily and intentionally. I have no clue where to start. I've put up with it for so long. She also makes me feel really bad about myself and this lowers my self esteem. I'm sick of being made a fool out of and being second best... Can someone please give me some good advice on how to handle this. I'd really appreciate it. xxx More Recent Articles
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