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Open Question: A question about anal sex? Open Question: A question about anal sex?I have a sort of love hate relationship with anal sex, and I'd like it to be more love than hate. When I was 16, my first "boyfriend" (much older) drove me to a secluded neighborhood and asked me to have anal sex with him. He didn't want to have REGULAR sex, because he wanted that to be "special" for me. I said no, I was scared it would hurt (I was terrified), and he told me not to be a baby (I was already self-conscious about my age), turned me over, and went ahead, with no condom, lube, anything. The problem is, I felt conflicted- on one hand, I was terrified, in agonizing pain, and humiliated into not saying anything, because I didn't want to be a "baby," but at the same time, I actually felt aroused. I almost had an orgasm. I tried anal sex again with another boyfriend later on, completely consensual in a bed, but I thought I would die, it hurt so much. Now I haven't had anal sex since, and I'm seeing a guy now who likes it. It's the same thing again- part of me is terrified, but part of me remembers feeling extremely aroused the first time. And this new guy is HUGE. Any tips on how to handle doing it? And how to feel comfortable doing it? I can't help feeling dirty and humiliated when I do. Thanks for the help! More Recent Articles |
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