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Open Question: Problems with my parents. Please help!? and more... Open Question: Problems with my parents. Please help!?So I seriously don't know what to do at this point. Basically, I'm 18 years old, I live with my parents in NYC. I really can't take them anymore. I'm not a bad kid, I go to college, I do my work, my best friend is my sister...she is 26. she is pretty much who i hang out with every weekend along with my boyfriend. Yet my parents are being total "LOCO'S". They're not even acting like my parents anymore, they're acting more like rulers, like they are controlling me. This is literally my life: I go to school 3 times a week, I have night classes so i come home at 11 PM. Besides the days i go to school, I hang out with my boyfriend, during the day until around 9PM. On weekends, I sleep over my sisters house and we do our own thing. However, my parents are just out of hand lately. They don't like that I come home at 9PM because that's "too late". They want my home at like 7. I ask them why? They say because I say so. I sleep over my sisters house every weekend or every other weekend. I come home, they're rude to me for a day, say stupid little remarks like how I am wild and how i give them stress. I tell them what I do. I don't do hardcore drugs, I'm not pregnant, I don't disrespect, I go to school. Its like what more do they want? Today I went job hunting and came home at 9PM. they started freaking out on me. I had planned to go out with my sister this weekend and told them in advance. Now they say "if you go out you're not aloud back home". And trust, I'd love to leave home, but they're black mailing me. If i leave, they wont pay for my college. I dont know what to do anymore. IT'S like my time and age to live and they're trying to keep me locked up. I dont know what to do. Please tell me what you think. I'm not irresponsible. Neither is my sister. She looks out for me and they know that. I try talking with them but all they do is yell at me. I try having a sit down calm conversation with them, but they say "If you dont want to play by my rules, then leave. We dont want you here anyway becuase you give us stress" But i leave they wont pay for my college. Open Question: Girls I have a girl problem -_- ? Please Help..?before my close friend I met online and I were texting during last last summer =p ( a long time ago) but I'm still confused about this one thing she mentioned to me in one of her texts she mentions that she misses me & all that right, but she says "...so have you banged a girl yet jkkjkk..." I don't get this, is it that she's a sexual type of girl (by the way she had a boyfriend then & she's in college), did she like me or what? we'll till today..I can't figure out her full personality I'd just like you thoughts please? like did she like or is jealous I've had tons of girlfriends b4, etc? please respond your thoughts about how she feels about me or about her nothing else please, cause I know she doesn't flirt that way.. she's changed a lot I appreciate all those who answered thanks =] sorry about all the spelling errors lol o thanks for the advise, I used to flirt with her that way before, maybe that's why =[. I thought she liked me =p but okayy well she got her flirting /sexy way from me ^^ haha Open Question: what's wrong with me?I'm 17, 10/29/08 my best friend killed himself, and idk why but it didn't really affect me emotionally at all(I never talked to anyone about it). A couple weeks ago I moved from Michigan to Tennessee to get away from my mom and her dick boyfriend and I don't even miss any of my friends or family. when i was 13 my stepdad (my dad ditched out on me before i was born and i have no clue who he is(and that doesn't affect me emotionally either) and my stepdad got with my mom before i was 1 so he was always like my real dad) got addicted to meth and started getting really aggresive,he was constantly yelling at everyone and breaking evertying and he threatened to kill us several times, my mom finally ended up divourcing him and that didn't affect me either. Not even a year after that my mom ended up getting with some asshole who was constantly being a dick to me just for his entertainment. she then had a kid with him even tho we were already struggleing with money. and none of that affected me either . About 6 months ago I started thinking about killing myself, which really confuses me because compared to alot of people my life is good, and at first i didn't think anything of it but it was constantly getting worse, about 4 months ago I started cutting and once again I have no clue why, I just randomly get urges to do it and the more i ignore it the worse it gets and the the longer i wait the deeper i end up cutting, so I guess I do have emotions but... well I can't really feel them. and also I remember almost nothing that happened in my life past age 14 but from what I've been told all of my cousins and my sister and step brother were constantly making me miserable. When ever someone ask me to list good qualities about myself i freeze because I can't think of any. I have a lot of people that i chill with but I don't have any true friends, i've had 3 good friends in my life, 2 turned out to be backstabbing ***holes who were just using me and the other killed himself. I've had a few girlfriends but i didn't love any of them, I've actually never loved anyone, not even family, and that really disturbs me. last year i spend 2 months in juvie because my mom called the cops and said that i threatened to kill her even though i could never threaten to kill someone, and then told me that i got what i had coming because i did bad in school even tho i tried my hardest i just could never concentrate on anything longer then 2 minutes. I've been like that my whole life and when i was going to school it made my life hell because of all the trouble i'd get in at home for failing classes. there were a few years in my life where i was really bad with my mom, constantly flipping out and cussing her out, I finally got it under controll last year but she still constantly throws it in my face and acts like I'm a horrible person even though i hated myself after every fight i got in with her. I've had a couple therapist, and I've been in an anxiety counselling group and idk why but i could never tell them about wanting to kill myself and cutting, i really couldn't tell them any of my problems, I always feel like an ***hole when i complain about my life because there are sooo many people out there that have it so much worse then me. Sorry for all of the typing i know that no one wants to real all of that, i just got in sordove a trance when i started typing and couldn't stop, half of those were suppressed memories i didn't remember until i started typing, that's why all of the events i put are in a completely random order. Open Question: How to deal with your boyfriend's ex-girlfriends?I love my boyfriend A LOT! Through the years we have not only managed to have a successful relationship but we have both helped each other to become successful people. The only problem is his PAST (before I met him, and about 2 years in to our relationship). We both started going out when he was 16 and I was 15 years old. Now I am 22 and he is 23. When he was about 16-18 years old he was a really big flirt and flirted with a lot of girls at clubs/parties/etc. He has changed and our relationship and i really trust him because he has grown up and changed his ways. the only thing is that I always see these past girls everywhere I go!!! it just really depresses me especially since I have only 1 boyfriend before him, and no one i flirted with! How can i deal with this, I am starting med-school next year so I don't want to deal with this when I start school. Open Question: Is there something wrong with me?I'm 16, & I've never had a boyfriend. I'm completely inexperienced with guys. I'm known as the smart (but not geeky/nerdy) girl; I read substantial literature. I'm shy at first, but once you get to know me, forget it. Guys sometimes hit on me on the street, but guys that I see on a regular basis rarely do. My mother tell me that guys check me out on the street & I barely even notice. I don't wear provocative clothing. I think I'm average looking, but people have said otherwise. I've never been asked out. Most girls don't like me, and think I have an "attitude problem" when they first meet me. But that's not the case. So what's wrong with me? Open Question: What's A Cheer for him!!!?My friend has decided to dress up as a cheerleader and make up a cheer for her boyfriend. The only problem is, she hasn't come up with one yet, and I don't have any ideas. Any Suggestions Please!!! Open Question: how do i kiss him tomorow?ok so im 12 yes i no...what u r thinking is YOUNG well not really lol. anyway me and my boyfriend have been dating for about 2 weeks now and i wanna kiss him at least on the cheek...i no he really wants to kiss me cuz he always puts his arm around me and tells me he loves me..the problem is that im very nervous around him so im too shy to kiss him..what do i do? i want to have my first kiss in the 7th grade and i want to have it with him..well kinda idk if i wanna have it with him but dont let that stand in the way right? please help Open Question: HOW WOULD YOU MAKE A RELATIONSHIP WORK?Im in love with a girl. for sure i love her so much and there is no doubt. I do trust her despite the fact that she hangs out with other male friends. She love me too. but there is a big problem.She takes all the advices from her friends, for example, she was told that she should break up with me for no reasons. We do get into stupid arguments which wont help us at all and there she is telling every one about how we solved or we argued.I do want this relationship to work out but every time we have a good time, the next day we fight.Why? because my friend told me so and so. I try to tell her her friends will never ever help her build her own relationship status but make it worse but she doesn't listen.i have never cheated on her. i have been the best boyfriend a girl would need but it seems im messing up with my emotions and feelings.please help......(i will be so grateful for your feed backs and i will appreciate your help) Thank you More Recent Articles |
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